Posted December 9, 2017 Seems kinda slow this Friday afternoon, so I'll start a thread I have been thinking about recently. My ATATF moved away, and so I have been out seeing old friends again and meeting some new folks, and have noticed some things I hate and love. See what you can add, maybe we can learn something: Here is what I hate to hear from providers: 1. TOB backchannel gossip and provider inside-dishing on each other. 2. Any conversation whatsoever about "the hobby." 3. Bitching about her boyfriend/husband. 4. Complaints about how the other Johns are such jerks. 5. Discussion about how great another John is in the sack. 6. "Recently it really hurts when I pee." (Just kidding ) 7. I just got my period, do you mind if I just give you a quick hand job? Here is what I like to hear from providers: 1. "Seen any good movies recently?" 2. "WOW, it's so big, what am I going to do with that thing!" (Just kidding again, but I can dream) 3. "Read any good books recently?" 4. "What would you like me to do to make this the best 60 minutes of your life?" 5. "My dog was so funny this morning, listen to this...." 6. "What kind of music do you like, I have a paid Pandora subscription so I can put anything on - would Sade be OK to start?" 7. "I was recently thinking about life and ....." 8. "I just got my period, how about I give you a nice, slow sensual massage and later you can come down my throat." I am sure that the rest of you have things to contribute, what do you love/hate to hear? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 I always like to hear “your my naughty lil bitch”😂😂 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Really dislike any talk about her SO at all, but have heard it a few times. Also, no talk of politics or religion, have heard those a few times too. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 1 hour ago, BadBoy said: Seems kinda slow this Friday afternoon, so I'll start a thread I have been thinking about recently. My ATATF moved away, and so I have been out seeing old friends again and meeting some new folks, and have noticed some things I hate and love. See what you can add, maybe we can learn something: Here is what I hate to hear from providers: 1. TOB backchannel gossip and provider inside-dishing on each other. 2. Any conversation whatsoever about "the hobby." 3. Bitching about her boyfriend/husband. 4. Complaints about how the other Johns are such jerks. 5. Discussion about how great another John is in the sack. 6. "Recently it really hurts when I pee." (Just kidding ) 7. I just got my period, do you mind if I just give you a quick hand job? Here is what I like to hear from providers: 1. "Seen any good movies recently?" 2. "WOW, it's so big, what am I going to do with that thing!" (Just kidding again, but I can dream) 3. "Read any good books recently?" 4. "What would you like me to do to make this the best 60 minutes of your life?" 5. "My dog was so funny this morning, listen to this...." 6. "What kind of music do you like, I have a paid Pandora subscription so I can put anything on - would Sade be OK to start?" 7. "I was recently thinking about life and ....." 8. "I just got my period, how about I give you a nice, slow sensual massage and later you can come down my throat." I am sure that the rest of you have things to contribute, what do you love/hate to hear? Sounds hot to me 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 "you have a naughty tongue" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Love: Wow, you are hot/sexy/funny/great at that/a great kisser too! Hate: Wow, you have great boobs too! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 30 minutes ago, AnthointheAM said: Hate: Wow, you have great boobs too! This made me laugh out loud!!!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 I love to hear her screaming oh my God, oh my God, oh my God... I hate hearing farting noises during DATY 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 4 hours ago, BadBoy said: Seems kinda slow this Friday afternoon, so I'll start a thread I have been thinking about recently. My ATATF moved away, and so I have been out seeing old friends again and meeting some new folks, and have noticed some things I hate and love. See what you can add, maybe we can learn something: Here is what I hate to hear from providers: 1. TOB backchannel gossip and provider inside-dishing on each other. 2. Any conversation whatsoever about "the hobby." 3. Bitching about her boyfriend/husband. 4. Complaints about how the other Johns are such jerks. 5. Discussion about how great another John is in the sack. 6. "Recently it really hurts when I pee." (Just kidding ) 7. I just got my period, do you mind if I just give you a quick hand job? Here is what I like to hear from providers: 1. "Seen any good movies recently?" 2. "WOW, it's so big, what am I going to do with that thing!" (Just kidding again, but I can dream) 3. "Read any good books recently?" 4. "What would you like me to do to make this the best 60 minutes of your life?" 5. "My dog was so funny this morning, listen to this...." 6. "What kind of music do you like, I have a paid Pandora subscription so I can put anything on - would Sade be OK to start?" 7. "I was recently thinking about life and ....." 8. "I just got my period, how about I give you a nice, slow sensual massage and later you can come down my throat." I am sure that the rest of you have things to contribute, what do you love/hate to hear? Great list 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Here is what I like to hear from providers: No one make me cum like you do! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 3 minutes ago, a_happycamper_12 said: Here is what I like to hear from providers: No one make me cum like you do! The better they are at lieing to me, the better chance they have of me returning.. lol.. unless they don't want me to return. That's a different story.. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 "Solid effort. Better luck next time!" 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Love: "Nobody eats pussy like you do!" Even had a provider enthusiastically tell me that! Left that appointment feeling like a king. It was only after 3 days of basking in the glow that I thought......."wait a minute........." Hate: "Your time is up." It means I have not been paying attention. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Hate: I don't normally do this but for you I will. Run 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Every encounter is a learning experience, but bullshit is a lousy teacher. That's why I need honesty in feedback, not somebody trying to "make" me feel good. It's too transparent, and above all, I hate being called "baby" or any similar pornesque moniker. I just can't handle fakery and have been known to totally lose wood under such circumstances. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2017 Love: When their hands are roaming all over my curves and valleys, actually listen when I say gentle, are silly and conversational with me, say "Damn, you're hot!" after walking through my door, are not afraid to express what they like to me, and when they think of me and bring me something thoughtful and simple. Hate: Men that brag about how good they are in bed(you could be Fabio with Betty, doesn't mean you will be with me), when they just lay there and not even one touch on me like I am contagious or something, barely talk(even if it is to ask what they like), talk about another provider about how she does this and that while I am doing this and that, can't follow directions or listen, use every towel in my bathroom, gush about my skills but then have me do something that has nothing to do with my skills, come in and want me to do something that is obviously something that is plain that I don't and never will do (like seeing me personally is going to change my mind), trying to overstay on short appointments by not finishing and proceeding to say minutes away from the end that "Sorry, but it takes me awhile!", and providers sabotaging other providers( we are all here working on a common goal...don't like each other then go your separate ways). xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 10, 2017 Love- "Thanks for being on Time" Hate- " I have to cancel something came up" 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 10, 2017 1 hour ago, Chrissy said: Love- "Thanks for being on Time" Hate- " I have to cancel something came 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 10, 2017 Hate: How old are you? Wow, my oldest ever! Like: Hope you enjoyed our time, cause I would really like to see you again 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 10, 2017 Love: Damn Jez, you are have a hot little body. Hate: just kiss it some more It will get hard. (this is after sucking dick for 45 min.) 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2017 Not at all love /hate...just sometimes ladies leave something here and never come back to get it. PRIME EXAMPLE : a pair of glasses were left behind.No bother,called her within the hour and she said she would come get them. Nearly two years later...the glasses are still here. So its more Bewildered/ Can she see ..than anything else. Guess if I have to come up with a love/hate..it would be : Love: the voice on the phone...Hate : when it turns out she used fake pictures. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2017 Love - Lets do that again Hate - when she texts me the word "Hun" It is the most over used word next to sorry and love 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites