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I suspect the lack of replies indicate that since she has reviews some good and some bad that it's really up to the individual to decide what is their comfort level is.

Also since you wrote one of the negative reviews posting here seems to be an attempt to draw attention to them which is understandable but I don't think will accomplish what you would like.  

As I've read many times on these forums sometimes it's best to go to the next provider on your list.  That sometimes get you a better result.🙂

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Thank you, I just stared this 1st one I was in a hurry to get out of there and Jordyn was the 2nd bad experience. looking for advice?

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Honestly?  I trust the bad reviews on here more than I do the good ones (especially if there are only a couple).  A series of bad ones?  Nyet.

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3 hours ago, Phil-anderer said:

Honestly?  I trust the bad reviews on here more than I do the good ones (especially if there are only a couple).  A series of bad ones?  Nyet.

I mostly agree.  There are several people on here that have stated that they will never give a bad review and have even stated that if the YL wants a review they will give a good one even if it was a bad experience.   However, some bad reviews are just sour grapes or from a bad actor.   In this case, 4 bad reviews in a row = Stay away.

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On 5/10/2017 at 5:30 PM, bonjon said:

Thank you, I just stared this 1st one I was in a hurry to get out of there and Jordyn was the 2nd bad experience. looking for advice?

The forums are a great place to mine nuggets of wisdom, learn from the mistakes of others.  Newbies usually get either ignored or hammered but hey, that's the Internet in a sentence.  Reviews are your friends.  There are other reviews sites as well, by checking two or three you can get a sense of what your experience might be like.  Look for providers that advertise they are newbie friendly.  That means they are willing to guide you through your awkwardness.  These links have been posted before but are worth your time to read:

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-an-Escort's-Favorite-Client

https://skipthegames.com/articles/about-escorts/tips-from-an-escort-dos-and-donts

Most of all remember these ladies are exactly that, ladies that deserve your respect and consideration.  You may have had a couple of bad experiences, take a step back, think about what you want and why those experiences didn't go well, then do some research and find a lady that will hopefully meet your needs.

A couple of tips that I have followed thanks to gentlemen wiser than I:

Only take the donation amount with you, maybe a little extra for a tip.

Don't take your wallet in with you.  You don't need it.  Plus your butt looks better!

Don't be a dick (sorry to all the Dick's out there)!  If it's not working with a provider you want to see, move on to the next.  You'll be amazed at how quickly your FAV list grows.  If you need to cancel, give at least 24 hours notice unless it's sickness or an emergency, but still give as much notice you can.  NoCallNoShow sucks (on both sides of the aisle).

You have to put a little effort in to things that provide you pleasure, so put some effort in.

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On 5/9/2017 at 0:44 PM, bonjon said:

Jordyn Lovley 615-567-3964
Colorado Escort

bad reviews what do you guys think.

https://theotherboard.com/users/102987


 

9 hours ago, CountryGentleman said:

I mostly agree.  There are several people on here that have stated that they will never give a bad review and have even stated that if the YL wants a review they will give a good one even if it was a bad experience.   However, some bad reviews are just sour grapes or from a bad actor.   In this case, 4 bad reviews in a row = Stay away.

There is a reason for that. Any Tom Dick and Harry can go to this site and see everything you've written. Writing a bad review on any of the women here (TOB community) nets you a shit storm of drama, foul text messages, threats, blacklisted and a verbose rebuttal telling everyone what a horrible human being you are. It may also come accompanied by a string of lies to defame your character. So why is it worth it? It would behoove you to write your reviews in more than one place. Write a good enough review and you'll be granted temporary VIP status. That gets you into the private chat rooms where the men can discuss things freely and openly. It also gets you access to the juicy details that get to the heart of what you're probably looking for. I'm not saying ignore these reviews, but I am saying be wary of reviews that are incredibly vague with only FS or GFE in the listed activities. At the very least look at several different sites to get you a more complete picture. As a rule of thumb, anymore, if I see more than 1 bad review anywhere, I'm looking elsewhere. Hope that helps.

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46 minutes ago, Vassago said:

 

There is a reason for that. Any Tom Dick and Harry can go to this site and see everything you've written. Writing a bad review on any of the women here (TOB community) nets you a shit storm of drama, foul text messages, threats, blacklisted and a verbose rebuttal telling everyone what a horrible human being you are. It may also come accompanied by a string of lies to defame your character. So why is it worth it? It would behoove you to write your reviews in more than one place. Write a good enough review and you'll be granted temporary VIP status. That gets you into the private chat rooms where the men can discuss things freely and openly. It also gets you access to the juicy details that get to the heart of what you're probably looking for.T I'm not saying ignore these reviews, but I am saying be wary of reviews that are incredibly vague with only FS or GFE in the listed activities. At the very least look at several different sites to get you a more complete picture. As a rule of thumb, anymore, if I see more than 1 bad review anywhere, I'm looking elsewhere. Hope that helps.

This is the best way to go about it. I have maintained over the years that reviews shouldn't be visible to providers. some of them can't handle the truth. 

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8 hours ago, Vassago said:

There is a reason for that. Any Tom Dick and Harry can go to this site and see everything you've written. Writing a bad review on any of the women here (TOB community) nets you a shit storm of drama, foul text messages, threats, blacklisted and a verbose rebuttal telling everyone what a horrible human being you are. It may also come accompanied by a string of lies to defame your character. So why is it worth it? ...

While not quite as dramatic as painted above, even an AVERAGE review may garner you some ill will.

8 hours ago, Vassago said:

... Write a good enough review and you'll be granted temporary VIP status. That gets you into the private chat rooms where the men can discuss things freely and openly. It also gets you access to the juicy details that get to the heart of what you're probably looking for. ...

Where is this private club?  I think you have TOB confused with a few other review sites which grant privileges for reviews.

I haven't participated on TER in over a decade, but it's my understanding reviews aren't accepted unless they're porn novels. ECCIE has accepted bad reviews, but NoShows are limited to the general forums and do not have the persistence of reviews.

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8 hours ago, boink36 said:

This is the best way to go about it. I have maintained over the years that reviews shouldn't be visible to providers. some of them can't handle the truth. 

I go back & forth on this is my head. Few people can "handle the truth"!  One of the major problems when introducing quality reviews at work was getting people to separate critique of natural flaws in their work from insults to their personal character.

Keeping  reviews in the dark may make reviews more honest, but also makes false reviews easier. I like that the ladies can read them & write a rebuttal. My major problem with blacklist sites is their privacy; I don't know if I've been mentioned or in what light.

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50 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

While not quite as dramatic as painted above, even an AVERAGE review may garner you some ill will.

Where is this private club?  I think you have TOB confused with a few other review sites which grant privileges for reviews.

I haven't participated on TER in over a decade, but it's my understanding reviews aren't accepted unless they're porn novels. ECCIE has accepted bad reviews, but NoShows are limited to the general forums and do not have the persistence of reviews.

I've noticed that reviews on TER are taking a softer tone.  It may be along with their new look they are also trying to be less specific detail orientated.  My personal opinion is to be more vague in the text but include the alphabet soup of activities.

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5 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

While not quite as dramatic as painted above, even an AVERAGE review may garner you some ill will.

Where is this private club?  I think you have TOB confused with a few other review sites which grant privileges for reviews.

I haven't participated on TER in over a decade, but it's my understanding reviews aren't accepted unless they're porn novels. ECCIE has accepted bad reviews, but NoShows are limited to the general forums and do not have the persistence of reviews.

Really? Because all of the items I mentioned above, with getting blacklisted possibly being the exception, has at one point in time occurred to me. And I have at the very least been threatened with it. I've also left out other things like getting death threats so I'm not sure what you mean by "dramatic". But I get it, you're a TOB man through and through and there's nothing wrong with that.

It's not a "VIP club". It's a status granted by writing reviews and it allows you free access to certain forums and details you wouldn't otherwise see. Of course you could simply pay for it or fake your way in.

A long time ago, while living in an apartment, I wanted the maintenance crew to fix a shabby lock on my front door. Their comment was that if someone really wanted to break in, they would no matter the lock on the door. I agree but they're also going to make an aweful lot of noise on the way in. 

I'm not advocating a change to the way TOB does things. Keeping the reviews private will not work in this culture. What I am suggesting is to step out of the glass dome and take a good look at the whole sky.

 

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5 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

I go back & forth on this is my head. Few people can "handle the truth"!  One of the major problems when introducing quality reviews at work was getting people to separate critique of natural flaws in their work from insults to their personal character.

Keeping  reviews in the dark may make reviews more honest, but also makes false reviews easier. I like that the ladies can read them & write a rebuttal. My major problem with blacklist sites is their privacy; I don't know if I've been mentioned or in what light.

Just like the "client only forum" on the old TOB a number or providers read every day, if you create the proper account you can read the blacklist sites.

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4 hours ago, Vassago said:

Really? Because all of the items I mentioned above, with getting blacklisted possibly being the exception, has at one point in time occurred to me. And I have at the very least been threatened with it. ...

Read it again 

9 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

While not quite as dramatic as painted above, even an AVERAGE review may garner you some ill will. ...

My "not quite as dramatic" comment was related to AVERAGE reviews. I don't doubt your issues for truely negative reviews. Sorry you've had such problems. 

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Without meeting her, i still think if the YL in question thinks youre cool , then shes cool and a fun time.  i have to think her NS and negative reviews are more indicative of the reviewers vibe than hers.   By the ratio of her reviews alone.  also maybebshes just had a hard time organizing a decent in call location for a minute. I xan understand that too.

The OP made his points in his review.  What would be the purpose of trying to drag her though the mud in the forum too.  Ive said this before, but the Yelp mentality with this online hobbying stuff really turns me off.

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3 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Read it again 

My "not quite as dramatic" comment was related to AVERAGE reviews. I don't doubt your issues for truely negative reviews. Sorry you've had such problems. 

Apologies. And I should have mentioned that the VIP status was for another board not this one.

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Stealing from a client when visiting his home then ripping off a client pretending to get a hotel room is beyond "vibe".  She is a thief and a rip off artist.

These  are some of the more valuable reviews that reveal her character or lack thereof. If you still think she has a good vibe, have at it.

In regard to provider rebuttals, I wrote a somewhat negative review.  The  provider said she had been partying all night long celebrating the release of her sister from prison. She was very hung over at our appointment. What did the rebuttal say?? She had been up the entire night sitting with her sick grandmother at the hospital.

I am sure the OP is still pissed off getting ripped off and is willing to help spread the word.  I view it as a public service announcement.

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52 minutes ago, inkspot said:

Stealing from a client when visiting his home then ripping off a client pretending to get a hotel room is beyond "vibe".  She is a thief and a rip off artist.

These  are some of the more valuable reviews that reveal her character or lack thereof. If you still think she has a good vibe, have at it.

In regard to provider rebuttals, I wrote a somewhat negative review.  The  provider said she had been partying all night long celebrating the release of her sister from prison. She was very hung over at our appointment. What did the rebuttal say?? She had been up the entire night sitting with her sick grandmother at the hospital.

I am sure the OP is still pissed off getting ripped off and is willing to help spread the word.  I view it as a public service announcement.

Fair enough. And those 2 stories to render suspicions I guess.  If I have a girl come out to my place, the access she has to take shit while I'm not aware is very limited. And supervised.  If anyone plays the pay for the hotel through me while you wait in the car BS, I'm gone before that can even happen.  Buyer beware.  Looks like April was a rough month for her.

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A lot has already been said on this thread but I thought I'd add one more, the Denver-specific sections on ECCIE are full of warnings by a member cautioning that she's a crook who stole from his place. I don't know if its the same person who's posted a review mentioning the same here on TOB but this should be more than enough reasons to stay away.

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On ‎5‎/‎13‎/‎2017 at 8:52 PM, Unclehazard91 said:

Without meeting her, i still think if the YL in question thinks youre cool , then shes cool and a fun time.  i have to think her NS and negative reviews are more indicative of the reviewers vibe than hers.   By the ratio of her reviews alone.  also maybebshes just had a hard time organizing a decent in call location for a minute. I xan understand that too.

The OP made his points in his review.  What would be the purpose of trying to drag her though the mud in the forum too.  Ive said this before, but the Yelp mentality with this online hobbying stuff really turns me off.

No show is the reviewers vibe rather than being about her?  In what parallel universe is the escort's "no show." the fault of the client? 

I do agree that the OP was completely unnecessary, but likely he's hurt and he wanted to hurt her. 

Regardless, even without applying statistics to the patterns in the reviews, the trail that she's leaving is not good, and if true, it's one that rarely ends well. 

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On 5/12/2017 at 9:46 PM, boink36 said:

I have maintained over the years that reviews shouldn't be visible to providers. some of them can't handle the truth. 

I've never thought about this. Actually, I think it might be an interesting idea. It would be good to know the "Cons" of it, because the "Pros" are very evident.

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5 hours ago, Bora Bora said:

I've never thought about this. Actually, I think it might be an interesting idea. It would be good to know the "Cons" of it, because the "Pros" are very evident.

I don't think it needs to be private. If I have a bad experience I will post it. Then again I tend to have no fear when the truth is on my side. My personality however so you  all have to make the decision for yourselves. Best of luck

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