Real men of the forum...

[Happymon]

3 hours ago, airamericavet65 said:

I prefer to think of others as friends....

Perhaps, but at the end of the day, I find "friends" a very fuzzy concept, especially where sex and money are involved.  A lack of clear expectations can really ruin a relationship.  

[ilovewomen]

There is a difference between a true friend and someone who occasionally needs you for money or other things and uses you.

We know who our true friends are.

[airamericavet65]

30 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

There is a difference between a true friend and someone who occasionally needs you for money or other things and uses you.

We know who our true friends are.

Absolutely

[Mike940370]

Do the providers, escorts, or what ever the ladies prefers to be called loan their customers money also?

Edited September 15, 2018 by Mike940370

[2Big]

11 minutes ago, Mike940370 said:

Do the providers, escorts, or what ever the ladies prefers to be called loan their customers money also?

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha 

[ilovewomen]

1 hour ago, Mike940370 said:

Do the providers, escorts, or what ever the ladies prefers to be called loan their customers money also?

You know what...it can and has happened.

That is what a true friend is.  It is a 2 way street.

[Hunter VanDyke]

3 hours ago, Mike940370 said:

Do the providers, escorts, or what ever the ladies prefers to be called loan their customers money also?

If a client who is a real friend was ever in need, I would definitely help him out, if I could afford to. My friends are my friends, period.  They're not just my friends when they're doing something for me. 

 

 

[gr8owl]

26 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

If a client who is a real friend was ever in need, I would definitely help him out, if I could afford to. My friends are my friends, period.  They're not just my friends when they're doing something for me. 

 

 

Very nicely said. 

But, hmmmm, it would seem from responses in thread that some folks attract a higher quality of friends than others hehe.

True friends are life's greatest treasure.  I will help a true friend anyway I can, which may vary a lot from time to time.  what she does for income or in her spare time is not relevant.

Edited September 15, 2018 by gr8owl
accidentally hit save too soon hehe

[Mike940370]

1 hour ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

If a client who is a real friend was ever in need, I would definitely help him out, if I could afford to. My friends are my friends, period.  They're not just my friends when they're doing something for me. 

 

 

Hunter YouTube the do seem like a very nice lady and I don't doubt you a bit. I just had to say that because of the title insinuating that  "real men of the forum" will loan their escorts money, and I assume that means that if we don't loan are escorts money we're not real men? 

But it could be that whoever started this thread is very rich very lonely inherited a lot of money or who knows why he would say something like that

[Hunter VanDyke]

2 hours ago, Mike940370 said:

Hunter YouTube the do seem like a very nice lady and I don't doubt you a bit. I just had to say that because of the title insinuating that  "real men of the forum" will loan their escorts money, and I assume that means that if we don't loan are escorts money we're not real men? 

But it could be that whoever started this thread is very rich very lonely inherited a lot of money or who knows why he would say something like that

Actually, you didn't have to say that. You were addressing the ladies with your question. The question really didn't address the real men issue at all. Anyways, you asked and I answered because some of us ladies really do care about our friends on the other side of the hobby. 

[Mike940370]

OK,  but you didn't  infer that "real women" help their friends by loaning money, 

But I'll  just drop it,

Still think you seem really nice.

[sparkey600]

On 9/14/2018 at 5:15 PM, fishndude57 said:

When one of your ATF's is hurtin, how far do you go? Pay their rent? Pay their donation as a gift to help? Honestly, do you just clam up and roll away? Curious is all. 

I've had a special someone or two on two occasions ask me for a little help. One, I paid her rent, two, I stopped by for a donation without the fun part. In both instances I was more than happy to give a little something because really, that is what friends are for.As for all of you nay Sayers...All of my "donations" were money well spent. Not that I was looking for a return in my investment. Just saying. When your friends need a little help, would you tell them "nope" I for one won't do that. 

[Skylighter]

5 hours ago, Mike940370 said:

Hunter YouTube the do seem like a very nice lady and I don't doubt you a bit. I just had to say that because of the title insinuating that  "real men of the forum" will loan their escorts money, and I assume that means that if we don't loan are escorts money we're not real men? 

But it could be that whoever started this thread is very rich very lonely inherited a lot of money or who knows why he would say something like that

I took the " real men of the forum " to imply, he was looking for real ( honest ) view points or opinions. From real ( honest ) guys on the forum, about his dilemma. 

Rather than useless troll type responses that are of no help.

Weather your able to or not, or willing to or not. Doesn't make you any more or less a real man. Everyone should do what's right for themselves, not whats right for other people's opinions.

I've helped dates that i respected, by working on their cars or moving. Or going out on an extra date, if thats what they needed.

[2Big]

Let's assume:

Escort needs $500

Her going rate is $150/hour.

Solution: get yourself 3 extra clients. There, I solved your problem. To cover the balance, look for spare change between your sofa cushions. 

Another solution: do a couple of porn clips. I knew a girl once - actually, a quite famous porn star (no, I'm not going to tell you the name) who fancied herself a blogger. When that didn't bring in the income, boom, she was back on her back doing porn. 

 

[stevie-2249]

5 hours ago, Skylighter said:

I took the " real men of the forum " to imply, he was looking for real ( honest ) view points or opinions. From real ( honest ) guys on the forum, about his dilemma. 

Rather than useless troll type responses that are of no help.

Weather your able to or not, or willing to or not. Doesn't make you any more or less a real man. Everyone should do what's right for themselves, not whats right for other people's opinions.

I've helped dates that i respected, by working on their cars or moving. Or going out on an extra date, if thats what they needed.

It’s like if you feed a cat they keep coming back for more. 

I guess you’ll really find out what kind of friend she really is.

i guess if you have that money you can just throw away that is awsome but slot of us don’t.

[BadBoy]

Hey, did anyone notice that the guys who indicated that it is OK to help out a friend are not the ones on here constantly whining about not being able to get laid? On the other hand the ones attacking them are the ones on here constantly complaining about NCNS, appearances, etc?

(Not talking about you, 2Big.)

[Sundance]

On 9/14/2018 at 10:00 PM, Admiral C said:

This is not all that complicated. If she is genuinely a friend, then loan or give same as you would any other friend. Here is a way to tell. This might draw fire. She says she is a friend, and accepts money. Would she give YOU money or do a free session as your friend if things were tight for you? If she would NOT she is NOT a real friend and you are a mark. When you give a friend money its the same as giving them free "whatever you do". If they would not do the same for you..that is not friendship. Now understand the fine line because I'm not suggesting a loan\gift with strings attached. That fine line is important because fuckery people hop back and forth between "business, intimate, personal, professional, friend, client " whichever is most convenient to them, and that applies to ladies and guys. Mutual  understanding of the realities and boundaries of any situation is the key....unless you have unlimited funds...then just throw it around everywhere.

That's it...  in the NUT  SHELL!!

[stevie-2249]

1 hour ago, BadBoy said:

Hey, did anyone notice that the guys who indicated that it is OK to help out a friend are not the ones on here constantly whining about not being able to get laid? On the other hand the ones attacking them are the ones on here constantly complaining about NCNS, appearances, etc?

(Not talking about you, 2Big.)

I’m sure was pointed at me, I don’t come on here whining about getting laid, I get what I need I just don’t need to come on here and kiss ass

[pfunk]

On 9/14/2018 at 5:15 PM, fishndude57 said:

When one of your ATF's is hurtin, how far do you go? Pay their rent? Pay their donation as a gift to help? Honestly, do you just clam up and roll away? Curious is all. 

She has something I want to purchase (time/companionship). If she needs funds, I'm happy to plan an appointment(s) and compensation.. Pretty simple. 

I do have long term friends, both in, and outside, this business. If they ask, and I can help, I will. Unfortunately, sometimes, I can't.