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The Picture Issue

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I'm trying out a new approach on the "picture issue":  Ignore the professional/glamour photos.  They're nice to look at but may not resemble the person who greets you at the door, even if reasonably current.  The lighting is perfect, the makeup is perfect, they're posed to highlight good and hide the no-so-much, everyone has perfect skin, and the lingerie is amazing - but you're probably never going to see it.  The pro photographers could even make me look good (except for the lingerie aspect).  I'm not against the pro photos but if that's the entire TOB posting then I'm hesitant.  And I doubt most folks have an new photo shoot annually so, yeah, they're not current.

I'm now focusing on the more candid pics, selfie or otherwise, that show the real woman (without the goofy ears and whiskers, that is), maybe mixed in with the fancy stuff if available.  If a provider typically answers the door in cotton boxers and a t-shirt rather than the high heels and black stockings+garters shown in their post then someone is going to be disappointed.  Me - I may even like the boxers more.  Just depends on the day.

Anyway, it's an experiment for a month or two.

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Let us Know how it goes :) Also Dont forget to follow your desired ladies Social pages in your search.(if they have them) Most , post Selfies Regularly. Also Most have Selfie Galleries connected in some way to The Glamour Shots. Good luck!

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23 hours ago, ReadySetGoForIt said:

I'm trying out a new approach on the "picture issue":  Ignore the professional/glamour photos. 

I'm now focusing on the more candid pics, selfie or otherwise, that show the real woman .

  Ever notice how many of the " selfie " pictures turn out to be stolen ??      Ditto some candids.  

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52 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  Ever notice how many of the " selfie " pictures turn out to be stolen ??      Ditto some candids.  

Every one can walk away from a appointment if they wanted to but I bet the small thinks differently. Most end up disappointed at the end

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Personally, I like getting glammed up for photos makes me feel super sexy, but I also don't have my photographer alter my photos in any way, as far as photoshop or "slimming me down" at all.

I like getting my photos taken because unlike a "selfie," you're able to see my entire body, then I can edit my face/tattoos as I please.

As far as the lingerie goes, if I'm asked to start an appointment in a piece of lingerie featured in my photos, as long as it isn't getting cleaned, I'm happy to wear it.

ANNNND! I do photoshoots more often then I like to admit, with myself and my photographer and I think if some girls have someone they trust they update their photos often. I only keep a select few on here and social media and my website mostly hold the rest or different pictures. 

 

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3 hours ago, Amber720 said:

Personally, I like getting glammed up for photos makes me feel super sexy, but I also don't have my photographer alter my photos in any way, as far as photoshop or "slimming me down" at all.

I like getting my photos taken because unlike a "selfie," you're able to see my entire body, then I can edit my face/tattoos as I please.

 

 

 

  Like to comment on this in my "mild mannered reporter " hat  .    Editing tattoos require photo shop ,so yes your photos   altered .

Tattoos are very personal and I respect that,however we are in an industry where guys either like tats and others  really dislike ink.  So its best not to hide them as those that love them will flock to you and those that don't continue shopping.So embrace your market .

Nice that you have a photographer that you are comfortable with.

 

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2 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

So its best not to hide them as those that love them will flock to you and those that don't continue shopping.So embrace your market 

I suspect lots of ladies erase, or alter, tattoos in pictures, since they can be very recognizable. They may not want a sibling or parent, to spot their ads. 

I certainly wouldn't complain! :)

(they could always mention the tats in the print portion of an ad.)

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24 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  Like to comment on this in my "mild mannered reporter " hat  .    Editing tattoos require photo shop ,so yes your photos   altered .

Tattoos are very personal and I respect that,however we are in an industry where guys either like tats and others  really dislike ink.  So its best not to hide them as those that love them will flock to you and those that don't continue shopping.So embrace your market .

Nice that you have a photographer that you are comfortable with.

 

My photos are not photoshopped. I use an app to blur them. I don't hide them

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14 minutes ago, pfunk said:

I suspect lots of ladies erase, or alter, tattoos in pictures, since they can be very recognizable. They may not want a sibling or parent, to spot their ads. 

I certainly wouldn't complain! :)

(they could always mention the tats in the print portion of an ad.)

   You are one of those that appreciate ladies with ink,so of course you do not mind.

  My well worn out point has always been to market to those that like the them. If a lady is worried about being recognized,do not get them. 

 

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Maybe you can check in with some of her reviewers to ask if she looked like her pics. I’d be embarrassed otherwise. 

Why would someone answer the door in boxers and a T-shirt? Really? That’s kind of funny. I do lingerie, stockings and nice shoes unless asked otherwise. I call it my work uniforms. How do I feel sexy in my jammies? Sorry that happened.

Don’t be afraid to voice what you like. I always ask if there is a special request.

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1 minute ago, Audrey Astor said:

Why would someone answer the door in boxers and a T-shirt? Really? That’s kind of funny. I do lingerie, stockings and nice shoes unless asked otherwise. I call it my work uniforms. How do I feel sexy in my jammies?

I know this is counter cultural... but sometimes boxers and a T-shirt or even funny jammies could be very sexy!! ;)

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Ladies you should do what you are comfortable with enjoy and feel safe In what you display. If you need to blur an identifying mark that is ok just dont remove them. As far as being a client I like the variety of the different types of photos.  Glam photos can be fun and selfies are ok. Pictures dont have to be taken by a pro but but when i shot professionally it was my goal to capture the most natural inner beauty with that extra attention to detail. When you get to know people and their personality it would show through .

However it is most import to me they are classy, recent and good quality with color correction and decent brightness. It shows your attention to detail and sometimes your confidence.  A variety of full body and close ups is also good just not all close ups.  A variety of street clothing, lingerie and tasteful nudes can show your personality which Is what i want to know. Yes i have a body type i prefer but my mind can be swayed one way or the other by what your photos portray.   While I am not a tattoo guy I have seen many woman with tattoos.

Enjoy and be safe. 

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Hey All - I didn't mean to dis "boxers and t-shirt" at all.  Everyday chillin' clothing can be very sexy (yoga pants!) but I've never been greeted that way.  I seriously wouldn't mind at all if it was intentional and not just a convenient afterthought.  If I'd like something in particular I'll ask, but I'd rather a woman pick out what she thinks is sexy on her - I'm sure I would agree and would also be the happy beneficiary.

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My favorite outfit is pjs. If I could wear them all day everyday I would. 😂 I don't wear them in my sessions obviously, but for those guys that find them sexy, I'm screaming Pick Me, Pick Me! I didnt realize that was thing. I need to reevaluate my marketing strategy. 😜

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3 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

My favorite outfit is pjs. If I could wear them all day everyday I would. 😂 I don't wear them in my sessions obviously, but for those guys that find them sexy, I'm screaming Pick Me, Pick Me! I didnt realize that was thing. I need to reevaluate my marketing strategy. 😜

I think PJs are sexy 😘

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16 minutes ago, Shutterbug said:

I think PJs are sexy 😘

Okay, now we need a PJ party! 🙃

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8 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Okay, now we need a PJ party! 🙃

Sounds great,

My thoughts- I dont think what a woman is wearing defines her sexiness, (may be very appealing to the eye), but in my opinion a womans attitude and confidence are the largest factor in her sexiness. I love seeing a confident woman in her pj's or boxers and being comfortable and relaxed, over heals and lingerie, (would not complain about lingerie, if that is what you are comfortable in, by all means go for it and strut your stuff ladies). You are all sexy regardless of what you have on (or dont have on).

Hope everyone has a wonderful day.

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While those stockings, lingerie, and heels are always nice, I REALLY like tight spandex....that sexy yoga pants thing. I like it in photo's and especially in person! Add a sheer sexy camisole and you have a fashion nightmare, but a bedroom dream! Heels optional.

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2 hours ago, Admiral C said:

While those stockings, lingerie, and heels are always nice, I REALLY like tight spandex....that sexy yoga pants thing. I like it in photo's and especially in person! Add a sheer sexy camisole and you have a fashion nightmare, but a bedroom dream! Heels optional.

You are not alone! hehe

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20 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Okay, now we need a PJ party! 🙃

The PJ party sounds great.  Reminds me of some fun times in college.  The only thing is.....I am MUCH older than when I was in college.  ;)

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What are these pajamas of which you speak?

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29 minutes ago, average1 said:

The PJ party sounds great.  Reminds me of some fun times in college.  The only thing is.....I am MUCH older than when I was in college.  ;)

We all are. Times marches on. Lucky for us the party still continues.  Just a different kind of party these days. 😁

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22 hours ago, pfunk said:

My favorite escort outfit! 

Related image

You got that 1/2 right.  I still remember when I was greeted at the door by the top half of that outfit. 😁

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On 9/5/2018 at 9:09 PM, average1 said:

The PJ party sounds great.  Reminds me of some fun times in college.  

Please tell me you're kidding. Pajama Parties in college? You go to school with Ozzie or Harriet? 

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I have a small amt of ink, however anyone who was looking to recognize ME would be able to by these tats being in the pic. I don't have the patience to edit them out, so I just make sure they are either covered by my pose or my outfit. Also have never once used a professional photo for the hobby, so I can say with confidence they are not a must. Now if only I can figure out how to get everyone to stop demanding additional photos to "prove" I'm not a bait and switch. 30 something reviews and plenty of profile pics doesn't seem to be enough :/

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On 9/5/2018 at 7:36 PM, pfunk said:

My favorite escort outfit! 

Related image

Lovely in theory, but once a provider has been busted at her incall...it will never happen. I'm glad I was not in this when I was a couple yrs back.

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Personally, I love professional because I like my clients to know that I take pride in my work, and want them to see that I work hard for my money, and getting professional pics done is NOT EASY! LOL! That said, I do put up selfies on my twitter so that people see that I am, in fact, a real person and not always all glammed up. I just want guys to know that I can dress that way if that is what their fantasy entails, and I do get a lot of requests for what I take pics in.

I think every lady does what they feel works best for their biz. Some are casual, some are elegant, some are cute, some are steamy...we all have our own thing that makes us unique. Find what suits you, and if casual or selfie is what you prefer then go with it. That is the beauty of this biz is that there are a lot of varieties to choose from.

I do agree with Hunter on preferring to be in my jammies all day, but I guess we all have to grow up some day. :P

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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10 hours ago, Happymon said:

Please tell me you're kidding. Pajama Parties in college? You go to school with Ozzie or Harriet? 

Nope....not kidding.  One year in college I lived with 5 ladies.  Was a fun year...in so many ways.  ;)

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