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Please remove your piercings

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Some people like piercings and some not, I think it's just a matter of taste. I belong to the species that doesn't really like them, but I respect those who like them!

I'm talking specifically about nipple, tongue and clit piercings. I don't care about them in any other body part.

Would it be okay to ask a provider to remove her piercings during our time together? Even better, before I arrive? I don't want to offend anybody if this could be interpreted as imposing, judging or bad manners. It's just that I'd love to meet with some of the beautiful ladies I see here... if they would remove their piercings for one hour.

 

 

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You can always ask them.  If not find someone without piercings. I am sure there are plenty of women that do not have them.

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Sounds painful! Just can’t imagine having your private areas pierced! Guess i must be too old!? Just the thought of a  Bellybutton piercings too would make me cringe. 

Keep thinking of infections and the image in my head is not good. Staff infections are not pleasant I am sure! 🤐

not passing judgement on those who have them. 

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1 minute ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Sounds painful! Just can’t imagine having your private areas pierced! Guess i must be too old!? Just the thought of a  Bellybutton piercings too would make me cringe. 

Keep thinking of infections and the image in my head is not good. Staff infections are not pleasant I am sure! 🤐

Also think about having to take it out and put it back in... 😯😯😯 can't be fun. I rarely wear earrings and I've had my ears pierced for 20+ years 

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Just now, MeganMarie4u said:

Also think about having to take it out and put it back in... 😯😯😯 can't be fun. I rarely wear earrings and I've had my ears pierced for 20+ years 

Very easy Megan to snag an earring on a sheet, hair, clothing, beard...no thank you I am with you on that. 

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10 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Very easy Megan to snag an earring on a sheet, hair, clothing, beard...no thank you I am with you on that. 

Hair 😯😯😯 I had some rhinestones on my nails and that was an issue..... i can only imagine

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You should be able to ask but a lot has to do with how you ask.  Nose and lip rings kind of gross me out.  After a few pleasant correspondences with a provider and an appointment set - I wrote what I thought was a reasonable request - but phrased it something like "please leave out the facial jewelry".  (not my best choice of verbiage - and a lame attempt at humor).  She wrote back that she didn't think things would work between us and cancelled.  We both happily moved on.

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6 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said:

Also think about having to take it out and put it back in... 😯😯😯 can't be fun. I rarely wear earrings and I've had my ears pierced for 20+ years 

 I never thought about that but now you have me curious as to how many providers I have been with that did not wear earrings.  I guess I should have been looking up or payed more attention when kissing their neck.   Now that is going to bug me all day.

As for the OP piercing is not my thing either but they don't gross me out.  It was her choice and it may make the sessions fun for her. If they had too many i would just pass as there are lots of choices but I would think twice about not seeing someone strictly based on this for example I am not into tats but I have seen one provider a couple of times despite her tats because she is just plain fun.  

As for asking that may be a tall order and I would certainly be careful in my wording, tone of voice and timing in the communication as that will all play into possibly getting what you want. This hobby should be fun for both of you.  It would be interesting to hear from some of the women that have piercings to see what they say.

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9 hours ago, Lawyer said:

Some people like piercings and some not, I think it's just a matter of taste. I belong to the species that doesn't really like them, but I respect those who like them..... It's just that I'd love to meet with some of the beautiful ladies I see here... if they would remove their piercings for one hour.

If she has piercings, chances are pretty good she falls into the category of those who like them. If you're that grossed out, screen for them for crying out loud. I believe she's either "beautiful" as she is or not. You're more likely to have a fabulous session if you think she's beautiful just as she is. 

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Actually have been poked in the lip by a piercing, thought I could work my way around it. 

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First - I don't think most piercings come off and on like earrings - I think they are likely permanent.

Second - Ya get what ya get.  Once you make the date, you get what you get - good thing for the gentlemen, how would the gentlemen like it if a gal texted us "please remove 40 pounds of fat, your excess body hair and all of your ugly before you arrive." B)

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42 minutes ago, Happymon said:

If she has piercings, chances are pretty good she falls into the category of those who like them. If you're that grossed out, screen for them for crying out loud. I believe she's either "beautiful" as she is or not. You're more likely to have a fabulous session if you think she's beautiful just as she is. 

Totally agree with you on this. 

 

1 minute ago, BadBoy said:

First - I don't think most piercings come off and on like earrings - I think they are likely permanent.

Second - Ya get what ya get.  Once you make the date, you get what you get - good thing for the gentlemen, how would the gentlemen like it if a gal texted us "please remove 40 pounds of fat, your excess body hair and all of your ugly before you arrive." B)

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Frankly, me likey:

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The problem is not an aesthetic thing. And I know I can screen them out, which is what I've been doing. OK, this is might sound gross. I have a sensitive sense of smell so I'm very aware of good and bad aromas. Including body parts, the smell of the place, clothes, towels, dirty dishes in  the sink, etc, etc.

About piercings my only concern has been the smell related to them. It's not necessarily poor hygiene. Sometimes the jewel itself has a strong metallic or weird smell. And sometimes there can be a funky smell, especially in the nipples where the hole made across the nipple is like a big tunnel. Maybe there's irritation inside? who knows... :)

Again, Yes I know I can chose other ladies. I was looking for a way to see the "piercing girls"... but it seems it's not possible according to everybody's opinion.

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Just seems that asking a lady to be something she’s not is setting the encounter up for failure.  

Accept the lady just as she is and you have a much better chance for magic to happen. 

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3 hours ago, jus12pla said:

  I wrote what I thought was a reasonable request - but phrased it something like "please leave out the facial jewelry". 

    I was on a set once when the director took two pictures of a girl with several  pieces on facial jewelry on. He then asked her to remove them and she refused. He stated he would bump up her pay by $500 if she would take them out. She decided that was a good idea (gee,wonder why )  and complied. He then took two more pictures of her and laid the before and after photos side by side and asked her what she thought. Without the facial jewelry she was stunning and she agreed. Every time I saw her after that,she had NOTHING on her face....and stated her work had picked up a lot because of their removal.

Morale to this story...do nothing to distract from your beautiful face .

Bad Boy will disagree, but his fetish ,from sales reports..are very very much in minority.

 

 

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54 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

First - I don't think most piercings come off and on like earrings - I think they are likely permanent.

Second - Ya get what ya get.  Once you make the date, you get what you get - good thing for the gentlemen, how would the gentlemen like it if a gal texted us "please remove 40 pounds of fat, your excess body hair and all of your ugly before you arrive." B)

Good point + funny!  They have to accept us sight unseen. 

Small ear and belly button accouterments are sexy to me but poking holes in naughty bits just seems like a mean thing to do to the naughty bits.  Nose and lip rings just weird me out - but she was obvious proud of them to present them in a photo and I shouldn't have wasted her or my time.  You live - you learn.

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I really think that there are just too many choices to have to settle for something that does not make you comfortable. If you are more attracted to tall thin blondes, why would you make an appointment with a curvy slightly heavy brunette...  I totally agree that you should see people and accept them a hundred percent for who they are.  Another example is don't go see a GFE, and expect a pornstar experience.

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5 hours ago, jus12pla said:

You should be able to ask but a lot has to do with how you ask.  Nose and lip rings kind of gross me out.  After a few pleasant correspondences with a provider and an appointment set - I wrote what I thought was a reasonable request - but phrased it something like "please leave out the facial jewelry".  (not my best choice of verbiage - and a lame attempt at humor).  She wrote back that she didn't think things would work between us and cancelled.  We both happily moved on.

As someone who has both a small and delicate nose hoop and a tongue ring, I can sort of understand where the provider was coming from on this. I will happily remove my tongue ring as I've had it for over ten years and am in no danger of having it close during our time together. However, my nose piercing closes up within ten minutes of me removing it which requires me to go get it pierced again, which is insanely painful. I purposely chose a small and feminine hoop in my nose so that it's not distracting to others. I completely respect your choice and your preference. Just know that you may be asking a provider for more than just "can you remove your piercings?". You may be asking her to remove and have to get said piercings done again, which may not be worth the pain to her. Just my two cents. :) 

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2 hours ago, Lawyer said:

About piercings my only concern has been the smell related to them. It's not necessarily poor hygiene. Sometimes the jewel itself has a strong metallic or weird smell. And sometimes there can be a funky smell, especially in the nipples where the hole made across the nipple is like a big tunnel. Maybe there's irritation inside? who knows... :)

You are not alone in the world! I just googled the topic and there is plenty of information about piercing smell, like this one: Why Do Your Piercings Smell Bad?

 

 

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1 hour ago, Raine-7379 said:

I really think that there are just too many choices to have to settle for something that does not make you comfortable. If you are more attracted to tall thin blondes, why would you make an appointment with a curvy slightly heavy brunette...  I totally agree that you should see people and accept them a hundred percent for who they are.  Another example is don't go see a GFE, and expect a pornstar experience.

Weight looks none of that matters. Clients ultimately have the upper hand with whom they wish to see or not see. After all it is thier money! Their choice! The lovely ladies are sitting ducks for the plucking.

No calls for me this weekend only at 3A.M.  with someone asking how I was doing this evening? I told him to put the bottle up. Evening was yesterday, I explained how the clock works and all that..😂

 Yep, I know I was perceived as being rude. Have to move on...we all have our ups and downs in life! My news is nothing exciting to talk about. 

Oh well! Have a wonderful Sunday people!  Wishing you all  the best in life! 

So continue to have fun duck hunting!!🦆💋

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Also, would it be to much to ask to cover up those tattoos with some body paint.:)

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7 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Weight looks none of that matters. Clients ultimately have the upper hand with whom they wish to see or not see. After all it is thier money! Their choice! The lovely ladies are sitting ducks for the plucking.

No calls for me this weekend only at 3A.M.  with someone asking how I was doing this evening? I told him to put the bottle up. Evening was yesterday, I explained how the clock works and all that..😂

 Yep, I know I was perceived as being rude. Have to move on...we all have our ups and downs in life! My news is nothing exciting to talk about. 

Oh well! Have a wonderful Sunday people!  Wishing you all  the best in life! 

So continue to have fun duck hunting!!🦆💋

Love you much sweet Lady and hope the day is full of smiles for you. 

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2 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

Bad Boy will disagree, but his fetish ,from sales reports..are very very much in minority.

 

JR, with all due respect to your vast eons of endlessly-documented experience, you have no idea what I think.  I have no fetish for piercings, don't mind them if a gal has them, don't mind it if they don't (most gals I see don't).  I do, however, have a fetish for unique and beautiful women, and when I show up, I accept them as they are.  I have noticed that you continually advise the gals to homogenize their appearance to the lowest common denominator, in order to maximize their "sales reports" (which I actually call BS on, since I doubt that there are actually valid comparative escort "sales reports" broken out by the various décor items), i.e. your continual drone of "no tattoos," "no piercings," etc. 

Given your many, many, decades as a professional observer, those are no-doubt valid pointers for the ladies whose primary interest is presenting themselves as generic consumer units (so I don't necessarily disagree with your comment),  but my viewpoint is that there are also a fair number of us who are not trying to tell the ladies how to decorate themselves, and who actually appreciate the endless variety of feminine beauty, including those with decorations, and especially those who don't give a rat's ass what the generic consumer thinks about their modes of self expression. I guess that's why I am a member of SuicideGirls, and love those sorts of ladies (as well as totally unadorned ladies).  Perhaps we are  very much in the minority - I usually find that I am most comfortable when I am in the minority on just about any issue or topic.

That's actually what I think.

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1 hour ago, BadBoy said:

JR, with all due respect to your vast eons of endlessly-documented experience, you have no idea what I think.  I have no fetish for piercings, don't mind them if a gal has them, don't mind it if they don't (most gals I see don't).  I do, however, have a fetish for unique and beautiful women, and when I show up, I accept them as they are.  I have noticed that you continually advise the gals to homogenize their appearance to the lowest common denominator, in order to maximize their "sales reports" (which I actually call BS on, since I doubt that there are actually valid comparative escort "sales reports" broken out by the various décor items), i.e. your continual drone of "no tattoos," "no piercings," etc. 

Given your many, many, decades as a professional observer, those are no-doubt valid pointers for the ladies whose primary interest is presenting themselves as generic consumer units (so I don't necessarily disagree with your comment),  but my viewpoint is that there are also a fair number of us who are not trying to tell the ladies how to decorate themselves, and who actually appreciate the endless variety of feminine beauty, including those with decorations, and especially those who don't give a rat's ass what the generic consumer thinks about their modes of self expression. I guess that's why I am a member of SuicideGirls, and love those sorts of ladies (as well as totally unadorned ladies).  Perhaps we are  very much in the minority - I usually find that I am most comfortable when I am in the minority on just about any issue or topic.

That's actually what I think.

  Yawn, Bad Boy, rumor has it that over 500 ladies in Denver have been interviewed for a 5 grand for one day photo /video shoot. Only one was hired  due to no ink and piercings. Granted everyone likes something different, but a ladies appearance is her $$. The sales reports I mentioned are from magazine and video sales ,as well as club headliner reports. ( emailed weekly ) That said, did you pass over the fact that the model I mentioned stated that her booking increased after she took her piercings out ? She confided that that also held true for her part time escort bookings. 

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7 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  Yawn, Bad Boy, rumor has it that over 500 ladies in Denver have been interviewed for a 5 grand for one day photo /video shoot. Only one was hired  due to no ink and piercings. Granted everyone likes something different, but a ladies appearance is her $$. The sales reports I mentioned are from magazine and video sales ,as well as club headliner reports. ( emailed weekly ) That said, did you pass over the fact that the model I mentioned stated that her booking increased after she took her piercings out ? She confided that that also held true for her part time escort bookings. 

You both come from two different perspectives! I find that totally beautiful!  Clients have a right to their own desires and wishes. Same goes for the Providers and yes we are all vastly different on many levels. Yet, when it boils down to business we're all trying to make a living and working on making our clients happy. It's all very awesome if you stop and think. 

Bad boy, would you see a lady if she had dermabrasion on her tattoos and removed her piercings? I like to think you are more about the connection and less about the  body art. 

JR, have you possibly had a beautiful lady remove her tattoos successfully and used that particular lady for a picture shoot?  Just wondering if dermabrasion works well too for some of the ladies needs? Especially with wanting to get into modeling? I might pass on information to some ladies who talk to me. 

This is why I am posing the questions to you both. Just a very interesting to know about is all. 

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2 hours ago, Laci French said:

Love you much sweet Lady and hope the day is full of smiles for you. 

I love and respect you very much Laci!!! No need to worry about me. It might just be the calm before the storm?!  Always LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my Laci French pants very much! :wub:

I am smiling now I can feel some energy being directed my way now. Who also does reiki here? Thank you!!! I got it! :wub:

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I think we're wandering off topic here and I know tats have been discussed at length before.  I use to think tatoos were like taking a beautiful work of art (the naked female form) - and then scribbling graffiti on it.  However - I was fortunate to see a provider who was only in the business a short time and who was heavily tatted.  I discovered it did not detract from her beauty at all for me.  Her outstanding personality erased my preconceptions.  I don't think the tattoos improved her looks at all - it was just redundant artwork on top of masterpiece.  Thankfully - she expanded my horizons since they are so prevalent now.  If the additional facial holes adorned with metals are a problem - they are my problem.  That being said - and with a nod to Wolfe's point - I will filter to my tastes to avoid any problems and be more tactful about my special requests.  

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18 hours ago, Lawyer said:

Would it be okay to ask a provider to remove her piercings during our time together? Even better, before I arrive? 

 

 

Some might not mind you asking, some might. Again, it's up to an individual lady if she minds you asking. I would say, if you don't like piercings, then go elsewhere. That's why there is variety and different types of providers to choose from. 

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