YoungGun

Married guys and outcalls

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I've done two outcalls over the years, and both years ago.  Both were with ladies I had seen before, and both times it went fine. However, I have decided I will never do it again.  Doesn't feel conformable for many of the reasons above. If she doesn't have incall, I move on. If guilt is the concern, I don't see outcall being any worse than incall.

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Although I agree with Chrissy about outcalls . This seems to be case where the gentleman is very nervous. My comment about needing a good divorce lawyer was aimed at the fact that if his wife is friendly with the neighbors....they could tattle on him to his wife.

Every circumstance is different with outcalls and incalls...go with what you are comfortable with.

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There’s only a handful of ladies I would invite over to my home.

Let that sink in...

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6 hours ago, BeenHereDoingThis said:

... Just remember everyone's. worst friend Mr. Murphy. 

Or Ms. O’Shea who thought Murphy was an incurable optimist 😜

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Dude Incall in ur case.

What if she left something  behind?

Even the back of an earring could be a disaster. 

Heck l have had several  ladies leave there burner phone lotion or cigs behind.

Any thing is possible. 

Her car outside and your wife's best friend drives by!!

Incall only go to her

 

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I think I may test this Incall everyone is raving about 😕 I never really thought about what many have said in prior postings.. one thing for sure is I've never left anything behind LOL.. My troubles awhile back in TX were all incalls. I have been outs only since being back .. Hhhhmmmmmm?????? Something to ponder 

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14 minutes ago, Chrissy said:

I think I may test this Incall everyone is raving about 😕 I never really thought about what many have said in prior postings.. one thing for sure is I've never left anything behind LOL.. My troubles awhile back in TX were all incalls. I have been outs only since being back .. Hhhhmmmmmm?????? Something to ponder 

I'd love to meet you, but you're in Denver, I'm in Colorado Springs, so that's a bit problematic.  If I were traveling to Denver and had some free time, I still couldn't meet you since I'd have no place for you to out-call to.

I'm just one guy, so this isn't very significant, but that's another look at outcall vs incall.  Some ladies split their week between out vs in (I assume they're sharing a place with another lady, but I really don't know).

I'm not telling you how to run things, since that's none of my biz. Just my 2 cents worth.  Still look forward to someday being able to meet you! :P

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9 hours ago, Chrissy said:

I think I may test this Incall everyone is raving about 😕 I never really thought about what many have said in prior postings.. one thing for sure is I've never left anything behind LOL.. My troubles awhile back in TX were all incalls. I have been outs only since being back .. Hhhhmmmmmm?????? Something to ponder 

I'll be waiting!

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If I was married there is no way on god's green earth I'd do an outcall to my house. But, I'm not married and have done it several times and I rather prefer having a lady come to me because of my busy lifestyle.  I've never had a problem or issue with an outcall as far as the lady is concerned. But women have this "other" sense about them man. A wife WILL know anything that's different in her house, unlike us dudes who never notice anything.  My concern is with neighbors.  I have had neighbors say, " hey man, I noticed you had someone at your house last night. You seeing someone new now?" That's the problem.  Lol. I just blow that question off and ignore it,  but your wife on the other hand. Just think about that if you decide on doing an outcall.  Neighbors are your very worst enemy

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On 9/12/2018 at 7:59 AM, petey-9950 said:

OP, I f I was you, I would look in the mirror and ask myself, what do I have to loose?

Actually, I'd skip the mirror, and look around the house.  Literally.  

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I don’t mind one bit and definitely 100% do not judge, but always ask...we are for sure going to be alone right with no mishaps of someone coming home? Just for both our sake. And always respect their discretion (not texting, calling etc.) we all do this for different reasons! And there should never be drama involved <3

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I think you're so nuts for even considering in call under your circumstances, that words escape me. 

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Find a provider that does incalls. A hotel is going to set you back maybe $150? Spend the extra money you were going to shell out for a hotel and spend it for extra time with the provider. Have hours of fun. Then go home and go to bed. If you hate hotels with that much passion find a provider that uses Airbnb’s. Cozy house feeling without the home attachment. I know a few providers that use them all the time. 

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On 9/13/2018 at 7:35 PM, Mr.Pink said:

Don't listen to the naysayers.... Just do it. OWN IT!!!

Haha!!  Mr. Pink, you’re awesome!!  I know everyone has pretty much spoken here but I only decided to reply to give Mr. P his props!  OP- Dude!!  Not smart, you’d be better off going to a bar, meeting a drunk chick, giving her your number, face book, LinkedIn, etc and risk having her stalk you than you be to chance an outcall IN THE BED WHERE YOUR WIFE SLEEPS!  I don’t know about you but my wife has a 6th sense about her home. Bro, she’ll know even if the neighbors don’t see anything and you think you’re off the hook.  We use our best judgment in the moments after an orgasm, so just rub one out quick and think about it in the 3 minutes after you’ve finished shaking hands with happy.  

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I much prefer outcall to my house, however, I am single. That said, I have not always been and have done what you are thinking about. Here are my tips. 1) Do your homework and make sure its not a drama queen or thief. 2) Have a good excuse thought up and planned about who she was if she gets seen. 3) Take the current sheets off the bed and put on different ones. Be sure to note where they are in the sheet pile, how they are folded so you can return them exactly after washing. Then return the current sheets to bed unwashed.4) After, empty all trash 5) Meticulously look for leave behinds at every cleaning step.  6) DEFINITELY look for long head hairs different in color than the wife\GF...those are dead give aways.7) Delete all contact info from all electronics, accounts 8) Rehearse this excuse in the event she ever discovers you visiting this\other sites.." Well , this is kind of embarrassing. I don't trust porn sites but these have sexy girl pics. Sometimes I just get so horny when you are gone or not in the mood...so...( embarrassed look) I go here to look at the pics and ...you know" Copping to that is embarrassing so believable and might actually get you laid by her immediately.  Now...as for guilt....silly question. Where should not matter to that.

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On 9/12/2018 at 2:04 PM, petey-9950 said:

BB, how did you know about the condom wrapper story?

I dunno how he knows, but condoms, wrappers MUST be bagged...put in car, and disposed of AWAY from home next time out.

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On September 11, 2018 at 5:31 AM, YoungGun said:

I'm married, do this for some extra fun on the side. My wife is out of town this week and I'm thinking of doing an outcall. My question for the guys is, do you feel uncomfortable our guilty doing so since it is your home you share? Ladies, do you judge the guys? Just trying to see if feeling guilty if I do an outcall is normal.

most of the men are married. i don't judge

 

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Heck no! The best analogy would be the following. I’m thinking about pouring a can of gasoline all over myself while smoking a cigarette. Do you think it will hurt? 

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Good choice on sticking with an incall. I recently found the path of least resistance aka convenience can also be the path leading to a cliff. This is maybe a more verbose way of saying listen to the big head not the little head. 

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There are so many safer ways to do this than to have a provider come to your home. As a provider I refuse outcalls on the off chance someone comes home early, there is a nanny cam in the room, or well tbh it is just not a space I feel comfortable with.  A lot of very reputable ladies provide cozy incalls for this exact issue,

 No paper trail for you, as well as everything BadBoy listed.  

One hair. One single hair strand of the wrong length or color is all it takes for a women to go Magnum P.I. on our but and you will not know until she owns everything you thought you owned. 

Please be smart, incall for the balls.

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Incall for the balls😂😂😂 thank you Dani for the laugh. 

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2 hours ago, Laci French said:

Incall for the balls😂😂😂 thank you Dani for the laugh. 

I’m here to serve 🙌🏼 😂

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