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LOL, give me a break.  This is great opportunity for the ladies to make money.  All they need to do is find some web sites where they can post a few ads and numbers.  Guys are still seeing ladies.  In fact, the demand will get higher because guys be thinking that the girl is hurting for business.  In the meantime, girls need to start contacting their past encounters or regulars and letting them know that they are around.  That should drum up business.  

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 "Lost all avenues of advertising" is exaggerating it a bit.  It took me one minute for me to find new sites to place ads in.  All it takes is just one ad and you will get some phone calls.  

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2 hours ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

 "Lost all avenues of advertising" is exaggerating it a bit.  It took me one minute for me to find new sites to place ads in.  All it takes is just one ad and you will get some phone calls.  

So now that you boasted that it took you all of 1 minute to find and new advertising sites, why don't you list them so the ladies will know?

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eroticmonkey

cityxguide

escortfish.ch

gfemonkey

girl-directory.com

adultlook.com

bedpage

 

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I don't want to be a jerk here but I don't think anyone would commit suicide over this.  People be angry and want to fight this out.  Girls will be trying to find the next hustle.  This law was necessary!  I am tired of the traffickers and the pimps and their bullshit.  

 

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1 hour ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't want to be a jerk here but I don't think anyone would commit suicide over this.  People be angry and want to fight this out.  Girls will be trying to find the next hustle.  This law was necessary!  I am tired of the traffickers and the pimps and their bullshit.  

 

You'll be surprised at what can put a person over the edge.

For some people this is total and complete loss of income.

There are people out there that are unable or slow to adapt to change.

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1 hour ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't want to be a jerk here but I don't think anyone would commit suicide over this.  People be angry and want to fight this out.  Girls will be trying to find the next hustle.  This law was necessary!  I am tired of the traffickers and the pimps and their bullshit.  

 

Interesting that you would be so stupid and clueless to post this right after JRWolfe posted that he had just attended a funeral for a woman who did, in fact, commit suicide.  If you don't want to be a jerk (your words) quit being such a jerk.

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2 hours ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't want to be a jerk here but I don't think anyone would commit suicide over this.  People be angry and want to fight this out.  Girls will be trying to find the next hustle.  This law was necessary!  I am tired of the traffickers and the pimps and their bullshit.  

 

Maybe you can help me out here. Is it just me, or something in the water in Texas? It seems like lots of posters who refers to Texas in their handle, come off like  pompous, know it all, condescending, offensive assholes. Not trying to be a jerk, but just asking.

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I don't believe in the Wolfe guy.  He seems like he is trying to milk something here; one of those drama types that just have to talk more about a topic.  If someone committed suicide "over this" they had other issues that have been dealing with for a long time.  The business got set back with the passage of this law but the ladies who really want to make a career out of hooking are still getting calls.  The ones who are having trouble making end's meat are in the wrong game and probably have "other problems."  I think people in Texas know that a lot of people bullshit so they take in testimonies and stories with a grain of salt.  

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5 minutes ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't believe in the Wolfe guy.  He seems like he is trying milk something here; drama type.  If someone committed suicide "over this" they had other issues that have been dealing with for a long time.  The business got set back but the ladies are still getting calls.  The ones who are having trouble making end's meat are in the wrong game and probably have "other problems."  I think people in Texas know that a lot of people bullshit so they take testimonies with a grain of salt.  

Please, don't make generalized statements about people from Texas. Speak for yourself, please. JrWolfe is a real friend to many on this board in real life. This Texas girl has empathy, something you clearly lack. It seems you are being the "drama type" by making assumptions about something you know nothing about. There is a post Gemma Chang started, "I". You might find it beneficial.

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Nah, he want to get some kind of drama shit out of his post.  He's not helping anyone by making that post.  All it does is to let us know that some people are weak and can't deal with change and will end it there.  How is that helpful?  Hookers and Johns in this boards overdramatize every little thing that changes the game.  Just deal with it.  I have to remind you that the hobby is still illegal so you aren't going to get empathy from most people.  Plug and play.  Cry all the way to the bank.  

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2 hours ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't believe in the Wolfe guy.  He seems like he is trying to milk something here; one of those drama types that just have to talk more about a topic.  If someone committed suicide "over this" they had other issues that have been dealing with for a long time.  The business got set back with the passage of this law but the ladies who really want to make a career out of hooking are still getting calls.  The ones who are having trouble making end's meat are in the wrong game and probably have "other problems."  I think people in Texas know that a lot of people bullshit so they take in testimonies and stories with a grain of salt.  

Garden variety low talent idiot trolling we are getting used to from our new Texas "friends".  JR is a long time, well known and widely liked member here. I have zero doubt he lost a friend and she her life. How fucking dare you come here just to insult them? Fuck off all the way back to the Houston rock you crawled out from under. And carry a countryman back with you under each arm. 

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1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

Trolls, your obvious lack of empathy makes you a poor fit for our community.  Please, go restart your own board where you may bash folks as much as you can get away with.  We don't need your divisiveness here. 

And for you trolls that didn't understand what the above meant, that means go back to your holes.

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19 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

And for you trolls that didn't understand what the above meant, that means go back to Your holes

It seems like the trolls are all from Texas.  Those poor girls, my heart felt sorrow for having to deal with this. Can I say asshats on here???

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13 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said:

It seems like the trolls are all from Texas.  Those poor girls, my heart felt sorrow for having to deal with this. Can I say asshats on here???

Trolls are everywhere.  I was raised in Texas by a gentleman that taught me how to treat and respect people. It starts by respecting youself first. Something clearly lacking with some people. Some of my favorite people in the world are Texans and damn proud of it.

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On 4/16/2018 at 7:09 AM, HoustonHobbyMan said:

LOL, give me a break.  This is great opportunity for the ladies to make money.  All they need to do is find some web sites where they can post a few ads and numbers.  Guys are still seeing ladies.  In fact, the demand will get higher because guys be thinking that the girl is hurting for business.  In the meantime, girls need to start contacting their past encounters or regulars and letting them know that they are around.  That should drum up business.  

In Colorado, yes, we are lucky because we have a few venues to advertise on. Unfortunately, there are ladies that worked in small cities, and the bigger boards didn't work for them and still won't. BP/CL was a big source for that, and with it gone it will affect them the hardest. The sites you mentioned  are not well known sites, and a lot of men that looked at BP/CL stumbled upon that are by accident so they wont be thinking that there has to other sites out there unless us ladies told them.

People have a hard time dealing with change, and this one was a pretty massive change which makes it worse. I have seen lots of changes in this industry, and have adapted, but even I was knocked off my feet and not in a good place for a few days. BP was a huge source for me where I was working(when it went down), and with it gone...I sat in a hotel all by myself reeling from everything going down trying to make sure I could get home, and checking on my other lady friends to make sure they were okay. I am so thankful for them, and the fact I have some pretty loyal regulars, but I can only imagine how devastated the new ladies, and ladies with few regulars are and what they are going through.

The other problem is this: cops are hitting this industry hard in multiple cities now and taking the ladies in charging them during a time when the money just isn't flowing. It is expensive to get an attorney, and to pay your fines not including if you get publicly advertised(because they love to shame us) then you deal with your family and friends backlash about what you are doing. Sites are still dropping or tweaking stuff to protect themselves, and this is all creating division among provides/clients when you think we would be sticking together as a unit.

Lastly, us ladies have to weight what we are willing to spend because I can tell you the sites dropping sure are not sending us back the money we spent on the assumption that we would get to advertise and make money there. Nothing sucks more than when you spent your last $50 to turn around and  poof, no site. We will never see a dime for what we lost and what attorney(if it is worth it) would fight that so we get back what we spent?

You make it sound so easy, but it really isn't as easy as you think. We take in consideration everything pertaining to this business to make money, be safe, and survive.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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1 hour ago, Shutterbug said:

Trolls are everywhere.  I was raised in Texas by a gentleman that taught me how to treat and respect people. It starts by respecting youself first. Something clearly lacking with some people. Some of my favorite people in the world are Texans and damn proud of it.

1 hour ago, Shutterbug said:

 

You certainly are a gentleman. So, are the many other clients I see from Texas.  Also, we have many wonderful ladies in our community that are from Texas. It makes me sad when I hear people bashing a whole state of people because some people from Texas are assholes. I have seen this in a few different threads now. But, YOU sir are 100% ALL GentleMAN. Mmm... 😉 

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16 hours ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't believe in the Wolfe guy.  He seems like he is trying to milk something here; one of those drama types that just have to talk more about a topic.  If someone committed suicide "over this" they had other issues that have been dealing with for a long time.  The business got set back with the passage of this law but the ladies who really want to make a career out of hooking are still getting calls.  The ones who are having trouble making end's meat are in the wrong game and probably have "other problems."  I think people in Texas know that a lot of people bullshit so they take in testimonies and stories with a grain of salt.  

JR is not trying to milk something here.  He does have finger on the pulse of the adult world.  With the advent and passage of FOSTA, several ladies were pushed over the edge.  the may have some other issues to begin with, but FOSTA made them fear that their lives were over and they had no recourse to support themselves.

16 hours ago, HoustonHobbyMan said:

Nah, he want to get some kind of drama shit out of his post.  He's not helping anyone by making that post.  All it does is to let us know that some people are weak and can't deal with change and will end it there.  How is that helpful?  Hookers and Johns in this boards overdramatize every little thing that changes the game.  Just deal with it.  I have to remind you that the hobby is still illegal so you aren't going to get empathy from most people.  Plug and play.  Cry all the way to the bank.  

Your insensitive comments are why some people get the responses here that make them not welcome here on TOB.

In the words of YODA...Troll you are.

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For the love of god people would you please stop associating people from Texas as being assholes!!!

Yes, there have been/are a couple of recent posters that seem to be assholes and they happen to be from Texas. There are also a few people from Colorado and various other areas of the country that are posting that are also assholes, why are they not being called out? I think there are a lot of small minded people on here that cant’t cut Texas people some slack. It seems like you are putting us all in the same category just because of the words of a few. 

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29 minutes ago, PieluvinTexan said:

For the love of god people would you please stop associating people from Texas as being assholes!!!

Yes, there have been/are a couple of recent posters that seem to be assholes and they happen to be from Texas. There are also a few people from Colorado and various other areas of the country that are posting that are also assholes, why are they not being called out? I think there are a lot of small minded people on here that cant’t cut Texas people some slack. It seems like you are putting us all in the same category just because of the words of a few. 

Another wonderful Texas gentleman right here! ^^^ I can attest to that! 😍😍😍

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19 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Maybe you can help me out here. Is it just me, or something in the water in Texas? It seems like lots of posters who refers to Texas in their handle, come off like  pompous, know it all, condescending, offensive assholes. Not trying to be a jerk, but just asking.

So Admiral am I included in this group? I have a Texas reference in my handle.

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Posted (edited)

41 minutes ago, PieluvinTexan said:

For the love of god people would you please stop associating people from Texas as being assholes!!

Theres always been an antipathy toward Texans in Colorado. I first heard anout it when I was 12 and watching Dallas on TV. Old people then in their 80's and natives of CO told me they hated TX drivers. Apparently TXns were crappy drivers in the old days ca. 1930s. And also many Txns came to CO I was told to hunt and it was dangerous to go out in the mountains during hunting season. Also CO was a Union state during Civil War and most Txns in 1860s were from Tennessee.

Irony is most people in CO are recent transplants making a mess of the parks and backcountry. Too may tourists in CO. Too many Coloradans in CO. Bring back the Grizzly bear. 

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Here is some insight for you.

Stereotyping based on ethnicity/skin color= Racism

Stereotyping based on where someone is geographically located in our country= Ignorant Dumbass

So the question for you all is where do you fit? You can’t be one without the other IMO

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39 minutes ago, PieluvinTexan said:

So Admiral am I included in this group? I have a Texas reference in my handle.

You know, I specifically thought about you when I changed the original post to say "lots" instead of "most".  You are NOT in the "lots" group.

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On 4/18/2018 at 1:33 AM, HoustonHobbyMan said:

eroticmonkey

cityxguide

escortfish.ch

gfemonkey

girl-directory.com

adultlook.com

bedpage

 

Erotic monkey stole my information, I have a NY ad on girl-directorty without one call, bedpage is dead... So tell me again how you are an expert on what a provider is going through. We are all living in the real world supporting a family, and loss of income is causing extreme stress.  Please, stay in Texas!!

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9 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said:

Erotic monkey stole my information, I have a NY ad on girl-directorty without one call, bedpage is dead... So tell me again how you are an expert on what a provider is going through. We are all living in the real world supporting a family, and loss of income is causing extreme stress.  Please, stay in Texas!!

👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 Enough said!

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2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Another wonderful Texas gentleman right here! ^^^ I can attest to that! 😍😍😍

As can I!! 😋  Not all of Texas sucks, just a few lol

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On 4/18/2018 at 3:43 PM, HoustonHobbyMan said:

I don't want to be a jerk here but I don't think anyone would commit suicide over this.  People be angry and want to fight this out.  Girls will be trying to find the next hustle.  This law was necessary!  I am tired of the traffickers and the pimps and their bullshit.  

 

The laws do not do anything to stop traffickers and the pimps. Just drives them more underground and harder for LE to find.

My perception is that you've never lost your means of supporting your family or suffered from the depression or hopelessness that can be associated with it. It is devastating. And suicidal ideation is real.

Just my dimes worth (Land of Lincoln, 8 cent tax on a dime leaves my 2 cents)

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On 4/18/2018 at 1:33 AM, HoustonHobbyMan said:

eroticmonkey

cityxguide

escortfish.ch

gfemonkey

girl-directory.com

adultlook.com

bedpage

 

EroticMonkey near as I could tell, pulled from TER

AdultLook looks like it pulled from BP

Bedpage attempts to be a piss poor clone of BP and trying to search for Denver, you get ads from across the country.

Never heard of the others before.

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On 4/16/2018 at 7:09 AM, HoustonHobbyMan said:

LOL, give me a break.  This is great opportunity for the ladies to make money.  All they need to do is find some web sites where they can post a few ads and numbers.  Guys are still seeing ladies.  In fact, the demand will get higher because guys be thinking that the girl is hurting for business.  In the meantime, girls need to start contacting their past encounters or regulars and letting them know that they are around.  That should drum up business.  

One can talk about what they know nothing about but are you a female in this hobby are you dealing with these issues???

On 4/16/2018 at 7:09 AM, HoustonHobbyMan said:

 

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