Geez, Can't Handle Rejection?

[Cali Rose]

At least twice this week alone I have been called everything from a dirty rotten whore to a gutter slut because someone didn't pass my screening. I have even had guys threaten to write me a bad review because I won't see them.  WTF? It's starting to get a little old and childish. I think maybe I need to add a more detailed screening protocol on my ads, but  what is the use because half of the time no one reads them anyway.  I'm just tired of the threats and when it starts I won't even respond anymore and just block them from calling or texting me. Does anyone else have a problem with this bullshit and if so what should I do? 

[Guest]

I am so sorry this happens when it doesn't need to.

I have had a few ladies tell me we are not a good match for playtime 😉.so I move on and get over it already.

What is wrong with guys?

 

[AnthointheAM]

I read your ad and it seems clear what you want for screening. That said, your ad is longer than most and your screening requirements are at the very end. You might move that paragraph to the beginning and say those that can pass my criteria read on. Or if you leave it at the end, you add some type of code like please include XYZ in your text or email if you can pass this screening. 

Not to defend the idiots, but reading the first part of your ad might cause the blood to start rushing away from the brain! 😉 If you can filter the idiots sooner, then no issues. If not, ignore, block, move on and reward the few that can read!

[Bit Banger]

34 minutes ago, AnthointheAM said:

... You might move that paragraph to the beginning and say those that can pass my criteria read on. Or if you leave it at the end, you add some type of code like please include XYZ in your text or email if you can pass this screening. ...

Having just read your ad, ^^ this ^^

[TrystinTrimble]

Last night, I had someone message me for a last minute and when I asked my usual "Name and Age, Pls?" I get a response that he'd rather not, and when his number came back--much to my shock--a burner, I informed him that my instructions were not options and he couldn't just choose to ignore them and see me. Naturally his response was that he knew that and just didn't care. He just wanted me to fully and immediately trust him and go be alone with him, while making it clear he had none of the same good faith towards me. When I basically told him he was wasting our time, he said something like "well you're a cum dumpster and my life is more meaningful so sorry you feel that way..."

Wut. Teh. Fack.

Trust me when I say this : there are some people you just shouldn't go near. Not some, actually, but plenty. I don't want to be at the mercy of someone who truly feels that I am less of a life form than him just cause I'm not a breeder and provide this service. He called ME, yet wasn't friendly enough to even make up a name because he really believed he was above it. Nah thanks!

[Danielle Rae]

..." Trust me when I say this : there are some people you just shouldn't go near. Not some, actually, but plenty. I don't want to be at the mercy of someone who truly feels that I am less of a life form than him just cause I'm not a breeder and provide this service. He called ME, yet wasn't friendly enough to even make up a name because he really believed he was above it. Nah thanks! "

Amen, Sister!  Some people are truly "ugly" from deep within.  Sorry you dealt with that - but glad it was only over text messaging vs. in person. xoxo

Edited November 2, 2017 by Danielle Rae
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[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Thinking I might have a fake P411. Guy never officially sent me a message through the website. Funny thing a couple of hours ago he wrote me back and claimed a family emergency. In my opinion this was an attempt to get out of lying about this P411 NOT being his accoint.  All I asked for was he send me a message through the website.

Sad shit storm lately ladies! Sending positive thoughts!❤❤

Edited November 2, 2017 by Kali Sensual Reiki

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Thinking I am now going to try and write this guy a message. See if the account was hijacked!? 

[SultryKitten]

THIS right here is why they go through my email or screening form on my website FIRST, and it has been wonderful ladies. Even my typing skills have gotten better. I don't have to listen to excuses, or them bragging about how great they are, blah, blah, blah. Drop your phone numbers ladies, it is SO worth it!

Cali, make your screening protocol front and center. This needs to be clear as this is how you run your business, and it is the crucial step to getting to know you more. When you do this, they will know that it is NOT an option and the real ones will follow. If they are serious, they will do it.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Samantha think this is also is very smart. I will need to have clients go through my Website at least until they know me. Strange thing tho this is exactly how this guy contacted me first. Lol I did send him a short message through P411. Still waiting for a return message. 😀😀 if I get one? I will let you all know!! Kind of interesting playing detective! Lol I do this all the time anyway. As I am sure you all do too. First means of contact was email. He was the one who later offered up his P411 to me. Ball is in his court. 😇😇

Edited November 2, 2017 by Kali Sensual Reiki

[Lucy Kitten]

1 hour ago, SultryKitten said:

THIS right here is why they go through my email or screening form on my website FIRST, and it has been wonderful ladies. Even my typing skills have gotten better. I don't have to listen to excuses, or them bragging about how great they are, blah, blah, blah. Drop your phone numbers ladies, it is SO worth it!

Cali, make your screening protocol front and center. This needs to be clear as this is how you run your business, and it is the crucial step to getting to know you more. When you do this, they will know that it is NOT an option and the real ones will follow. If they are serious, they will do it.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

Sounds like the advice I gave you somewhere on this board glad it's working out for you. Filtering out the noise is quite helpful.

[Skg]

Cali, in a way you are lucky that these jerks showed their true colors before hand. The attitude from these types of men is what has triggered "me too" on social media. They have no respect for women ( and probably not for themselves either) I don't mind jumping through hoops to meet any of you providers. It  makes me feel safer also. I am sickened that men can talk to ladies as they did Cali. We all deserve the utmost respect.

[pfunk]

Guys who get pissy, when they can't pass screening, are just demonstrating why they didn't pass screening. Forget 'em and move on. They are not worth a second thought. 

Love you ladies! Hate stupid jerks!  

[jus12pla]

21 hours ago, pfunk said:

Guys who get pissy, when they can't pass screening, are just demonstrating why they didn't pass screening. Forget 'em and move on. They are not worth a second thought. 

Love you ladies! Hate stupid jerks!  

Yep - Your screening worked!!  Pat yourself on the back for have the foresight to avoid the anusfaces and move on.

[Funguy]

Cali sorry this happen to you and any of you other girls. It’s too bad we have some guys that treat any of you women like that when your just doing your best to protect yourself and the rest of us. Just keep doing what your doing and continue to be strong and safe!!!!

[briscorp1]

Cali Rose, lots of scumbag narcissistic wanna-be clients out there who are imminently unworthy of you. Keep your screening stringent and your standards high, and those rejects will disqualify themselves. Try to just hit the 'next' button in your mind and move on. 

[Kaduk]

On 11/2/2017 at 4:20 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Thinking I am now going to try and write this guy a message. See if the account was hijacked!? 

If the P411 info was offered up outside of the P411 website, I would report that to Gina. As that would be a NO NO....

[EmilyDMV]

On 11/2/2017 at 4:17 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Thinking I might have a fake P411. Guy never officially sent me a message through the website. Funny thing a couple of hours ago he wrote me back and claimed a family emergency. In my opinion this was an attempt to get out of lying about this P411 NOT being his accoint.  All I asked for was he send me a message through the website.

Sad shit storm lately ladies! Sending positive thoughts!❤❤

Right? P411 asked more info than the air Force when I joined! Haha I'm glad though

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

On 11/4/2017 at 0:36 AM, Kaduk said:

If the P411 info was offered up outside of the P411 website, I would report that to Gina. As that would be a NO NO....

Thinking I will do that today. I have given him enough time and honestly I think the P411 account was hijacked by someone else. 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

2 hours ago, EmilyDMV said:

Right? P411 asked more info than the air Force when I joined! Haha I'm glad though

I had an account with P411 twice now. The first go around it was much easier to get one and NO I did not even ask for the account. Gina or someone acting in her behalf sent me an email with an offer to join. That would have been the early 2000's. 

This second time around was crazy hard and I had to have a client vouch for me. Too many scare issues out there and so many ways a person can get in trouble or possibly bring down a website I believe. 

Sorry Cali Rose  for speaking off topic 

I have had one of the worse weeks of my escort/reiki career My phone has been totally silent .  Also, the calls I have been getting are fake! 

Sending support and reiki to all those who need healing and emotional support including me. 

Those of you who think it is funny to name call or hurt one of us?? 

Well that is low and too bad for you and your need for attention! 

Have a beautiful weekend and Yes Kuduk I am on it to make contact with Gina on this P411 problem 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Reported P411 guy to Gina. P411 probably will not get back to me until Monday? 

Cali Rose I am now also getting hate email. Not sure if possibly it is the same guy? I was told F off ugly B. 5 times in 5 different emails.After I refused to to his request of sending him pictures.

I will send you a pm Cali 🌹.

However, I believe there are several of chareters out there.😢

 

[Cali Rose]

On 11/2/2017 at 0:12 PM, AnthointheAM said:

I read your ad and it seems clear what you want for screening. That said, your ad is longer than most and your screening requirements are at the very end. You might move that paragraph to the beginning and say those that can pass my criteria read on. Or if you leave it at the end, you add some type of code like please include XYZ in your text or email if you can pass this screening. 

Not to defend the idiots, but reading the first part of your ad might cause the blood to start rushing away from the brain! 😉 If you can filter the idiots sooner, then no issues. If not, ignore, block, move on and reward the few that can read!

Thank you for your suggestion and I'm definitely going to redo the format of my ad 😘 I know it is long and I was hoping to attract a certain type of clientele with it but I see I need to be a little bit more clear on my requirements before hand. I don't think my screening is outrageous but apparently some think I'm a "picky bitch". 🤷🏼‍♀️ Call me what you want but my safety is the most important thing I worry about when I'm seeing new clients so I like to do my homework just like I'm sure guys do as well. 

Cali Rose 🌹 

[Cali Rose]

On 11/2/2017 at 1:14 PM, TrystinTrimble said:

Last night, I had someone message me for a last minute and when I asked my usual "Name and Age, Pls?" I get a response that he'd rather not, and when his number came back--much to my shock--a burner, I informed him that my instructions were not options and he couldn't just choose to ignore them and see me. Naturally his response was that he knew that and just didn't care. He just wanted me to fully and immediately trust him and go be alone with him, while making it clear he had none of the same good faith towards me. When I basically told him he was wasting our time, he said something like "well you're a cum dumpster and my life is more meaningful so sorry you feel that way..."

Wut. Teh. Fack.

Trust me when I say this : there are some people you just shouldn't go near. Not some, actually, but plenty. I don't want to be at the mercy of someone who truly feels that I am less of a life form than him just cause I'm not a breeder and provide this service. He called ME, yet wasn't friendly enough to even make up a name because he really believed he was above it. Nah thanks!

Trystin, 

Omfg 🙄 I have had this same dumb ass conversation with a LOT of guys who have tried to see me as well. I even had one guy a couple of weeks ago rant to me about how much he hated "hookers" and he was  so tired of hearing all the bullshit lies that they gave him and all kinds of stupid shit. He told me that I was a scammer, that my pictures were fake, and that the only reason I did outcalls only was so that I could scam guys and that they had no choice to pay me since I was at their place. 😡 Um, ok weirdo. Never mind that I have 6 reviews saying that my pictures are accurate and that I perform A+ service. Then he tells me that doesn't matter! 🤦🏼‍♀️ Really??? So what is the purpose of reviews then? I swear this shit is so stupid. Then I get the guy who says that I'm too difficult and that there are plenty of girls that will see him without all the hassle and that he's going to write a review to "warn" everyone that I'm a hassle. 😠 Wow. Girl it's hard out here for a escort 💁🏼

Cali Rose 🌹 

[Cali Rose]

On 11/2/2017 at 4:17 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Thinking I might have a fake P411. Guy never officially sent me a message through the website. Funny thing a couple of hours ago he wrote me back and claimed a family emergency. In my opinion this was an attempt to get out of lying about this P411 NOT being his accoint.  All I asked for was he send me a message through the website.

Sad shit storm lately ladies! Sending positive thoughts!❤❤

This happened to me today where someone reached out to me and asked if I came to Castle Rock and then when I asked if he had verification or references he said yes but asked if I was outcall only and when I said yes said sorry that won't work for him 😒 Never mind that I clearly state in my ad title that I am OUTCALL ONLY and then again in my ad body by my prices. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Lord the ignorance is overbearing 😫

[Cali Rose]

On 11/2/2017 at 4:49 PM, SultryKitten said:

THIS right here is why they go through my email or screening form on my website FIRST, and it has been wonderful ladies. Even my typing skills have gotten better. I don't have to listen to excuses, or them bragging about how great they are, blah, blah, blah. Drop your phone numbers ladies, it is SO worth it!

Cali, make your screening protocol front and center. This needs to be clear as this is how you run your business, and it is the crucial step to getting to know you more. When you do this, they will know that it is NOT an option and the real ones will follow. If they are serious, they will do it.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

Sam, 

Thank you girl I have considered taking my phone number off of my ad and just using my email but I've always been paranoid that it will get hacked but hey, my phone could get hacked too so what's to worry about? Lol. 

Cali 

[Cali Rose]

7 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Reported P411 guy to Gina. P411 probably will not get back to me until Monday? 

Cali Rose I am now also getting hate email. Not sure if possibly it is the same guy? I was told F off ugly B. 5 times in 5 different emails.After I refused to to his request of sending him pictures.

I will send you a pm Cali 🌹.

However, I believe there are several of chareters out there.😢

 

Kali, 

Girl I swear nobody better be calling my fav ugly 😡😡😡😡 You are the most beautiful and positive person on here and you make me smile every time I read one of your posts. 😘

Cali 

[sparkey600]

14 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Thinking I will do that today. I have given him enough time and honestly I think the P411 account was hijacked by someone else. 

Protect yourself Kali. 

Nobody is worth the risk this person offers. Please do this Sweetie.

I don't want anything bad to happen to you!

Luv you! 

[Cali Rose]

3 minutes ago, sparkey600 said:

Protect yourself Kali. 

Nobody is worth the risk this person offers. Please do this Sweetie.

I don't want anything bad to happen to you!

Luv you! 

^^^^AGREE!!!!!

[SultryKitten]

10 hours ago, Cali Rose said:

Sam, 

Thank you girl I have considered taking my phone number off of my ad and just using my email but I've always been paranoid that it will get hacked but hey, my phone could get hacked too so what's to worry about? Lol. 

Cali 

I realize now that me having a phone number was literally a ball and chain I had, and how much it stressed me out. Literally, seconds after I made it official I was like, "What did I just do? Is my Ho Career over?" It wasn't, and I am much happier.

Xoxo,

Samantha Shepparf

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Now instead of getting text messages I get strange emails. I honestly don't see an escape from the crazy ones. It has and will always continue to be a weeding out process. 

Blocking callers/texters is faster and easier for me.  Gawds I regret needing to put up a back page ad up!  When you are super slow? What can you do but advertise?? 

My emotions are very centered and I am safe. Just riding the rainbow 🌈🌈

P411 guy ended up being ligetamate too. Sorry for the drama. Embarrasaing. Gina wrote me back. 

Keeping it safe! 

Going to pull some cards and get outside soon! 

Take care 💜💜