Posted August 5, 2018 The majority of us ladies have been around long enough for you to know we are indeed legitimate ladies So it really is up to you to make us feel comfortable to know that you are : A) Not LE. your age .And C) you are a legitimate hobbyists. C) do you have references from prior escorts. I don't have to know your full name, or the name of your company you work for. We would like to know your first name and your age. Give us a basic idea of who you are. Not trying to be redundant, but It really is up to you to make us feel comfortable enough to see you. ☘️ 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 5, 2018 Amen to that!! I think the problems come when talking about new people, both new girls and new boys. But we've talked enough about that already. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 6, 2018 It's is a 2 way street. Guys see gals as real and safe. Gals see guys as real and safe. I met a young lady several years ago (check my join date). Only mentioned that I had XXX as a reference. She never checked with XXX, And I meet XXX with only a couple of emails. No P411, no real name, or work info, or phone number......... Just "hi, I am traveling, are you available YY day?" Later, when I had a P411 account, I met up with someone else. She was excited to spend time with me because of my posting on TOB. Another that I met up with off of messaging on a chat board, Nice young lady. To bad either the chemistry wasn't there, or we both had a little mix up before meeting. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 6, 2018 10 hours ago, frankenthaler91 said: It's is a 2 way street. Guys see gals as real and safe. Gals see guys as real and safe. I met a young lady several years ago (check my join date). Only mentioned that I had XXX as a reference. She never checked with XXX, And I meet XXX with only a couple of emails. No P411, no real name, or work info, or phone number......... Just "hi, I am traveling, are you available YY day?" Later, when I had a P411 account, I met up with someone else. She was excited to spend time with me because of my posting on TOB. Another that I met up with off of messaging on a chat board, Nice young lady. To bad either the chemistry wasn't there, or we both had a little mix up before meeting. I would have to say that your board handle and presence would make you more legitimate as a bonofide hobbyist. because really we just want to know you are safe, and not a cop. We don't want to be subjected to violence, or arrested. That is what this is about .So it really is up to the hobbyist to make us consent to meet you. 🍀 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2018 12 hours ago, Jez UaBriain said: I would have to say that your board handle and presence would make you more legitimate as a bonofide hobbyist. because really we just want to know you are safe, and not a cop. We don't want to be subjected to violence, or arrested. That is what this is about .So it really is up to the hobbyist to make us consent to meet you. 🍀 YES! Just put some thought into the initial contact and that will take you far. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2018 20 hours ago, Laci French said: YES! Just put some thought into the initial contact and that will take you far. So if I am following you correctly "Hey U Avail? Rate? Menu??" is still not a good opening gambit??? Running away very fast now before Laci or Jez read this and start throwing things at me...…... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2018 25 minutes ago, BeenHereDoingThis said: So if I am following you correctly "Hey U Avail? Rate? Menu??" is still not a good opening gambit??? Running away very fast now before Laci or Jez read this and start throwing things at me...…... Someone's feeling very brave today 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2018 14 minutes ago, eatu55 said: Someone's feeling very brave today Hold my beer and watch this!!!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2018 Seriously though the really frustrating here is that the ladies are preaching to the choir. The people that need to read this don't read the forums and rarely read the entire ad. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2018 5 minutes ago, BeenHereDoingThis said: Seriously though the really frustrating here is that the ladies are preaching to the choir. The people that need to read this don't read the forums and rarely read the entire ad. ^^^ True words ^^^ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 8, 2018 54 minutes ago, BeenHereDoingThis said: Hold my beer and watch this!!!! Just don’t say “yo”😂😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2018 On 8/6/2018 at 8:26 PM, Laci French said: YES! Just put some thought into the initial contact and that will take you far. We’re trying. Patience is key. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
