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How old are you guys?

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13 minutes ago, raul said:

... I cannot imagine doing this when having that special someone in my life. 

I got back into the hobby in the '90s because I had a special relationship. Life saving drugs destroyed our sex life. But my libido made me cranky, threatening that relationship, when I didn't get enough. 😡 So I saw escorts to blow off steam. Probably saved my marriage. 😏

No slam, just a different perspective. 

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3 hours ago, raul said:

Hehehe ;)

To be serious for a moment, in some strange and convoluted way, I feel that this hobby (I hate this word in this context!) has made me realize how important it is to find that special someone and ensure that the spark never fades away. I am single and I cannot imagine doing this when being in a relationship or being committed to someone. There is a lot more nuance in what I'm trying to say but I'd rather not write a ton here. In short, I cannot imagine doing this when having that special someone in my life. Perhaps the older folks may scoff at this idea and say its naive etc but I don't think its impossible.

That is just my reasons for doing this and I hope everyone understands that I do not mean to undermine any of your behavior.

Now, off to explore the situation downtown this NYE!

You are young and you SHOULD have the attitude that you do about a serious relationship.  You may very well be one of those people who is able to be in a long term monogamous relationship but if you are even dabbling in this stuff now at your age, I doubt you will be able to maintain what you are hoping for.  I was married for 15 years before I stumbled across this site, had I known about it earlier I would have gotten involved sooner during those times where you have issues with your long term partner and just want some release.  Good luck to you and I wish nothing but the best but you have a lot to learn and you will learn over time if you find yourself in a long term marriage. 

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On 12/31/2017 at 4:21 PM, Skg said:

I thought I was too old to be on TOB. I feel better now as most of you guys are in my age group. 55-65. Thank God most of the ladies are senior friendly.

52 goin' on 42!

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I'm older than Bit Banger, but younger than Pointy Moustache. 

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I'm 35 dabbled a bit in the hobby when I was younger in my early 20s let me tell you not all young guys can get laid just like that if only I had been young for the tinder generation. I'm generally a quiet introverted person so that in itself is usually a turn off. I had months between conquests and that was with hitting the bars all the time yeah I could've went after whatever was left after the jocks and frat boys picked the bars clean but I also have standards. I liked the hobby because it gave ME the choice of the ladies that I wanted and it definitely helped build my confidence and gave me much needed practice for real life relations both physical and social. So I would say the hobby for younger guys can be a good thing if you're mature enough to handle the situation and not someone that just wants to smash everything in site. 

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On 12/31/2017 at 7:55 PM, Bit Banger said:

I got back into the hobby in the '90s because I had a special relationship. Life saving drugs destroyed our sex life. But my libido made me cranky, threatening that relationship, when I didn't get enough. 😡 So I saw escorts to blow off steam. Probably saved my marriage. 😏

No slam, just a different perspective. 

I'm in the same boat I just back into the hobby. I have an off the charts libido and once or twice a month does not cut it for me. I get extremely agitated and cranky to the point of being destructive to my relationship. This has easily saved it for me some may scoff at that but it truly has 

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On 1/3/2018 at 3:27 PM, kprimo5 said:

I'm 35 dabbled a bit in the hobby when I was younger in my early 20s let me tell you not all young guys can get laid just like that if only I had been young for the tinder generation.

That app made it so easy.  We were having girls delivered to the FD a couple times a week when it was first released.  They were driving themselves down from Denver to the Springs sometimes.  Give a few forty year old fireman the rookies phone and it was like ringing a dinner bell.  No game at all needed.

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It is an interesting question and one I have wondered about as well. Myself, as it has been said before, 69 is divine.

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On 12/31/2017 at 5:39 PM, boink36 said:

What a bunch of old farts, I'm sure happy to be younger than that. :D

I'm probably not speaking for the geezers, but color me jealous.

I'm 70.

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I moved into a townhouse when it was brand new (I don't live there now). That townhouse is now 23 + 7 = 30 years old.

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On 12/27/2017 at 11:35 AM, BadBoy said:

My favorite leather jacket is twice as old as you are.  And I was an adult when I got it.

😂😂🤣

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Hell, I have a pair of L.L. Bean Maine Hunting Boots that are about 43 years old.  Wonder if I can get another 20 years out of them.  Then again, wonder if I'll still be around to wear them another 20 years...lol

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On 12/26/2017 at 7:40 PM, Happymon said:

When I was 23, if I couldn't hook up between the library and the time it closed or with one of a small handful of zipless playmates scattered about the campus, I just really didn't want to get laid that night.  

Go away and become normal.  Being here at 23 can't be a good thing.  

Correct. Good god, man, 23 is way too young to be paying for it. No no. 

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I made chicken tetrazzini tonight, damn near forgot to put in the chicken...damn. 

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19 minutes ago, fishndude57 said:

I made chicken tetrazzini tonight, damn near forgot to put in the chicken...damn. 

Too much green butter😂😂

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Honestly I think being a part of the hobby keeps people feeling younger, at least younger at heart....Maybe because they have more progressive thoughts that reflect in their lives....Just a thought....

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On 12/27/2017 at 3:54 PM, pointymoustache said:

I may be the oldest here, not worth bragging about but at 80 I'm still active and had a wonderful encounter today with a Board regular. Review to come.

I love it! One of my fave gents will be 80 this year and he doesn't plan on ever quitting before his heart does :). If you still got it USE IT :).

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3 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

Getting older by the day

And thankful for that! 😁

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On 12/26/2017 at 3:29 PM, tide32 said:

I have socks older than you. :cool:

Oooh...get rid those socks! 😂😂😂

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7 minutes ago, Sexy Francesca said:

I couldn’t agree more.. not all of us lie about our age!!! I am a proud, at my peak, 34yr old Milf Goddess ;) 

Ohhh....to be 34 again. You are definitely at your Peak! Boys hold on for dear life! I'm a very sexual person, but at 34 the boys were lining up, because I was a true nymphomaniac. Have fun on this ride girl!

👍👍👍

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I was always told that you guys are only as old as "she feels". :D

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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1 hour ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Oooh...get rid those socks! 😂😂😂

Can't. Every time I throw them away, they come crawling back. :huh: WTF!!! :P

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2 minutes ago, tide32 said:

Can't. Every time I throw them away, they come crawling back. :huh: WTF!!! :P

I'll buy you some socks baby. 💖

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9 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

I'll buy you some socks baby. 💖

I don't know, my old ones are leash agressiv. :rolleyes: :P  

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