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On 1/28/2018 at 8:57 AM, BadBoy said:

As I read all this whining, etc., I keep thinking to myself: Am I the only one who is usually pleasantly surprised when the door opens?

Absolutely not whenever the door opens there was always a smile and a friendly  hello that sets the tone for a fun time

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I'm curious as to the gentleman's "expectations" regarding photo updating. Does the gentleman want the photos updated with both weight gain and weight loss? And does the gentleman want the photos updated with a certain amount of weight fluctuation? What amount would that be, 5 lb, 10 lb, 15 lb?

 I'm not being snarky or sarcastic, I'm just truly curious about the expectations. As all of the ladies, and perhaps not as many gentlemen know, women wear their weight as differently as they wear their hair. Some of us can add or subtract 5 lbs without it being noticable while for others 5 lbs could mean a different size. Some of us can fluctuate 10lbs and it only shows in our face, while others can move 15lbs up or down before noticing their bra got a little snugger/looser.

Being a chunky lady myself I probably have more "wiggle" room before others take notice. :D

I went back and looked through my pics because I personally don't spend a lot of time taking naughty selfies, so my gallery is not updated too often. And while my photos do show weight fluctuation (since they weren't all taken on the same day) they also show my favorite and best angles because who the hell uses the ugly ones?

So what are the "expectaions"?

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On 1/28/2018 at 5:41 AM, 2Big said:

I see no reason, other than to deceive the buyer, for an escort to post "different looks" on her website. After all, you're hiring a hooker not an actress. Well, she may be acting, but you know what I mean....

Just do the following experiment. Send an E-Mail asking her to post an unretouched selfie on her website, then wait for the reaction which is going to be....nada, zilch, nothing, crickets...

Honestly, I change my hair color sometimes more frequently then I change my sheets. And my gallery has pics of several diff colors and even a few that I'm sporting a wig! Has nothin to do w trying to be deceptive.  My different looks reflect who i am and if a gent is so critical that he finds disappointment in my unpainted fingernails then frankly he's wound too tight for me.  This is supposed to be about having fun and lately these threads  are anything but.  Lighten up folks!

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I would say the complaints would be more along the lines of if you are a thicker lady, don't have pics that show you as petite. Personally I have been lucky as the ladies I have seen were no suprise from the pictures,  other than looking better than the adds show in a lot of cases.

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1 hour ago, Cecilia said:

I'm curious as to the gentleman's "expectations" regarding photo updating. Does the gentleman want the photos updated with both weight gain and weight loss? And does the gentleman want the photos updated with a certain amount of weight fluctuation? What amount would that be, 5 lb, 10 lb, 15 lb?

 I'm not being snarky or sarcastic, I'm just truly curious about the expectations. As all of the ladies, and perhaps not as many gentlemen know, women wear their weight as differently as they wear their hair. Some of us can add or subtract 5 lbs without it being noticable while for others 5 lbs could mean a different size. Some of us can fluctuate 10lbs and it only shows in our face, while others can move 15lbs up or down before noticing their bra got a little snugger/looser.

Being a chunky lady myself I probably have more "wiggle" room before others take notice. :D

I went back and looked through my pics because I personally don't spend a lot of time taking naughty selfies, so my gallery is not updated too often. And while my photos do show weight fluctuation (since they weren't all taken on the same day) they also show my favorite and best angles because who the hell uses the ugly ones?

So what are the "expectaions"?

My personal opinion on galleries are use professional photos and put in a gallery of selfies that you update every so often.  These are the best galleries from the ladies that do this. 

The professional photo's almost always look great and some new selfie updates every month or two really compliments the professional shots.  We should all know that the professional shoots are usually done with the best outfits, lighting, poses and usually some type of filter or some photo shop involved.  The selfies often contain more of your personality and since they're updated it's easy to track the possible style you're into at the time.

After reading this it could be inferred on updating pro shots too, They're expensive we all know that keep them as long as they're representative. 

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2 hours ago, Cecilia said:

I'm curious as to the gentleman's "expectations" regarding photo updating. Does the gentleman want the photos updated with both weight gain and weight loss? And does the gentleman want the photos updated with a certain amount of weight fluctuation? What amount would that be, 5 lb, 10 lb, 15 lb?

 . As all of the ladies, and perhaps not as many gentlemen know, women wear their weight as differently as they wear their hair. Some of us can add or subtract 5 lbs without it being noticable while for others 5 lbs could mean a different size. Some of us can fluctuate 10lbs and it only shows in our face, while others can move 15lbs up or down before noticing their bra got a little snugger/looser.

Being a chunky lady myself I probably have more "wiggle" room before others take notice. 

So what are the "expectaions"?

     Men are visual creatures,you simply must use accurate photos that reflect you.  Once again...add ink...get new photos...gain/lose noticeable weight...get new pictures....go from long hair to bald...get new pictures.  Above att,do not use photos of your teenage years,while you are 40....thats as bad as stealing/using someone elses.

Being visual creatures, men can tell a photo scam upon first meeting. Don't fool yourself into thinking that men cannot tell the differences in weight fluctuations.

 

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9 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

I see the most discussed topic is back up again. While in Vegas this past week, I noticed a lot of girls looked better in person than their promotional pictures. (please tone down the photo shop and look like yourself )  . Of course there were several that no longer looked like the photos they were autographing....different hairstyles,different hair colors,weight gain,new ink.  (Take note,girls with tats had almost no fan lines ).

As discussed often here....stop with the stolen pictures,update yours often. Your body is your product...as hard nosed as that sounds. Being a gentleman,I won't out two ladies in a public forum that have had such a huge weight gain that they no longer resemble their photos.

Embrace yourselves ladies...every client likes something different...appeal to their  with your current looks and your bookings should increase.

100% best advise and non abrassive! This is sincere too. I can feel it. We all need to learn to become more honest with how we view and represent ourselves in life. Improve what you can.

Yes I agree! No shame in that!😀

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10 hours ago, speed67 said:

My personal opinion on galleries are use professional photos and put in a gallery of selfies that you update every so often.  These are the best galleries from the ladies that do this. 

The professional photo's almost always look great and some new selfie updates every month or two really compliments the professional shots.  We should all know that the professional shoots are usually done with the best outfits, lighting, poses and usually some type of filter or some photo shop involved.  The selfies often contain more of your personality and since they're updated it's easy to track the possible style you're into at the time.

After reading this it could be inferred on updating pro shots too, They're expensive we all know that keep them as long as they're representative. 

Thank you Mr. Speed! I certainly appreciate you taking the time to share your viewpoint.

Being that I'm oftentimes a sporadic participant I forget the importance of showcasing my product, so to speak. I will now keep my selfies more updated though. :-)

10 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

     Men are visual creatures,you simply must use accurate photos that reflect you.  Once again...add ink...get new photos...gain/lose noticeable weight...get new pictures....go from long hair to bald...get new pictures.  Above att,do not use photos of your teenage years,while you are 40....thats as bad as stealing/using someone elses.

Being visual creatures, men can tell a photo scam upon first meeting. Don't fool yourself into thinking that men cannot tell the differences in weight fluctuations.

 

LoL, I promise you that I don't fool myself about men noticing weight fluctuations. :D But women do judge themselves harder than men judge them so I was curious at what point men considered the change enough to warrant new photos. And again, I'm not being negative in any way, I'm curious by nature.

JR, thank you for your perspective sweetheart.

 

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3 hours ago, Cecilia said:

... I was curious at what point men considered the change enough to warrant new photos. 

 

It’s not the pounds but the look. Going from a flat tummy to a muffin top, for example. Or going from curvy to DUNLAPS. By the same token, going from perky C cup to flat triangles would be disappointing. Or going from that curvy figure to boney hips. 

If you’re slaving away in the gym to lose a few pounds, don’t forget that you’re building muscle mass which weighs more than fat. Use the mirror, not the scale, to gauge your progress.

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3 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

It’s not the pounds but the look. Going from a flat tummy to a muffin top, for example. Or going from curvy to DUNLAPS. . Use the mirror, not the scale, to gauge your progress.

  Using the mirror is great advice. Its what aspiring models are told to do to practice their poses. when AIM-Healthcare was still in business,Sharon Mitchell used to instruct to find their curves in the mirror as no two girls can pose the best way to show themselves off. Poses you could pull off at one age,may not suit you at another.

if a lady does NOT like what she sees in the mirror, she should be hard on herself just enough to improve herself by hitting the gym,doing crunches between phone calls, meet Jenny Craig or go get a bad ink decision removed. Maybe see a tanning salon or a beautician to get better than a homemade dye job.

Do whatever it takes to be comfortable in your own skin.

The more secure you feel about your appearance , the better your photos will turn out.

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A PS to the above. When you practice finding your curves in a mirror...also pay attention to your facial expressions.  VERY few girls can pull off the pout look,instead of sexy...most of them look like a photo from a police lineup.

Even if you blur your face or cut off your head in your ads. Practice a sexy smile in the mirror,you would be surprised to find out how much your facial expression effects your body language.

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4 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

Do whatever it takes to be comfortable in your own skin.

The more secure you feel about your appearance , the better your photos will turn out.

This, sir, is the absolute best way to put it. Be the best you possible rather than an imitation of someone else.

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Pictures in a forum such as this are meant to put our best "self" forward. We have professional pics, and there are also some very good amateur photos. Unless you are going for really high dollar you are not going to get  the model types showing up at your door. Denver market has many of you gentlemen bitching  over  the going rate of 200 to 250 dollar bills.

But, we really do need to use our photos that represent us as we look now. If we have put on weight, then our pics need to reflect this. If we've lost weight, then ths too, should reflect  this. This isn't rocket science., its truth in advertising. But then truth in this illegal business is a misnomer, now isn't it. Stevie, you will always have people who don't put there real self's appearance  out there.  That is life.

Speaking for myself only, sometimes my word is all I've got. And when I show up at your door you can expect me to appear as I put myself out here to be. And many times my word is all I 've got. So if I tell someone something, you can take it to the bank its true. If I say I am 107 lbs. then it is true. If I say I am 56 years old, then it is true.  If I say I've worn a  size 5 jeans since high school- then  it is true. So really Stevie, is not this thread really about truth in advertising?

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3 hours ago, Jez UaBriain said:

Pictures in a forum such as this are meant to put our best "self" forward. We have professional pics, and there are also some very good amateur photos. Unless you are going for really high dollar you are not going to get  the model types showing up at your door. Denver market has many of you gentlemen bitching  over  the going rate of 200 to 250 dollar bills.

 

I would very respectfully offer a bit of a different viewpoint (not to actually disagree with Jez), but I have met quite a few ladies that are definitely "model types" working right here in Denver, right now, in the $250 - $350/hr range.  Maybe that is what Jez meant by "high dollar," but I think it is relatively reasonable.  If that is important to you, a bit of research can help you locate a stunning companion without breaking the bank.  TIP:  if appearance is extremely important to you, you might want to try some FBSM ladies - I can think of four or five locals that would put most Victoria Secrets models to shame and who charge less than $200 per hour (but it is for FBSM).

Frankly, I worry a lot less about "model type" appearance these days and my current ATFs are all in their late 30s and 40s and would probably call themselves "MILFs" - I think they are gorgeous and, damn, are they hot in the sack.  Lots of young "model types" lack skills and personalities, but to each his own.  Either way, and not to derail the thread - I think you should post honest, recent photos, and I agree, be sure to smile.

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On 1/31/2018 at 4:22 PM, BadBoy said:

 I can think of four or five locals that would put most Victoria Secrets models to shame and who charge less than $200 per hour (but it is for FBSM).

Really? 

If it is ok, would you name your favorite 4 or 5 Denver FBSM ladies that charge less than 200/hr ?

Thanx!

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On 1.2.2018 at 0:22 AM, BadBoy said:

 I can think of four or five locals that would put most Victoria Secrets models to shame and who charge less than $200 per hour (but it is for FBSM).

 

 

18 hours ago, Blaze said:

Really? 

If it is ok, would you name your favorite 4 or 5 Denver FBSM ladies that charge less than 200/hr ?

Thanx!

Yeah, their names are Mrs. Palmer and her four daughters. Lol. Victoria Secrets-type models yanking your crank. Yarite. Keep dreamin';)

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12 minutes ago, 2Big said:

Yarite.  Keep dreamin'  ;)

Heh.  It's ok to joke about it!  And, really, from a certain perspective, it doesn't seem possible for a really ordinary guy like me to hug and get handled by a Victoria's Secret or Playboy model woman.  But me, I have no doubt it's true.  I used to frequent an absolute stunning FBSM fox, Alia Violet.  She charged 200, did an excellent Swedish on the back, and on the flip she really knew how to handle it.  She's gone now, moved to Mexico.  So I know they exist, and using photos and recommendations I'll probably find another to use regularly. 

My current FBSM artist is pretty good at it, very nice to me, and not a VS model type.  It was a really good run for a while but now she's raising her price so I'm shopping around . . .  What I love about her is all the body-to-body she does to accompany it.  I guess if I had to pick I'd go for less "model type" and more body contact. 

The ultimate FBSM in my opinion includes body-to-body contact, the more the better, plus UTF.  Yes, this combination is findable, and some of them are beautiful to boot.  Some FBSM fans put the quality of the massage above all.  Not as important to me.

If that description (B2B + UTF) makes you think of someone, please post or PM!   Thanks!

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So, I guess I should warn my clients when I decide to spike my hair, get a nose ring, and go all smokey eyed?!?! ;):P

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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4 hours ago, SultryKitten said:

So, I guess I should warn my clients when I decide to spike my hair, get a nose ring, and go all smokey eyed?!?! ;):P

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

Don't forget the pictures. :D

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On 2/7/2018 at 1:57 PM, SultryKitten said:

So, I guess I should warn my clients when I decide to spike my hair, get a nose ring, and go all smokey eyed?!?! ;):P

Samantha, please. 

Do Not get a nose ring!  

Please!

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Frankly, if my chosen lady brings the all out 69 attack, I'm not overly concerned about pictures, weight and looks. That said, how about we inject some humor....You book a session with  " Miss Candylicious Humpasaurus". The door opens and the girl looks nothing like her pictures. Ask her...." Hi! Is Candylicious Humpasaurus here?"  "Oh" she says, " I'm Candylicious Humpasaurus!"........You say...."Uh...no you're not"....and go home.

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10 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Frankly, if my chosen lady brings the all out 69 attack, I'm not overly concerned about pictures, weight and looks. That said, how about we inject some humor....You book a session with  " Miss Candylicious Humpasaurus". The door opens and the girl looks nothing like her pictures. Ask her...." Hi! Is Candylicious Humpasaurus here?"  "Oh" she says, " I'm Candylicious Humpasaurus!"........You say...."Uh...no you're not"....and go home.

Been there, done that.

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