Laci French

Your worst nightmare...

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3 hours ago, 2Big said:

Ha ha, let's just hope a fat fuck like Ron Jeremy doesn't drop dead on top of someone. 

Total ass you are for the response. He died btw so asshole let that sink in.

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15 minutes ago, Laci French said:

Total ass you are for the response. He died btw so asshole let that sink in.

Although you are mistaken about Ron Jeremy, I agree 2Big is an ass (maybe he's a fat fuck!?!) 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ron_Jeremy

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1 hour ago, Laci French said:

Total ass you are for the response. He died btw so asshole let that sink in.

      Ron Jeremy's sister lives in Denver,she would have called me if he had passed,as would many of our mutual friends. Ron had heart surgery in 2013,but he survived as many at last years Exxxotica would confirm because he was there. I have his home and cell numbers and will call him later tonight. Nice guy and does not deserve the 2-Big comment at all.

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I wasn’t talking about Ron Jeremy. For fucks sake this thread isn’t that hard to keep up with.  

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1 hour ago, Laci French said:

I wasn’t talking about Ron Jeremy. For fucks sake this thread isn’t that hard to keep up with.  

   Actually you did. I just reread the thread .  2Big stated that he hopes Ron Jeremy doesn't drop dead on someone. You, Laci , then stated  to 2Big    "He died asshole, so let that sink in."     So you were talking about Ron. Scroll up and see,it wasn't that hard to follow.

That said..just got off the phone with Ron.He is alive and well, and explained why he will not be at Exxxotica this year.

The most recent porn star death btw...is Cara Lott.

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Srry but reading through, the way I took Lacie's comment is that she was referring to her client NOT Ron Jeremy... And that's why she would take offense to the comment

If I am correct in my assumption I'm sorry to hear that news lacie

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No, I never said or implied Ron Jeremy died.  

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On 3/15/2018 at 8:51 AM, Laci French said:

Your worst nightmare...

 
Your designated lovebug for the hour has a heart attack during the appointment.  Do you know cpr? How do you respond? 
 
I lived this yesterday and I want everyone here to take a few moments to consider what you would do. If you don’t know cpr learn it and do not ever just leave someone. The  good Samaritan law is in place to protect you.
 
Please no jokes.

Damn. This just made me think all I could do was call 911 and hold their hand -_-.  Reading this convo just made me go and find this https://serve.dc.gov/dc-be-ready  .  I'm definitely going to find time to get trained.  I guess i've been lucky in my 8 yrs so far providing to have never been in such a situation.

I'm so sorry to read that your friend died.

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It appears to me that there are real stupid assholes that respond to serious topics with stupidity shame on you

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1 hour ago, JRWolfe said:

   Actually you did. I just reread the thread .  2Big stated that he hopes Ron Jeremy doesn't drop dead on someone. You, Laci , then stated  to 2Big    "He died asshole, so let that sink in."     So you were talking about Ron. Scroll up and see,it wasn't that hard to follow.

That said..just got off the phone with Ron.He is alive and well, and explained why he will not be at Exxxotica this year.

The most recent porn star death btw...is Cara Lott.

As Laci said, this thread isn’t that hard to follow. She never said Rom Jeremy died. Only someone who wants to be difficult or an asshole would assume that she did.  BTW, you do know what assume means don’t you?

 

 

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5 minutes ago, airamericavet65 said:

It appears to me that there are real stupid assholes that respond to serious topics with stupidity shame on you

A couple assholes have shown their stupidity.

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Laci started a discussion about a tragic event that happened to her.  One which everything she did was textbook, one that she should be considered a Hero. 

We all know Laci as a quick witted, sassy Lady who likes to laugh and have fun. We also know that Laci is the most caring person any of us have met.

Typical Laci, she is trying to help others. Offering to put together training for other providers (yes guys discretion can't allow for providers and hobbiest to participate together). Remember Laci requested no jokes. But the "awakening" IS for all of us to find out more, to seek training.  

We owe Laci the Respect to follow her wishes. Seek the training, help others get trained. Check with your companies to see if they have training or if you can help put together training. Honor Laci. 

People have thrown out stats on how CPR has minimal success. FUCK THAT! Doesn't matter if just one person is saved, it's worth its weight in gold.

Stepping off my soapbox now

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10 hours ago, Strange_Ice said:

Srry but reading through, the way I took Lacie's comment is that she was referring to her client NOT Ron Jeremy... And that's why she would take offense to the comment

If I am correct in my assumption I'm sorry to hear that news lacie

^^ this ^^ was the way I interpreted the comments.

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When I took CPR, the class was told that doing something is better than doing nothing.

For those who say it is a waste of time, you obviously have not taken CPR classes.

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1 hour ago, ilovewomen said:

When I took CPR, the class was told that doing something is better than doing nothing.

For those who say it is a waste of time, you obviously have not taken CPR classes.

I know CPR, and learned the progressions from the 70's 2:1 to the latest version 30:2. I've seen it work successfully.  Well worth it. Better to act and help than stand back and watch.

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Doing whatever you can to help another person is what being human is about despite all our faults we still should have compassion for others who are in trouble. Learning something like CPR can help you possibly save a life every effort you make is worthwhile

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I am so sorry that this happened to you Laci - I know that you hold real affection for your clients and this must be very traumatic.  You have my deepest sympathy, both for the loss of your friend, and what you had to go through.  It truly is your worst nightmare.  Thank God you are so strong.

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Laci you are the best, doing what you did to try and help a person in dire straits. Knowing there could be consequences afterwards. If there was a provider of the year you would definitely get my vote. 

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On 3/21/2018 at 9:15 PM, ilovewomen said:

As Laci said, this thread isn’t that hard to follow. She never said Rom Jeremy died. Only someone who wants to be difficult or an asshole would assume that she did.  BTW, you do know what assume means don’t you?

 

 

   Reread   her answer to 2Big.       If she didn't mean that Ron Jeremy died.....WHO did she mean was dead ?    

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Just now, JRWolfe said:

   Reread   her answer to 2Big.       If she didn't mean that Ron Jeremy died.....WHO did she mean was dead ?    

As already stated, she was talking about the client she was referring to in the op that this thread was originally talking about in the first place.

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9 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

   Reread   her answer to 2Big.       If she didn't mean that Ron Jeremy died.....WHO did she mean was dead ?    

It's not that hard to figure out who died. Read the thread from the beginning.

This thread was about a client who had a heart attack during an appointment with Laci.

Everythign was progressing fine in the thread with condolences for the client having the heart attack and how much of nightmare it had to be, how Laci stayed and preformed CPR until the paramedics arrived, and then a brief discussion about Laci hosting a CPR class.

Then 2Big had to open up his trap and make a rude, unnecessary comment about Ron Jeremy in the thread

Laci responded to 2Big by saying " Total ass you are for the response. He died btw so asshole let that sink in."

Since this thread was about her client having a heart attack, it's not difficult for a normal person who isn't trying to be difficult to determine that she is talking about her client who died.  Not that difficult at all.

Not once did she say or imply Ron Jeremy was dead.

So far, only you and pfunk thought Laci was talking about Ron Jeremy. Kinda puts you guys in the minority.

 

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Take the classes and research all you can. CPR has a high case of not being done correctly and causing more damage. Elderly patients have a much harder time recouping from the physical damage inflicted in a successful cpr situation to boot. Not everyone can agree if just breathing, just compressions, or both are ideal. 

Lovers, please disclose if your heart is healthy enough for activities. Most will happily adjust their norm to accommodate without discrimination. Everyone needs to be armed and prepared for the worst and hope you never have to use your knowledge.

Bless you Laci. Take care of you as well. 

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On 3/22/2018 at 7:55 AM, ilovewomen said:

When I took CPR, the class was told that doing something is better than doing nothing.

For those who say it is a waste of time, you obviously have not taken CPR classes.

To be clear - I didn't say CPR is a waste of time.  At all.  It is absolutely worth doing each and every time.

My comment was really meant more to let Laci know that even in the best hands, it isn't successful very often, and that nothing is her fault.

CPR is worth doing, and the latest recommendations make it even easier with 'chest only' CPR, not breathing. AED's are pretty simple, and some will walk you through the steps; however, I think having basic training is best, because doing something you've never done with a dying person right in front of you is pretty intimidating.  Having practiced it before you really do it for real helps.

We should all do our best in any life threatening situation.  Hopefully that is more clear. :)

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18 minutes ago, Phil-anderer said:

To be clear - I didn't say CPR is a waste of time.  Nor did anyone else, but don't confuse him with the facts. At all.  It is absolutely worth doing each and every time.

My comment was really meant more to let Laci know that even in the best hands, it isn't successful very often, and that nothing is her fault.

CPR is worth doing, and the latest recommendations make it even easier with 'chest only' CPR, not breathing. AED's are pretty simple, and some will walk you through the steps; however, I think having basic training is best, because doing something you've never done with a dying person right in front of you is pretty intimidating.  Having practiced it before you really do it for real helps.

We should all do our best in any life threatening situation.  Hopefully that is more clear. :)

Very well said, was already clear to most (I think), and I agree completely.

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43 minutes ago, Phil-anderer said:

To be clear - I didn't say CPR is a waste of time.  At all.  It is absolutely worth doing each and every time.

My comment was really meant more to let Laci know that even in the best hands, it isn't successful very often, and that nothing is her fault.

CPR is worth doing, and the latest recommendations make it even easier with 'chest only' CPR, not breathing. AED's are pretty simple, and some will walk you through the steps; however, I think having basic training is best, because doing something you've never done with a dying person right in front of you is pretty intimidating.  Having practiced it before you really do it for real helps.

We should all do our best in any life threatening situation.  Hopefully that is more clear. :)

Thanks for clearing that up.

My apologies for mis-reading what you wrote.

I whole heartedly agree.

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1 hour ago, Phil-anderer said:

To be clear - I didn't say CPR is a waste of time.  At all.  It is absolutely worth doing each and every time.

My comment was really meant more to let Laci know that even in the best hands, it isn't successful very often, and that nothing is her fault.

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I was reading your original post as “why bother?”  Sorry 😞

You are 110% correct, nothing was Laci’s fault. As I said before, she deserves gold stars for doing the right thing. 

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