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Hello everyone! 

I'm new here, this might seem like an odd first post... I haven't been in the world of escorts for over 3 years, (getting my foot back in the door seems almost impossible btw!!) 

Anyways, I was with a woman over 3 years ago from the Brighton area that I really hit it off with using Backpage.  I treated her right, and vice versa.  We were only together a few times, but we both agreed there was definitely more of a connection there than usual.  The best I can describe her is she went by "Zondra", and had a set of eyes tattooed on her lower back.  She would remember me as the 'pilot guy' whom she even made an out of state trip to have a visit with.  Again, I know this might be odd and a long shot, but if she is still in the game, I'd like to see her again.  If not, I'll keep trying to find another hot little philly to have some fun with who takes a guy without references. 

Take care, have a good day, I love all you ladies  :-)

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I hope you find her and the two of you can reconnect!  

Have you tried to google her name/phone or email?  Please keep us posted.

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Thank you!!  I have googled her with no luck. A while after our last visit she texted me with her new number, which I didn't save. Searching her still pulls up her ad on BP, but with old number.  

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Try a search of the photos in her ad. She might have a different name/number but using same photos

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If you are being entirely straight about and that is it, then good luck.  But who here knows you are not husband/boyfriend/pimp/stalker etc.?  Someone she absolutely does not want to see.  If anyone is all ambitious in researching and finding her for him keep this in mind.  If anyone does know her, send her a link and let HER decide if she contacts him.  JMO

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1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

If you are being entirely straight about and that is it, then good luck.  But who here knows you are not husband/boyfriend/pimp/stalker etc.?  Someone she absolutely does not want to see.  If anyone is all ambitious in researching and finding her for him keep this in mind.  If anyone does know her, send her a link and let HER decide if she contacts him.  JMO

Very good point, I didn't think of my post coming across that way when I posted it... And yes, that is the best way for things to work out, I'm not expecting anyone to send me any personal info by any means.  

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11 hours ago, gr8owl said:

If you are being entirely straight about and that is it, then good luck.  But who here knows you are not husband/boyfriend/pimp/stalker etc.?  Someone she absolutely does not want to see.  If anyone is all ambitious in researching and finding her for him keep this in mind.  If anyone does know her, send her a link and let HER decide if she contacts him.  JMO

I didn't even think about that possible scenario...the  optimist in me.  

Great advice gr8owl!  

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12 hours ago, gr8owl said:

...  But who here knows you are not husband/boyfriend/pimp/stalker etc.?  Someone she absolutely does not want to see.  ...

It's happened before. 😕

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On 7/27/2017 at 9:00 PM, gr8owl said:

If you are being entirely straight about and that is it, then good luck.  But who here knows you are not husband/boyfriend/pimp/stalker etc.?  Someone she absolutely does not want to see.  If anyone is all ambitious in researching and finding her for him keep this in mind.  If anyone does know her, send her a link and let HER decide if she contacts him.  JMO

Good point.

Thanks for this.

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On 7/27/2017 at 1:11 PM, outlaw1 said:

Hello everyone! 

I'm new here, this might seem like an odd first post... I haven't been in the world of escorts for over 3 years, (getting my foot back in the door seems almost impossible btw!!) 

Anyways, I was with a woman over 3 years ago from the Brighton area that I really hit it off with using Backpage.  I treated her right, and vice versa.  We were only together a few times, but we both agreed there was definitely more of a connection there than usual.  The best I can describe her is she went by "Zondra", and had a set of eyes tattooed on her lower back.  She would remember me as the 'pilot guy' whom she even made an out of state trip to have a visit with.  Again, I know this might be odd and a long shot, but if she is still in the game, I'd like to see her again.  If not, I'll keep trying to find another hot little philly to have some fun with who takes a guy without references. 

Take care, have a good day, I love all you ladies  :-)

 

On 7/27/2017 at 4:08 PM, outlaw1 said:

Thank you!!  I have googled her with no luck. A while after our last visit she texted me with her new number, which I didn't save. Searching her still pulls up her ad on BP, but with old number.  

 

On 7/27/2017 at 10:24 PM, outlaw1 said:

Very good point, I didn't think of my post coming across that way when I posted it... And yes, that is the best way for things to work out, I'm not expecting anyone to send me any personal info by any means.  

Are you really being totally honest with the forum members. Can you send a link to the Backpage ad? I think not!!

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6 hours ago, *Merlin said:

Are you really being totally honest with the forum members. Can you send a link to the Backpage ad? I think not!!

Easy enough to find a couple of links to old ads on the sites that steal ads from Backpage. Was able to find them via Google of "zondra denver escort".

That said, nothing memorable/remarkable about the ads (sorry) to trigger any memories, looks like usual stolen photos, so would not have called myself. Three plus years ago for the ads, so, probably long gone from the biz (at least Denver area). 

One needs to always remember the old line of "escorts are paid to leave": enjoy the memories, but she will not be around forever, and one needs to live with the transient nature of the biz.

As a note, even with an established board profile, would not share the requested type of information: no idea who they really are and what their purpose might really be here.

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I feel like I'm being made out to be a creeper here!! It was seriously a legit inquiry. Like I said, i haven't been around this in over 3 years, I realize these professional ladies can change identities for their own safety and odds are she has moved on,  was just curious about an old connection. Nothing more. 

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Look at an old phone bill from that time, use the waybackmachine, or better yet, find someone new?  Just don't be an outlaw about it. :)

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On 7/30/2017 at 9:42 AM, outlaw1 said:

I feel like I'm being made out to be a creeper here!! It was seriously a legit inquiry. Like I said, i haven't been around this in over 3 years, I realize these professional ladies can change identities for their own safety and odds are she has moved on,  was just curious about an old connection. Nothing more. 

Sorry man, but safety first! Around here everyone is suspect till proven otherwise. Just the way it goes, don't take it personally

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