Boomstick

A question for the ladies and experienced gents

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I've yet to get into the game for a number of reasons, so I continue to watch the forums for information that will be useful when the time comes.  I pay particular attention to threads started by the ladies because the info I may need is coming directly from the source.

I've read through the posts about people tracking mud through apartments, being obnoxious by repeatedly texting, or showing up to an appointment smelling like ass, and I keep having the same thought:  "What the hell?  This is just common sense!".  The threads have, however, raised an interesting question to me that the women and experienced guys may be able to answer.  Are there any personal etiquette preferences or general "best practices" that might go against common sense thinking?

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Most ladies here have a website with their preferred etiquette preferences listed. If they don't you can generally ask if they have any protocols that you need to be aware of.

However you will notice that most of us ladies have a rhythm going of similarities in our preferences. Still good to check though (:

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11 hours ago, Boomstick said:

I've yet to get into the game for a number of reasons, so I continue to watch the forums for information that will be useful when the time comes.  I pay particular attention to threads started by the ladies because the info I may need is coming directly from the source.

I've read through the posts about people tracking mud through apartments, being obnoxious by repeatedly texting, or showing up to an appointment smelling like ass, and I keep having the same thought:  "What the hell?  This is just common sense!".  The threads have, however, raised an interesting question to me that the women and experienced guys may be able to answer.  Are there any personal etiquette preferences or general "best practices" that might go against common sense thinking?

Commom sense is more than half the battle. Take a shower, be on time and be polite. Check her site or ad to see how she wants to be contacted, and things like how and where to leave the contribution. Other than that, just use common sense and you will be fine. 

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The time decided upon includes arrival, talking, and clean up as needed.

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Just to add to Audrey's wonderful summary above - Hi 5 Sister - if you smoke or chew, popping an Altoid prior to our encounter doesn't cut it. At all! As a former smoker, I can smell it a mile away and you aren't going to get much, if any, DATY from me and absolutely NONE if you chew. Same with probing with your fingers if you are a smoker. You may think you are squeaky clean, but tobacco lingers everywhere and to those of us that do not use tobacco, it is a huge turn off. At least for me anyway. This now ends my infrequent public service announcement. Everyone play safe and Happy Nude Year!

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58 minutes ago, fishndude57 said:

Something I saw on Twitter:

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Good advice all around

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All of the above is very good, especially Adrey's & you kind of covered the big issues.  Here's a few random thoughts about communication...

Good communications is key both before and during the visit. When booking, do your research on how a provider wants to handle that. Be friendly, respectful, concise and clear. After the session, I think a quick "Thank you. It was great seeing you." text is fine,  then leave the lady alone -- except to re-book. Sidebar: Early in this adventure for me, I met with a new-to-the-business provider,  and we sort of "clicked." We also became were very, very chatty. (Both of us were sort of a in a weird place in our mutual lives. ) Pretty soon, things just went a little sideways -- my fault. Fortunately, we figured out the boundaries and got back on track & have become actually good civilian friends. I had the same thing happen with a different provider, but with much different and NOT great at all results. Lesson learned. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries! Contact a provider "off-hours" as you would your dentist or accountant or trash collector -- i.e. not at all. Right?

Even after a few years of doing this, I'm still often a little nervous. Especially,  I've not seen a provider before. I find it helps to let her know. It sort of helps to break the ice and relieve a bit of the nervousness -- sometimes on both sides with first-time meetings.

Lastly, I would argue that the best providers are people persons...people people? It can get draining even for that personality type -- as a former provider told me --  "to make someone's day."  I try to let her know that I'm really just happy to be there (which I am) and making my day will be quite easy. Plus, I would like her to have as nice a time as is possible given the circumstances. It is a job, but it try to not make it a chore. Laugh a bit, be relaxed, then high five at the end and carry on. No trapezes needed.

Good luck.

PS: Be clean. Very clean. Always clean.

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Also, don't assume everyone is 420 friendly. I can't count how many come into my place and think they can even vape...it is a no smoke/no drugs zone. Also, if you are wanting to take the Viagra pill, give the girl a head's up as we do want to be aware of that...it does change the performance and how you respond.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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Saw this on Twitter:

Reminder that I see clients of all sizes! No need to “warn” me that you are fat or ensure me that you are “fit.” As long as you are 25+, pass my screening, and treat me with respect we’ll have an awesome time together. Sense of humor is always a plus 😊

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