Posted January 7, 2018 after a lady retires do any of you men keep in contact with the lady as friends or still see each other sexually? I see all the time how you guys say that the time was special with them, sometimes a lady might not advertise but may see a select few that have a special connection. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 7, 2018 I have one friend that huge popular in her day, we chat weekly and she does some light office work for me, she's completely moved on. Another on occasion we still boogie but mostly just friends. I cooked Thanksgiving dinner for her and her BF. Then more than a few that I just fish or shoot with but have never seen professionally. And of course my regulars, I have become friends with them too. I'm comfortable, really no desire to see anyone new. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 7, 2018 20 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: after a lady retires do any of you men keep in contact with the lady as friends or still see each other sexually I leave it 100% up to them. Thankfully there are a lot of ex-strippers,ex-models and ex-pornstars that stay in touch and meet up whenever we are in the same city for lunch to catch up. As far as seeing each other sexually... again their choice,but usually they move on and become wives, moms and...damn I've been in it too long...grandmothers. Just had breakfast recently with one,no romance involved . Again..their choice situation...last thing I would ever want to be is a stalker. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 7, 2018 3 hours ago, JRWolfe said: I leave it 100% up to them. Thankfully there are a lot of ex-strippers,ex-models and ex-pornstars that stay in touch and meet up whenever we are in the same city for lunch to catch up. As far as seeing each other sexually... again their choice,but usually they move on and become wives, moms and...damn I've been in it too long...grandmothers. Just had breakfast recently with one,no romance involved . Again..their choice situation...last thing I would ever want to be is a stalker. I have not seen my ex's --->Rosanna, Eileen, Allison, and Dimple for quite some time time now. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 7, 2018 There are several with whom I have kept in touch, in a non-professional relationship. We'll have dinner, got fora hike, or just hoist a few; some more frequently than others. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2018 7 hours ago, stevie-2249 said: after a lady retires do any of you men keep in contact with the lady as friends Yes, one. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2018 4 hours ago, Kaduk said: I have not seen my ex's --->Rosanna, Eileen, Allison, and Dimple for quite some time time now. So I'm now suppose to name drop who I had breakfast with...ok ..it was my ex-roomate and retired porn star... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2018 9 hours ago, stevie-2249 said: after a lady retires do any of you men keep in contact with the lady as friends or still see each other sexually? I see all the time how you guys say that the time was special with them, sometimes a lady might not advertise but may see a select few that have a special connection. Yes. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2018 Kinda depends on what you mean by "retire." Lots of gals eventually get enough regulars that they simply stop advertising and go completely UTR. It doesn't mean they are gone, or even out of the business, just out of the public eye. If you have an ATF that disappears on you, send a text or e-mail (or, heck, dial her up) and see if she is still willing to entertain you - you might be pleasantly surprised. As to true retirement - it seems like the gals that want to vanish take the time to wipe out any trails and I usually have no way to reach them. Still think of them fondly, but have to accept that they are gone. One cool thing is that if they gave you a P411 OK it lives forever, even if they delete their P411 account. I sometimes scroll through my OK list and have lots of nice flashback memories. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2018 I sometimes wonder how I will handle it if I connect to someone very strongly and then it just comes to an end. I’m hoping I can make a dear friend on here and no matter what happens if they do move on we at least keep in touch. Even if things change a little bit... it’s always been so important to me. Maybe I’ll make a best friend you never know. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2018 This threadmakes me remember, talking during a session, when she told me she would want to retire some day, but would possibly still want to see a select few gents. We click pretty good I guess since at least at that time I made the cut. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 9, 2018 Nope. I wish her well and move on. I have never seen a provider outside of a professional situation though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
