Posted July 18, 2018 I am trying to reply to a provider but I don't think my replies are actually getting to their inbox. Due to a misunderstanding, she had me blocked at one point. It seems as though its been resolved because she got my attention on a thread and actually pm'd me. I replied to her pm and her read status has never changed since. I've seen other activity from her and tried to send her a new message but the new message never shows up in my sent folder. I also tried just mentioning it to her in the same original thread but it never got posted because I think it was against the rules to communicate to individuals via the forum? In fact the mods removed her mention to me... Hopefully she reads this and unblocks me but just wondered if anyone else has experienced buggyness with the messaging system? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 If she has you blocked you probably shouldn’t continue making contact. That could place you on the naughty list 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 Just now, Laci French said: If she has you blocked you probably shouldn’t continue making contact. That could place you on the naughty list Fair enough. This is related to another issue where I assumed I was already blacklisted. Then she ended up messaging me, so naturally I replied. Ugh oh well, plenty of fish in the sea as they say. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 Make sure you use the subject line. Without a subject messages wont send! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 9 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said: Make sure you use the subject line. Without a subject messages wont send! Yep just tried that. It even pops up and says "message sent". Then I go to my outbox, and nada. I wish it would just say "message cannot be sent" or something along those lines. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 This is making you appear in a negative light by continuing to contact a lady that has you blocked. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Laci French said: This is making you appear in a negative light by continuing to contact a lady that has you blocked. Yeah. Pretty dumb. She contacted me for references and said "Sorry for the inconvenience." Naturally, I replied and shared refs. Just cutting my losses at this point. Edited July 18, 2018 by jayandj typo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2018 I had a few sent messages vanish, contacted a mod and it seems just a random glitch. type a new one and it went through perfect. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 19, 2018 My recommendation, don’t post anymore on this thread. It is not helping your case and other ladies could construe you as being stalkish. Contact another lady and hopefully you will have better luck. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites