Laci French

Date ideas that are more than just the bedroom

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Lately I'm finding myself wanting more from encounters than just the bedroom banging.
 
Going hiking and doing the "date" on the hike would be a blast!  Or like Fish was talking about going shooting with Audrey(anything with her is fun😂).  Going to a baseball game.  Fishing and then play on the boat.  
 
Is this something of interest?  What are your thoughts...
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I think a Rockies game would be fun.  Having to split attention between the game and you would be a blast.  Some playful flirting during the game to build anticipation.  Then after the game, being able to spend an hour of shared pleasure with you would be awesome.  Hmmmm....who knows what might happen?  ;)

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I guess I just wonder how many of you wonderful men would be interested in providers offering adventure encounters??😉

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You know I'm always up for anything...this sounds like fun

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19 minutes ago, Laci French said:
 
I think going hiking and doing the "date" on the hike would be a blast!  

  Be carefull on where you go to do that.The mountains are alive with hikers this time of the year. 

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10 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  Be carefull on where you go to do that.The mountains are alive with hikers this time of the year. 

And Ticks! Yikes! :eek:

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I love the GFE idea of a concert or hike, then playing hide and seek!  My problem are the Benjamin's....

Average Red Rocks show is $120, shows last 3-4 hours, preferred hide and seek session is 90 minutes - that's a total outlay of $1840 at standard rates!

I'm normally a very generous guy, but.... Yeee-OUCH!  

I'm curious how YL's would approach it...?

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2 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

  Be carefull on where you go to do that.The mountains are alive with hikers this time of the year. 

Perhaps they would like to join in as well???

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29 minutes ago, lintlizard said:

I love the GFE idea of a concert or hike, then playing hide and seek!  My problem are the Benjamin's....

Average Red Rocks show is $120, shows last 3-4 hours, preferred hide and seek session is 90 minutes - that's a total outlay of $1840 at standard rates!

I'm normally a very generous guy, but.... Yeee-OUCH!  

I'm curious how YL's would approach it...?

I think it would depend on the lady. Some have stated that their hourly rate is expected for dinner etc period, some will work out a deal. I think it depends on folks individual situation.  There is no right or wrong answer, except to agree on expectations up front prior to the event. Obviously this may not work for a local attached guy or provider, but it will work for some. I think all you can do is approach and ask in a respectful way. 

I've been asked to go to an Epic, and I do mean epic concert in another state. I am assuming that we will have dinner, sports bar etc, and some fun. I will not be charging my hourly rate. I am honored to get to go. All of us just have to find out what works for us budget and time wise. 

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12 minutes ago, Audrey Astor said:

Perhaps they would like to join in as well???

    this  is where we point out that not all of the hikers are ....of age to join in. 

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there is no reason why a man and a provider can't be friends and do things outside the hobby, now if the provider is asking to be paid the hourly rate for these activities then it probably isn't gonna happen unless your rich and have money to blow.

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1 hour ago, Audrey Astor said:

I think it would depend on the lady. Some have stated that their hourly rate is expected for dinner etc period, some will work out a deal. I think it depends on folks individual situation.  There is no right or wrong answer, except to agree on expectations up front prior to the event. ..

CAUTION:

This is where, if you ask the wrong provider, you may be accused of haggling. I agree that some YL expect full rate for every minute you spend with them. But it has been my experience that if you approach most YL with an interesting opportunity and a reasonable offer then they will negotiate for something fair to both of you. 

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On 6/18/2017 at 9:26 AM, Laci French said:
 
Lately I'm finding myself wanting more from encounters than just the bedroom banging.
 
Going hiking and doing the "date" on the hike would be a blast!  Or like Fish was talking about going shooting with Audrey(anything with her is fun😂).  Going to a baseball game.  Fishing and then play on the boat.  
 
Is this something of interest?  What are your thoughts...

I too occasionally like other activities.  I have taken ladies to concerts  movies or dinner.  I would like to go hiking fishing  or even to a museum.  I don't expect it to be free but at a reasonable rate. I do have occasional  tickets to the rockies also. Just trying to find someone to go with who  also really wants to go can be tricky though as time is their work and pays the bills and at the usual rate is almost  cost prohibitive.

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I've noticed that a lot of ladies already have rates listed for longer sessions. So the money thing shouldn't be that big of an issue because I've also noticed that the longer the visit the deeper the discount on the hourly rate.

So far outside of the bedroom I've gone on hiking dates, museum dates, geocaching dates, lots of dinners and movies. I've been to Epcot and the Metropolitan Museum of Art and saw the Atlantic Ocean for the first time. Oh and I almost forgot I also got to see Bruce Springsteen on a paid date! There is an interest for these types of dates but you have to find them and market to them. Most of the experiences listed above have been from out of state gents. Locally the popular longer date has been just dinner, which is somewhat disappointing considering all the fun stuff we have to do here!

Locally (Denver Metro) and on the less expensive side of things we have Water World, Elitches, Jazz in the Park at City Park on Sundays, First Friday,  art walks, Doors Open Denver and other local events, Taste of Colorado, Film on the Rocks, movies in parks all over town, swimming at the awesome pool in Eldorado Springs, Cherry Creek Aurora and Chatfield reservoirs, Denver Botanic Gardens, the many art museums, tubing in the Platte, renting city bikes and riding the trails, special events at the Alamo Drafthouse, midnight movie at the Esquire, seeing bands in dive bars, antiquing on Broadway, Renaissance Faire, . The options are endless.

I've always found it useful to put out there to my potential gents the events I am interested in, in hopes that that they share those interests and can add another layer of compatibility to a date. Rates are rates and everyone has their opinion but I think it's fair to assume that there should be an increase in cost on a longer date.

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19 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

there is no reason why a man and a provider can't be friends and do things outside the hobby, now if the provider is asking to be paid an hourly rate for these activities then it probably isn't gonna happen unless your rich and have money to blow.

My hobby is collecting books and it can get quite expensive. I recently found a gorgeous set of Tolkien books that are missing from my collection but sadly they were out of my price range. So instead of blowing my entire budget I'm going to save my money and hope they're still available when I can afford them. Unfortunately they're being sold online so I can't exactly befriend the seller in hopes that I might get what I want at a discount. You don't have to be rich to have "expensive" hobbies, usually a hobby is a passion that people save money for.

 

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Well, someone has to take the opposite position here.  In all honesty an encounter like mentioned about would not interest me. I have met some absolutely fabulously ladies in this hobby and I know they are many more great people on here that I hope to meet in the future. But, please take no offense, with very rare exceptions, I'm only interested in you for one thing. ;) I enjoy fishing, baseball, hiking etc. as much as the next guy, but doing those things while the meter is running does not interest me. Again, please, take no offense. :)

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Hmmm, have gone to dinner and movie, Rockies game off the clock before, naturally took care of all expenses like a so called regular date. Have to say really had a wonderful time in both instances. A lot better then some of my regular so called dates.

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I very much like this idea but wonder how the rates would work. 

Would you have predetermined packages with set rates or would the client come up with ideas and present them for a rate quote. Would a half hour at Taco Bell be less expensive than a two order dinner at a 5 star restaurant since the time spend is much less or does the quality of the meal factor into the equation? Would there be a discount in the rate if the date was shopping and purchasing shoes compared to seeing a movie that you have already seen? 

I like the idea and would be interested in learning more. 

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I actually get a chance to spend off clock time with some. Generally fishing, shooting, hunting, lunches, dinners. It's a break for them and as I live alone I'm not talking to myself all the time. Always play time is separate. I don't instigate, most times I'm asked. While I'm not as seasoned as most, I seem to do ok. I haven't been admonished except by one yet. I think sometimes a room and a bed are not what life is all about. 

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On 6/18/2017 at 9:26 AM, Laci French said:
 
Lately I'm finding myself wanting more from encounters than just the bedroom banging.
 
Going hiking and doing the "date" on the hike would be a blast!  Or like Fish was talking about going shooting with Audrey(anything with her is fun😂).  Going to a baseball game.  Fishing and then play on the boat.  
 
Is this something of interest?  What are your thoughts...

One of my favorite guys cooked dinner last night! Actually grilled. We ate, played with his dog, drank wine and then had dessert.

To me its very common that to go to Concerts, picnics, horseback riding, miniature golf ect ect. Also having no commitments allows me that freedom. 

The older I get I  tend to go for the more mature slower paced gentlemen. I do love the quick and sweaty  but find myself more attracted to the higher age range. There's more life in their eyes, their advice is sincere and its NOT always about the doing it :) but what's built before and after hand I enjoy ..I have amazing relationships with these gents that I adore and will cherish for ever. 

I highly recommend that some of the ladies let loose enjoy dinner, laughter, running around the backyard playing naked tag! And so on.    

It is a hobby and what are hobbies for??

To HAVE FUN!!!!!!   

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Love "extra" activities like baseball games etc. wouldn't expect my normal rate for that. Everyone has to do what they're comfortable with though. A game and then playtime after would be a package deal. Sounds super fun! Hell, I'd love to do lunch or dinner and then dessert, but I haven't been asked to eat with anyone  since January when Fishndude took me out for my birthday, and we're just friends.

Guys just ask a gal, hell some ladies may not charge at all. A nice meal and good conversation is always enjoyable. If you can't afford to pay the hourly, move onto someone else. 

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1 hour ago, Chrissy said:

My p.c froze sorry for interrupted post. 

I was actually trying to say I charge a flat rate when guys express interest in that sort of thing and it puts me up there with an avge of 10-14 overnights annually ..which I've been told is slightly higher than the norm per year..

I never mention hourly charge which puts me ahead of the game and keeps them thinking of seeing me..eventually. 

of course a guy is going to say

"well I want to go to the movies, have a bite to eat,then maybe golfing or some playtime elsewhere;) it could take anywhere from four to six hours but not your whole day or evening . I don't want to be charged per hour and clock watched for every hour that goes by..I am footing all expenses".

so my simple solution was a flat rate all included no hassles. when we're done we're done. 

Its just up to the lady to decide what that rate is and how to push it on the menu.. 

 

 

Glad to see someone else keeps thing simple. An all inclusive rate is how I approach things as well

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5 hours ago, Mustang87 said:

Well, someone has to take the opposite position here.  In all honesty an encounter like mentioned about would not interest me. I have met some absolutely fabulously ladies in this hobby and I know they are many more great people on here that I hope to meet in the future. But, please take no offense, with very rare exceptions, I'm only interested in you for one thing. ;) I enjoy fishing, baseball, hiking etc. as much as the next guy, but doing those things while the meter is running does not interest me. Again, please, take no offense. :)

I have to agree with Mustang here. Not looking to offend either, or objectify all the providers. Fact is, in the real world I have zero interest in dating, having a wife, fiancee, girlfriend, etc. so playing at it here does not make a lot of sense.

 

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Golf date would be fun.  Especially if it was later in the day and course was not crowded.  Could gamble on a few holes maybe for some kissing and sensual fun.  Then just flirt and play the rest of the round.  Might lead to some buildup that would make the 19th hole pretty fun :)

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57 minutes ago, b781 said:

Golf date would be fun.  Especially if it was later in the day and course was not crowded.  Could gamble on a few holes maybe for some kissing and sensual fun.  Then just flirt and play the rest of the round.  Might lead to some buildup that would make the 19th hole pretty fun :)

     Lets bring back the Porn-AM Golf Tournament !!!   :)

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I wouldn't have any interest in it. This may sound weird since I have no problem paying for sex but I just wouldn't pay someone to hang out with me. I have friends that I don't see enough of as it is so when I am looking to hang out with someone I call them.

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Being a married guy who cannot be seen out in public with a sporting companion, I have to admit that I am jealous of all you singles that can go on "dates."

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I'm a single guy so I can go out with any one I please, I like the idea of hitting a Rockies game, hiking, and for sure fishing since I love bass fishing, but I'm not going to pay a companionship rate for that stuff, I'm already busy with friends & family with that already, but If one of the fine TOB ladies would like top go to dinner, grab some drinks, game, hiking etc and just go out and have some fun getting to know each other that would great, and then finish with standard hourly rate for desert I think it would make the experience even better, and create a great time for the next time when it is just all bout the bedroom

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I just got back from a date with one of our very finest. Picked her up at 2:00, massage at 3:00, nice dinner at Armando's. Back to drop her off at 6:00. I paid for the couples massage, she insisted on nicely tipping our technicians. Dinner was supposed to be on me, she insisted on Dutch. No desert, no hanky panky, just a really rolling good time. She even texted me thanking me and she thinks I have sexy legs :rolleyes::P it's not just about a room and a bed. 

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