Selective Providing....

[Guest]

3 hours ago, sparkey600 said:

Nope, it's too late for garage sales.

Monopoly!

Hmmmm, you landed on Boardwalk and I have 2 hotels there......what to do?? LOL!

 

Play strip poker!💋💋💋💋💋😂😂😂😂😂😂💞💞

[jus12pla]

Personally - I tend to select selective providers.  I have a more respect for a provider who will tell a disrespect client that - "instead of our nice little playtime together - why don't you go outside and play Hide and Go Fuck Yourself?"  

I am pretty sure that if legalization and legislation ever did happen it wont be possible write in verbiage like "provider must accept all dicks unless they are dicks".   No matter what - this is a personal service and personal decisions trump PC-ness.  IMHO

 

[stevie-2249]

35 minutes ago, jus12pla said:

Personally - I tend to select selective providers.  I have a more respect for a provider who will tell a disrespect client that - "instead of our nice little playtime together - why don't you go outside and play Hide and Go Fuck Yourself?"  

 

and you know the providers who do this? you know of a few that complain on here and that's it! 

[Bit Banger]

36 minutes ago, jus12pla said:

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 I am pretty sure that if legalization and legislation ever did happen it wont be possible write in verbiage like "provider must accept all dicks unless they are dicks".  ...

 

But if legislation/regulation doesn't explicitly carve out an exception, some PC dick will push the issue. 

[Guest]

1 minute ago, stevie-2249 said:

and you know the providers who do this? you know of a few that complain on here and that's it! 

Ok....so confused by this statement doll?....

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[stevie-2249]

9 minutes ago, Bella Marie said:

Ok....so confused by this statement doll?....

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exactly what it says, the guy said he selects providers who are selective, I simply said how would he know that a provider is selective unless the provider is on here or other sites complaining about us guys

[Guest]

6 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said:

exactly what it says, the guy said he selects providers who are selective, I simply said how would he know that a provider is selective unless the provider is on here or other sites complaining about us guys

Complaining?.... Or stating that we (providers) are humans too?... Would you like being disrespected at your job?... Regardless of what a person does to support themselves human decency is something we ALL should give.... Would you respect us more if we were on the street begging for money?....the cost of living is outrageous now.... A person struggles making a living...without a doctorate a person must work at least 2 jobs if they are a single income....

Edited August 5, 2017 by Bella Marie

[JoDoe27]

31 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

But if legislation/regulation doesn't explicitly carve out an exception, some PC dick will push the issue. 

What do brothels do? Are those ladies required to see every guy that picks them? That is a current legal model. I'm curious how that works. 

[Admiral C]

EVERYONE KNOWS ANY LADY HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHO SHE WILL OR WILL NOT SEE!!!! ..............

 

.....unless the person is of a different race, religion, or sexual orientation.  Then refusing them makes her a horrible bigot whore.....

[Bit Banger]

17 minutes ago, JoDoe27 said:

What do brothels do? Are those ladies required to see every guy that picks them? That is a current legal model. I'm curious how that works. 

Good point. IDK. 

Ladies w/experience care to enlighten us?

[stevie-2249]

40 minutes ago, Bella Marie said:

Complaining?.... Or stating that we (providers) are humans too?... Would you like being disrespected at your job?... Regardless of what a person does to support themselves human decency is something we ALL should give.... Would you respect us more if we were on the street begging for money?....the cost of living is outrageous now.... A person struggles making a living...without a doctorate a person must work at least 2 jobs if they are a single income....

I'm sure every lady has this issue, it's been brought up a few times, and yes you have the right to turn down  who you want, can you imagine how many threads would be on here if every lady came on here complaint about it? 

[CandiO]

57 minutes ago, Admiral C said:

EVERYONE KNOWS ANY LADY HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHO SHE WILL OR WILL NOT SEE!!!! ..............

 

.....unless the person is of a different race, religion, or sexual orientation.  Then refusing them makes her a horrible bigot whore.....

You just contradicted yourself. If I choose to not see a black man, thats my right to choose. I also dont care to see Indian men, thats my right to choose. I also wont see bisexual men. Again thats my right to choose. I have no issues with Asian men, Hipanic men or any other flavor of client. I wont see clients under 40 either. My reasons are none of YOUR damn business and I am NOT a horrible bigot whore. I also dont care for men who are overweight and have to lift up their roll to access the jewels, many of which havent actually seen their own junk or smegma without the aid of a mirror. Try giving a french lesson to that type of client. Nor do I care to see men that cannot maintain an erection, fully knowing they have ED, dont clue me in and expect me to revive the dead. Suck on a soft cock for 45 minutes and tell me how your facial muscles feel after....and for what? Nothing. I also wont see men over 70 because they remind me of my grandpa.

I want to get jiggy with someone that turns me on and rocks my world as well, not a client I find repulsive. You wouldnt date women you find unattractive, right? Many white men do not care to date black women. How come I am not extended the same courtesy, in your eyes? You my friend are more of a narrow minded bigot than you accuse us 'horrible bigot whores' to be. It is my business, my body and I will see and not see anyone I damn well please. Yes I am a whore, but not a horrible bigot you make us out to be. And quite personally, I dont give a fuck what you think.

Rant over

[jus12pla]

57 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

Good point. IDK. 

Ladies w/experience care to enlighten us?

Am curious as well - anyone know how that works in NV or other places on the planet?  Can ladies choose or are they pressured to take all cummers?  (sorry)  

 

[Admiral C]

1 minute ago, CandiO said:

You just contradicted yourself. If I choose to not see a black man, thats my right to choose. I also dont care to see Indian men, thats my right to choose. I also wont see bisexual men. Again thats my right to choose. I have no issues with Asian men, Hipanic men or any other flavor of client. I wont see clients under 40 either. My reasons are none of YOUR damn business and I am NOT a horrible bigot whore. I also dont care for men who are overweight and have to lift up their roll to access the jewels, many of which havent actually seen their own junk or smegma without the aid of a mirror. Try giving a french lesson to that type of client. Nor do I care to see men that cannot maintain an erection, fully knowing they have ED, dont clue me in and expect me to revive the dead. Suck on a soft cock for 45 minutes and tell me how your facial muscles feel after....and for what? Nothing. I also wont see men over 70 because they remind me of my grandpa.

I want to get jiggy with someone that turns me on and rocks my world as well, not a client I find repulsive. You wouldnt date women you find unattractive, right? Many white men do not care to date black women. How come I am not extended the same courtesy, in your eyes? You my friend are more of a narrow minded bigot than you accuse us 'horrible bigot whores' to be. It is my business, my body and I will see and not see anyone I damn well please. Yes I am a whore, but not a horrible bigot you make us out to be. And quite personally, I dont give a fuck what you think.

Rant over

The self contradiction, in both word and print size were intentional sarcasm that I think you missed.

[FuriousWeasel]

2 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

exactly what it says, the guy said he selects providers who are selective, I simply said how would he know that a provider is selective unless the provider is on here or other sites complaining about us guys

He's looking for one that's selective enough to not see him!

[Bit Banger]

2 minutes ago, FuriousWeasel said:

He's looking for one that's selective enough to not see him!

I'm reminded of a Groucho Marx quote:

I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member. 

[jus12pla]

 

1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

I'm reminded of a Groucho Marx quote:

I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member. 

No - I'm more of a Harpo guy Bit.  honk honk.   

4 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

and you know the providers who do this? you know of a few that complain on here and that's it! 

Everyone has their own selective processes Stevie - a wee arrogant of you to presume you have clue about what I do and do not know. No?

I glean things on here and elsewhere and try to communicate a bit in advance.  I'm not a prolific connoisseur so I try to do my homework the best I can and even when I've misjudged a time or two - I still had a good human experience and learned a little more.

Clients and providers are both allowed to be selective as they please.  If a provider is put off by my curly hair, dopey looks and honker - I will SELECT someone else with no hard feelings and be grateful that they gave me a pass.  Why would I want to play with someone who doesn't want to play with me?  

 

[Guest]

1 minute ago, jus12pla said:

 

No - I'm more of a Harpo guy Bit.  honk honk.   

Everyone has their own selective processes Stevie - a wee arrogant of you to presume you have clue about what I do and do not know. No?

I glean things on here and elsewhere and try to communicate a bit in advance.  I'm not a prolific connoisseur so I try to do my homework the best I can and even when I've misjudged a time or two - I still had a good human experience and learned a little more.

Clients and providers are both allowed to be selective as they please.  If a provider is put off by my curly hair, dopey looks and honker - I will SELECT someone else with no hard feelings and be grateful that they gave me a pass.  Why would I want to play with someone who doesn't want to play with me?  

 

Being selective for me has nothing to do with physical attributes doll.....it has to do with how I'm being approached and the manner in which you handle yourself💋💋💋....

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Don't ever lose your way, patience young grasshopper! I am with you! As long as you want me I will be only a call away. Some of these people who call are so down on their luck the only thing they know how to do is lash out. Remember we all in this together. 

Edited August 6, 2017 by Kali Sensual Reiki

[fishndude57]

I'm still trying to figure out who is or isn't doll. Getting rather repetitive. 

Edited August 6, 2017 by fishndude57
Forgot doll

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3 minutes ago, fishndude57 said:

I'm still trying to figure out who is or isn't doll. Getting rather repetitive. 

Everyone is doll....doll...would you rather me call you stud?😉💋💦

[boink36]

1 hour ago, Bella Marie said:

Everyone is doll....doll...would you rather me call you stud?😉💋💦

 

[Guest]

22 hours ago, JoDoe27 said:

What do brothels do? Are those ladies required to see every guy that picks them? That is a current legal model. I'm curious how that works. 

I have experience! So, the ladies line up, unless it's busy then they mingle. A girl asks the guy if he would like to party(brothel term for sex). So you take a guy back, you negotiate and either book the date or he says no thanks and moves on. The girls are all independent contractors so they charge what they want,(though you can't charge less than 100). Things are also done off of time. $100 gets you a 5min bj or hi. Remember the house gets half, so an hour is likely going to be a minimum of $600, and you're likely really to only get 45 min. When a girl tells the cashier she booked the date, she tells them the time and then you hear over the intercom in your room, "TIME". That's the basics. Oh and GFE, not only discouraged, but way more money! I personally charged 1K for an hour GFE. 

You think the competition is bad here, you have to be superior in negotiation skills. It's not easy work!!!! Thick skin is an understatement. It's cold, impersonal, and lonely. 

All the above reasons and many more are why I never went back.

[Admiral C]

It does sound stressful and lonely. From the standpoint of this thread, it sounds like that system has provider selectivity built into it. The girl would simply not ask to party with a guy she did not especially like for any reason. I also like the second layer of selectivity defense created by the independent contractor status......If a guy asks a girl to party who really would rather not, she could just ask for a prohibitive price that would make him look elsewhere.

[Guest]

13 minutes ago, Admiral C said:

It does sound stressful and lonely. From the standpoint of this thread, it sounds like that system has provider selectivity built into it. The girl would simply not ask to party with a guy she did not especially like for any reason. I also like the second layer of selectivity defense created by the independent contractor status......If a guy asks a girl to party who really would rather not, she could just ask for a prohibitive price that would make him look elsewhere.

Exactly! And there's a panic switch, guys get out of line and security is right there. But yeah, both parties get to be selective. Problem is though, if you're too selective, you don't make any money. I went there to make money, so I wasn't too selective. You have to pay the house rent also.  Where I worked there was a 12 hr shift. Money doesn't really start rolling in til after 10pm so I was working 15-18hr days in heels and lingerie. Sound fun? Some houses make you work 24 hrs and you can't leave. 

 

[fishndude57]

12 hours ago, Bella Marie said:

Everyone is doll....doll...would you rather me call you stud?😉💋💦

Errrr dud would work 🤣

[gr8owl]

On 8/3/2017 at 11:01 PM, Chrissy said:

Its my body ..I sell it to who I want to. 

 

 

Simple, yet perfect description.  Regardless of why you say no, you have the absolute right.  All the other arguments and attempts to bring protected classes in, etc. is just clutter.

[Chrissy]

On 8/5/2017 at 11:29 AM, Bit Banger said:

Good point. IDK. 

Ladies w/experience care to enlighten us?

I have That experience. We All still have a say. After he pays the house fee an enters our rented domain, decisions are made. Yes or No either way The house does not penalize you for it.  It also depends if you reside in house or come in every day for your shift. Only downsides are the 50/50 cut and you have to buy ALL  in house supplies,  dealing with major chickattudes and competition.

But at the end of every day, Every woman has a choice. This isn't a MANDATORY "I wanna see you so it will happen" business.

 

[JoDoe27]

@Melissa Sterling and @Chrissy

First, thanks for responding!

Second, since there was mention of legalization forcing women to surrender their choice, and since you both worked in a legal situation; where there ever complaints or lawsuits filed against the women or establishment because some guy was told no?

[Chrissy]

36 minutes ago, JoDoe27 said:

@Melissa Sterling and @Chrissy

First, thanks for responding!

Second, since there was mention of legalization forcing women to surrender their choice, and since you both worked in a legal situation; where there ever complaints or lawsuits filed against the women or establishment because some guy was told no?

Brothel work is actually easier, safer and more plentiful than Independent escorting, next up is working for an agency.

All the drama, hassles, rip offs and just plain nonsense stops with these two options. 

Men, Woman, Couples go in knowing they do not have the upperhand and best behavior is expected.  One thing you guys did not see on the television specials in Nevada and such are the levels of security that is around. A buzzer and gate isn't the only vice.

When I say a Brothel is safer I truly mean it with out giving away detail.