Posted September 29, 2018 I’m just curious how much would you say is saying too much? Personally I’ll always check with the provider before I list a specific's but I’m just wondering if there’s something that every time you read it it’s instant cringe or even anger. Where is the line between respecting the right to privacy and informing the people fairly? Just curious not trying to start a whole controversy mostly just looking for opinions and insight. Btw gents I would recommend sending a review to your provider before posting just to check. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 I’m sure that might be ok for a good review but not so much on a bad review. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 No opinion on pre-screening your reviews, have never done it though. Related topic - after the SESTA FOSTA uproar, when the reviews came back, I thought that they were supposed to be pretty plain vanilla, with no specific activities listed, which is the way I always reviewed anyway. For a while that seemed the norm, but recently there have been a few reviews that would make the Penthouse Forum Editor blush due to the detail. Since all reviews are screened by the mods, I guess that approach must be OK, but I'm left scratching my head. Any thoughts from the Mods? Are those putting the site in danger? If those are OK, why not the Activities section that had the alphabet soup of acronyms? Just wondering. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 1 hour ago, BadBoy said: No opinion on pre-screening your reviews, have never done it though. Related topic - after the SESTA FOSTA uproar, when the reviews came back, I thought that they were supposed to be pretty plain vanilla, with no specific activities listed, which is the way I always reviewed anyway. For a while that seemed the norm, but recently there have been a few reviews that would make the Penthouse Forum Editor blush due to the detail. Since all reviews are screened by the mods, I guess that approach must be OK, but I'm left scratching my head. Any thoughts from the Mods? Are those putting the site in danger? If those are OK, why not the Activities section that had the alphabet soup of acronyms? Just wondering. I would rather have the acronyms than a graphic review. I try to stay out of the way as far as what my reviewers post. I've been lucky I guess. Nothing too graphic on mine. If the reviews can be graphic, couldn't you just put the acronyms inside the review? I know that wouldn't help for previous reviews, but maybe for future reviews. I don't know the new rules since the changes, so that might not be a possibility. I thought the acronyms were still in our reviews until the other day when my friend told me they were gone. I'm slow to catch on. 😕 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 There are many ways to approach reviews. My hope is that mine are respectful, yet give a reasonable idea of my experience. With the changes, I've tried to use some creativity with what I write. Reading between the lines can be helpful. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 I have always been reticent to post reviews to begin with. If the young lady asks I will certainly do so but I have always believed that our time together is private to begin with and should remain so. When I have reviewed I have never felt it necessary to post anything graphic. I always felt that was disrespectful to her and more about the reviewer then anything else. When I do post a review I tell the readers that I had fun. That's is what it is all about anyway, having fun with her. I will let others know that she was on time and is easy to talk to, has an easy laugh a ready smile, all very important to me. To me the most impactful statement in a review is.... I had fun. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 I always used the acronyms to discriminate between FS & FBSM, and then used the details to convey the flavor (PS, GFE, 3G, etc) of the session w/o writing a graphic porn novel. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 I think it's important for me to feel like I was in the room with you. Otherwise how am I going to get enough info??? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 19 minutes ago, decafnaetd said: I think it's important for me to feel like I was in the room with you. Otherwise how am I going to get enough info??? Damn, if my reviews are suppose to put all of you guys in the room with us, I expect something on the back end, residuals or something. 😂 11 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 I'll give you something on the back end😂😂😂😂 a big smooch😊😊 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 I feel reviews should be discreet now with the changes. You be creative in getting the information out without placing anyone at risk. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 In today's atmosphere a review should cover the ease with which a appointment is set and certainly cover the mutual satisfaction that was had without being graphic or using inappropriate metaphors 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 Just tell me if the pics are accurate, and that you had a good time. The pornographic descriptions I could do with out. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 Does this work. Easy contact and appointment set up. Activities were gfe ,lk,dfk and bbbj. Yes or No 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 A review should never read like a porn movie script. That invites too much attention from LE and some unsavory men who demand the ladies behave like a porn actress as well as the fucktards who get their jollies from the reviews. These guys also will harass the women incessantly. A few simple sentences describing the beauty of the lady, what great time they had and if they would repeat or not should be sufficient. The guys demanding details don’t really care about the ladies anyways. They just want a 3G’s experience but expect a GFE experience without the lady enjoying the encounter. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 2 minutes ago, Turtle138 said: Does this work. Easy contact and appointment set up. Activities were gfe ,lk,dfk and bbbj. Yes or No I myself would be hesitant to list acronyms, let alone full blown descriptions or blow by blow details. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Damn, if my reviews are suppose to put all of you guys in the room with us, I expect something on the back end, residuals or something. 😂 Actually the residuals are the new clients who chose to see you after reading the review. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, airamericavet65 said: In today's atmosphere a review should cover the ease with which a appointment is set and certainly cover the mutual satisfaction that was had without being graphic or using inappropriate metaphors Agreed! Times have changed. Edited September 29, 2018 by Bit Banger 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2018 4 minutes ago, Bit Banger said: Actually the residuals are the new clients who chose to see you after reading the review. I was only having fun. The reviews are for you guys. Write what you want. 💙 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 The mods told me" next time give more detail". But I just like to give a yes if appropriate comfortable in call friendly Etc. I guess I'm kind of shy and don't like to say things like I sucked on her Kitty till her head started to cave in. Or I made her my little cream puff. If I did that seems like it's kiss and tell 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 1 hour ago, Hunter VanDyke said: I was only having fun. The reviews are for you guys. Write what you want. 💙 I knew that. I was only poking a little fun your way. 💋 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 2 hours ago, Mike940370 said: The mods told me" next time give more detail". But I just like to give a yes if appropriate comfortable in call friendly Etc. I guess I'm kind of shy and don't like to say things like I sucked on her Kitty till her head started to cave in. Or I made her my little cream puff. If I did that seems like it's kiss and tell I seriously doubt the mods told you to give more detail. I call bullshit on your post. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 5 minutes ago, ilovewomen said: I seriously doubt the mods told you to give more detail. I call bullshit on your post. On TOB, I’d agree with you. On other sites, you bet. I’ve been told that on ECCIE. Then there are the horror stories of TER and their reviews. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 I agree with you Bit. ECCIE and TER both require blow by blow porn script reviews in order to be accepted and posted. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: I seriously doubt the mods told you to give more detail. I call bullshit on your post. No so fast.. The first few reviews I wrote were pretty simple, along the lines of: 'Met so-and-so at her nice incall. Easy set up, nice lady, had a great time, would recommend". All were approved. My latest one was pretty much the same, with a little more about the lady having a rare incall. Got an e-mail from the mods rejecting it, wanting more info. I don't want to write a porn novel, so I added a little more, nothing explicit or very descriptive, to make them happy, and that worked. But yeah, the mods ARE asking for more detail, but it seems they're not looking for dime-store level porn. Want to call bullshit on me, I'll send you the PMs. Personally, I don't need to hear a blow-by-blow account. Reading how the set-up went, how the lady was, how the in-call was, did you have a good time and would you meet again is good enough for me, but YMMV 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 2 hours ago, ilovewomen said: I seriously doubt the mods told you to give more detail. I call bullshit on your post. Well, that's what they told me, and I love women too so u ain't so special. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 9 hours ago, Just Another Guy said: No so fast.. The first few reviews I wrote were pretty simple, along the lines of: 'Met so-and-so at her nice incall. Easy set up, nice lady, had a great time, would recommend". All were approved. My latest one was pretty much the same, with a little more about the lady having a rare incall. Got an e-mail from the mods rejecting it, wanting more info. I don't want to write a porn novel, so I added a little more, nothing explicit or very descriptive, to make them happy, and that worked. But yeah, the mods ARE asking for more detail, but it seems they're not looking for dime-store level porn. Want to call bullshit on me, I'll send you the PMs. Personally, I don't need to hear a blow-by-blow account. Reading how the set-up went, how the lady was, how the in-call was, did you have a good time and would you meet again is good enough for me, but YMMV Send me the PM’s because I call BULLSHIT. TOB does not want porn script reviews. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 9 hours ago, Mike940370 said: Well, that's what they told me, and I love women too so u ain't so special. If that’s what they told you, prove it. I still call BULLSHIT on your post. And by the way, learn how to spell....”u” is not a word. And you are not anyone special yourself Mikey. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 2 hours ago, ilovewomen said: If that’s what they told you, prove it. I still call BULLSHIT on your post. And by the way, learn how to spell....”u” is not a word. And you are not anyone special yourself Mikey. With the recent onslaught of fake and scam ladies and the attendant flood of fake reviews it seems reasonable to me that the mods would ask for at least enough detail or info to be sure the visit actually happened and is not pure bs. I do not envy them their job. If anyone were to say they are asking for ECCIE/TER level detail I would join you in declaring bullshit (and hope that it was because I view TER reviews especially and ECCIE to lesser degree as mainly fictional crap.) In the meantime Ilove I think you may need to have a snickers and get laid. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2018 2 hours ago, ilovewomen said: If that’s what they told you, prove it. I still call BULLSHIT on your post. And by the way, learn how to spell....”u” is not a word. And you are not anyone special yourself Mikey. We'll it's not bull shit l had a review sent back this morning by a mod asking for more detail in my experience. Maybe he is a new mod but it happened. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
