Lucy Kitten

off the clock time and extended dates

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5 minutes ago, MrReindeer-9515 said:

In re the OP: 

While I think there will always be a large part of the constituency on TOB that will take every opportunity for self promotion/status bullshit regardless of which side of the envelope, there will always be a much larger community outside this fishbowl that eschews the nonsense that is prevalent here.

It's too bad that as one of the few women that choose to use this as a forum vs a free advertising source, there are a cadre of hypocrites that seem to respond negatively to just about every post you make. 

Why make it personal?

If an individual's ideas can't stand up to the scrutiny of public debate, then perhaps they should rethink their theories. 

Mom the topic of off-the-clock time & discounts for extended sessions I think the consensus is: some do, some don't. 🙀

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14 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

Why make it personal?

If an individual's ideas can't stand up to the scrutiny of public debate, then perhaps they should rethink their theories. 

Mom the topic of off-the-clock time & discounts for extended sessions I think the consensus is: some do, some don't. 🙀

I don't think that I did make it personal; if you choose to take it personally...

And I'm sure I don't know what you mean re ideas that can't stand up to the scrutiny of public debate. I tend to agree with a lot of what she posts(and apparently have to take some crap for it) and judging by the green rep points she garners for many/most of her posts(I know maybe not the best metric, but we use the tools available), I'm not the only one.

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I live a full life with a full time career and I feel I hardly have time to see the friends I've made even outside of the hobby. I wouldn't consider giving my time away for free if you've sought me out through a site like this. [snip] I've had clients from out of state gladly fly me to their fair city and not question paying for all hours spent with me. I can't say I can think of a reason why Colorado hobbyists would feel so special as to think they deserve un-clocked hours. 

Sure, I schmooze to advance my day job, but I'm salaried so that time doing so is essentially already paid for. I don't think it's logical to justify one with the other. Automotive technicians are paid a flat rate, by how much work they produce, not by how many hours they actually spend in shop. Accountants are salaried. Escorts are paid hourly. 

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It moves beyond seeing yourself as a commodity and seeing yourself as someone who loves to get to know new people and also experience the profound intimacy that this hobby provides.  It's not just a constulting gig.  When adults, male and female, are able to take their clothes off and expose themselves to another  receptive human being it transcends the normal limits of social interaction.  Lucy's attiude is fine.  It's the role of a working girl who wants to have a one and done.  Fotunately there are many ladies who want to experience intimacy on a much grander scale and see where it leads.  

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2 hours ago, H2Opieluver said:

Oh we have another Rudolph sighting!

Kudos to Mrs Geppetto!

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3 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Why make it personal? ...

 

3 hours ago, MrReindeer-9515 said:

I don't think that I did make it personal; if you choose to take it personally...

My remark was more a general admonition, not directed at you. Why make it personal, as in, why did this become a 'pile on Lucy' thread?

Sure, I have my disagreements with Lucy, and with others. But I try to focus on the topic, the ideas, instead of the person expressing those thoughts. (Yes, it's hard sometimes.) Why did I quote you? Because you seemed to be making a very personal defense. 

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Why would this have been made it's own thread? I didn't start this thread I am not the author I replied to Laci's thread so why is it now two threads?

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5 minutes ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Why would this have been made it's own thread? I didn't start this thread I am not the author I replied to Laci's thread so why is it now two threads?

Just pure speculation on my part...I think it might have something to do with you hijacking and making a total shit show out of my thread.  

Mods do correct me if I'm wrong.

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2 minutes ago, Laci French said:

Just pure speculation on my part...I think it might have something to do with you hijacking and making a total shit show out of my thread.  

Mods do correct me if I'm wrong.

Nope I wasn't the one that turned it into a shit show. I respectfully disagreed with Stevie. Please show me how I hijacked by keeping it on topic? I was trying to salvage your thread because it was turning into the opposite of what you intended. If you intended it to be a thread about guys who don't see the value in paying for extended dates then you succeeded but don't me mistaken it wasn't me who threw your thread off track. The shit show began Melissa thought it was cool to openly insult me and then everyone piled including you, you who always tells everyone to play nice.

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1 hour ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Why would this have been made it's own thread? I didn't start this thread I am not the author I replied to Laci's thread so why is it now two threads?

I'm pretty sure Boink decided to single you out. He's just fair and balanced like that. :rolleyes:

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I am the type of escort that charges for my time. Sorry guys! I do think the world of my clients, and look forward to seeing them, but I am a very busy lady that has to balance things. Also, as an escort part of the deal is if you want to know me more, the pay is more. Time is money! [snip] I do think it silly to charge full hour rate for just dining or watching a movie, but it is not free." Heck, my friends and family know time with me costs(talking their ear off, helping me out, listening to them gripe about Aunt Betty, etc.) .

I will say that I have found that if you give a client an inch, they will take a mile, and so you have to be discerning on who you want as a friend, and who is strictly there to pay the bills(yes, some clients don't do well with mixing the two). It is a skill you hone, trying to keep them straight, and it can be tough, but making friends in this business can be done just not with all sadly. I can tell the difference between a client wanting to know me more as a friend, and one that wants to date me. I will decline on those as I already have people in my life I have to clean up after and take care of, and they are a full time gig. :)

I have come to the reality that some clients will pay for bigger packages, and others just want to be pampered. It is nice to have the differences and keep this business from becoming monotonous. I, for one relish both and it would get kind of get old going out for dinners every night. Sometimes, this lady just wants a good lay! LOL!

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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1 hour ago, pfunk said:

I'm pretty sure Boink decided to single you out. He's just fair and balanced like that. :rolleyes:

The admin that split this thread sent her a detailed message as to exactly why the thread was split. that admin was not me so you are only making yourself look foolish. ;) 

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6 minutes ago, boink36 said:

The admin that split this thread sent her a detailed message as to exactly why the thread was split. ...

Was that before or after her query?

2 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Why would this have been made it's own thread? ...

 

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6 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

Was that before or after her query?

 

The query was 2 hours ago. the message was sent 11 hours ago. the drama could have been avoided by sending that question to that admin. clearly avoiding drama was not the goal.

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49 minutes ago, boink36 said:

The query was 2 hours ago. the message was sent 11 hours ago. the drama could have been avoided by sending that question to that admin. clearly avoiding drama was not the goal.

Thank you for that response. 

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3 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Why would this have been made it's own thread? I didn't start this thread I am not the author I replied to Laci's thread so why is it now two threads?

I'm pretty sure you know why this is now a separate thread.  The mod that moved my post into this thread gave me a plain and some explanation.

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2 hours ago, pfunk said:

I'm pretty sure Boink decided to single you out. He's just fair and balanced like that. :rolleyes:

It was not Boink that split this thread, it was another admin

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3 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Nope I wasn't the one that turned it into a shit show. I respectfully disagreed with Stevie. Please show me how I hijacked by keeping it on topic? I was trying to salvage your thread because it was turning into the opposite of what you intended. If you intended it to be a thread about guys who don't see the value in paying for extended dates then you succeeded but don't me mistaken it wasn't me who threw your thread off track. The shit show began Melissa thought it was cool to openly insult me and then everyone piled including you, you who always tells everyone to play nice.

The original thread was about what people would like to do besides just having sex in a session.

You originally contributed with a positive post about things you like to do outside of the bedroom.

Then you went off on a diatribe condemning providers who have made friends with some of the guys they see and saying they like to do things off the clock, in public with these friends. This was not keeping the original on topic.

You commented several times condemning providers and saying they are wrong for doing that and that your product has been devalued.  PRODUCT...who the fuck looks at this as a product?

The original thread was progressing in a positive note until you went off on your multiple comments "trying to salvage the thread" as you call it.

Your intent was not to salvage the original thread..it was to condemn and ostracize Laci, Melissa and any other lady that has made friends with the guys they see and enjoy doing things off the clock with them.

You don't have to like the guys you see, you don't have to make friends with them or do things off the clock with them.  That is your perogative. Just like it is other ladies perogative to enjoy doing things with the guys they see.

You just don't have to keep commenting about it multiple times.  Saying it once was enough.

You managed to spew venom in the original thread and this thread with anyone who has disagreed with your opinion..just like you do in every other thread you comment in.

I know you will write another thesis commenting on my post here stating that I am completely wrong and that everyone is piling on poor, poor Lucy. And that will only serve to prove my point and everyone else points about your negative comments.

 

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1 hour ago, boink36 said:

The query was 2 hours ago. the message was sent 11 hours ago. the drama could have been avoided by sending that question to that admin. clearly avoiding drama was not the goal.

Like I said in an earlier post on this thread, Lucy clearly loves to stir the pot.

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C'mon folks - let's play nice!  This is getting a bit nasty and mean.  Let's all take a step away from our keyboards, find our happy place and return with better vibes please.  xoxo

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9 hours ago, boink36 said:

The admin that split this thread sent her a detailed message as to exactly why the thread was split. that admin was not me so you are only making yourself look foolish. ;) 

No one did that. I have no message.

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As a Client, I've neither asked nor had any expectations of "Off The Clock" extra curricular activities whether they be casual dining, fishing, skiing or a walk in the park. This is, after all, a Business first and foremost for the ASPs, right?

If however, after the On The Clock activities are completed and there's chemistry between the two of us and it's at her suggestion, I would be thrilled.

I'd also like a brand new fishing boat and a 3/4 ton pickup to haul it around. I'll see which one happens first for me since "neither" is likely to happen for me anytime soon.

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On 6/21/2017 at 2:35 PM, MrReindeer-9515 said:

In re the OP: 

While I think there will always be a large part of the constituency on TOB that will take every opportunity for self promotion/status bullshit regardless of which side of the envelope, there will always be a much larger community outside this fishbowl that eschews the nonsense that is prevalent here.

It's too bad that as one of the few women that choose to use this as a forum vs a free advertising source, there are a cadre of hypocrites that seem to respond negatively to just about every post you make. 

Agree!! Bashing is not original

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