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FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

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And I was Countess in here in 2004, and still am the same lady :)

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6 minutes ago, countesskelly said:

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

no :rolleyes:

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1 hour ago, Mr.Pink said:

no :rolleyes:

Mr Pink😂😂

I’m sure there are many men that love a good massage. Post an ad and they will flock to you beauty.

Best of luck. Stay safe and prosper!

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2 hours ago, countesskelly said:

I offer FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

I'm a mature gent who appreciates receiving soothing treatments such as what you offer.

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Not completely familiar with what the standard acronyms mean fully so what exactly should one expect with a FBSM?  And what should one NOT expect?

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3 hours ago, Bravo1 said:

Not completely familiar with what the standard acronyms mean fully so what exactly should one expect with a FBSM?  And what should one NOT expect?

One should expect a soothing massage, often with a sensual, light touch, but NOT sexual (except in your own head).  This contrasts with a deep tissue, toxin releasing, therapeutic massage.

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2 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

One should expect a soothing massage, often with a sensual, light touch, but NOT sexual (except in your own head).  This contrasts with a deep tissue, toxin releasing, therapeutic massage.

Seems like an odd service to advertise on an escort board. 

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There are a lot of guys who prefer FBSM only and there are a lot of ladies who are FBSM only or offer a session that is just FBSM.

Nothing wrong with FBSM. It’s whatever floats your boat.

And if the FBSM ladies didn’t advertise here, where should they advertise? And please don’t say BP.

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13 hours ago, countesskelly said:

I offer FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

Yes, I visit several FBSM gals a month, and understand what is and is not on the menu.  I think you need to be clear in the beginning, and I mean in the ad, that you are not offering full service.  Most of the FBSM providers make it very clear in their ads, such as: "I DO NOT OFFER FULL SERVICE - DON'T EVEN ASK!"   and are pretty clear and consistent about their boundaries.  I guess there are a few jerks that will always push it, but I think clarity from the beginning should help.

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19 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

 "I DO NOT OFFER FULL SERVICE - DON'T EVEN ASK!"  

if I saw that in an add I would pass it right up, even if I'm only looking for a fbsm, soinds to me like she won't do anything except maybe massage me in the nude and me be nude to.

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14 hours ago, countesskelly said:

I offer FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

I have seen most of your advertisements and they have always left me wondering what is and is not offered.  You seem to have multiple adds with different pictures and messages.  Be clear and consistant with your advertising messages.  A phone number is helpful with guidelines. Different names between TOB and your ads is a bit confusing as well. 

For myself I have tried to contact you to clarify your add contents but when I received your replies I felt they were a bit harsh all because I asked the wrong question using the wrong form of communication.  Keep in mind your advertisement left me with questions. 

Hope this helps. I am not trying to be a jerk about this just letting you understand a males perspective of how your advertisements can be interpreted.  

Mr Purple 🍆

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2 hours ago, BadBoy said:

Yes, I visit several FBSM gals a month, and understand what is and is not on the menu.  I think you need to be clear in the beginning, and I mean in the ad, that you are not offering full service.  Most of the FBSM providers make it very clear in their ads, such as: "I DO NOT OFFER FULL SERVICE - DON'T EVEN ASK!"   and are pretty clear and consistent about their boundaries.  I guess there are a few jerks that will always push it, but I think clarity from the beginning should help.

Having met several FBSM providers who have told me that unfortunately even with providing that clarity at the beginning there are jerks will push those boundaries. 

13 hours ago, sweetmoment said:

I'm a mature gent who appreciates receiving soothing treatments such as what you offer.

As I’ve grown older, I’ve found that I frequently prefer the sensuality of a FBSM provider. As with all providers, there are exceptional FBSM providers out there, others not so much.

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Count me as a FBSM fan. But have to concur with some of the thoughts put out there. 

FBSM is a weird place regarding adult services (it's prostitution, but it's the tamer cousin) and FBSM providers sometimes do not do themselves any favors. And their fellow FBSM-ers can muddle the water some more. From an earlier FBSM thread:

https://theotherboard.com/forum/index.php?/topic/39856-interested-in-knowing/&do=findComment&comment=416350

And FBSM, obviously, is in a weird place re: massage. For example, a few months ago, I booked a FBSM appointment with a more mature provider. Pics in her ad were her, however, old (body appeared same, just that her hair was gray). Really good price, a little more than a "regular" massage. But, actual massage was just ok, nothing particularly sensual other than her taking her top off (still rocked some great boobs, left her sweat-like pants on) at the end and giving a handy. Wont' go back, since neither the massage quality or sensual checkbox got ticked: can get better real massage elsewhere, and get more fun FBSM elsewhere as well. And call me shallow, but, the different hair color was a disappointment (might have booked initially anyway if I knew was gray haired and liked what I saw).

Also guessing there is some "mental math" going on with the guys: how sure am I that she is real (pics AND services; she have reviews), cost, bang for buck, how hard to book, how far of a drive. And so on.

As other mentioned, ads and websites need to be clear what is/isn't on the table (no pun intended). Don't bury "no escort services" deep within lots of text: lost the reader probably two paragraphs in. Be consistent on your pictures.

But given all that, will not stop the questions, it's the nature of the biz and particularly this form of adult services. Will be getting questions re: anything extra, is that picture REALLY you. And even when things are clear, guys will always want something extra, especially if having a really good time.

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Ok, so is it safe to assume a FBSM includes a smiley-face ending?  I am someone who actually prefers this sort of service, a relaxing but sensual massage with the HE to end things.  I would be happy with that each time as long as I knew I was getting one.  I don't get too excited over full service, I can get that at home.  PROVIDERS...  How best can I determine if you provide THAT as part of your FBSM service?

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4 hours ago, Mustang87 said:

Seems like an odd service to advertise on an escort board. 

I have to agree with you on that.  I think if I were a provider of therapeutic massages only and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING SEXUAL then she should make it very clear in her ad.  I saw a provider once who advertised a FBSM that was "naughty" and it was just a massage with her in her unmatched undergarments.  Not too sexy and definitely not naughty in any use of the word.  

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19 hours ago, countesskelly said:

I offer FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

Hello Countess. I've noticed most FBSM providers state in their ad: "Not an escort." A few also state other boundaries/no-no's such as "No mutual touch" or "No DATY" or "No kissing" etc. Right or wrong, I think most clients assume that if these restrictions are not spelled out in the ad, potentially alot more than just a massage and HJ is possible (i.e., YMMV) and they will make a play for it. I think you're wise to be as clear in your ad about your boundaries as makes you comfortable--and then again at the start of the session. Any client who is offended/turned off by this isn't someone you want to deal with anyway.

Sadly, there will always be the jerk-face client that pushes those boundaries even *after* you've stated them. Door nobs were made to knock them in the ass on their way out. Then there are other dim bulbs who think/hope they might get lucky by somehow charming 'full service' out of a FBSM provider (and at a lower FBSM rate, no doubt), and so they schedule a session with a FBSM provider instead of an escort when what they really want are escort services. Go figure. 

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6 hours ago, Bravo1 said:

Ok, so is it safe to assume a FBSM includes a smiley-face ending? ...?

Remember: Ass-U-Me

 

I’ve had that “handy” ending include rubber kitchen gloves & 1/2 a bottle of lotion. Not what I'd call “happy”.

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28 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

Remember: Ass-U-Me

 

I’ve had that “handy” ending include rubber kitchen gloves & 1/2 a bottle of lotion. Not what I'd call “happy”.

I’ve never met one with rubber kitchen gloves, but definitely one who used latex gloves. She definitely fell into the non-exceptional category.

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I for one look for the great massage, anything else is diamonds in my book!

When I need a massage, it means I'm sore and grumpy, too many years of doing stupid things with my sore body.

Massage first for me! Thanks much!

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Posted (edited)

My hour is highly sensual, but I don't provide details. I suppose the "mystery" is very intriguing to many! :)

AND--part of the erotic fun! :P

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On 1/19/2018 at 8:35 PM, countesskelly said:

FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

Yes, there are some of us out here.

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Thank you, I have been in business for 17 years so  there are many "takers." LOL!

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Hi Countess,  I am a blast from the past!!!  Bob Richards....It has been 15 years since I saw you.  Glad to hear you are still around.  Be well Babe!  HUgs,  BR

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9 hours ago, Bob Richards said:

Hi Countess,  I am a blast from the past!!!  Bob Richards....It has been 15 years since I saw you.  Glad to hear you are still around.  Be well Babe!  HUgs,  BR

Talk about A BLAST from the Past!

 

Back on topic

 

There is a market for Sensual Body Work, Body Rub,  FBSM.  Many ways of conducting a session without the girlfriend components. Practioners are constantly mixing modalities of traditional massage with aspects of more Sensual Caresses, some study Tantra for example while others move towards the nuru end and on and on and on

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On 1/19/2018 at 7:35 PM, countesskelly said:

FBSM only and have a difficult time fighting off the "escort" menu.

Are there still a few mature gents out there that like to just lay back and be soothed?

I had the same problem.. I just had to put all my information on my website and write my ads so they come across that its FBSM only and the real smart respectful guys will get it...the ones that are not, won't...but it weeds out the jerks 

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Countess,

Sent you a PM, have not heard back.

roger

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On 4/10/2018 at 10:29 PM, Bob Richards said:

Hi Countess,  I am a blast from the past!!!  Bob Richards....It has been 15 years since I saw you.  Glad to hear you are still around.  Be well Babe!  HUgs,  BR

Hi Bob, I remember you! <3 Be well my friend!

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Pardon me, but when was it ok to advertise our services on the Discussion Board? Did I miss the memo? I know if I had done this, I would have been spanked by Boink/The Whisperer, and they have a very sturdy paddle.

By the way ladies, advertising FBSM will get you in trouble as it is considered sexual. If certified, it is massage...if not, it is bodyrub. Be aware of your verbage. TNA(one site I know of) will pull your ad for FBSM.

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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