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???? And Monte Christo’s. I thought this thread was about setting up your wife in a bar full of strangers so you could troll for the night.  Help me  Dslate,  I don’t understand your logic.

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So dude goes to bar/lounge, sees hot babe, thinks she is flirting back, buys her drinks, and nonetheless despite his best efforts she leaves with someone else.  Oh, horror of horrors ............ this never happens .............. such abuse!!!  <sarcasm font off>

Common guys, practically story of my young life.  Hardly a hanging offense by the gamer couple.  As to why this couple wants to play this game .... do any of you want whatever it is that turns you on fires up your fantasy urge etc. to be bashed?  Asked to explain why? Can anyone really explain why what turns them on, turns them on?  This seems pretty harmless to me.  Hell, if the stood up guy plays his cards right her ditching him, if obvious, may garner him the sympathy score hehe.B)

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3 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

So dude goes to bar/lounge, sees hot babe, thinks she is flirting back, buys her drinks, and nonetheless despite his best efforts she leaves with someone else.  Oh, horror of horrors ............ this never happens .............. such abuse!!!  <sarcasm font off>

Common guys, practically story of my young life.  Hardly a hanging offense by the gamer couple.  As to why this couple wants to play this game .... do any of you want whatever it is that turns you on fires up your fantasy urge etc. to be bashed?  Asked to explain why? Can anyone really explain why what turns them on, turns them on?  This seems pretty harmless to me.  Hell, if the stood up guy plays his cards right her ditching him, if obvious, may garner him the sympathy score hehe.B)

Thank you for speaking up, I always wait for your errrr...wisdom. 

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10 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

So dude goes to bar/lounge, sees hot babe, thinks she is flirting back, buys her drinks, and nonetheless despite his best efforts she leaves with someone else.  Oh, horror of horrors ............ this never happens .............. such abuse!!!  <sarcasm font off>

Common guys, practically story of my young life.  Hardly a hanging offense by the gamer couple.  As to why this couple wants to play this game .... do any of you want whatever it is that turns you on fires up your fantasy urge etc. to be bashed?  Asked to explain why? Can anyone really explain why what turns them on, turns them on?  This seems pretty harmless to me.  Hell, if the stood up guy plays his cards right her ditching him, if obvious, may garner him the sympathy score hehe.B)

Exactly

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48 minutes ago, petey-9950 said:

???? And Monte Christo’s. I thought this thread was about setting up your wife in a bar full of strangers so you could troll for the night.  Help me  Dslate,  I don’t understand your logic.

Well petey I pretty much just liked his tale and then got off track for a moment and mentioned that I loved bennigans monte cristo. It was a wonderful sandwich and worthy of a comment. Probably a good thing they are not around anymore as it was essentially a fried heart attack

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8 minutes ago, fishndude57 said:

Thank you for speaking up, I always wait for your errrr...wisdom. 

And I always wait breathlessly, anxiously for your approval. :cool:

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6 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Sounds to me like the REAL fantasy is you and your wife just want to go to the bar and dump the tab off on somebody else.

BINGO!

 

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I'm curious... does the poor basted at least get to watch? Maybe rub one out in the corner?:D

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So a guy can spend between 250-500 for a wonderful hour with a provider, or they can go to shot guns and spend 50-75 for a lap dance for two songs and it’s all ok. Yet some seem to feel bad for the guy(s) who spend 7-15 bucks on a drink and get 20-40 minutes of nice flirty conversation with a good looking woman. If you get blue balls after a conversation and expect more because you buy a drink or two, whose problem is that really.

 

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18 minutes ago, Dslate said:

Well petey I pretty much just liked his tale and then got off track for a moment and mentioned that I loved bennigans monte cristo. It was a wonderful sandwich and worthy of a comment. Probably a good thing they are not around anymore as it was essentially a fried heart attack

Try Stubbens they have great Monte visits!!😁

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13 minutes ago, Dslate said:

So a guy can spend between 250-500 for a wonderful hour with a provider, or they can go to shot guns and spend 50-75 for a lap dance for two songs and it’s all ok. Yet some seem to feel bad for the guy(s) who spend 7-15 bucks on a drink and get 20-40 minutes of nice flirty conversation with a good looking woman. If you get blue balls after a conversation and expect more because you buy a drink or two, whose problem is that really.

 

Someone else’s. This is called growing up and becoming wise!!

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This reminds me of when I was in high school, working at the lake campground.  One day, a guy in an RV rolled thru to pay, and told me his wife was hot as fuck, and wanted me to visit her when he wasn't there.  This guy looked like he was from central casting from Deliverance.  

I didn't bite.  2 days later, when they were leaving, his wife was driving, topless, and leaned out the window saying "sorry you missed your chance!".  She was incredibly hot. Win some, lose some.

That said, I think teasing some poor schmuck on purpose isn't cool.  If you like to be watched, then find some dude at the bar, tell him you want him to watch you and your wife, and be done with it.   

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20 hours ago, Cecilia said:

I'm curious... does the poor basted at least get to watch? Maybe rub one out in the corner?:D

NO, but Melissa Sterling volunteered earlier. Now THAT would be awesome. Then she joins in...oh geez, now we're drifting into my fantasy, when this is supposed to be Dslate's gig. 

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20 hours ago, petey-9950 said:

Try Stubbens they have great Monte visits!!😁

 

20 minutes ago, pitbull said:

NO, but Melissa Sterling volunteered earlier. Now THAT would be awesome. Then she joins in...oh geez, now we're drifting into my fantasy, when this is supposed to be Dslate's gig. 

The wifey is fine with that

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On 2/21/2018 at 9:17 PM, Dslate said:

So a guy can spend between 250-500 for a wonderful hour with a provider, or they can go to shot guns and spend 50-75 for a lap dance for two songs and it’s all ok. Yet some seem to feel bad for the guy(s) who spend 7-15 bucks on a drink and get 20-40 minutes of nice flirty conversation with a good looking woman. If you get blue balls after a conversation and expect more because you buy a drink or two, whose problem is that really.

 

I think most of us that have to travel to boring places on business would be more than happy to enjoy that - you're just being piled on by TOB groupthink.

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Thank you for reinforcing the reasons I do this instead of playing the “bar flirt game”. But honestly after 7 minutes, if nothing is going to happen, it never will. When I sit at a bar, it always starts out with just me. Then I’m in a crowd of folks. I like engaging people in conversation. My guess is someday this plan of yours will not just involve you, the guy and your wife. It’s going to involve you, your wife, and 7 others in ways you never saw coming.

 

Believe in earthquakes. The Aeon of Apep is here.

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For example, I'd be deep in my whiskey when I'd pull out the green Clarke tin and start playing with Jenny's Tits

 

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Playing the game right now. 

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Here is another thread that has outlived its life and is starting to stink up the board.

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On ‎2‎/‎24‎/‎2018 at 3:12 PM, lex7 said:

 

I think most of us that have to travel to boring places on business would be more than happy to enjoy that - you're just being piled on by TOB groupthink.

Sorry ILW, still want to make one last comment:  Lex7's comment disturbs me more than the original post, which only indicated that Dslate is pretty self absorbed, but wasn't really all that offensive.  Lex7's comment on the other hand, where he asserts that any time people point out that respect for others is important is evidence of "groupthink" is really annoying.

Of course there is "groupthink" and thank God that the majority of people still think that abusing another innocent person, without his consent, is simply wrong.  This is the same issue as raised on other threads about jerks who harass the ladies by text, social media, etc.  The entire country is rotting from the head down, and I mean from the asshole-in-chief, and it is becoming socially acceptable to abuse others, insult them, waste their time, steal their money, etc., simply because it is possible to get away with it.

Yeah, there is another name for "groupthink" and it is called "morals," and some people still respect them.

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57 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

... Yeah, there is another name for "groupthink" and it is called "morals," and some people still respect them.

I have a problem with “groupthink” being equated with “morals”.

“Groupthink” tries to impose their moral values on others, be that shutting down conservative speakers at UC-Berkeley, allowing BLM to pillage towns because they feel that they have a grievance,  or having conservatives & feminists shutter the websites supporting our hobby. It is a cudgel used to ensure compliance with a Progressive agenda. And right now, IMHO, it’s off the rails.

“Morals” on the other hand are a personal code. Something used to judge oneself, not others. Something to guide your actions. 

When one refers to “morals” they are often thinking of old style, self-reliant values, which contradict the “groupthink” values of social uniformity.

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7 hours ago, BadBoy said:

Sorry ILW, still want to make one last comment:  Lex7's comment disturbs me more than the original post, which only indicated that Dslate is pretty self absorbed, but wasn't really all that offensive.  Lex7's comment on the other hand, where he asserts that any time people point out that respect for others is important is evidence of "groupthink" is really annoying.

Of course there is "groupthink" and thank God that the majority of people still think that abusing another innocent person, without his consent, is simply wrong.  This is the same issue as raised on other threads about jerks who harass the ladies by text, social media, etc.  The entire country is rotting from the head down, and I mean from the asshole-in-chief, and it is becoming socially acceptable to abuse others, insult them, waste their time, steal their money, etc., simply because it is possible to get away with it.

Yeah, there is another name for "groupthink" and it is called "morals," and some people still respect them.

And since you had to go there so will I.  First you make all sorts of assumptions about the OP (most of which appear to me to be totally wrong) and proceed to jump down his throat with vigor.  I won't restate in detail how ridiculous the idea is that the other guy that decided on his fricking own to flirt with the OP's wife and buy her drinks was somehow done wrong.  You seem to think that entitled him to free sex with said lady and that somehow the OP ripped him off.  A dozen people give rep to your ill thought out attack on OP and more pile on with their equally off the mark theories, and a couple get snarky as soon as someone posts a differing perspective in favor of OP.  Yeah no group think here!!

One more time what I see.  The guy does this for his wife and his marriage.  Having strange guys hit on her in a bar, buy her drinks and drool in anticipation of maybe taking her home and getting in her panties turns her on, reminds her that she is still sexy and makes her horny.  He has found an inventive way, that his wife is all in with, to keep the heat turned up in their sex life with the end result sounding like he and wife and only them return home to have sex like rabbits the rest of the night.  But you lecture him and anyone who appears to see his side with "morals".  Wow.  I guess in your book it is better - more moral -  to use the "wife can't/won't/don't" excuse to go out and cheat on her with as many escorts as time and money will allow than for this guy to come up with imaginative ways to keep the wife's interest in the intimacy game and go home and fuck said wife.

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10 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

And since you had to go there so will I.  First you make all sorts of assumptions about the OP (most of which appear to me to be totally wrong) and proceed to jump down his throat with vigor.  I won't restate in detail how ridiculous the idea is that the other guy that decided on his fricking own to flirt with the OP's wife and buy her drinks was somehow done wrong.  You seem to think that entitled him to free sex with said lady and that somehow the OP ripped him off.  A dozen people give rep to your ill thought out attack on OP and more pile on with their equally off the mark theories, and a couple get snarky as soon as someone posts a differing perspective in favor of OP.  Yeah no group think here!!

One more time what I see.  The guy does this for his wife and his marriage.  Having strange guys hit on her in a bar, buy her drinks and drool in anticipation of maybe taking her home and getting in her panties turns her on, reminds her that she is still sexy and makes her horny.  He has found an inventive way, that his wife is all in with, to keep the heat turned up in their sex life with the end result sounding like he and wife and only them return home to have sex like rabbits the rest of the night.  But you lecture him and anyone who appears to see his side with "morals".  Wow.  I guess in your book it is better - more moral -  to use the "wife can't/won't/don't" excuse to go out and cheat on her with as many escorts as time and money will allow than for this guy to come up with imaginative ways to keep the wife's interest in the intimacy game and go home and fuck said wife.

Thank you, I couldn’t of said it any better. 

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Hey look everybody, I got gr8owl and BitBanger to agree on something!  My day is complete!

I guess that means I am entirely wrong.  Oh well as Rosanarosana Dana used to say: "Nevermind."

Love to you all and especially to Dslate, hopefully it continues to be you that your wife decides to go home with, and congratulations on 29 years - you must be doing something right.  BTW, how did it go last night?

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On 2/28/2018 at 10:04 PM, Winston_Smith said:

and?  give us the "blow by blow"...so to speak 😆

quoting myself LOL.   

well crap Dslate, you can't come in here, stir up the hornets...and not close the loop on the story?  Well i guess you could but, meh, that kinds sucks.  LOL

read my quoted post and well...give us the "blow by blow" details...so to speak!

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