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Provider diatribe against this site

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Just had a horrendous discussion with a provider from BP who loathes this site. I believe it's because she had a less than positive review. I realize there are some providers who dislike TOB but this provider ranted and raved about how evil this site is and threatening to blacklist me. She even went so far as to call me a sexual deviant and pervert. All I did was ask her if she was part of this site and told her I was a respected member of this community.

PM me for more information as to who it is.

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6 hours ago, amcbl1 said:

All I did was ask her if she was part of this site and told her I was a respected member of this community.

That was probably enough, and most likely reinforced her opinions.

We see providers that advertise/post on this board say that they run into guys that pull the "I'm MrBigshot on TOB. Kinda big deal. Do as I say and you'll get a great review". Throw in the sometime preception that some folks on here, provider and or client, come off as or do think their shot don't stink, yeah, there are people out there that have a distaste for folks from here.

Personally, I do not use board handles unless provider requests a pm from the account. Comes off as douche-y throwing one's handle around, imo.

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Add: to be fair, could have possibly elicited same response if mentioning any other board. For example, providers on here have mentioned their disdain for TER.

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No worries. If she is only on BP, no danger of me running into her.

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Not so long ago there was a Mr. Bigshot.he is no more. He was anything but what his name proclaimed. Very nice man who visited several if us providers.
I do understand what you are trying to say.tho. we have a veriety of boards to pick from.

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8 hours ago, amcbl1 said:

Just had a horrendous discussion with a provider from BP who loathes this site. I believe it's because she had a less than positive review. I realize there are some providers who dislike TOB but this provider ranted and raved about how evil this site is and threatening to blacklist me. She even went so far as to call me a sexual deviant and pervert. 

First she gets mad, then she gives you a nice compliment.  These BP girls are so mixed up.

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19 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Not so long ago there was a Mr. Bigshot.he is no more. He was anything but what his name proclaimed. Very nice man who visited several if us providers.
I do understand what you are trying to say.tho. we have a veriety of boards to pick from.

I actually always thought it meant something else. LOL! Ya' know, "big shot". 

Punk, sorry that happened to you. She will find out the hard way when BP goes "asta la vista" and TOB will have to be what she falls back on, or she retires. Just don't get too mad about the pervert part, we wouldn't get paid if you weren't. ;)

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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23 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Not so long ago there was a Mr. Bigshot.he is no more. He was anything but what his name proclaimed. Very nice man who visited several if us providers.
I do understand what you are trying to say.tho. we have a veriety of boards to pick from.

Yikes....you make it sound like he is dead! However, I did notice that he suddenly stopped posting.

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1 hour ago, NoCoGeezer said:

That was probably enough, and most likely reinforced her opinions.

We see providers that advertise/post on this board say that they run into guys that pull the "I'm MrBigshot on TOB. Kinda big deal. Do as I say and you'll get a great review". Throw in the sometime preception that some folks on here, provider and or client, come off as or do think their shot don't stink, yeah, there are people out there that have a distaste for folks from here.

Personally, I do not use board handles unless provider requests a pm from the account. Comes off as douche-y throwing one's handle around, imo.

It's not douchy to say hey I am so and so on TOB but to tell a provider that you're a respected member of a site kind of is. That's why I always go with well reviewed instead of well respected because some around here may really disagree with me being respectable :lol:

It's fair to say that some have had really bad experiences with this site or other sites like it. Just like the many gripes around here about horrible BP is sometimes the tables are turned.

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5 hours ago, NoCoGeezer said:

That was probably enough, and most likely reinforced her opinions.

We see providers that advertise/post on this board say that they run into guys that pull the "I'm MrBigshot on TOB. Kinda big deal. Do as I say and you'll get a great review". Throw in the sometime preception that some folks on here, provider and or client, come off as or do think their shot don't stink, yeah, there are people out there that have a distaste for folks from here.

Personally, I do not use board handles unless provider requests a pm from the account. Comes off as douche-y throwing one's handle around, imo.

I never gave her my handle just told her I was a respected member of this community. This was in response to her comment" us classy ladies have nothing to do with that site." Her rants just got worse from there. I wasn't trying to impress her with anything. Just thought it was unfortunate she had that opinion of TOB.

 

2 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

It's not douchy to say hey I am so and so on TOB but to tell a provider that you're a respected member of a site kind of is. That's why I always go with well reviewed instead of well respected because some around here may really disagree with me being respectable :lol:

It's fair to say that some have had really bad experiences with this site or other sites like it. Just like the many gripes around here about horrible BP is sometimes the tables are turned.

Well I'm not exactly reviewed here unless it's by the moderators. Look at my response to the previous quote. That's why I said respected, though some may disagree.

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Thank gosh there are plenty of other nice reputable ladies here for you to choose.😘

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Just now, Audrey Astor said:

Thank gosh there are plenty of other nice reputable ladies here for you to choose.😘

Yes but it was really late and I usually get minimal response from the the respected ladies here when I ask for and I ask for an appointment at that hour of the night. Chalk up another failure for me from BP. 

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4 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Yikes....you make it sound like he is dead! However, I did notice that he suddenly stopped posting.

He kinda did!!

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8 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Yikes....you make it sound like he is dead! However, I did notice that he suddenly stopped posting.

Not dead. Life gets in the way. Sometimes a change of scenery is necessary when dealing with family issues.

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4 minutes ago, inkspot said:

Not dead. Life gets in the way. Sometimes a change of scenery is necessary when dealing with family issues.

^^^^This^^^^ I have it on good authority aka from Mr big shot himself, he's alive and well and spending time with his family. 

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6 hours ago, Melissa Sterling said:

^^^^This^^^^ I have it on good authority aka from Mr big shot himself, he's alive and well and spending time with his family. 

Sometimes family matters are more important than this. Glad he is doing well. :)

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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20 hours ago, amcbl1 said:

I never gave her my handle just told her I was a respected member of this community. This was in response to her comment" us classy ladies have nothing to do with that site." Her rants just got worse from there. I wasn't trying to impress her with anything. Just thought it was unfortunate she had that opinion of TOB.

 

Well I'm not exactly reviewed here unless it's by the moderators. Look at my response to the previous quote. That's why I said respected, though some may disagree.

Handle or no handle I think it's good policy to not tell people you're well respected and if you didn't give your handle you sound even more boorish.

So how come when TOB ladies say they're too high class for BP they don't get called out for anger issues? I think it's unfortunate that people have that same attitude about BP. Why is it so awful the other way around? This group has said some super nasty thing about BP and it's users (someone called them refugees FFS) it shouldn't really be shocking that some BP users have some equally nasty things to say about this place.

Also it's kind of fucked up that you were willing to share her name because you didn't like her opinions. TOB is not used or appreciated by everyone and a lot of people don't really care about the TOB way of things and they shouldn't be forced to or punished if they don't.

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Bring up street walkers for both the TOB & BP crowd, then prepare to duck. Same thing when discussing escorts with strippers or church ladies.  Folks want to feel superior to someone else. 

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3 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Handle or no handle I think it's good policy to not tell people you're well respected and if you didn't give your handle you sound even more boorish.

So how come when TOB ladies say they're too high class for BP they don't get called out for anger issues? I think it's unfortunate that people have that same attitude about BP. Why is it so awful the other way around? This group has said some super nasty thing about BP and it's users (someone called them refugees FFS) it shouldn't really be shocking that some BP users have some equally nasty things to say about this place.

Also it's kind of fucked up that you were willing to share her name because you didn't like her opinions. TOB is not used or appreciated by everyone and a lot of people don't really care about the TOB way of things and they shouldn't be forced to or punished if they don't.

You have no idea how or what she was calling me or the members of this community. What I let on in my posts was only the tip of the iceberg. I did nothing to insult her. She overwhelmed me with insulting texts about me and this board threatening to blacklist me.

You call me boorish. While I respect the content of many of your posts, I've noticed you are always ready to jump to conclusions and demean the hobbyists of this board and run to the defense of providers on BP without knowing the exact situation. It wasn't just an opinion she had, I didn't even have time to block her number because of the enormous number of threatening and insulting texts she was sending. So yes, I felt that it was important to warn hobbyists here that if they want to see her not to mention this board. I did not publicly out her  here and am doing it only through back channels. If a hobbyist here still decides to see her, I wish him luck.

I have no absolute bias towards the ladies of BP besides knowing that it may be a crapshoot if I choose to see one of them as opposed to one the respected providers on this board. You have to admit the chance of running into a bait and switch situation is much greater on BP than choosing a provider here. She actually had a number of good reviews here that's why I was surprised at her vindictiveness towards this board and its members.

As I stated previously on this thread. The reason I was looking at BP providers was the late hour and the usual minimal response I get from providers on this board at later hours.

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Once again THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BP GALS!! It's how you handle your self and your business ....I know plenty of nice upscale ladies that use bp as just another advertising. 

Hell some of you TOBers are no better than the BP guys!! So it goes both ways!!

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23 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Handle or no handle I think it's good policy to not tell people you're well respected and if you didn't give your handle you sound even more boorish.

So how come when TOB ladies say they're too high class for BP they don't get called out for anger issues? I think it's unfortunate that people have that same attitude about BP. Why is it so awful the other way around? This group has said some super nasty thing about BP and it's users (someone called them refugees FFS) it shouldn't really be shocking that some BP users have some equally nasty things to say about this place.

Also it's kind of fucked up that you were willing to share her name because you didn't like her opinions. TOB is not used or appreciated by everyone and a lot of people don't really care about the TOB way of things and they shouldn't be forced to or punished if they don't.

No reason to be passive aggressive...I was the one that called them refugees.  

In my experience the men have no manners, show zero respect and that is not the kind of gentleman I want to spend my time with. I also require screening by p411 or provider references and those gentlemen do not meet those requirements.

This is another example...4AM text

"Never done this so yeah. Dont know how this works. But what im really lookin for is for a gal we can enjoy just for a couple hours next weekend. Me n my uncle. Nothin crazy. Just desiring a beautiful white female n u r just perfect. So can we make it happen?"

This isn't my idea of a good appt...js 

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Where are the BP girls posting now that the "adult jobs" section was shut down? 

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4 minutes ago, Gemma Chang said:

Where are the BP girls posting now that the "adult jobs" section was shut down? 

They're still posting on BP, but they've moved into the Women Seeking Men section.  Only real difference is they don't post rates.

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I find 'pervert' to be a term of endearment. Just sayin'.

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