Audrey Astor

Crossing boundaries....

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8 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

That is even worse Laci! Damn everyone is entitled to buy food to eat! Sad thing is I never even looked at him my blinders on so tight. Just was that embarrassed. I found myself in a tunnel zeroed in on getting that carton of almond milk. Going back to the store today to pick up what I forgot. I should not have to do this. Oh well! I am a victim of embarrassed idenity! The world keeps spinning. 

I'd like to think that the perpetrator wasn't a member here, maybe he's just some sad lonely person who hangs out on BP all day, waiting for a new ad to appear. 

Of course, you could have answered "I don't know what you're talking about... are you saying my twin sister is an escort?"

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13 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said:

Of course, you could have answered "I don't know what you're talking about... are you saying my twin sister is an escort?"

Love it!!!

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Being an introvert, I get nervous around beautiful ladies so I sometimes say stupid things or accidentally stare awkwardly.  Not saying that is what was happening in any of the anecdotes, they may have just been jerks.

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Most you guys and gals have responded with compassion, clarity, and seem like very reasonable people. Again, I appreciate this.

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Audrey you have received a lot of advice on how to deal with this.  Personally I would not let him enter into your personal world either on social media or as a client.  I would not threaten him in anyway unless he provokes a problem.  I would just ignore his requests.  If he is not a person who has bad intents he will go away.  if on the other hand if he does have other ideas you will know soon enough then you can decide what to do.  Not an easy answer to your query in any case but just hang tough and with any luck the problem will resolve itself. 

If you do by chance run into him in RL and he mentions things then you should politely tell him in no uncertain terms that both worlds do not mix and that is your philosophy. you can thank him for wanting to see you but you do not feel it would be a good idea on either of your parts.  Only confront him if he is being malicious.  An old saying:  you catch more flies with sugar than you do with vinegar.   You can catch many but some will still get away and piss you off. then you use the fly swatter    Just my 2 cents.

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