Do you ever get into argument with a provider?

[fishndude57]

I have 3x. 1. Friend asked for help finding a private in, which I was able to do, then paid no rent because of all the fine gents cancelling or NCNS, still pissed me off Soooo... 2. Personal assistance including chauffeur services to a Gold Digger, wasn't just myself but 2 nice Ladies as well... 3. One that was totally 3g, got up and dressed after half hour in one hour appt., talked it out and I told her why, she still texts me whenever she comes to town. At times, as some I've now been in touch with for years, heated discussions occur. I believe it's called life to agree to disagree in moderation. Single still and fuckin lovin it!

[Phil-anderer]

On 6/19/2018 at 8:45 PM, MAX1 said:

I feel like getting into an argument during the session is an instant mode killer. That is why I try to avoid them as much as possible, but then after you leave you feel like shit for not speaking up. Let me give an example. Multiple providers wear their towels/clothes right after you finish even though 30 minutes is left till the end of the date. I never understood why they do that? Do they want to signal that it is time for you to fuck off?

What do you do when a provider gives you a bad treatment? Starting an argument would obviously kill the mode & Mr. Rictus Erectus. Writing a review here is no longer descriptive and many are not that honest. Many times, taking back your envelope is not an option that's on the table (no pun intended!).

Yeah, I had one with Laci.  She kept saying how amazingly hot I was, and I didn't agree.  I finally gave in.

[average1]

On 6/24/2018 at 9:52 AM, Laci French said:

Only arguing should be about which one of you is going to please the other first. 

And what an "argument" that could be, in the best of ways.    Some of us like to give before we receive, and then follow with a big share.  But, sometimes it's good for me to be flexible and go with the stream of pleasure as it unfolds.  

[kikiloverkink]

On 6/19/2018 at 7:45 PM, MAX1 said:

I feel like getting into an argument during the session is an instant mode killer. That is why I try to avoid them as much as possible, but then after you leave you feel like shit for not speaking up. Let me give an example. Multiple providers wear their towels/clothes right after you finish even though 30 minutes is left till the end of the date. I never understood why they do that? Do they want to signal that it is time for you to fuck off?

What do you do when a provider gives you a bad treatment? Starting an argument would obviously kill the mode & Mr. Rictus Erectus. Writing a review here is no longer descriptive and many are not that honest. Many times, taking back your envelope is not an option that's on the table (no pun intended!).

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

[MeganMarie4u]

2 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

☝️ 1st. PLEASE Dont include MOST of us.. ✌ 2... a business , yes based on happy customers. If he wants to play cards naked WE CAN! It's our TIME, not about "finishing".

Edited June 26, 2018 by MeganMarie4u

[geecue2]

2 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

Hmmm, I find most escorts like some conversation after the fact. To each their own I guess. 

[Bit Banger]

3 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

So I book & pay for an hour, but pop w/in 1/2hr. Are you going to hand me a refund as you push me out the door? I think not. 

Chill!  That’s one of the differences between 3G and GFE.  The 3G model dehumanizes both provider (a warm hole) and client (an ATM).  The GFE model creates a personable experience, relying on mutual respect.  Many of us (at least on TOB) prefer the later.

Edited June 26, 2018 by Bit Banger

[Laci French]

4 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

The connection makes all the difference...

Btw I love your cute ears.

[gr8owl]

4 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

 

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. 

The ones i repeat with do. 😎

What else do i want?

Talk, enjoy the view, hugs and cuddle, try for seconds if all indications good, just plain get to know her better and enjoy her company.

I am sorry if you dont like to talk to clients - sure seems like the work would suck that way.

[eatu55]

17 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

The ones i repeat with do. 😎

What else do i want?

Talk, enjoy the view, hugs and cuddle, try for seconds if all indications good, just plain get to know her better and enjoy her company.

I am sorry if you dont like to talk to clients - sure seems like the work would suck that way.

Literally? 

[gr8owl]

1 minute ago, eatu55 said:

Literally? 

Hopefully!  She can avoid talking if mouth is full lol. 😜

[jj254-1]

5 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

Exactly the sort of provider I want to avoid. If I wanted to get off with no human interaction I'd have just jerked it to your pictures. 

[SabrinaLynn aka KatieCreme]

25 minutes ago, jj254-1 said:

Exactly the sort of provider I want to avoid. If I wanted to get off with no human interaction I'd have just jerked it to your pictures. 

Or get a blow up doll and name her coco...lol 

A good connection=Repeat business

[kikiloverkink]

15 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I mean you’re done, what else you want?

most escorts don’t really like talking to clients.. so if you already finished what else is there to do.. play cards naked? No. On to the next one haha. It’s a business. 

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

[boink36]

1 hour ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

I really miss the days when BP kept the riff raff on the proper side of the tracks.

[eatu55]

1 hour ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

You talk about the good old days like you lived in them. Life's not a movie.

[gr8owl]

1 hour ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

Anyone else thinking 2Big's dream?

If that is the way you roll, and it works for you, good for you.  And I wish you well - seriously. I am sure some guys will say "Yes!!"  But if all I want is a quick slip and slide, no talking, no human touch, I can buy a flesh light for much less.

[MeganMarie4u]

1 hour ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

What the fuck.... you're 23 ....😂😂😂😂

[BeenHereDoingThis]

1 hour ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

Kiki, from your own website "Imagine your perfect evening in fabulous company. One man’s 5-star meal and night at the Met may be another man’s chartered boat over the Caribbean (both sound amazing to me), but those who seek out my company all have one thing in common: a desire for authentic companionship. Whilst beauty draws in many, my time is best spent with those who appreciate a full-bodied romantic experience"   Seems that your posts are contradictory to your website listing/  In case you haven't figured it out yet you have wandered into a group that strongly prefer the latter description.....

[Skylighter]

36 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said:

What the fuck.... you're 23 ....😂😂😂😂

She sounds more like a pimp than a hoe . . . A 2nd rate pimp.

The problem with hoe's like her is. She's always trying to get out of the car, before her second facial. You'd think that by 23 she'd know better by now. 

Edited June 27, 2018 by Skylighter

[average1]

10 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

I guess this is a case for "different strokes for different folks".  For me, "getting off" is great, but the journey to get there is key.  For others, maybe "getting off" is the sole purpose.  I, and others like me, enjoy the whole fantasy.  That includes making some sort of connection.  It also includes treating ladies like ladies, not like commodities. But, to each their own.  If both parties agree on what is wanted, it's all okay.  To each their own.

[eatu55]

Not that there is anything wrong with choosing a "high volume"  business model. Just don't let your boss strap a coin changer on you before you head out the door each day.

[Laci French]

12 hours ago, kikiloverkink said:

I loved the old street work where the hoe got into the car.. did what she had to do and got out. All this pretend girlfriend bullshit nowadays is stupid. You a trick. You will be treated as such. You buy the service and we say bye. If you need to talk, go to a therapist not a hooker.

You have an interesting business model. 

[FuriousWeasel]

10 minutes ago, Laci French said:

You have an interesting business model. 

Although honestly, it works for many people, a guy I know would be thrilled with that.  That's what sucks about the legal environment we live in, she should be able to advertise how she likes to do business, and clients should be able to choose her or pass on her based on that.  

[Laci French]

Just now, FuriousWeasel said:

Although honestly, it works for many people, a guy I know would be thrilled with that.  That's what sucks about the legal environment we live in, she should be able to advertise how she likes to do business, and clients should be able to choose her or pass on her based on that.  

Agreed!  In the reviews you gentlemen can write about the friendship made during the encounter. That will help if everyone can read between the lines. 

[Waldofindme]

I have followed this thread with great interest in what other hobbiest have encountered in situations that turned a great experience into a hateful rage.

 I have been in this hobby for well over a decade. I have seen a fair share of great women, a few not so great. And one or two that I want to forget.  Out of all the ladies that I have meet with, there are a half a dozen beautiful souls that excited me enough, that I wanted to see more than once.

 Not long ago I had meet a lady that had this effect on me. Im sure everyone here has meet someone like this....and the retraction was intense from both sides. We had met 12 to 15 times professionally and close to that on a personal level.

 But on our last encounter something went terribly wrong.  I'm not sure exactly what happened, but from that day we haven't spoken to each other. This has been the only provider that I have had any bad blood with.

[veteranhobbyist]

On 20/06/2018 at 3:45 AM, MAX1 said:

I feel like getting into an argument during the session is an instant mode killer. That is why I try to avoid them as much as possible, but then after you leave you feel like shit for not speaking up. Let me give an example. Multiple providers wear their towels/clothes right after you finish even though 30 minutes is left till the end of the date. I never understood why they do that? Do they want to signal that it is time for you to fuck off?

What do you do when a provider gives you a bad treatment? Starting an argument would obviously kill the mode & Mr. Rictus Erectus. Writing a review here is no longer descriptive and many are not that honest. Many times, taking back your envelope is not an option that's on the table (no pun intended!).

Do NOT under any circumstances argue with a provider! It'll ruin the session. Just don't go back.

Nowadays, it's impossible for anyone (including providers) not to check their phones every 15-min. But talking and constantly texting is a mood killer. They might be trying to book the next gig while they are with you.

Edited July 1, 2018 by veteranhobbyist

[Femboy286510]

6 hours ago, veteranhobbyist said:

Do NOT under any circumstances argue with a provider! It'll ruin the session. Just don't go back.

Agreed it’s not worth arguing about just take your business elsewhere. Just like in any business there are good and not so good providers. 

[Guest]

6 hours ago, veteranhobbyist said:

Do NOT under any circumstances argue with a provider! It'll ruin the session. Just don't go back.

Nowadays, it's impossible for anyone (including providers) not to check their phones every 15-min. But talking and constantly texting is a mood killer. They might be trying to book the next gig while they are with you.

So if a provider took a picture of you with her phone (without your permission), you would be ok and keep quiet?

[gnarley_boy12]

6 hours ago, veteranhobbyist said:

Do NOT under any circumstances argue with a provider! It'll ruin the session. Just don't go back.

Nowadays, it's impossible for anyone (including providers) not to check their phones every 15-min. But talking and constantly texting is a mood killer. They might be trying to book the next gig while they are with you.

My goal when I see a provider provider is for us to have a mutually enjoyable time. Any interaction with a phone, whether the phone ringing or the provider checking texts, ruins it. I have paid for the time and think it should be mine and not interrupted.