Queen Rylie

Anyone notice a lot of men low balling them

121 posts in this topic

On 10/5/2018 at 8:33 PM, boink36 said:

I think you are making a mistake based on simple evolution. as the centuries go by the male ball sack gets just a little longer with each generation giving the allusion lower balls. :D

3 hours ago, sparkey600 said:

Jesus, did you just say that! PERFECT! hahaha!

On top of his longer balls because of evolution, now you're giving him a bigger head too. Great! 😂😂😂

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
22 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

On top of his longer balls because of evolution, now you're giving him a bigger head too. Great! 😂😂😂

the_jesus-787564.gif

3

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

True, true, true. How much 'was' universal for everyone, then the discernment begins

 

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/7/2018 at 10:47 AM, Hunter VanDyke said:

If you can't afford a Ferrari, don't go shopping for a Ferrari, go get a Ford. 

I don't want to buy the Ferrari, I just want to take it for a spin.....I ain't paying Ferrari prices for Yugo quality. 

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
6 minutes ago, Mr.Pink said:

I don't want to buy the Ferrari, I just want to take it for a spin.....I ain't paying Ferrari prices for Yugo quality. 

"Mauricio: You can't come back with a comeback after eight seconds. You got three seconds. Five, tops. It's called a quip, not a sloooowwwwp. 
"    Shallow Hal 2001 😋

3

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

"Mauricio: You can't come back with a comeback after eight seconds. You got three seconds. Five, tops. It's called a quip, not a sloooowwwwp. 
"    Shallow Hal 2001 😋

Lol best movie!! 😅

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
2 hours ago, Mr.Pink said:

I don't want to buy the Ferrari, I just want to take it for a spin.....I ain't paying Ferrari prices for Yugo quality. 

Then don't. We don't care. No need to come here, whining like a little bitch...:eek:

4

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
2 hours ago, pfunk said:

Then don't. We don't care. No need to come here, whining like a little bitch...:eek:

But you cared enough to add your retort.....got it.

eyeroll2

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
3 hours ago, pfunk said:

Then don't. We don't care. No need to come here, whining like a little bitch...:eek:

But, but, but he's so good at it.

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/6/2018 at 2:03 AM, stevie-2249 said:

How does one value their wealth? Looks, service level just curious

I guess it depend on,  how blue my balls Get.:unsure:

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/7/2018 at 4:55 PM, SultryKitten said:

Here is how I see this when you start bargaining/haggling prices with me...that you think I am not worth what I charge, and I take great consideration in what I feel I want to be paid for my time as I bust my ass to give the best service for the price I set. So, no matter how you look at it, it is insulting to us because we feel you are devaluing our work.

Not being mean, just being honest. It seems that if a lady gives a little leeway, they tend to get walked on, and nothing sucks more than when you feel you are being taken advantage of.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

RIGHT ON SISTER!!!!! Well said. 🙏

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I wonder if when you have sex with your SO you feel devalued because your not charging them your normal rate? 

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I understand the need for survival, and these gentlemen are trying but guys,  if you have never seen the lady, it is offensive to say you think  'x' amount of dollars is enough for her services, when that is really all the money you have and you have no idea about said services?  

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes this happens all the time and it is so frustrating!!! Ive even had guys ask, "all doors open for $60?" Im like omfg goodbye!!!!!!

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/6/2018 at 5:41 AM, Seeker5280 said:

I would never negotiate, never. What ever the price is, that is the price. Respecting who you are dealing with is the classy way to go!

Exactly!  Same with me, S5280.  I'm a seasoned hobbyist, now retired from work (double dipper on two modest pensions) with a small income stream from my "other" hobby.  Not exactly affluent by any stretch of the imagination.

Always consult the provider's website, ads, or reviews to obtain rates.  Show up with the prescribed donation amount.  Either find out if there is a 100 rose special or QV being offered ahead of time or book an hour & then ask in person if you need to know for any subsequent visits.

If I am inclined to return I will let my provider know that I may want to book 30 minutes the next time.  Low balling is embarrassing as well as uncouth. 

-RJ 

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I’ll probably forever branded a negotiator/haggler 😌

Sorry, but I cannot afford to pay a travel companion 168 X {hourly rate}/week.  So I’ll continue to make a reasonable offer based on what I can afford. Some YL accept; others don’t.

Just never say never to negotiation.

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
3 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

I wonder if when you have sex with your SO you feel devalued because your not charging them your normal rate? 

Sex with my SO?  That was almost 30 years ago.

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
6 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

I wonder if when you have sex with your SO you feel devalued because your not charging them your normal rate? 

Seriously, Stevie, this has to be the stupidest and most offensive thing you have ever posted, and that is saying something.

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
13 hours ago, BadBoy said:

Seriously, Stevie, this has to be the stupidest and most offensive thing you have ever posted, and that is saying something.

No one ever accused stevie of being a rocket scientist.

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/6/2018 at 2:03 AM, stevie-2249 said:

How does one value their wealth? Looks, service level just curious

I feel like the devices offered as well as how much time as a verified escort has a lot to do with that. The longer you do it the more you should make. 

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
11 hours ago, Queen Rylie said:

I feel like the devices offered as well as how much time as a verified escort has a lot to do with that. The longer you do it the more you should make. 

Used cars depreciate in value.

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/15/2018 at 9:22 PM, SultryKitten said:

No, there is nothing wrong with that offer as it is reasonable and you asked in a way that was not demeaning her. Everyone of us can be reasonable as long as it isn't obvious you are trying to take advantage of our service.

What us ladies are talking about is guys that ask to see us for our full menu for $100 or less when our rates are considerably more than that, or saying they want only one service with the hope we will drop the rate. Usually then, those clients come in and work us to the bone for nothing and it isn't worth the cost to us.

See, the reality is that us ladies have to keep an incall which have gone from about $50/$100 a day to now $100/$150 depending on the day/week/location then we have to provide supplies, and their prices have gone up to along with taxes. The biggest and final one is now us ladies are competing with a slew of new ladies, travelers, and the changes that came from the takedown of BP which has almost killed our clients in numbers. So we have to compensate with the changes, and be a lot more wiser, and savvy with our business to make ends meet. Raising our rates is the smartest way or we overkill ourselves with working all the time, or we end up picking up clientele we don't want to walk in our doors due to the low number. This has always been a luxury(why it is called a hobby) not a necessity, and whether people want to believe this...not every lady and gent out there can do what we do. It really does take a special person to do this business, and do it well.

We understand that clients are not doing this all the time, and that people don't have millions laying around to play at their leisure, but ghosting us after contact, NCNS, haggling us on rates or services, trying to harass or hurt us, not giving us info for screening makes it really hard for us to be more understanding when a sheer number are constantly demeaning, or trying to devalue what we do for a living. Whether you clients realize it or not, you really do not have it as bad as us SW'ers do. Denver is one of the few cities that has a whole smorgasbord of various providers to choose from, and honestly there isn't enough clients vs. providers. Be glad you have this many to choose from.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

Great hearing this perspective.

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

When I am occasionally lowballed, I just let them know that my rates are my rates, not a jumping off point for negotiating.  But it DOES seem to come in waves, where at times I'm being lowballed like 7/10 calls.  Those times used to be very frustrating to me, until...

I realized one day that I cannot control when someone is going to do that, all I can control is how I respond. I have repeat offenders who hit me up several times a year and always lowball me severely. I'm talking 50% or less of my posted rate. When those guys hit me up these days and I also happen to be doing nothing else with my time, now I accept their lowball assuming that they passed screening, And give the same percentage of service that they insisted upon paying me of my rate. You can envision that as you will, but ultimately I made SOME income, they got SOME service, and I hopefully sent them SOME kind of message. 
 

Now I am sure SOME of those guys walked out of that session disappointed with my service, but if you're going to lowball someone over and over again and all of a sudden they readily accept your insulting bid, you just may end up with half of a pop.
 

Please note that I don't do this universally with all lowballs. Mainly this is for when I am contacted repeatedly by the same person Over a period of time and it's become clear to me that this person simply feels entitled to set my rates for me. If someone is just sitting a little light but the next time they contact me they are prepared to stick to my terms, Then they've shown me that there's a mutual respect and we can start over. Someone who does it once Is just human. Someone who just thinks they are entitled to it is definitely entitled to find out that when you play bitch games you win bitch prizes. 🤑 

 

 

 

 

4

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It is really sad when someone you have gotten to know and felt like you had up most respect for and then they ask for an additional discount on their rates that already way too low!🥹  on top of that they make it about the activities and yes he can’t perform whatever, hey it is not about the activity and please don’t make us ladies feel so awkward for asking such a question about something you will never get from Massage Envy! Lost a few old time clients for  asking for a discount on their already “grandfather discount” I am just waiting to hear someone say they got naked with the massage envy lady!  And yes it is very awkward and painful to hear it from someone you have seen for a long time and considered A close friend! 😭😭

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
15 hours ago, Mr.Pink said:

Like they say, a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. 😘

What does this have to do with any of the recent posts in this thread?

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 10/5/2018 at 2:31 PM, Queen Rylie said:

I have been in Denver for a few months and it’s been an ongoing struggle dealing with men lowballing me for 100$ almost everytime I post. What is up with that 

Ignore them! Then, let the ladies know so we won't waste our time on their inconsiderate, cheap asses!  😁 

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Please sign in to comment

You will be able to leave a comment after signing in



Sign In Now