Too many bp are coming to tob

[vipblonde]

Just a warning to ladies and gents, screening has to be tougher.  Too many bp guys are contacting girls on this site and full of games, pic collectors, requiring proof I’m the same girl in my ad and reviews, ncns. All the garbage is coming to this site so be careful. 

[Laci French]

3 hours ago, vipblonde said:

Just a warning to ladies and gents, screening has to be tougher.  Too many bp guys are contacting girls on this site and full of games, pic collectors, requiring proof I’m the same girl in my ad and reviews, ncns. All the garbage is coming to this site so be careful. 

Just rude!  The providers that have lost their ability to post ads creates a HUGE financial burden on them.  

The gentlemen are the ones that pay our bills.  

There will be some adjustments for all of us and right now screening needs to be tight.  My advice is when you don’t like the contact someone makes with you to delete and move forward.  

 

[Ilikemike7691]

I would say 80 -90% of everybody on this site came from bp, there is nothing wrong with that. .but when you come here your game better be straight,  if it isn't people here will not tolerate it.

[HoustonHobbyMan]

BP isn't all that bad if you can screen properly.  I have had some good encounters through BP and some really lousy ones through
Eccie and many no shows through P411.  

[Bravo1]

6 hours ago, vipblonde said:

Just a warning to ladies and gents, screening has to be tougher.  Too many bp guys are contacting girls on this site and full of games, pic collectors, requiring proof I’m the same girl in my ad and reviews, ncns. All the garbage is coming to this site so be careful. 

Am I misinterpreting your comment?  I read it as though you feel like a hobbyist shouldn't be able to confirm that the woman in the photos is actually the person he is going to meet?  That doesn't seem like an unreasonable request to me.  I agree with the above comment, I think you probably have a significant percentage of people who started at BP that then migrated over to TOB because overall it is just more professional. More migration of guys from BP to TOB will equate to more business transactions, how is that a bad thing?

[JRWolfe]

Fully expect the ladies could be heading to the legal brothels in Nevada.

[MeganMarie4u]

2 hours ago, Bravo1 said:

Am I misinterpreting your comment?  I read it as though you feel like a hobbyist shouldn't be able to confirm that the woman in the photos is actually the person he is going to meet?  That doesn't seem like an unreasonable request to me.  I agree with the above comment, I think you probably have a significant percentage of people who started at BP that then migrated over to TOB because overall it is just more professional. More migration of guys from BP to TOB will equate to more business transactions, how is that a bad thing?

IMO all the questions that BP hobbyist could need answered are in reviews and listings here on TOB... hobbyist verify pics in ever review.... 

[Bravo1]

28 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said:

IMO all the questions that BP hobbyist could need answered are in reviews and listings here on TOB... hobbyist verify pics in ever review.... 

There ARE photos in every listing but that doesn't guarantee that they are photos of the provider or that they are not 15 years old and no longer an accurate representation.  I realize there may be a learning curve with BP transplants (I am a BP transplant by the way) but they will figure it out and become part of the fun or they will not go along and they will find another resource. 

[NoCoGeezer]

2 hours ago, Bravo1 said:

I realize there may be a learning curve with BP transplants (I am a BP transplant by the way) but they will figure it out and become part of the fun or they will not go along and they will find another resource. 

Agreed.

And this goes for providers and the White Knight leaning denizens of the board as well. Every one will need to be a bit more tolerant of things for a while as the "outsiders" will be bringing their strange ways to the semi-sealed bubble this site is (eg. the previously mentioned verification pic requests; the more blunt language to providers and or in discussions).

[Admiral C]

5 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

Fully expect the ladies could be heading to the legal brothels in Nevada.

OK...with the closure all being nationwide, that would make for a huge number of providers hitting Nevada......Think of all the great joke material about providers getting "laid off"

[Raine-7379]

I am getting the NSNC and guys not even willing to pass the very basic screening, like a name.  I will not lower my safety standard for the BP orphan clients.  They should be respectful and kind no matter what venues they use. 

[Laci French]

13 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said:

I am getting the NSNC and guys not even willing to pass the very basic screening, like a name.  I will not lower my safety standard for the BP orphan clients.  They should be respectful and kind no matter what venues they use. 

Totally agree and there will be a learning curve as we all adapt.  

Little surprised we haven’t seen a huge number in new members...maybe lurkers?

[Admiral C]

22 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said:

I am getting the NSNC and guys not even willing to pass the very basic screening, like a name.  I will not lower my safety standard for the BP orphan clients.  They should be respectful and kind no matter what venues they use. 

No you should not, nor should anyone else. Think about it.....with the confusion, adjustment, desperation, learning curves, migrations, etc....you KNOW local five-O departments are bound to try to use it.

[NoCoGeezer]

12 minutes ago, Laci French said:

Little surprised we haven’t seen a huge number in new members...maybe lurkers?

Or, being moderated. Remember, new sign-ons are in moderated status for the first 10(?) posts. Could be mods are swamped and or have been weeding out some of the more volatile posts the more "soft" (for lack of a better/PC phrase) longtime members of this board would stroke out on.

Edited April 8, 2018 by NoCoGeezer

[Laci French]

I can’t even imagine what’s going on behind the scenes 😳

[Vassago]

I agree with the OP. Sometimes you need to be rude to get your point across. With the good comes the bad. BP gets a lot of activity so you’re bound to get a lot of time wasters and dick picers in with what I would guess is only a handful of good clients. 

My suggestion on this topic has always been paid membership.

Hang in there VIP Blonde. Shit’s going to get a lot tougher before it gets any better.

good luck

[LeAnne Moira]

IMO as long as everyone treats people with respect then I really don't care where someone originates from.

[Admiral C]

22 minutes ago, Vassago said:

I agree with the OP. Sometimes you need to be rude to get your point across. With the good comes the bad. BP gets a lot of activity so you’re bound to get a lot of time wasters and dick picers in with what I would guess is only a handful of good clients. 

My suggestion on this topic has always been paid membership.

Hang in there VIP Blonde. Shit’s going to get a lot tougher before it gets any better.

good luck

Not sure paid membership is a good plan. There is a fine line between affordable, yet costing enough to deter whomever paying hopes to deter. MUCH more serious issues are the LEGAL ramifications of payments. Suddenly, everything happening gains a financial motive in the eyes of the law. Tax issues and questions about that income arise. Any possible cross national border payments might catch the attention of terrorism excuse watchdogs and law dogs. Tricky ...very tricky.

[pfunk]

42 minutes ago, Vassago said:

I agree with the OP. Sometimes you need to be rude to get your point across.

Personally, as a tradesman myself, I've found the opposite to be true. Both for customers, and business people. 

You get far more flies with honey, than vinegar. "Firm" does not mean rude

If either side starts to act rude, it's time to say "I'm sorry! We're just not a good fit. Good luck!". 

[vipblonde]

I never meant to be rude.  I’m just stating that it’s harder to take any of the callers seriously anymore now that bp is gone and they are all coming to tob.  Before all of this mess going on every text/call I received on my number listed on review sites and p411 I took seriously and communication was mutually respectful. Last 48 hrs have been terrible, so many games, so many no shows, so many explicit talk and so many demands of more and more pics.  I’ve not had to deal with this behavior from clients on any review boards before. 

[Suzi]

I agree  need to more  careful  because to many new looking coming from BP but don’t want to be verified 

[Vassago]

4 hours ago, pfunk said:

Personally, as a tradesman myself, I've found the opposite to be true. Both for customers, and business people. 

You get far more flies with honey, than vinegar. "Firm" does not mean rude

If either side starts to act rude, it's time to say "I'm sorry! We're just not a good fit. Good luck!". 

You are right. Firm is a better choice of word than rude. I guess my point was that some people only respond to strength, meaning as you put it, firmness. Unfortunately these days, one person’s ‘firm’ is another person’s ‘rude’. Rude in this case, in my opinion, would be the taunting texts and vile comments made at these ladies. I didn’t find vipblonde’s post rude. I agree with her about the majority of the BP crowd. 

[DesireeDolce]

I refuse to entertain any clients associated with BP. 

[amcbl1]

Just started to look at the provider listings for today and already found at least 2 newbies that had the same stolen Asian porn star/models that they did on BP. So clients BEWARE of more disappointments and/or ripoffs to be found here as more of them migrate over.

Edited April 8, 2018 by amcbl1
Grammar correction

[Sensual Goddess Rhiannon]

13 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

Fully expect the ladies could be heading to the legal brothels in Nevada.

Jr I actually paid a visit last summer to the bunny ranch so the seed has already been planted lol.

[Hunter VanDyke]

17 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

Fully expect the ladies could be heading to the legal brothels in Nevada.

I bet they are getting overrun with new girls! I wouldn't be surprised if they're turning girls away because no more rooms are available.

[JRWolfe]

4 hours ago, Sensual Goddess Rhiannon said:

Jr I actually paid a visit last summer to the bunny ranch so the seed has already been planted lol.

  Nice seeing you at Exxxotica .But I don't know what surprised me the most. Your daughter being married or you going to the Bunny Ranch ! 

 

[JRWolfe]

39 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

I bet they are getting overrun with new girls! I wouldn't be surprised if they're turning girls away because no more rooms are available.

  Guess we'll have to open a new ranch.

[Hunter VanDyke]

10 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  Guess we'll have to open a new ranch.

Build it and we will come. I Iove that idea 😍

[parkercole]

6 hours ago, amcbl1 said:

Just started to look at the provider listings for today and already found at least 2 newbies that had the same stolen Asian porn star/models that they did on BP. So clients BEWARE of more disappointments and/or ripoffs to be found here as more of them migrate over.

the ladies of TOB sadly have to experience lots of really stupid shit! and it's crazy to think that the shady actions of BP men will test these really great ladies of TOB! hang in there gals!

I also noticed three new ladies on here amcbl 1 that are hijacking internet model pictures!  I just don't fu#*ing get it? now really shady fake ladies (pimps?) are trickeling onto this site!  one new lady that comes to mind is stealing Alyssa Sorto's pictures. like does that dumb ass not realize that the tin eye and google image icons are embedded to their pictures to research them? I mean I would jump at the opportunity if Alyssa was even available for a date! man that would be epic!!!