Laci French

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Maybe a new list of rules would be beneficial! 

 

Also, if you see listings with inappropriate information... REPORT THEM!  The mods stay busy... they need our help! 

GENTS, if you see your ATF posting those things... let her know!! 

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Maybe a warning and then lose privileges for a week. Bet that would stop the fuckery. 

 

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I understand that concern as well...Whisperer has made a decision to allow reviews to show and we need to do our part in protecting the board. 

Common sense should prevail in our listings. 

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I think key is tying the donation/services together that gets everyone in trouble. 

Really is a tough area to navigate for us and I’m sure even more difficult for Whisperer.  

 

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I have to go to the airport and I'm late but I will just say that it really isn't rocket science and in my opinion the site was much better off and a hell of lot less risky with the changes made as they were.  The guys have been spoiled with all the details for years and the providers have been carrying the brunt of the reckless exposure. I don't recall the laws changing recently and therefore, these changes make no logical sense to me.

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Have a safe and fun trip!

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Is it only back for certain members? I am unable to add anything to my listing descriptions. :(

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Just now, CallieVane said:

Is it only back for certain members? I am unable to add anything to my listing descriptions. :(

It should be available to everyone. You might want to contact the mods and ask them. :) 

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1 minute ago, CallieVane said:

Is it only back for certain members? I am unable to add anything to my listing descriptions. :(

Make a new listing 😘

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I think that not only should we be mindful about what we say in our listings but the reviews should not be able to be so descriptive of our sessions. They should get rid of the pornographic reviews and there should be a guideline for the clients on what they are allowed to say in the reviews. No activities should be listed in the reviews, and they can just give a vague description of the "experience" ONLY! We all need to work together right now in order to keep each other safe and to keep the board under the radar. ❤️

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4 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said:

Make a new listing 😘

Thank you! I just did! It's so nice to have descriptions back! I bow to you mods and good people who keep this site up and running! :) 

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1 hour ago, Laci French said:

Have a safe and fun trip!

Thanks babe but I'm just picking up.

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1 hour ago, MeganMarie4u said:

Maybe a new list of rules would be beneficial! 

 

Also, if you see listings with inappropriate information... REPORT THEM!  The mods stay busy... they need our help! 

GENTS, if you see your ATF posting those things... let her know!! 

I agree. With the new laws, should come new guidelines for the ladies and the gents. ❤️

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32 minutes ago, Cali Rose said:

I think that not only should we be mindful about what we say in our listings but the reviews should not be able to be so descriptive of our sessions. They should get rid of the pornographic reviews and there should be a guideline for the clients on what they are allowed to say in the reviews. No activities should be listed in the reviews, and they can just give a vague description of the "experience" ONLY! We all need to work together right now in order to keep each other safe and to keep the board under the radar. ❤️

I’m guessing that the reviews are still needing to be approved before posting. I agree that the gentlemen need to use a discretion with what they post. 

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5 minutes ago, Laci French said:

I’m guessing that the reviews are still needing to be approved before posting. I agree that the gentlemen need to use a discretion with what they post. 

+1 ❤️

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Just my two cents but the reviews would be difficult to prove (see all the mentions of fake reviews - self reviews) whereas to Laci’s point saying I will do x for y has it down in black and white.  I have a review pending I chose to do alphabet soup and tried to generalize the session.  Guess we shall see if it gets approved.

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3 hours ago, JAGCS said:

Just my two cents but the reviews would be difficult to prove (see all the mentions of fake reviews - self reviews) whereas to Laci’s point saying I will do x for y has it down in black and white.  I have a review pending I chose to do alphabet soup and tried to generalize the session.  Guess we shall see if it gets approved.

Difficult to prove....Nope.

Certain governmental and local agencies around the U.S. have used reviews to bring charges and convict ladies of activities listed in the reviews.  You hear about this happening every so often.

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8 hours ago, Laci French said:

Maybe a warning and then lose privileges for a week. Bet that would stop the fuckery. 

 

Stop the "fuckery"!?   Now that is some funny shit!

 

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10 hours ago, Danielle Rae said:

No disrespect Laci, but with the play by play pornographic detailed reviews being back up - it's the protection of the providers living in the USA that's seriously compromised.  

TOB has never had pornographic play by play reviews.  Look at TER and ECCIE for porn movie quality reviews. ECCIE encouraged such reviews and TER required such reviews.

All reviews are approved by a mod before posting.

 

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While we are on this subject about pornographic reviews (according to a provider in this thread), what is going to cause trouble for the ladies and TOB is ladies including in their listing certain words and subjects, ie....rates or references to rates, services or types of services including massage. 

There was a listing last night that was very graphic and included no kids, animals.  Those kinds of words in a listing should never be allowed or posted. LE will seize on that and shut down TOB quicker than anything and use that listing to go after the lady.

 

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6 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

TOB has never had pornographic play by play reviews.  Look at TER and ECCIE for porn movie quality reviews. ECCIE encouraged such reviews and TER required such reviews.

All reviews are approved by a mod before posting.

 

TOB never required them (a major reason I have always considered this board way superior to the other two mentioned) but it has certainly allowed them and several reviewers have habitually written them.  I always considered those reviews as more about the reviewer, not the lady and largely ignore them as probably gross exaggeration and/or not particularly accurate..

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16 hours ago, Laci French said:

Full listings are so wonderful to have back and it greatly concerns me the lack of common sense in posting. 

We all need to be careful to not lose this privilege because some of you are including things that should not be included (donations/services) 

Clean it up before you ruin it for all of us!  

 

I whole heartedly agree with what you are saying here, Laci.  However, the mods are big boys and girls and need to post restrictions of what is not allowed in listings, IF THEY want to restrict them and are prepared to enforce the rules.  But so far I am not seeing any published restrictions - perhaps I have missed such as I am a reader of listings not writer lol.  I agree with you, but it is not my site, I only visit regularly.  And so far through all the shit storm of the last couple months I think they have done a stellar job.  That said, report over the top listings with the report button.

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17 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said:

Maybe a new list of rules would be beneficial! 

 

16 hours ago, Cali Rose said:

I agree.should come new guidelines for the ladies and the gents. ❤️

Maybe a new list of rules would be beneficial!”

~ We all know that no one reads the Rules.

Otherwise everyone would have noticed the disclaimers that have been in place pertaining specifically to user’s listings and/or reviews when accessing those venues.

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17 minutes ago, Kaduk said:

 

Maybe a new list of rules would be beneficial!”

~ We all know that no one reads the Rules.

Otherwise everyone would have noticed the disclaimers that have been in place pertaining specifically to user’s listings and/or reviews when accessing those venues.

Yes, this is very true unfortunately 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

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I for one REALLY appreciate the full review. I tried but got a message that I was a user but not a provider.  Sure bet I'm not a provider! 

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3 hours ago, gr8owl said:

TOB never required them (a major reason I have always considered this board way superior to the other two mentioned) but it has certainly allowed them and several reviewers have habitually written them.  I always considered those reviews as more about the reviewer, not the lady and largely ignore them as probably gross exaggeration and/or not particularly accurate..

I lurked on TOB from almost day 1 before I finally joined 6 years ago or so.

I have never seen a porn quality review on TOB such as you will see on TER or ECCIE.

Some have come close with some play by play, but even those were without the actual physical descriptions that you get on TER and ECCIE.

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