Chrissy

Really B!#$&.. You just logged in!

59 posts in this topic

She has every right to be pissed. This type of behavior places us all at risk.

 

6

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I do like when the gents ask me to be a reference, before I get the text from one of the beautiful girls... This gives me a chance to look them up.  I do have 14 Stevens, 16 Mikes, 12 Daves, so it takes a minute to remember...... I have a request, can gents come up with some better fake names.  Or better yet use your own ordinary name.  

 I have actually taken the time to give my clients referrals...  We need to protect each other.  I do apologise ladies, that my memory is not so Sharp and a bit blurry for my references I give.  Be Safe ladies.

 

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
7 hours ago, Chrissy said:

To all you hating ass escorts that do not want to return provider reference request ( profiles mentioned nothing about being non reference friendly ) but require references to book an appointment??? Really? ?? ,,

what is the deal? are you pissed because you're in fear of losing that client, or just want to be a hateful heffa, or feel you do not have the respect for another , or time to take out of your schedule to make sure a fellow is safe, what about the guy you saw the asked you about references when you told him you were totally cool with it ..???

quit logging in and reading our messages!!!

What is worse, is you do not want to reply to us, but then contact our reference request and not giving us the request  yet offering a lower discount special!!  Don't even bother opening up messages from another provider. Stop reading them and mention. You are a SOLO type provider. 

 this is almost 2018 and we can see damn near every activity performed on almost all accounts !! 

Guess what ladies??? they tell on you !! trying to get us to beat your new recruited special :) and believe it or not most ladies these days can read.. 

you just get added onto a longer list that many of us already have, and many of us travel and have wonderful reputations that can be spread on.

trust me guys do ask "who do you know that I can see that is polite kind and will return a reference, I love variety" 

you're not on that list dumbass, so you just cut yourself out of some money.. I ask Why? You got in this business for money didn't you?

Otherwise you will happily pay to be on an escort board and offer completely free zero funds commitment services..

That is like a massage only provider advertising on escort boards and claiming not to do full service.. to me it's just b*******.. there is a body rub section.. and it is cheaper LOL

Yes! I'm pissed. Business is not the same for everyone and when someone invest almost $500 to provide an in-call that is not a Super 8 or Motel 6 or Best Western.

These guys are putting effort and time into making sure they check out legitly with their references . They have schedules in a life too...I am okay with one or two ladiis maybe even 3  if he has many, but not responding back??  the volume of no replies is getting higher and higher..

I do not wish Vengeance on anybody but I hope these heifers learn the valuable lesson of actually caring and loving about our community and keeping us safe..it keeps them safe too, 

rant and appointments lost over time  traded for a shot of whiskey:)

# drunk Irish woman in ten minutes or less on the way.,

Hell I am there lol!

I'm sorry this happened to you Chrissy. I completely agree with Laci. 

There are a lot of providers who are not reference friendly anymore.

Then we have providers who are, but the guy has to jump through hoops with her before he is allowed to use her as reference.

I honestly could never understand why it is being made so difficult.

I just want to say thank you to all ladies who provide me references. I am 💯 reference friendly. 

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

"quit logging in and reading our messages!!!

What is worse, is you do not want to reply to us, but then contact our reference request and not giving us the request  yet offering a lower discount special!!  Don't even bother opening up messages from another provider. Stop reading them and mention. You are a SOLO type provider. 

 this is almost 2018 and we can see damn near every activity performed on almost all accounts !! 

Guess what ladies??? they tell on you !! trying to get us to beat your new recruited special :) and believe it or not most ladies these days can read.. "

 

Ok, what am I missin here?  Who is loggin in (and logging into where?) and reading what messages?  And what activity on what accounts are you referring to? 

I am so confused...

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I only have one stipulation with references...that they contact me first before they tell you that I am their reference. I do check to make sure that all of you ladies are legit, and when I hear from them I make sure I am available when you call. I have had wives pretend to be an escort to find out if their man is playing, and I have had guys use fake girls or bad numbers to hopefully get in the door(even recently). Safety is a must!

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

5

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I've said it before and I will say it again... if a gent is wanting me to provide a reference for him,  he MUST do one of two things:

1.  Contact me FIRST and remind me who he is, where we met, etc. and let me know to be expecting "so and so" to contact me for a reference. OR

2.  Provide enough details to the other provider so that she can let me know same when she contacts me.   OTHERWISE, I have no way of knowing whether or not I have actually met with him.  I don't save names, I don't save numbers (Unless they are bad guys who I don't want to see again).

3

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Chrissy I agree its not cool! There's a couple of girls down here I can count on, and they can count on me. I was contacted by a lady recently and I got back to her pretty quick and she was so grateful. Why? Because she then felt safe. I'd give a reference to anyone. I don't care who it is, if someone got hurt because I didn't give someone a reference....nope I would feel like a shitty, shitty person. 

The Colorado market is over flooded. Too many girls, it's slow, and nobody wants to share. It will thin out and return to normal.

Guys, pay attention to who you see and when they say they will give a reference and then don't, don't see them again. 

 

 

 

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have been wondering the same thing Chrissy, especially in regards to providers that will only accept references for screening... However, what Danielle is saying makes a lot of sense.  Gentlemen, please make sure you ask your reference to provide the reference first before giving us names and numbers!  It will save us all a lot of time and strife :)

That being said, I am also reference friendly ( but please only text or email me for them 😂), and truly believe that one of the most important benefits of being in this hobby is the variety of people that both client and provider get to meet... So being possessive or not providing references for the sake of " keeping a client to yourself" takes the safety and fun out of it for everyone! 

3

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
9 hours ago, Chrissy said:

 this is almost 2018 

 

30 minutes ago, Melissa Sterling said:

The Colorado market is over flooded. Too many girls, it's slow, and nobody wants to share. It will thin out and return to normal.

Time is changing and it seems it's so hard to rely on some old school methods. Time to evolve the game. K ;)

 

 

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Not time to evolve the game. These providers need to be named and voted off the island.

 

5

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
6 minutes ago, Laci French said:

Not time to evolve the game. These providers need to be named and voted off the island.

 

They're already off the island, cause they're not playing by the rules. :o

BTW, outing is a rule not to be broken on this forum. :confused:

3

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I should have said what Danielle and Samantha said is true 😂 ... Also, I want to thank the  ladies that helped me out  in regards to the how to's of screening and other things when I was first starting out.. PM's and phone calls, and just being a friend made a huge difference to me, and honestly helped me be a better provider :)

Edited by Emily Jordan
3

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm now into my second tailgating beer and I can see clearly now (NOT) I placed your post TOB post in the forum translator

and here's what it spit out in return.

It's not the willingness to give out reference, but the lack of respect they have for you. K :angry:

 BLAM !, Damn Bitches. :rolleyes:

38b79bfbd6f86e2c0531fbe1f0b1f6cc.jpg

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

deceit and lack of teamwork can only lead to less safety for both provide and client this should not be in any way acceptable

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

There is never a reason for a lady not to provide a reference to another lady, even if you don't like her. When you refuse to give a reference, you endanger everyone.

You know who you are. Quit being a bitch and help your fellow sisters.

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
10 minutes ago, airamericavet65 said:

deceit and lack of teamwork can only lead to less safety for both provide and client this should not be in any way acceptable

I agree....but on the flip side if someone contacts you about a client using you falsely as a reference ( which has been happening lately) the provider gets mad at you if you say you haven't seen them🤔..... LE is trying NEW TRICKS....

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
4 minutes ago, Bella Marie said:

I agree....but on the flip side if someone contacts you about a client using you falsely as a reference ( which has been happening lately) the provider gets mad at you if you say you haven't seen them🤔..... LE is trying NEW TRICKS....

Of course that's just my HONEST opinion 😙😙😙😙😙

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
3 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

There is never a reason for a lady not to provide a reference to another lady, even if you don't like her. When you refuse to give a reference, you endanger everyone.

I strongly disagree. Everyone is allowed to do business however they want. No provider owes you, or another provider, a reference. If she wants to avoid giving them, and asking for them, that's her right, IMHO. If she wants to screen using IDs and home addresses, that's her right, too. You have the right to see someone else. 

However, if a provider REQUIRES references, she's a fool to ignore a reference request. As Chrissy noted, she's going to hurt her own business.

This is why I like P411. My references are available there, for anyone who is a member. You can trust them, or contact them. Easy peasy!

 

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
14 minutes ago, Bella Marie said:

Of course that's just my HONEST opinion 😙😙😙😙😙

honesty is the key to everything

2

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
1 minute ago, airamericavet65 said:

honesty is the key to everything

If a person doesn't stand by their TRUTH then what do THEY stand by or for?😙😙😙

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On the one hand this is complete bs.  Same thing happens to guys, we see you log in, we see you post and we see you ignore our appointment requests. It does help me determine who goes on the 'excluded' list. 

/sarcasm filter on/

On the other hand, 

I can have chrissy call on my behalf and get a discount rate? Chrissy we may be on to something here, just need to figure out how we split the discount. 

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
23 minutes ago, Bella Marie said:

If a person doesn't stand by their TRUTH then what do THEY stand by or for?😙😙😙

I have met people that are nothing like their online persona...might not even know who they really are inside.  

I just don't understand not wanting to help keep someone safe.  We place ourselves at risk and it just makes me so angry that some providers are placing more risk on others.  

Chrissy, please send me the providers name so I can take note.  Thanks!

Edited by Laci French
0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
2 hours ago, Mackonit said:

I'm now into my second tailgating beer and I can see clearly now (NOT) I placed your post TOB post in the forum translator

and here's what it spit out in return.

It's not the willingness to give out reference, but the lack of respect they have for you. K :angry:

 BLAM !, Damn Bitches. :rolleyes:

38b79bfbd6f86e2c0531fbe1f0b1f6cc.jpg

Boom LOL @ K

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
42 minutes ago, Citori said:

On the one hand this is complete bs.  Same thing happens to guys, we see you log in, we see you post and we see you ignore our appointment requests. It does help me determine who goes on the 'excluded' list. 

/sarcasm filter on/

On the other hand, 

I can have chrissy call on my behalf and get a discount rate? Chrissy we may be on to something here, just need to figure out how we split the discount. 

LOL I know right! 

2 hours ago, Mackonit said:

I'm now into my second tailgating beer and I can see clearly now (NOT) I placed your post TOB post in the forum translator

and here's what it spit out in return.

It's not the willingness to give out reference, but the lack of respect they have for you. K :angry:

 BLAM !, Damn Bitches. :rolleyes:

38b79bfbd6f86e2c0531fbe1f0b1f6cc.jpg

Boom LOL @ K

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, Citori said:

On the one hand this is complete bs.  Same thing happens to guys, we see you log in, we see you post and we see you ignore our appointment requests. It does help me determine who goes on the 'excluded' list. 

/sarcasm filter on/

On the other hand, 

I can have chrissy call on my behalf and get a discount rate? Chrissy we may be on to something here, just need to figure out how we split the discount. 

Xoxo

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
55 minutes ago, Laci French said:

I have met people that are nothing like their online persona...might not even know who they really are inside.  

I just don't understand not wanting to help keep someone safe.  We place ourselves at risk and it just makes me so angry that some providers are placing more risk on others.  

Chrissy, please send me the providers name so I can take note.  Thanks!

I couldn't agree more with you Lacy unfortunately there are some providers who have to stay either high or drunk while on a call and it doesn't make it fun for everyone that's why I stand by my word😙😙😙😙😙😙

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, pfunk said:

I strongly disagree. Everyone is allowed to do business however they want. No provider owes you, or another provider, a reference. If she wants to avoid giving them, and asking for them, that's her right, IMHO. If she wants to screen using IDs and home addresses, that's her right, too. You have the right to see someone else. 

However, if a provider REQUIRES references, she's a fool to ignore a reference request. As Chrissy noted, she's going to hurt her own business.

This is why I like P411. My references are available there, for anyone who is a member. You can trust them, or contact them. Easy peasy!

 

This is about safety. A client can have 17 okays on P411 and then beat the living crap out of a provider.

How is a provider to know if it is the first time or a second time or how many times a client has been rough or beat a provider unless the ladies will provide references between each other?

There are ladies on this board who ask for references from other ladies and then refuse to give out references themselves when asked.

That is who I am talking about.

If a lady doesn't want to give references, then she should not expect to receive references from other ladies.

 

1

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Damnit...I'm still trying to figure out wth y'all are talking about with the "seeing you log in"  "reading our messages"  etc.  Is this a p411 thing or wth are you referring to?  It's driving me nuts LOL  Somebody fill me in plzzz xoxo

0

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Please sign in to comment

You will be able to leave a comment after signing in



Sign In Now