Artnerd

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Hi everyone! 

So here it goes, I am newb on here and I am just trying to find a regular girl. A few years back I had a regular girl that I met at a club she danced at, and we eventually stared meeting outside the club setting for more than just lap dances lol. Long story short one day she just disappeared and stopped responding to text and stopped working at the club so that’s when it ended. So because of how we met I have never really contacted a provider for dates until now. I have met with three ladies here since I made my account, the first two were great. Tonight not so much, when I met her it just wasn’t there and I couldn’t get into it. I feel bad because she’s nice and very easy to talk to but I just didn’t feel it at all. Is this a common thing? Personally I prefer to stay with someone I connect with but didn’t experience that tonight.

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Not sure I understand your question... is it common to not hit it off with every single person, every single time? I'd say yes - we are all human.  You indicate she was nice and very easy to talk to but you just 'weren't feeling it' so it kinda seems like the issue was yours - maybe you were having an 'off' night?   It's nice to find a "favorite" or "regular" but you can't realistically expect every other experience with different people to be similar.  xoxo xo

 

Danielle Rae 

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10 hours ago, Artnerd said:

Hi everyone! 

So here it goes, I am newb on here and I am just trying to find a regular girl. A few years back I had a regular girl that I met at a club she danced at, and we eventually stared meeting outside the club setting for more than just lap dances lol. Long story short one day she just disappeared and stopped responding to text and stopped working at the club so that’s when it ended. So because of how we met I have never really contacted a provider for dates until now. I have met with three ladies here since I made my account, the first two were great. Tonight not so much, when I met her it just wasn’t there and I couldn’t get into it. I feel bad because she’s nice and very easy to talk to but I just didn’t feel it at all. Is this a common thing? Personally I prefer to stay with someone I connect with but didn’t experience that tonight.

I have a feeling that you need to rethink your approach.

This is a escort site.

The lady met you and did her part on offering companionship to you.

 Try not to be so self entitled.

Maybe you should go back to the strip club and pay the girls to tell you what you want to hear. They love them some sugar daddies.

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10 hours ago, Artnerd said:

Hi everyone! 

So here it goes, I am newb on here and I am just trying to find a regular girl. A few years back I had a regular girl that I met at a club she danced at, and we eventually stared meeting outside the club setting for more than just lap dances lol. Long story short one day she just disappeared and stopped responding to text and stopped working at the club so that’s when it ended. So because of how we met I have never really contacted a provider for dates until now. I have met with three ladies here since I made my account, the first two were great. Tonight not so much, when I met her it just wasn’t there and I couldn’t get into it. I feel bad because she’s nice and very easy to talk to but I just didn’t feel it at all. Is this a common thing? Personally I prefer to stay with someone I connect with but didn’t experience that tonight.

Everyone is different every time nothing is always the same thank you will find that even if you have a favorite each encounter will not be the same enjoy who you're with at the time you are with her

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Maybe you just didn't feel any sexual attraction. That can happen, but most of the time all works out well in my experience. The only advice I can offer is to really pay attention to board presence (if there is one),  ads, website and reviews to try to determine your compatability ahead of time. I like to compare this to massage often. Sometime we will link up with someone that totally rocks our world, and sometimes it will be just an average massage, but nonetheless, we did get the service. Have fun, and try to focus on the girl as a person instead of a menu (not saying you did that), but the guys that study and pick a lady without any pre-conceived expectations seem to have the most fun. 

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11 hours ago, Artnerd said:

Hi everyone! 

So here it goes, I am newb on here and I am just trying to find a regular girl. A few years back I had a regular girl that I met at a club she danced at, and we eventually stared meeting outside the club setting for more than just lap dances lol. Long story short one day she just disappeared and stopped responding to text and stopped working at the club so that’s when it ended. So because of how we met I have never really contacted a provider for dates until now. I have met with three ladies here since I made my account, the first two were great. Tonight not so much, when I met her it just wasn’t there and I couldn’t get into it. I feel bad because she’s nice and very easy to talk to but I just didn’t feel it at all. Is this a common thing? Personally I prefer to stay with someone I connect with but didn’t experience that tonight.

Two reactions: 1) This is not the first place I'd look for a "regular girl."  You might want to get a bit clearer regarding what you're looking for, as others have suggested.  Why not return engagements with the first two who were so great? 

2) My guess is,  you start talking about wanting "to stay" with someone you think you connect to here, you're going to find a lot of the girls here disappearing on you too.  

Good luck.

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2 hours ago, Danielle Rae said:

Not sure I understand your question... is it common to not hit it off with every single person, every single time? I'd say yes - we are all human.  You indicate she was nice and very easy to talk to but you just 'weren't feeling it' so it kinda seems like the issue was yours - maybe you were having an 'off' night?   It's nice to find a "favorite" or "regular" but you can't realistically expect every other experience with different people to be similar.  xoxo xo

 

Danielle Rae 

I think it was me now that you mention it. It’s been a long week... I see your point about not expecting similar experiences with different people. I don’t really want the same thing every time that’s the main reason why I came here. 

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2 hours ago, Kandi Apple said:

I have a feeling that you need to rethink your approach.

This is a escort site.

The lady met you and did her part on offering companionship to you.

 Try not to be so self entitled.

Maybe you should go back to the strip club and pay the girls to tell you what you want to hear. They love them some sugar daddies.

You’re right. She did do her part.  Not really a fan of clubs anymore just not interested anymore, at least on a regular basis.

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Thanks everyone. I didn’t mean to sound like I only want one experience with one person all the time and I surely don’t want to run anybody off. I want to experience new people that’s why I am here. You all bring up great points, I will think about what I want out of the site and approach it from that way. I am eager to meet new friends and try to relax a little more.

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In this business you are meeting someone blindly to "hook up". Sometimes, even if that person seems to have what you are looking for, it doesn't mean you two will "click". Chalk it up to a learned experience, and find someone you do enjoy. Not every lady is for you.

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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In general it may take quite a few gals before you find what I think you are looking for, an ATF that you can see regularly. Some connections are good some are not. Really depends on chemistry. Best of luck!

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Just be glad you found this site early on. I went through a lot of trial and error using back page before I discovered this site.

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On 2/24/2018 at 10:15 PM, Artnerd said:

Hi everyone! 

So here it goes, I am newb on here and I am just trying to find a regular girl. A few years back I had a regular girl that I met at a club she danced at, and we eventually stared meeting outside the club setting for more than just lap dances lol. Long story short one day she just disappeared and stopped responding to text and stopped working at the club so that’s when it ended. So because of how we met I have never really contacted a provider for dates until now. I have met with three ladies here since I made my account, the first two were great. Tonight not so much, when I met her it just wasn’t there and I couldn’t get into it. I feel bad because she’s nice and very easy to talk to but I just didn’t feel it at all. Is this a common thing? Personally I prefer to stay with someone I connect with but didn’t experience that tonight.

Ok, then you don't see that person again and you keep trying to find the connection you're looking for with someone else.  

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On 2/25/2018 at 9:40 AM, Happymon said:

 This is not the first place I'd look for a "regular girl."  You might want to get a bit clearer regarding what you're looking for.

 

   It was rather clear that he was looking to be a regular client of a girl again. After all, he was a regular of a stripper he met at a club. Some guys prefer to see the same girl often rather than constantly see a different one each time. Some day he will find that girl and be her regular.

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54 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

   It was rather clear that he was looking to be a regular client of a girl again. After all, he was a regular of a stripper he met at a club. Some guys prefer to see the same girl often rather than constantly see a different one each time. Some day he will find that girl and be her regular.

I'm thrilled it was clear to you and I appreciate your insight regarding variety.  I'll join you in prayer for his storybook ending.  

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