Laci French

Date ideas that are more than just the bedroom

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This is a topic that most of the gentleman see a different perspective of.  Ladies offer time and companionship not adult activities.  Yes we charge all friends "clients" for time.  

When there is a meeting arranged through our advertised method there is a donation in place for the time that will be spent together. This is why we make the duration of time specific. 

If I meet you in my personal life, it is clearly outside of fantasy land. I of course will not be collecting a donation. 

The horizon is open in our real world lives. 

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1 hour ago, pfunk said:

We, as men, want to believe that you, as women, WANT to spend time with us.

However, that is not the case. You have personal lives, boyfriends, husbands, children, friends, and relatives, that you want to spend off-work hours with.

Just like the rest of us, work hours are for earning money, not playing. Personal hours are for personal lives.

Unfortunately, many of us clients forget that. Although we wouldn't give our work away for free, we hope you escorts will. We keep hoping you're gonna choose to include us in your personal lives.

Eventually, most of us accept reality, but it takes time. 

True this, but there are occasions where we may provide opportunities to a Lady, and a Lady us that are beyond the scope of client Provider. A chance to fish on the water instead of the shore, a chance to invade my tackle box, a chance to restring with some quality Seagaur #10. A chance to try Pho for the 1st time, or Armando's. A chance to be encouraged to get your hunters safety card, and pull trigger on a 60 mile an hour duck (fun stuff). A chance to bend the ear of a third person when we need to bend the ear of a third person, either for personal reasons or advice, personal or business. For me it's been and seems to remain a 2 way street. I have a nasty habit of being real, it's why I get into these situations. After that Business is Business. I also have been fairly compensated for professional duties I fulfill on occasions by some of our friends, key word friend. 

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16 minutes ago, Laci French said:

This has turned into a damn shit show.  

Why does every damn thread have to turn into such a mess?  I threw this out because I thought it would be fun to change things up a little.  I wanted to know others thoughts, but now it has turned into a heated battle of words, all because of different views. For fucks sake we can all have different views and it doesn't mean there is a right/wrong. 

I think it would be fun to have experiences outside the bedroom and I don't feel it always has to be about the money. 

Mods, please close this thread.  

I've been saying this for a while now Laci. It doesn't seem like anybody is allowed to have their own opinions on this forum without getting blasted. 

When I read your first comment, I thought this sounded like a pretty neat idea from an awesome lady with a pretty down to earth attitude. I thought to myself since this is essentially your idea then you probably would not be charging a rate for said time and that the great fun that you would be having was payment enough. I still think this is what you meant ( please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong).

Now on the other hand if this was something that the client had brought up and discussed with one of the fine ladies then , yes, I would expect that there would be some kind of agreement as to compensation for time.

I might be way off base here, but I think this is what Laci might have been talking about in her original post. 

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On 6/19/2017 at 4:18 PM, Chrissy said:

One of my favorite guys cooked dinner last night! Actually grilled. We ate, played with his dog, drank wine and then had dessert.

To me its very common that to go to Concerts, picnics, horseback riding, miniature golf ect ect. Also having no commitments allows me that freedom. 

The older I get I  tend to go for the more mature slower paced gentlemen. I do love the quick and sweaty  but find myself more attracted to the higher age range. There's more life in their eyes, their advice is sincere and its NOT always about the doing it :) but what's built before and after hand I enjoy ..I have amazing relationships with these gents that I adore and will cherish for ever. 

I highly recommend that some of the ladies let loose enjoy dinner, laughter, running around the backyard playing naked tag! And so on.    

It is a hobby and what are hobbies for??

To HAVE FUN!!!!!!   

Very well said Chrissy, I am a little older myself , and had some great longer dates with some of my favorites in the past. It gives you a chance to get to know each other a little more and when you do have the fun part it makes it that much better for both of you. I know not all ladies are interested in that type of date, but some like to do it and it gives us a chance to have fun together in a different way !

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I would like a dinner or lunch together package, then back to the room. But if not, running around naked in the room, different positions on the sofa or on the floor, or how about some kink with Dr and nurse play. All these providers have great bodies and I like to see them model a bit.

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I'm 45 years old and have found one needs more than just an envelope filled with bennies.  I need a connection in the encounters or I find myself feeling mechanical and even demeaned.

About 75% of my dates are regulars and those are special relationships that we share.  There are still clear and defined boundaries, but those dates are to me far more satisfying.  

Not always able to spend hours off the clock, but when able I thoroughly enjoy that time because I'm with a friend.  That makes the "scheduled" intimate time special.

Everyone is different and expects/needs/wants different things, but I would rather make true connections and see those gentlemen than have the 3G experience.  

This thread took a turn about rates and that was not my intention.  I wanted to know date ideas and how many of you gentlemen would be interested.
 
I have a very full and happy life. I'm not looking for love in these encounters, just something more than 55mins of banging. 
 
Now throw out some ideas on encounters...
 
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I personally love history so going to the museum would be fun with a like minded person.

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Yes, there are many options.  I think it all starts with a level of trust and feeling safe for all involved.  That is part of the nature of the hobby, when you get to know someone at an intimate level, it opens the door to the possibility of more encounters that are not just centered on the BCD acitivities.  Feeling safe is a prequisite, and I think for the gentlemen, having a laid back, warm loving approach helps establish that trust.  Not to brag, but I have been the beneficiary of ladies that have said, they never ventured out of the realm of limited time bound dates, until I proposed it.  Now there are many motives and needs that people bring to this odd hobby, but my experience says that humans want a connection, and if both people want to try something slightly out of the mainstream, it's probably a good thing to try.  All must be aware of the limited nature of the connections established.  There are many intervening factors and venturing outside of the one date and gone mode, creates the possiblity of disappointment and broken hearts.  But like I have said before, it's far more interesting than golf.

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12 hours ago, Laci French said:

This thread took a turn about rates and that was not my intention.  I wanted to know date ideas and how many of you gentlemen would be interested.
 
Now throw out some ideas on encounters...
 

   I could use a sexy helper to shoot music festivals. That would be a fun date. But I'm pretty much up for anything from dinner to camping to taking in a burlesque show to whatever. As for sex in public like on hiking trails...not the right time of year. Horseback riding to secluded  (hard to get on foot ) waterfalls....awesome.

 

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I Assume the following is the kind of answer the OP is looking for:

I love playing board and card games. Settling down with a pretty lady whose company you enjoy, and a bottle of wine or two.  Use the game to set the mood.

CRIBBAGE:

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15-2, 15-4, and then you can give her that run of 5 all night.  I have actually had a session with a provider who was a cut-throat cribbage player.  Both the game and the session afterwards was very enjoyable.

Dirty Scrabble.

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Words from both the scrabble dictionary and the urban dictionary are allowed. In addition to the lady's regular session rate, if the lady plays a word describing and adult activity, and then later in the session engages in that same activity with you, you must tip her an amount DOUBLE the number of points she earned for the word.  Play defensively guys!  "BLOWJOB" is a 7 letter word, and played on a triple word score could easily earn the lady 125 points or more!

PANZERBLITZ

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Can she defend against your massive panzer thrust right up the valley?!? I love a woman with a military mind!  Afterwards, find out if she really CAN handle that massive panzer thrust!

 

You get the idea.  Just do something fun with a pretty lady BEFORE you do something fun with a pretty lady!

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This is something I have been interested in as well

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On 6/21/2017 at 9:58 AM, Laci French said:
I'm 45 years old and have found one needs more than just an envelope filled with bennies.  I need a connection in the encounters or I find myself feeling mechanical and even demeaned.

About 75% of my dates are regulars and those are special relationships that we share.  There are still clear and defined boundaries, but those dates are to me far more satisfying.  

Not always able to spend hours off the clock, but when able I thoroughly enjoy that time because I'm with a friend.  That makes the "scheduled" intimate time special.

Everyone is different and expects/needs/wants different things, but I would rather make true connections and see those gentlemen than have the 3G experience.  

This thread took a turn about rates and that was not my intention.  I wanted to know date ideas and how many of you gentlemen would be interested.
 
I have a very full and happy life. I'm not looking for love in these encounters, just something more than 55mins of banging. 
 
Now throw out some ideas on encounters...
 

Exactly how I have started to feel. Still see my very first client ever and he's a dear friend for life! In fact, he and my husband are very good friends as well. We have gone on hikes together, some sexy, some as friends. Another dear friend who passed away I went to Rockies games with. It's nice to have people who you can share a friendship in and out of the bedroom. I can't think of anything more intimate than being able to share your mind and body with. 

I don't know Laci, maybe it's because we're older and we seek more than the 55 minutes or we just have the experience and need more than just sex. It's routine at times.

I had dinner last night with an Indian man and we talked about culture and geography, philosophy, literature etc and by the time we left I was more turned on by the conversation than if we had just had sex. It made the bcd activity that much better. 

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I tried to post about this the other day (see my summer fun post) but because I recently just discovered this group, I didn't become familiarized with the rules and my post was modified. Personally, I just want to have a festival buddy, someone to catch concerts with or have dinner. I wouldn't be asking for donations unless we were having a bedroom hour at the end of the night, and still I would only expect donation for that One hour.

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16 hours ago, Yorick said:

I Assume the following is the kind of answer the OP is looking for:

I love playing board and card games. Settling down with a pretty lady whose company you enjoy, and a bottle of wine or two.  Just do something fun with a pretty lady BEFORE you do something fun with a pretty lady!

   Naked twister was a blast with a couple of escorts. So was strip poker,especially after the clothes were lost and the sex acts became the next bet.

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Posted (edited)

The Denver Polo Classic.

A chance to see some of the finest horses and riders in the country. 

A chance to dress up in our summer finest afternoon attire and enjoy good food and drink. Tickets are pricey but for a good cause.

I even dress up for this old cowboy its like croutons on a cow pie. The ladies all look outstanding.

 

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On 6/22/2017 at 11:36 PM, Lucylucyloveland said:

. Personally, I just want to have a festival buddy, someone to catch concerts with or have dinner. I wouldn't be asking for donations unless we were having a bedroom hour at the end of the night, and still I would only expect donation for that One hour.

    Looking into the crystal ball...I see lots of concerts in your future

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On 6/21/2017 at 9:58 AM, Laci French said:
I'm 45 years old and have found one needs more than just an envelope filled with bennies.  I need a connection in the encounters or I find myself feeling mechanical and even demeaned.

About 75% of my dates are regulars and those are special relationships that we share.  There are still clear and defined boundaries, but those dates are to me far more satisfying.  

Not always able to spend hours off the clock, but when able I thoroughly enjoy that time because I'm with a friend.  That makes the "scheduled" intimate time special.

Everyone is different and expects/needs/wants different things, but I would rather make true connections and see those gentlemen than have the 3G experience.  

This thread took a turn about rates and that was not my intention.  I wanted to know date ideas and how many of you gentlemen would be interested.
 
I have a very full and happy life. I'm not looking for love in these encounters, just something more than 55mins of banging. 
 
Now throw out some ideas on encounters...
 

I love your comment that you" like to make a connection." I always strive with my providers to make a special connection in the first 15 minutes. When I do so, both of us throughly enjoy our meeting. I still like my idea of meeting and talking over lunch and getting turned on then heading to her place for an hour of fun. I think this should be done ONLY after meeting at least one time beforehand

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On 6/22/2017 at 11:36 PM, Lucylucyloveland said:

I tried to post about this the other day (see my summer fun post) but because I recently just discovered this group, I didn't become familiarized with the rules and my post was modified. Personally, I just want to have a festival buddy, someone to catch concerts with or have dinner. I wouldn't be asking for donations unless we were having a bedroom hour at the end of the night, and still I would only expect donation for that One hour.

Now...let me ask a question sure to set off outrage, nasty comments, and pontifications on the stereotyped roles of men and gentlemen. OK....so you are down with a concert\dinner "friend"........and only expect a donation if\when there are bedroom hours. No problem. Tell me......The Concert Tix...parking...dinner......who's picking up those tabs?

 

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9 minutes ago, Admiral C said:

Now...let me ask a question sure to set off outrage, nasty comments, and pontifications on the stereotyped roles of men and gentlemen. OK....so you are down with a concert\dinner "friend"........and only expect a donation if\when there are bedroom hours. No problem. Tell me......The Concert Tix...parking...dinner......who's picking up those tabs?

 

The gentleman.  Always.

 

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50 minutes ago, Yorick said:

The gentleman.  Always.

 

I concur!

But to be clear, there have been a few overnights (her hosting) when I've been treated to breakfast, both home cooked & at a local eatery.

Of course when I'm hosting, I often serve fresh baked scones with her favorite morning beverage. 

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On 6/20/2017 at 2:15 PM, b781 said:

Golf date would be fun.  Especially if it was later in the day and course was not crowded.  Could gamble on a few holes maybe for some kissing and sensual fun.  Then just flirt and play the rest of the round.  Might lead to some buildup that would make the 19th hole pretty fun :)

I've gotten laid and blown on a golf course a couple of times - not paid, a girlfriend/etc.  It was fun.

I like the idea of an off-the-beaten-path type of situation as Laci suggested, though!

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No one has said this but beer tasting or wine tasting. I am a connosieur and would love it if I could do that with someone that is interested as well.

I agree on horse back riding, museums, theatre, card games, sports, outdoor movie(lots of necking with this one), painting and wine, laser tag, etc. 

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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SultryKitten took the words right out of my mouth. I'd love to go on a date involving beer/wine tasting. Sounds like it could be a really good time. 

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Why does everything have to be so darn complicated? If you need a companion to take you to some event, put an ad out on Craigslist and your inbox is gonna fill up faster than the cum bucket at a Bukkake gangbang. 

If you're looking to get paid, charge your rate. 

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On 23.6.2017 at 7:36 AM, Lucylucyloveland said:

Personally, I just want to have a festival buddy, someone to catch concerts with or have dinner.

... and you're looking for that person on an escort board.......:confused:;)

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