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When provider's change personas

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Just now, Bella Marie said:

I agree...not my intention to "out" anyone....just wanting to know what you gentlemen think is all

   I wouldn't even out them in a private message. Best to respect.

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Just now, Mr.Pink said:

idk what a fidanzata is :confused: sounds contagious.... :D

Italian for girlfriend.....

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I have changed my persona a few times, and it was not because I really wanted to, but it was needed at the time. I had stellar reputations with all of them, and I have seen a psychologist and various psychiatrists who have all told me there is nothing mentally wrong with me due to the one that caused me to have to change my name various times in the first place. Luckily, it is all now behind me, but at the time I made it work and am still here to talk about it.

There are many reasons why people change personas, and for me personally, I feel that it is nobody's business why especially if it is to protect themselves. This business is very tough and can be dangerous, and sometimes life doesn't give us a choice to leave and find something else to do so we do our best to reinvent and make the most of our situation.

Yes, there are the few that have to due to bad reputation, and some never learn, but I have also seen some change personas to do better. Newbies have a preconceived notion of what this business entails until they actually get into it...then that is when reality sets in. They either stick around and make the most of it, or they are gone. There is a neverending revolving door for this industry of new providers, and new clients which is what keeps it so interesting.

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Samantha Sheppard

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And sometimes a newbie sets up her handle and ads based on thinking she needs a "good escort handle" and so another lexie, nikki, tiffany, etc. is born only to find out later that it is better to have a unique handle that does not get confused with 10 other ladies, 6 of whom have a bad rep.  There was a bad news train wreck borderline BSC lady down south that was routinely changing her handle to match the newest "it" girl that was not really known yet.  In other words if a "Gerti" appeared on the scene, looked hot and got a first great review - bingo - she too became "Gerti" for a few weeks on BP.  Kinda eerie and scary, but I assume it fooled those running full speed ahead with little head driving the bus.

In and of itself a name and "persona" change is not a concern and for the more creative ladies out there that just want to veer off the same old same old or want a fresh start with no preconceived reputation good or bad dragging them down a different handle would make sense.  So would be being "Gerti" for vanilla, standard menu escort but presto, becoming "Olga" when she wants to offer hardcore BDSM for the weekend just cause she is really into it on occasion but can't find enough clients for just that and doesn't want to be "type cast" or pigeon holed.  There are a ton of legit reasons.

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On 9/15/2017 at 9:25 AM, JRWolfe said:

  How can one know that its a provide that is reputable and provides consistent serve if she constantly reinvents herself with a new name ? 

 

Its my understanding that when a provider constantly reinvents herself It supposedly brings in more money as the guys think she's new the girl on the block when she's not. 

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I think two variables to consider make this an even more interesting question. First, how quickly the name changes happen might signal something. Rapid fire name changes seem to me to be searching for the "right" identity. Kind of testing the waters.  Could also be trying to disassociate with drama or reviews when getting started.  A couple of years with the same name maybe one gets bored or even just gets too much spam in the email and wants to start fresh. 

The second, and very interesting to me,  is the choice to keep the same account and reviews or not. There is at least one longtime member with reviews under several different names but the same account and a stellar reputation.  Some that change accounts also say who they "used to be", clearly pointing gents to prior reviews. 

It doesn't seem to matter too much as the community seems to figure out who changes names pretty quickly. The why is always a guessing game, but an interesting one!

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5 hours ago, Chasingtail said:

Always stiring the coldren....  Until you have walked a block in there shoes, why wonder.

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7 hours ago, Chasingtail said:

Always stiring the coldren....  Until you have walked a block in there shoes, why wonder.

I got what you're saying.

It didn't confuse me.

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9 hours ago, Chasingtail said:

Always stiring the coldren....  Until you have walked a block in there shoes, why wonder.

Some never learn

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On 9/15/2017 at 9:02 AM, Chrissy said:

Hell,  I changed personAs more than Twice this last week!

Went from being Nervous at work to Having a Crappy attitude, to Having a Blessed day  and Being an angel to having a No good rotten low down dirty day. Which in turn made me No good low down dirty rotten .. But He liked it I was told 😎

I think that just makes you 100% woman....lol 

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On 9/16/2017 at 11:50 AM, Bella Marie said:

Italian for girlfriend.....

or fiancee'

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On 9/19/2017 at 1:38 PM, ilovewomen said:

The truth shall set you free

Or send you to jail, depending. B)

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