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On 8/21/2018 at 10:44 PM, NoCoGeezer said:

 

Yep, our lizard brains make our lives a little less "PC".

Men, we fall back on child bearing characteristics of young, wide hips, ample chesticles. Women seemingly able to propagate our genes.

Women, he-men (hunter/gatherer, protector of cave), men of stature (eg. Some cultures where fat dudes are "sexy" since they have means to have food to excess). In our times, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, etc should be the ideal due to station in life, yet, some women trend toward the stud.

I have to comment on this sorry, if I am going to date someone or be intimate without obligations continually it’s not going to be someone that could be my father or uncle. I do not have daddy issues. I personally am open to men that have there shit together. They aren’t living in a flat with three other roommates, with laundry and dishes every where, without any life experience. Then again I am not going to going looking for someone that is using fixodent everyday either. The whole Anna Nicole Smith thing was really creepy to me. The same thing goes for hugh Hefner dating a 19 year old. You said men think of reproductive reasons subconsciously why would someone at 50 want to have some 18 year bear his child he won’t live long enough to see his kid graduate from college maybe even high school. So that portion makes zero sense to me. 

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9 hours ago, N6_in_the_village said:

Some people have the humble opinion that it's out of line for a grown ass man to be lusting after or seeking an escort, period, regardless of age. And that such activity should be prosecuted to the full extent allowed by law. What's your opinion of that, are you generally in favor of escort or client busts by the police?

Notice that the police always seem to work in some reference to younger / very young escorts when they put out a press release about an escort or client bust, regardless of the actual age of the escorts involved. Seems to me that makes all escort or client busts a good thing.

 

 

I can see that you must be offended by my opinion otherwise you wouldn’t be trying to connect the fact that I think it’s gross for grown men to see very young escorts to thinking that police busts are awesome or something. Nice reach though. Obviously that is not my opinion given the industry im in and the nature of this board. But just bc some people might say I don’t have any morals for doing what I do, doesn’t make it true. I have lines, clearly. :)  I hope that cleared things up for ya? 😘 

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On 8/21/2018 at 8:55 PM, Just Jos said:

Most of the sites I’m on no longer allow 18-20yr olds to participate. ...

In some cultures these YL would be considered old maids.  The progressive international community is trying to change these “barbaric” cultural attitudes.  But when the life expectancy in your society is 40, things move at a faster pace.  

Since we as a society have longer expectations, we have the luxury of waiting until later in life for certain activities.  But it takes effort to override the thoughts of the lizard brain’s reproductive imperative.

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1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

 

Since we as a society have longer expectations, we have the luxury of waiting until later in life for certain activities.  But it takes effort to override the thoughts of the lizard brain’s reproductive imperative.

Perhaps some do have a lizard's brain (explains a lot!!) but i do not. I take full ownership of my thoughts and wants and 18 and under is NOT on my list. No excuses required.

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1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

...  But it takes effort to override the thoughts of the lizard brain’s reproductive imperative.

 

15 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

Perhaps some do have a lizard's brain (explains a lot!!) but i do not. I take full ownership of my thoughts and wants and 18 and under is NOT on my list. No excuses required.

Please re-read what I wrote. Some work to override those thoughts; others hardly notice. But that lizard brain is still there. 

I’m with you. Not interested!  But that doesn’t apply to everyone.

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While men may look hard bodied and have tight little heinies at 18 ,they are not the brightest apples to fall from the tree and like my guys on the mature side. Young guys  are still trying to prove  how much testosterone they have. Ever heard of the saying  that it takes many males many years to get the "stupid" out. I am not trying to insult here but go to the Darwin awards website. It is heavily populated by  guys in the 13-35 year old range.   And these "awards"are mainly given post humously. I am not really saying they are stupid, it's just they take more risks in judgement then any other age group.   I find more mature guys to my liking. No cradle robbing from me. But young guys are indeed nice  to look at.🍀

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I think 50 & 18 are both exaggerated numbers. Age is just a number if you take care of yourself and invest in yourself. 

Anyone will be unattractive at 18 or 50 if they don’t eat right, exercise and brush their teeth etc. 

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On 8/21/2018 at 10:44 AM, Just Jos said:

I’m not surprised either. I’m sure they polled men on the desirability of women and who would be surprised that the men want them as young as they possibly can? Gross, but not surprising... 

At 50 years old- a 18 year old does NOT interest me at all. They don't have their shit together, are in mature .

Plus why would I even try to keep up with someone that age ?

I want good conversation based on experience. I want good sex- based on experience and to be in bed by 10 pm LOL :eek:

 

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Actually, the best of both worlds is a 44-year-old brain in the body of a 20 year old.  This is possible.  I have had it both ways:  a 44-year-old with a great bod, and a 23-year-old with an old soul.  Both are wonderful.  What I don't care for is an 18-year old brain in a body of any age. B)

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On 8/23/2018 at 3:15 PM, Bit Banger said:

 

Please re-read what I wrote. Some work to override those thoughts; others hardly notice. But that lizard brain is still there

I’m with you. Not interested!  But that doesn’t apply to everyone.

All due respect, Bit I do not need to reread, I understood exactly what you were saying.  I simply do not agree.  Even if I assume the general concept of evolution explains everything (major issues with that religion, sorry) the concept of how a millions of years ago reptile or other lower critter would react and had to react to survive STILL exerts some mystical control over my actions and thoughts and needs is IMHO totally ludicrous.  I am solely responsible for all my actions, including how I react/act upon any and all desires that creep in.  Blaming a fossil will never fly with me, sorry, and I know there is a whole branch of pseudo science that devoutly believes it.  With absolutely zero hard evidence to support it.

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I totally agree that you have control of your actions. I will still contend that there are unbidden impulses driven by biology & instinct. Failing to act on those impulses indicates that you are a higher life form. Some individuals, however, are not so highly evolved. 

Beyond that, let’s agree to disagree. 🧐

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4 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

I totally agree that you have control of your actions. I will still contend that there are unbidden impulses driven by biology & instinct. Failing to act on those impulses indicates that you are a higher life form. Some individuals, however, are not so highly evolved. 

Beyond that, let’s agree to disagree. 🧐

Thanks, Bit.  Respectfully agreeing to disagree is an all too infrequent, yet much needed, position these days.  I appreciate your ability to disagree without being disagreeable.  Have a great day!

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34 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

Thanks, Bit.  Respectfully agreeing to disagree is an all too infrequent, yet much needed, position these days.  I appreciate your ability to disagree without being disagreeable.  Have a great day!

I dislike being ‘disagreeable’. It poisons my system w/o changing your(generic) position.  One of the great things about this country, or it was when I was growing up, is our right to have and express divergent, even offensive, opinions.  You don’t have to buy into my position and I don’t have to buy into yours.  I find today’s PC social climate disheartening, to say the least.  I do draw the line at actions which actually harm someone (being offended doesn’t count). 

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On 8/21/2018 at 5:40 AM, stevie-2249 said:

I heard on the radio that men at the age of 50 is the age they are most desirable, and for woman it’s the age of 18. 

I find that interesting for men for sure, not surprised for woman though.

Stevie, granted we (some)females are unwrinkled  no sag at 18, if all your looking for at fifty is some girl to fuck ,then go for it. But I no many women over fifty or close to it that are indeed hot ladies. And I see. YL who are out of shape. So really, this is all merely subjective. On a personal level ,I won't see a man if he is under 40. Why because mentally I can't get past the cradle robbing mentality. And I like conversation too.  So when I am getting down and dirty I want that mental connection going on. It can't be sexy to me when I am thinking "I am old enough to be his mother".So I don't go there. They have to have life experience before I will commit to a session or I am not interested. I don't care how much money they have. So "peaking" is really subjective. It depends from what age you are considering this from.

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On 8/24/2018 at 8:01 AM, Jez UaBriain said:

While men may look hard bodied and have tight little heinies at 18 ,they are not the brightest apples to fall from the tree and like my guys on the mature side. Young guys  are still trying to prove  how much testosterone they have. Ever heard of the saying  that it takes many males many years to get the "stupid" out. I am not trying to insult here but go to the Darwin awards website. It is heavily populated by  guys in the 13-35 year old range.   And these "awards"are mainly given post humously. I am not really saying they are stupid, it's just they take more risks in judgement then any other age group.   I find more mature guys to my liking. No cradle robbing from me. But young guys are indeed nice  to look at.🍀

I have to agree with you Millennials have one purpose. They are nice to look at. I remember when I was that young. Dammit wish I knew then what I know now..

Sorry for the obvious quote! When we were younger, let's face it, we were all bullet proof and going to slide into our graves at 100 in perfect health!

I for one think this next generation might be missing something. (working 2 jobs full time to pay the bills) But if you really look at it are we really that different? I have to say yes. 

I think that the parents have a problem in the process. Not making them be responsible, and teaching them that bills are due. God, I could go on for hours with this rant

Everyone have a good night, blesses to you all!

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13 hours ago, BadBoy said:

Actually, the best of both worlds is a 44-year-old brain in the body of a 20 year old.  This is possible.  I have had it both ways:  a 44-year-old with a great bod, and a 23-year-old with an old soul.  Both are wonderful.  What I don't care for is an 18-year old brain in a body of any age. B)

Very possible.

I've had this and it was incredible.

Well said BadBoy.

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I came of age during the 1960's, which was an incredible time to be a young single guy. I always had a job, always had a car, and always had some money in my pocket, so hooking up with girls was never very difficult.

Got drafted, went to Vietnam, came home, went to work, got married, started raising kids, struggling to stay ahead of the bills, nose to the grindstone all the time, overtime shifts, side jobs for extra cash, started a business and it took on a life of its own, 7 days per week, no time for anything else. Perhaps predictably, along came the divorce lawyers, child support, alimony, and even more work to stay ahead of the bills.

Had a few relationships along the way, but these were typically women who weren't particularly happy with their lives and wanted to move in and take a chunk of my life for themselves. After age 50 the chances of hooking up with a genuine Life Partner get pretty slim. After age 60 the dating pool is filled with unhappy, insecure, grasping opportunists. I don't go swimming anymore.

Now I am retired pretty comfortably, not rich but not just scraping by. I still dream and fantasize about my earlier days, all the youthful, happy, sexy young women, the flirtation, the fun times.

I admit that I prefer younger women. I don't mean children, just youthful. My preference is late 20's to early 30's, still youthful in form and appearance but with something happening between the ears besides tabloid nonsense (there seem to be a few left, perhaps not many, certainly not most).

I am way past any PEAKING experience, but I still enjoy an hour of friendly, playful, intimate time with a younger woman who can help me reconnect with happy memories. When a lady seems to enjoy our time together that just adds to my enjoyment.

Maybe I'm still dreaming.

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