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My first was just before I went to Okinawa. My marine buddies found out I was a virgin so they told me that if I was a virgin when I got there then they would take me to a place called whisper alley and have an 80 year old grandmother be my first. Instead of that I got a professional lady to come to a known motel in California and she did me right. My first time with a lady in Colorado was with a long time beauty called Busty Monica, the rest is a tale for another day.

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My first was very memorable, although I was quite nervous for the first few minutes. The appt lasted 3 hours and I saw her frequently until she retired last year.

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On 6/6/2018 at 7:57 AM, Sundance said:

 

Gentleman....Do you remember the first lady that you "Dated"? Was it  everything that you had hoped for?

Or......was it a big disappointment ? 

 

Don't think I remember my FIRST, but the one i do remember I think she was my second.... And I still see her from time to time and enjoy her company everytime

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If by "Date" you mean hobby lady, my first was a lady I found on BP. I was so uninformed back in '16 (:eek:), but after 35+ years of marriage, I was practically a virgin.

She guided me to an upscale hotel and got me off on a good foot. I never try to tell a lady what has to happen. She was gentle in teaching me the first ways of a hobbyist and made me very comfortable. I saw her another 7 times after that first date. Once I started reaching out on business trips, my horizons expanded by miles.

SESTA/FOSTA pushed me to engage more in the TOB community and it's been very rewarding, but I'm still learning week by week.

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On 6/6/2018 at 7:57 AM, Sundance said:

 

Gentleman....Do you remember the first lady that you "Dated"? Was it  everything that you had hoped for?

Or......was it a big disappointment ? 

 

For Denver? It was perfect. I used to talk to this girl Alley K. Never actually met her. Cool girl though. She set me up with a girlfriend of hers. That girl stuck around maybe a year. She was as awesome to 'date' as Alley was to talk to. I'm not old enough to compete for the 'old timer' title. But been around here a minute or so. 

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On 6/6/2018 at 7:57 AM, Sundance said:

 

Gentleman....Do you remember the first lady that you "Dated"? Was it  everything that you had hoped for?

Or......was it a big disappointment ? 

 

The first young lady I saw, was a memorable experience. Even though I was much older than she, we seemed to both enjoy the experience. I was nervous and somewhat apprehensive, but she didn't seem to mind. It is a very fond memory of a remarkable moment in my life.

The first experience led to many more with this person, and she became my ATF as well as a friend. We saw each other non-professionally also, and I was very sad when she retired. She's gone now but I shall never forget her.

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On 6/6/2018 at 7:57 AM, Sundance said:

 

Gentleman....Do you remember the first lady that you "Dated"? Was it  everything that you had hoped for?

Or......was it a big disappointment ? 

 

It was a newbie meets newbie at a cheap, dirty hotel.  I should walked out as soon as the door opened.  It was awful.

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On 6/8/2018 at 7:35 AM, ilovewomen said:

 

JR can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that the Oyster was around in the early 80's and maybe the 70's.

    I started doing writing/photography for the Rocky Mountain Oyster in the 1970s. Back in the pre-VHS days when my press pass got me into the adult movie theaters for free. Twas a unique experience watching porn on the big screen...with all the "activities " around me.   Still have those old press passes... (publisher/owner ) Elaine had me update them annually with a new photo .So did Dawn,after she bought the Oyster from Elaine. 

To clear up a misconception. Elaine is alive and well, we chat often. Dawn is the one that passed away and with it,The Oyster.

 

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On 6/7/2018 at 3:12 PM, ilovewomen said:

I've been trying to remember my first hobby lady.  Been way too long. But one of my first, if not the first came from the Oyster.  I called the agency, set the appointment and then had to call again from a gas station near her place.

Knocked on the door, and a lady wearing a black slip or nightgown and weighing close to Denver Broncos lineman answers the door.

I was too scared to leave so i went in, she kept her nightgown on the entire time (thank god).  15 minutes later I left.

I should have walked as soon as she answered the door. Very mechanical.

 

      Hey, I had nothing to do with the advertising dept !    But ,even back then...you should have walked.

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8 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

Think her name was Schatzy. It was awhile ago.

On a related thread a gal indicated her name was Schatzy when she was first starting out. Get together, video it - it's a freaking great reality show concept.

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6 hours ago, BadBoy said:

On a related thread a gal indicated her name was Schatzy when she was first starting out. Get together, video it - it's a freaking great reality show concept.

  Seriously ??  Hmm, that thread must have been while I was recently in Los Angeles. Didn't know she was still around,unless its another lady with the same "name."

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On 6/8/2018 at 5:03 AM, a_happycamper_12 said:

Sure do! At least from a "BOARD". It was Sabrina in Louisville! And it was AWESOME. That was so long ago! She had ads in Colorado Daily and on Bears Board! She actually told me about Bears! But that had to be the like mid to late 90's!? But around the same time was Rocky Mountain Oyster!! (DAYUM I'm feeling old!) So I'd call ladies form there too!

Sabrina Black -  MY first escort experience!!  She was a true professional in every way !  For an hour I thought we were celebrating our first night of matrimony !

:)

 

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My first was a beautiful Aussie girl named Tiny Tori in Co Sorings. She was an absolute gem. I couldn’t have asked for a better introduction into this.  It was a sad, sad day when she left town. 

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48 minutes ago, TheFinerThings said:

 a beautiful Aussie  named Tiny Tori in Co Sorings. She was an absolute gem.  It was a sad, sad day when she left town. 

+ one month allotment of rep

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I'll never forget my first.  It was just what I expected and set me off on a great course.  Learning to watch for what to avoid sure helped along the way!  Always wonder what happened to lady 1....

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On 7/11/2018 at 4:07 PM, JRWolfe said:

      Hey, I had nothing to do with the advertising dept !    But ,even back then...you should have walked.

 weighing close to Denver Broncos lineman ......that's just rude   no reason for it

On 7/11/2018 at 6:44 PM, BadBoy said:

On a related thread a gal indicated her name was Schatzy when she was first starting out. Get together, video it - it's a freaking great reality show concept.

ty   that would of been me!!!

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22 hours ago, smilin said:

Sabrina Black -  MY first escort experience!!  She was a true professional in every way !  For an hour I thought we were celebrating our first night of matrimony !

:)

 

remember  Sabrina   FONDLY!!!!

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13 hours ago, Sundance said:

ty   that would of been me!!!

  You were the "linebacker " ??? ( color me confused )

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On 7/12/2018 at 9:14 PM, TheFinerThings said:

My first was a beautiful Aussie girl.

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  Hottest Aussie escort I ever ran into in Colorado,was at a very private party in Ron Jeremy's hotel room, after one of his personal appearances here. Ron still asks about her...she was that memorable.

 

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Still remember my first experience over 10 years ago. Wonderful lady who I continued to see and got to know well until she retired a few years ago. I was of course super nervous, she put me at ease and took great care of me. When I left the hotel, I went through the back end of the lobby to go out a side door. I remember passing a man who gave me a strange look and I thought oh no he’s on to what I just did. When I got home I realized I put my shirt on inside out when I got dressed 😂 which explains the look I got ha ha rookie mistake.

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47 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  You were the "linebacker " ??? ( color me confused )

This seems awfully rude or am I missing something?  Definitely color me confused. 

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Yep, back in 2007, after I found TOB.  Researched and researched, then did more research.  Hem-hawed around and finally took the plunge with a well-reviewed provider who didn't ask for references.  As I still do, treated it as an appointment with a therapist (which it was).  After she satisfied herself I wasn't Uncle Leo, the fun began.

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My first was right here in Boulder in 1977 ( how time flies ).  I was aware of the Oyster  and there were adds in the Daily Camera, Rocky Mountain News, Denver Post and even Yellow Pages.  I had been through a very painful break up a few months prior to my first date  so on one cold January night I took the plunge to check out one of these places in Boulder at the time, there were several around in those days, it was a different time.  It was a wonderful experience and  thats when I discovered that indeed there were women who would spend time with a guy in need of companionship.  That was the beginning I was 24 at the time.   

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6 hours ago, Laci French said:

This seems awfully rude or am I missing something?  Definitely color me confused. 

    Not being rude at all .  She qouted the linebacker post.....which definitely colored me confused.  By her photos there is  no way she could be mistaken for a football player type body.  (Scroll around to find the original posts )

 

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15 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

    Not being rude at all .  She qouted the linebacker post.....which definitely colored me confused.  By her photos there is  no way she could be mistaken for a football player type body.  (Scroll around to find the original posts )

 

I didn’t even understand where the linebacker comment came from. Thanks for clarifying and in my book you still rock!

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It was about 1983 in the arcade at Kitty’s on Broadway. I was deciding on title when two ladies walked into the arcade. One of them approached me and said she was trying to get some money to go out to the bars and asked if I was interested. We stepped into a booth and I’ve been hooked every since.  😇

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A long time ago in a Springs that seems like another galaxy now, there was a seedy little go-go joint (if you know what that is you are f'ing old too) named the Honey Bucket.  I was rather taken by one of the dancers as the night wore on and the beer stacked up.  She must have noticed my drooling attention, and when closing time arrived she asked if I'd like to walk her home.  I of course thought "hell yeah!" and off we went.  After we arrived at her apartment a few blocks away she invited me in.  Thought I was quite the stud and pretty proud of myself to be picked for this honor - ahhh, the naivete of youth!!  Once inside off to the races and she treated me to things I had no idea existed!  Lying spent in the bed I watched as she bent over the side, picked up my pants, pulled out my wallet and removed most but not all of the money (don't remember how much any more) and announced "Just right! Thanks, babe!"  I was speechless as the realization hit that this was my first experience with a pro lol.  She tossed me my clothes and made it clear it was time to leave.  I left with all traces of innocence gone and a grin on my face.  There you have it - on my first I did not know it was my first till it was all over. 

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10 hours ago, Laci French said:

I didn’t even understand where the linebacker comment came from. Thanks for clarifying and in my book you still rock!

  Pretty sure that she meant to qoute a different post

 

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Misty, a red haired lady from the North of the big city. Met her from Bear’s Board. Man, was I a nervous wreck. Did everything you could think of, wrong. Misty taught me how to make the wrong things right. 

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