Posted May 7, 2017 9 hours ago, BadBoy said: For gosh sakes, if I were so lucky enough to have a lovely lady join me for a dinner (or whatever) off the clock, I would be so thrilled to be getting time and companionship for free, the last thing I would think of was pushing my luck and asking for additional freebie sporting activities. In such a hypothetical situation, I am sure that I would suggest a little after-dinner activity, but for that I think you have to be willing to pull out your wallet. Sometimes, after a visit, my ATATF needs a ride somewhere, and I am thrilled to be able to help. In such cases, we are both very grateful - she is grateful because she doesn't have to pay for Uber (and maybe she enjoys the companionship), and I am grateful for the opportunity to spend more time with her, just hanging out, listening to music, and talking on the way. Now you sound like a professional John ! Lol somehow I'm sure you pay somewhere down the line at some point for something and I'm sure you're very pleasurable to be aroundsomehow I'm sure you pay somewhere down the line at some point for something and I'm sure you're very pleasurable to be around 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 7, 2017 should be fine with me, but i suggest not with any other clients. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 7, 2017 22 hours ago, Emily Jordan said: I have a regular client that has been with me for the entirety of my time in this business... Sometimes when it's slow, and I'm just sitting at home watching TV, I will send him a text and see if he wants to hang out ( he is unattatched). We just shoot the shit, like friends do, and when I get a call I leave, and he's cool with it. Sometimes when he is bored, he will send me a text and ask if I want to hang out.. I ALWAYS ask if it's for a session or just to hang out, and he always specifies. We have a great friendship, and a great business relationship... it can be done 😉... That's really a very great relationship! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 7, 2017 Why are Latin women obsessed with shoes and makeup? Doesn't make any sense, right? But it's predictable and dependable. No mistaking it. The way to a Latin woman's heart is to simply complement her shoes, tell she's beautiful, then have sex with her. Leave a fucking envelope. Why is this so complicated? I'll say it again. Compliment her shoes. Tell her she's beautiful, leave your envelope, fuck her brains out. Go home. Where the fuck does dinner fit into this? -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 7, 2017 12 hours ago, Jenniferxj6 said: I would think so also. You sound very perfect.👌💋🌹🕊. Wish all Gentelmen felt that way. I'm sure they get off On it. Just is gross and then I feel yuucky . So ! Rule s are rules 😃😃😃 de a great provider then shut it! Lol🎬⏰honesty is best. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 8, 2017 14 hours ago, 2Big said: i'am guessing she had a stroke. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 8, 2017 I had a regular arrangement with a gal on the East coast years ago... we would have dinner (on me of course) then frolic for 1-2 hours afterward. It started with a session, then 'hey, wanna have dinner?'. That turned into the reverse, and as she told it "hey, I have to eat sometime in the evening, so if that's free then great". We weren't going to McD's, believe me. I will admit after 5 or 6 times, it felt strange, because you do develop a friendship, and it seemed like a date. That said, I got over that feeling pretty fast. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 8, 2017 On 5/6/2017 at 7:19 PM, Jenniferxj6 said: I would think so also. You sound very perfect.👌💋🌹🕊. Wish all Gentelmen felt that way. I'm sure they get off On it. Just is gross and then I feel yuucky . So ! Rule s are rules 😃😃😃 de a great provider then shut it! Lol🎬⏰honesty is best. Sent you a pm as to why its not gross ,yucky and is a different situation than you imagine. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 8, 2017 I've treated very nice lunches without a session, just to catch up on life. But again, it's all about personal boundaries, what works for one person doesn't for another, and no explanations are required. Remember, "No" is a complete sentence as they say. I just want everyone to enjoy themselves. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 8, 2017 5 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said: Remember, "No" is a complete sentence as they say. Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 On 5/4/2017 at 7:21 PM, Jenniferxj6 said: I think I'm going to dinner with clients for free twice and both times The guys alway wanted more for free🤦♀️Is it just me or does this happen frequently . I get lonely in my travel sometimes and would like to go to dinner with somebody I just don't want the problematic situations that have follow . In my travels I like to come into town and then leave and not really talk to anybody from that town that works really well for me. Because I have my own business at home I don't want them to to cross over eachother I've had dinner or lunch with only a couple of ladies. One of the ladies I had visited multiple times and we seemed very comfortable with each other and the other lady we had lunch after second visit. I always gave her a tip for her time and paid for dinner but not the full rate for an appointment. The lady I had some outside dinner times with continued until she retired. We actually became business friends and I think it added quality to my appointments. I can see where someone can get mixed signals especially if the guy thinks this is more than a business. This can be a minefield for a lot of guys as they start to believe the illusion and forget it is a business arrangement and the dinner does not change that fact. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 7 hours ago, AaBrenly said: I've had dinner or lunch with only a couple of ladies. One of the ladies I had visited multiple times and we seemed very comfortable with each other and the other lady we had lunch after second visit. I always gave her a tip for her time and paid for dinner but not the full rate for an appointment. The lady I had some outside dinner times with continued until she retired. We actually became business friends and I think it added quality to my appointments. I can see where someone can get mixed signals especially if the guy thinks this is more than a business. This can be a minefield for a lot of guys as they start to believe the illusion and forget it is a business arrangement and the dinner does not change that fact. Seems to all come down to the maturity levels of the people involved, doesn't it? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 I've never had a gent ask or expect a free anything if I go for a bite to eat. That said, it's been ages since a guy came into town and asked for dinner and then a session. I like doing it because you can really get to know a guy and then dessert is well, sweeter. I don't charge for my time, the free meal and good company is payment enough. The clock and therefore PAID time starts when we get back to the place we're going to. This is of course just me. Other ladies charge for their time no matter where they are, I say good on them. However, no guy should expect anything, especially free time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 1 hour ago, FuriousWeasel said: Seems to all come down to the maturity levels of the people involved, doesn't it? Since when has maturity ever prevailed over lust? It doesn't matter how mature one is or how defined the boundaries are, off the clock time blurs the client provider line. Good times are had and emotions build it just happens. In another post someone mentioned they liked "feeling special" when it comes to off the clock time that I think is what can spark those mixed signals. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 If you respect the lady you are with you will treat her with respect- Lunch is sometime just lunch- dinner is just dinner. Respect - everyone deserves it 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 I do things off the clock a lot with those that I enjoy spending time with. The line is clear and it can be fun. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2017 (edited) 5 hours ago, Melissa Sterling said: I've never had a gent ask or expect a free anything if I go for a bite to eat. That said, it's been ages since a guy came into town and asked for dinner and then a session. I like doing it because you can really get to know a guy and then dessert is well, sweeter. I don't charge for my time, the free meal and good company is payment enough. The clock and therefore PAID time starts when we get back to the place we're going to. This is of course just me. Other ladies charge for their time no matter where they are, I say good on them. However, no guy should expect anything, especially free time. Dinner dates are always fun and I don't ask for payment besides the likely expensive meal for the few I get as well. Guys that request dinner are usually the more classier type and I love eating out. Won't do the occasional meet and greet type requests though where there's no guarantee they're coming back to my place and paying me after. Also dinner beforehand always make it easier for me to get the little guy up for the client as we have more of a connection lol... Edited May 9, 2017 by TS Madison Proudmoore 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2017 19 hours ago, TS Madison Proudmoore said: Dinner dates are always fun and I don't ask for payment besides the likely expensive meal for the few I get as well. Guys that request dinner are usually the more classier type and I love eating out. Won't do the occasional meet and greet type requests though where there's no guarantee they're coming back to my place and paying me after. Also dinner beforehand always make it easier for me to get the little guy up for the client as we have more of a connection lol... I have got to meet you! It takes a special kind of man that can pay to feed me. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 11, 2017 On 5/8/2017 at 7:58 AM, Phil-anderer said: I had a regular arrangement with a gal on the East coast years ago... we would have dinner (on me of course) then frolic for 1-2 hours afterward. It started with a session, then 'hey, wanna have dinner?'. That turned into the reverse, and as she told it "hey, I have to eat sometime in the evening, so if that's free then great". We weren't going to McD's, believe me. I will admit after 5 or 6 times, it felt strange, because you do develop a friendship, and it seemed like a date. That said, I got over that feeling pretty fast. I have to agree with you on your point made. But you have to remember that they are trying to make a living first and foremost. If you are lucky to become a friend, then that's just a great thing. But remember you have too keep the client and friend thing very separate 99.9% of the time. I have no problem with this, but it seems a lot of people do. That's where the strange feelings seem to creep up. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 11, 2017 14 hours ago, Laci French said: I have got to meet you! It takes a special kind of man that can pay to feed me. Could you imagine a Laci and Madison tag team? Um, I mean at dinner of course! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 12, 2017 On 5/10/2017 at 8:24 AM, Laci French said: I have got to meet you! It takes a special kind of man that can pay to feed me. I've done that. and I cooked with her. And I nailed the steaks. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 12, 2017 8 hours ago, Unclehazard91 said: Now how about breakfast? Sounds like a line from Murphy's Romance. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 15, 2017 This is a topic I have thought much about. Of course there is the "if you get the milk for free why buy the cow" thinking that stems from good buisness, but seeing as some ladies don't even want to have a meal (which is a common good buisness practice ) without charging while in any other type of buisness trying to charge for dinner or avoiding going to dinner could be dangerous if not disastrous. But I suppose the ladies are trying to preserve their goose by not giving anything up for free or wasting time on clients who are just trying to get free services or be a boyfriend. But what escort wants to risk losing a regular by giving them something for free? On the flip side many guys don't want to go out with their escorts for various reasons, some of them like annonimity are I'm sure quite valid, while other guys are perhaps looking for their next girlfriend and are trying to get their dicks sucked for free, which Im sure is happening all the time and the reason why the ladies are so protective of their time. But in the end with both sides treating each other like a gold mine, or one side treating the other as a gold mine, alot of the best rewards and situations are lost and a certain predatory mentality is developed that will potentially cause many problems and cost much more than the little bit of $ in question. Maybe a future spouse or oppurtunity will be lost...who knows? But I would like to see both sides being more respectful to each other as humans as naive as that sounds. I can think of one young lady I know that lost a good 200k this year because of this type of mentality, and is back on backpages splitting $300 with her agency, and hated by the person who helped her out more than anyone in her whole life, as she pretends not to care and acts like a wolf in sheep's clothing, which is fine... As at the end of the day we are all responsible for paying our own karmic debts, and who are we to question what divine providence has ordained, we are all the way we are for a reason and must deal with the consequences. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 15, 2017 7 hours ago, StuntABit said: I can think of one young lady I know that lost a good 200k this year because of this type of mentality, and is back on backpages splitting $300 with her agency, and hated by the person who helped her out more than anyone in her whole life, as she pretends not to care and acts like a wolf in sheep's clothing, which is fine... Wow! Your sense of entitlement is showing. I hope you can let it go... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 16, 2017 On Wednesday, May 10, 2017 at 8:24 AM, Laci French said: I have got to meet you! It takes a special kind of man that can pay to feed me. Laci can eat! Come with phat wallet. Lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 16, 2017 15 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said: Laci can eat! Come with phat wallet. Lol Or take a second mortgage.😂😂 Nikki, we need to do dinner and drinks soon! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 16, 2017 26 minutes ago, Laci French said: Or take a second mortgage.😂😂 26 minutes ago, Laci French said: Or take a second mortgage.😂😂 +1 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 17, 2017 how do you ladies feel about being chained up in the basement over the weekend for free? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
