Posted January 26, 2018 ive been on TOB for years and I want to "participate" but I cant seem to bring myself to it. Its fear, illegal, scarry, confusion. most providers seem to reject the idea that I'm afraid and consider it a copout. its not. cant a provider trust that I haven't had sex in a decade and don't know how to do it except here? and yet it hasn't happened.... all I want is for it to happen and yet it doesn't and I don't seem to let it. I could move somewhere its legal or something and it still doesn't change I'm a nice guy and I'm losing my mind....thx for listening 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 26, 2018 Try to ignore some of the bravado driven posts above, and try to keep in mind: No one says you have to have sex, or do anything else specific during a session. It is about “time and companionship”. If you feel more comfortable with a “talk” meeting, or a “cuddle” meeting, or whatever, try that. I’ve reviewed your other posts, assuming you’re not just hung up on the screening processes or paying for time without physical intimacy, you will be fine. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
