Posted June 12, 2018 On 6/10/2018 at 7:40 PM, CallieVane said: I adored each and every one of my reviews, but I never saw it as an ego boost, more of a "I'm providing the kind of service I would want" sort of thing. It was always fun to see what it was the reviewers enjoyed most about our time together. I'm with you on this one babe! The reviews for me WAS an ego boost if the person and I had unreal chemistry, the passion was there, more personal and less of a "business transaction." But then at the same time, I'd read some, blush and say to myself "Shit I did that?! That's hot." 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 33 minutes ago, Amber720 said: I'm with you on this one babe! The reviews for me WAS an ego boost if the person and I had unreal chemistry, the passion was there, more personal and less of a "business transaction." But then at the same time, I'd read some, blush and say to myself "Shit I did that?! That's hot." And on the other sites some would embellish so much I would ask myself “sure they have the right chick”🤔😂😂 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 I found TOB from my first review. I started getting phone calls saying, I saw a review of you. I came here and read it and here we are. I always had a personal policy of, Never believe your own reviews. So while I have a ton of excellent reviews, I used them more as a guideline to let me know I was doing things right. An ego boost, mmmm maybe, because I knew I brought him pleasure. Never looked at a review as thought, you’re damn right I’m the best! Staying humble is key! There’s always another girl around the corner that might rock a guys world better. Provide the best service you can, enjoy the time with your gentleman and if he becomes a regular, consider it a compliment and an honor that he chose you. 17 years in the business and this has never failed me! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 3 hours ago, Melissa Sterling said: I found TOB from my first review. I started getting phone calls saying, I saw a review of you. I came here and read it and here we are. I always had a personal policy of, Never believe your own reviews. So while I have a ton of excellent reviews, I used them more as a guideline to let me know I was doing things right. An ego boost, mmmm maybe, because I knew I brought him pleasure. Never looked at a review as thought, you’re damn right I’m the best! Staying humble is key! There’s always another girl around the corner that might rock a guys world better. Provide the best service you can, enjoy the time with your gentleman and if he becomes a regular, consider it a compliment and an honor that he chose you. 17 years in the business and this has never failed me! Well said pretty lady and this is what makes you a legend on TOB. 😘 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 11 hours ago, Laci French said: And on the other sites some would embellish so much I would ask myself “sure they have the right chick”🤔😂😂 TER and ECCIE both wanted us to write porn movie quality reviews with no holds barred. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 16 minutes ago, ilovewomen said: TER and ECCIE both wanted us to write porn movie quality reviews with no holds barred. To make matters worse, on TER certain activities had to be included to obtain the upper ratings. That ran counter to my practice as some of the most fulfilling sessions I’ve experienced we never left the restaurant (i.e. no sexual content). ECCIE just needed juicy details. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 3 hours ago, mountainrider33 said: I just had that happen to me. A provider on here with 17 reviews answered quick and asked for a time to meet soon. I was actually available but it wouldn't give me enough time to PM some guys on her reviews, so I tried to word it in a way that couldn't be seen as incriminating herself or myself. I asked what I wasn't allowed to do, which you can't get into trouble telling someone things they're not allowed to do. Well crap, that didn't work because she texted back "Nothing Avail today any longer". F*%k I hate this new system sometimes. At least I learned that I should always ask reviewers first, even if that means telling the provider that I need some time to get replies from people who wrote her reviews. Ever thought of starting a blog called today's whine and cheesy? Check with reviewers BEFORE you call her. By the time you call her you should already know you want to see her and when - unless she says something to freak you out. If 17 reviews and info from pms is not enough DO NOT ask for head shot pics (how could she possibly think LE??) and if you do and she sends DO NOT accuse her of being 5 years older than ad ( seriously you can guess ages that close and it really matters??) or do any of the other crap you have regaled us with last few days. (How the hell do you get any lady to see you??) Just book a first session for only HH and worst case you are out 150 give or take. Want to see her again THEN ask for menu details for next time!! This is not rocket surgery. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 5 minutes ago, gr8owl said: Ever thought of starting a blog called today's whine and cheesy? Check with reviewers BEFORE you call her. By the time you call her you should already know you want to see her and when - unless she says something to freak you out. If 17 reviews and info from pms is not enough DO NOT ask for head shot pics (how could she possibly think LE??) and if you do and she sends DO NOT accuse her of being 5 years older than ad ( seriously you can guess ages that close and it really matters??) or do any of the other crap you have regaled us with last few days. (How the hell do you get any lady to see you??) Just book a first session for only HH and worst case you are out 150 give or take. Want to see her again THEN ask for menu details for next time!! This is not rocket surgery. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 3 minutes ago, mountainrider33 said: Oh, it was my fault for not prior planning. I just didn't think she'd be ready to go right then, without any screening. On the "DO NOT ask for head shot pics", I stated it three different times in that thread and somehow, you still didn't comprehend it. I'll say it a fourth time, If there are reviews I don't ask for photos. And i will state it so even you can comprehend. Asking for face pics from lady you have never met is bullshit and if she obliges she is quite foolish. Smart ones will just hang up. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 1 hour ago, mountainrider33 said: It worked for this 411 thread. Everyone in that thread was wanting to know if the provider was real. The provider came in and claimed the pics were 100% them. Nope, I got her to send a waste up pic and it wasn't even close, even the wrong skin color. It kept me or somebody else wasting their time for a TOFTT, to end up just turning around and going home. All girls start from somewhere but they get verified, just like we are verified by them when you first start out. I had two highly reviewed providers on this board have me send them a selfie, with my drivers license next to my face. And now those providers have your complete ID....real name, address, SS number. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 On 6/7/2018 at 6:22 PM, Laci French said: I thought they were fun to read. Not sure about an ego boost, but fun to live it over again in the reading. I, also, thought they were fun to read...and informative. Some reviewers had more of my attention than others because of their reputation. And I definitely have seen some ladies for the first time, in part, because of the old reviews. I've also seen ladies because of their posts in the forums. And I've gotta say, that I have been both lucky and fortunate to have met the ladies I've met because of this board, our community, the reviews, the reviewers and the ladies who participate here. In fact, this post contains a "quote" (see above) from someone I would have missed out on meeting had it not been for some TOB review information and the quality of her posts in the forums. Hope that is not too much "schilling". 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 16 minutes ago, average1 said: I, also, thought they were fun to read...and informative. Some reviewers had more of my attention than others because of their reputation. And I definitely have seen some ladies for the first time, in part, because of the old reviews. I've also seen ladies because of their posts in the forums. And I've gotta say, that I have been both lucky and fortunate to have met the ladies I've met because of this board, our community, the reviews, the reviewers and the ladies who participate here. In fact, this post contains a "quote" (see above) from someone I would have missed out on meeting had it not been for some TOB review information and the quality of her posts in the forums. Hope that is not too much "schilling". The connections made are so very special 😘 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 On 6/7/2018 at 6:17 PM, a_happycamper_12 said: I’ll tell you what gives me an ego boost! Is a lady asking to,see me,! Does such a thing happen?? Certainly not to me! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 15 minutes ago, decafnaetd said: Does such a thing happen?? Certainly not to me! Maybe switch to caffeinated lol kidding of course matter of fact had a regular contact me just this morning! Darn work got in the way ☹️ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 2 minutes ago, a_happycamper_12 said: Maybe switch to caffeinated lol kidding of course matter of fact had a regular contact me just this morning! Darn work got in the way ☹️ Teach me Obi Wan! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 8 minutes ago, decafnaetd said: Teach me Obi Wan! Lol Teach I cannot, learn you must.! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
