Posted March 22, 2018 There have been many threads over the years on things that turn you on or turn you off. Was curious though on any very specific small physical things that may seem minor to other people that are either a deal killer or make you jump in enthusiastically regardless of other factors? For example: Nipple rings and tattoos on a woman's lower arm = deal killer for me. But, long nipples or wonderful abs and it is all back on the table again. The struggle is real.... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 Wonderful ads are a real crowd pleaser for me to. Also manicured, colored finger nails. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 It's complicated. In general, I'm a face then leg/butt guy. Can overlook bad legs if the butt is nice, or visa-versa. Not a fan of tattoos, really hate sleeves, giant tattoos covering large amounts of real estate. Also despise boob tattoos, across upper chest. No issues with piercings. In real world, I see a woman, and even though maybe has some/lots of the "negatives", easily will think "I'd tap that". Again, usually because pretty face, nice legs and butt. And probably their personality is shining through as the kicker. ASPs, since generally don't get a face pic, the other things take bigger precedence, and with a donation involved, I get a lot pickier when dealing with tats and other physical matters. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 Deal killer boob/sleeve or just too many tattoos in general A great rack and sexy eyes and hair can make me overlook it for example Gia Foxx or Parisbound are very high on my list both are gorgeous. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 Pictures of youngin's or marital/SO picks at a lady's incall. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 I learned the hard way...no Ladies under 33 ever again, skill set might be good, but life lessons still need to be honed, au naturel no thanks. Tats are no issue, I prefer more slim Ladies but as Sophia Loren said in 1965: 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 I take the side where tat's are a huge turn on for me but as long as they are tasteful. And the main factor that kills everything no matter how much good quality you have in everything else is attitude, if that's not there then the whole thing just completely dies 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 55 minutes ago, fishndude57 said: I learned the hard way...no Ladies under 33 ever again, skill set might be good, but life lessons still need to be honed, au naturel no thanks. Tats are no issue, I prefer more slim Ladies but as Sophia Loren said in 1965: I wonder how many young guys you're going to have saying: Who is Sophia Loren,,,or for that matter Gina Lolabrigida, Bridget Bardot, Kim Novak, Joey Heatherton, Ann Margaret and others to numerous to list. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 41 minutes ago, ilovewomen said: I wonder how many young guys you're going to have saying: Who is Sophia Loren,,,or for that matter Gina Lolabrigida, Bridget Bardot, Kim Novak, Joey Heatherton, Ann Margaret and others to numerous to list. Raquel Welch... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 Everyone's different. A variety of people and personalities and body types excite me. I think i appeal to a variety of people as well. I give special and devoted attention, enjoy our interactions, and look for what is unique about evey client. No real deal breakers for me unless someone is lying or has a bad temper. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2018 4 hours ago, NoCoGeezer said: It's complicated. In general, I'm a face then leg/butt guy. Can overlook bad legs if the butt is nice, or visa-versa. Not a fan of tattoos, really hate sleeves, giant tattoos covering large amounts of real estate. Also despise boob tattoos, across upper chest. No issues with piercings. In real world, I see a woman, and even though maybe has some/lots of the "negatives", easily will think "I'd tap that". Again, usually because pretty face, nice legs and butt. And probably their personality is shining through as the kicker. ASPs, since generally don't get a face pic, the other things take bigger precedence, and with a donation involved, I get a lot pickier when dealing with tats and other physical matters. I think that every time I see a woman over 30 but I'm a slut. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 Well, I guess I'm the only guy who loves tattoos on a woman, the more the better, although I do prefer tattoos of flowers and nature to snakes crawling out of skulls, etc. Take note, inked up ladies, BadBoy will appreciate and be appreciative. On the other hand, it doesn't bother me if a lady doesn't have any ink, I just feel sorry for her The only real deal-killers for me are a woman who is obviously really overweight and out of shape (fit and chubby is OK), a heavy smoker, someone with BO, or someone with a rotten attitude. Only met a couple so far. Oh yeah, once I walked in and the gal was already naked and fairly drunk on a really messy bed, and when I went into the bathroom to take a leak there was a used condom floating in the bowl. Needless to say there was no DATY that night, but I have to confess that it wasn't a total deal-killer, I just had to stick to Greek, which actually wasn't bad. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 Deal killer - a "can we just get this over with" attitude. The opposite - a sincere smile and genuine laugh, add spinner build and I am defenseless hehe. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 19 hours ago, Everhard said: There have been many threads over the years on things that turn you on or turn you off. Was curious though on any very specific small physical things that may seem minor to other people that are either a deal killer or make you jump in enthusiastically regardless of other factors? For example: Nipple rings and tattoos on a woman's lower arm = deal killer for me. But, long nipples or wonderful abs and it is all back on the table again. The struggle is real.... Fortunately, nipple rings on a woman's arm are very rare. I might meet this woman just for the novelty of it. Seriously, though, the only real turnoff for me is a bad attitude. A good personality can compensate for almost anything. I've chosen companionship based only on hot pics and been severely disappointed. I've also chosen dates with providers who I knew I wasn't into physically, but who were fun in the forums and had a great time. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 4 hours ago, daaacz said: ... Seriously, though, the only real turnoff for me is a bad attitude. A good personality can compensate for almost anything. I've chosen companionship based only on hot pics and been severely disappointed. I've also chosen dates with providers who I knew I wasn't into physically, but who were fun in the forums and had a great time. ^^ THIS ^^ 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 15 hours ago, gr8owl said: Deal killer - a "can we just get this over with" attitude. I hate it when providers act like this. Seriously, like providers you get paid an insane hourly wage. Can you not put in an honest days work for an honest days pay??? Some providers need to learn loosen up, and have good time. Figure out your niche and run with that. Show some gratitude for the gentlemen paying your bills and helping your survive and thrive in this world. 😝 11 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 17 hours ago, gr8owl said: Deal killer - a "can we just get this over with" attitude. The opposite - a sincere smile and genuine laugh, add spinner build and I am defenseless hehe. I once met a lady who used to advertise here and didn’t allow reviews. I found out why she didn’t allow reviews very quickly. 10 minutes into a 60 minute appoint she says “can we just do it now”. Needless to say I got up, told her I understand why doesn’t allow reviews and that Inwould tell everyone I knew about her. She cussed at me, said I wasn’t getting my donation back and to get the hell out. She still advertises BP and on TOB once in a blue moon. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 Deal killer too many tattoos.....I am back in the game if she has a pussy....makes me forget about the tattoos. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 23, 2018 On 3/23/2018 at 4:31 AM, ilovewomen said: I wonder how many young guys you're going to have saying: Who is Sophia Loren,,,or for that matter Gina Lolabrigida, Bridget Bardot, Kim Novak, Joey Heatherton, Ann Margaret and others to numerous to list. Raquel Welch! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 24, 2018 If you are a spinner that likes msog you had me at “hello”. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 24, 2018 13 hours ago, daaacz said: Seriously, though, the only real turnoff for me is a bad attitude. A good personality can compensate for almost anything. I've chosen companionship based only on hot pics and been severely disappointed. I've also chosen dates with providers who I knew I wasn't into physically, but who were fun in the forums and had a great time. I agree with Bit Banger and daaacz! Looks are a lot lower, on my list, than personality, attitude, skills, and hygiene. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 24, 2018 For me, there are lots of deal breakers, but they all have to do with performance\skills and not looks. As a marathon untranslated 69 guy who prefers outcall, you can kind of imagine the list. No UTF, no DATY, no 69, no outcall, too sensitive are all deal breaker policies. Even after that, I may well see the lady only once if she is not insatiably "into it". Looks\tats etc. come way down that list .( FYI, I omitted hygiene issues as I would HOPE that goes without saying). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 25, 2018 On 3/22/2018 at 6:57 PM, BadBoy said: Well, I guess I'm the only guy who loves tattoos on a woman, the more the better, although I do prefer tattoos of flowers and nature to snakes crawling out of skulls, etc. Take note, inked up ladies, BadBoy will appreciate and be appreciative. On the other hand, it doesn't bother me if a lady doesn't have any ink,. Been telling you that FOREVER !!! If I had a dime for every time I over heard a girl ask a guy if he liked her ink and he said yes and once out of hearing,he would say something about how tattoos ruined her sex appeal. I would be the owner of the MGM Grand in Vegas. If I had a nickle for every time I'm at a cattle call for models and they are rejected because of their ink, I would be able to buy both the MGM Grand and Caesars Palace free and clear with cash. I would have retire years ago if I had a penny for every argument a girl gave me about her ink. ( and own a mansion in every major city ) Your statement does underline what I said as moderator at the Exotic Dancer Gentleman's Club Expo's Dancer Panel. " 50% of the customers do not like tats .Customers that like inked girls also like girls without ink. Why lose half of your potential income by getting tattoos. " Same goes for escorts, how much more business would a girl get minus her ink ? Besides,on the programs COPS and Dog,The Bounty Hunter they appreciate inked girls because they are easier to spot and arrest. Don't take personal offense ladies, just telling it from a business point of view. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 25, 2018 On 3/22/2018 at 8:56 PM, gr8owl said: Deal killer - a "can we just get this over with" attitude. The opposite - a sincere smile and genuine laugh, add spinner build and I am defenseless hehe. Agree completely get it over with is no fun I guess at the end of the day enough is enough 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 26, 2018 Butt dimples. Or lower back dimples. I prefer to call them butt dimples. Very sexy. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 26, 2018 I wouldn't call them deal killers I'd say more like mood ruiners but here are mine -- Facial stubble - I hate you, and so does my pussy. Dudes with no daty/dato couth- no you may NOT lick my ass then my pussy. Gtfoh with all that. Delusion - in any way. No I will not fuck you for free bc you are "so good in bed or have a huge cock" you can actually add "huge cock" to my list as well. Just not my thing. I might catch some shit for this one but - I'm also a little off put by someone who can't finish or takes foorreevveerrrrrrr to cum. I'm definitely not in a rush, but do I want to marathon bone the entire time we are together? No. Not you or brad Pitt could change my mind. Flaccid penis' jack hammer fucks Men who can't take direction. I know you've been licking pussy for 40 years but when I politely direct you to what I like, but you continue to do your own thing - well that's just fuxking rude. 16 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 26, 2018 (edited) Deal breaker for me is when I am contacted by a person and they did not take the time to read my advertisement. Especially if they want to try to haggle my rate because they think that it's too much or they ask for a duration of time that I don't offer like 15 minutes or 30 minutes. I'll pass, thanks but no thanks! You can always come see me for the duration of time that is offered and if you are a quickie you can establish a relationship. I will accommodate your special request with a duration of time less than an hour. If you don't have a decent reputation, thanks but no thanks on that also. Gentleman that have a tendency to nitpick and there reviews are all over the place from yes to so-so to no. This gives me a scenario in my head. I'm going to pass, thanks but no thanks! I will choose not to put myself in some situation where I know the chemistry is not going to work because beforehand you pissed me off. 😁💋 Most ladies have a memory that can last a lifetime so to the gentleman that in the past whon have not behaved and then decide to behave, you will have references provided, special treatment provided and ladies will exceed every expectation that you have. In retrospect you get what I'm saying. Edited March 26, 2018 by Kandi Apple 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 26, 2018 On 3/25/2018 at 6:34 AM, JRWolfe said: Been telling you that FOREVER !!! If I had a dime for every time I over heard a girl ask a guy if he liked her ink and he said yes and once out of hearing,he would say something about how tattoos ruined her sex appeal. I would be the owner of the MGM Grand in Vegas. If I had a nickle for every time I'm at a cattle call for models and they are rejected because of their ink, I would be able to buy both the MGM Grand and Caesars Palace free and clear with cash. I would have retire years ago if I had a penny for every argument a girl gave me about her ink. ( and own a mansion in every major city ) Your statement does underline what I said as moderator at the Exotic Dancer Gentleman's Club Expo's Dancer Panel. " 50% of the customers do not like tats .Customers that like inked girls also like girls without ink. Why lose half of your potential income by getting tattoos. " Same goes for escorts, how much more business would a girl get minus her ink ? Besides,on the programs COPS and Dog,The Bounty Hunter they appreciate inked girls because they are easier to spot and arrest. Don't take personal offense ladies, just telling it from a business point of view. I did not realize that the actual title of this thread was "Is getting a tattoo a good idea if you want to be a mass-market consumer item?" I thought this thread was about what turns us on (or off), and I think tattoos on a beautiful woman are very erotic, just my personal opinion, but I thought that was what this thread was about. I guess Mr. Wolfe is right, the ladies with tattos have made the decision that they don't want to be mass-market consumer items, which makes me appreciate them even more. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 26, 2018 (edited) 35 minutes ago, BadBoy said: ..., just my personal opinion, but I thought that was what this thread was about. ... You’re right, BadBoy. This thread about personal opinions took a dive down the tattoo rabbit hole. That said, JR is providing solid professional advise. If you’re looking for a career in modeling, best pay attention. If not, just disregard. Personally I do not find tattoos erotic. But well planned & executed tattoos may appeal to my sense of esthetics. While a full body suit does not turn me on, I might drive across town just to appreciate the art work. Tattoos almost always have personal meaning to the wearer, often with an interesting story. Something to discuss (or not, being too private) during the non-erotic periods of a session. Edited March 26, 2018 by Bit Banger 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2018 On 3/26/2018 at 0:00 PM, BadBoy said: I did not realize that the actual title of this thread was "Is getting a tattoo a good idea if you want to be a mass-market consumer item?" I thought this thread was about what turns us on (or off), and I think tattoos on a beautiful woman are very erotic, just my personal opinion, but I thought that was what this thread was about. I guess Mr. Wolfe is right, the ladies with tattos have made the decision that they don't want to be mass-market consumer items, which makes me appreciate them even more. That's hilarious and I love it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
