Mr Purple

Condoms - Yes or No?

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5 hours ago, Jenniferxj6 said:

Well put. Oh and cool picture

Am I missing something? Who are you responding to? I don't even see that dude on this thread. Not to mention that whatever you're responding to has nothing to do with this topic. If you're afraid of death put a fucking rubber on. How complicated does this need to be? 

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On 5/6/2017 at 5:30 PM, Unclehazard91 said:

Ive had my goat since she was a baby and i know shes only been in her yard or in my house so that's the only time i wouldn't.

lmao  thats awesome

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11 hours ago, Vassago said:

Am I missing something? Who are you responding to? I don't even see that dude on this thread. Not to mention that whatever you're responding to has nothing to do with this topic. If you're afraid of death put a fucking rubber on. How complicated does this need to be? 

yea thatis  bazaar because that is  from a diff thread all together

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1 hour ago, maxvicious1 said:

yea thatis  bazaar because that is  from a diff thread all together

Yeah it sounds like a technical glitch. I shouldn't have been so snippy. Having a bad couple of days. Sorry Jenniferxj6. It's time for me to walk away from the keyboard.

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Ive had an ATF that Ive seen for 6 or 7 years now.  She one day slid on during CG without a condom and I was like "WTF?!"  She seemed genuinely surprised, said that she offers that to "all her favorites" and said not to worry, she cant have children.  I told her "WHAT ABOUT DISEASES?!" and she said "I'm clean."

For weeks I was nervous about it...did I catch something?  Will I pass something on to my wife?  etc. 

I hate to admit I still go back.  She IS my ATF, afterall, and she's spectacular.

 

I also one time met a BP woman, whom I believe was new and not a pro, whom ive never seen advertise again.  She seemed to assume it would be no condom and she also started to climb on for some CG without a condom.  Again, I had to stop her.

 

It happens out there.

 

And, to answer the OP's question, I'm not okay with it.  Too much at risk.

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57 minutes ago, Vassago said:

Yeah it sounds like a technical glitch. I shouldn't have been so snippy. Having a bad couple of days. Sorry Jenniferxj6. It's time for me to walk away from the keyboard.

Hugs to you💋

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8 hours ago, engineer said:

Ive had an ATF that Ive seen for 6 or 7 years now.  She one day slid on during CG without a condom and I was like "WTF?!"  She seemed genuinely surprised, said that she offers that to "all her favorites" and said not to worry, she cant have children.  I told her "WHAT ABOUT DISEASES?!" and she said "I'm clean."And, to answer the OP's question, I'm not okay with it.  Too much at risk.

 "All her favorites ""....she may not be as clean as she claims to be. Next time you see her,ask her how often she gets tested at the clinic.  You are wise not to be okay with the lack of a condom.

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17 hours ago, engineer said:

Ive had an ATF that Ive seen for 6 or 7 years now.  She one day slid on during CG without a condom and I was like "WTF?!"  She seemed genuinely surprised, said that she offers that to "all her favorites" and said not to worry, she cant have children.  I told her "WHAT ABOUT DISEASES?!" and she said "I'm clean."

For weeks I was nervous about it...did I catch something?  Will I pass something on to my wife?  etc. 

I hate to admit I still go back.  She IS my ATF, afterall, and she's spectacular.

 

I also one time met a BP woman, whom I believe was new and not a pro, whom ive never seen advertise again.  She seemed to assume it would be no condom and she also started to climb on for some CG without a condom.  Again, I had to stop her.

 

It happens out there.

 

And, to answer the OP's question, I'm not okay with it.  Too much at risk.

In any of your instances did you get tested?

If the answer is no then you should. Period. In fact EVERYONE that engages in this activity should be tested routinely. I feel like the mods should put a Sex add sticky primer on the main forum page. Unprotected vaginal penetration is not the only way to get an STD/STI. 

I am not preaching abstinence by any means; however, I do feel the posts on this board when it comes to "being safe out there" can be just as dangerous as the abstinence only message.

 

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I was tested 3 months ago.  This story is...5 or 6 years old.

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11 hours ago, JoDoe27 said:

In any of your instances did you get tested?

If the answer is no then you should. Period. In fact EVERYONE that engages in this activity should be tested routinely. I feel like the mods should put a Sex add sticky primer on the main forum page. Unprotected vaginal penetration is not the only way to get an STD/STI. 

I am not preaching abstinence by any means; however, I do feel the posts on this board when it comes to "being safe out there" can be just as dangerous as the abstinence only message.

 

Practicing safe sex or not, is the free choice of each individual. if two people (or more :D) are going to enjoy no cover, a sticky post won't change their minds any more than this thread. as Forrest Gump says, stupid is...................................................

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2 hours ago, boink36 said:

Practicing safe sex or not, is the free choice of each individual. if two people (or more :D) are going to enjoy no cover, a sticky post won't change their minds any more than this thread. as Forrest Gump says, stupid is...................................................

But Boink...I want to baby Boink French's 😂😂 

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No, that was an error in editing. Gotta be quick on the draw with the oops. This is what I wanted to say...my apologies.

But Boink...I want to have baby Boink French's 😂😂 

Think of it...the fam on the boat...you teaching them how to fish. After we all sing 🎶 kumbayah 🎶 

Just magical and I ask the entire TOB community to stand behind this magical moment.

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17 minutes ago, Laci French said:

No, that was an error in editing. Gotta be quick on the draw with the oops. This is what I wanted to say...my apologies.

But Boink...I want to have baby Boink French's 😂😂 

Think of it...the fam on the boat...you teaching them how to fish. After we all sing 🎶 kumbayah 🎶 

Just magical and I ask the entire TOB community to stand behind this magical moment.

Oh hell no, Laci you're outta your mind for a Wednesday! :rolleyes:

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3 hours ago, fishndude57 said:

Oh hell no, Laci you're outta your mind for a Wednesday! :rolleyes:

 

3 hours ago, Laci French said:

No, that was an error in editing. Gotta be quick on the draw with the oops. This is what I wanted to say...my apologies.

But Boink...I want to have baby Boink French's 😂😂 

Think of it...the fam on the boat...you teaching them how to fish. After we all sing 🎶 kumbayah 🎶 

Just magical and I ask the entire TOB community to stand behind this magical moment.

Damnit. Magic moss got passed around and I was afk?

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7 hours ago, Laci French said:

No, that was an error in editing. Gotta be quick on the draw with the oops. This is what I wanted to say...my apologies.

But Boink...I want to have baby Boink French's 😂😂 

Think of it...the fam on the boat...you teaching them how to fish. After we all sing 🎶 kumbayah 🎶 

Just magical and I ask the entire TOB community to stand behind this magical moment.

This is very tempting. it all depends on who gets to drive the boat? :D

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17 hours ago, Laci French said:

No, that was an error in editing. Gotta be quick on the draw with the oops. This is what I wanted to say...my apologies.

But Boink...I want to have baby Boink French's 😂😂 

Think of it...the fam on the boat...you teaching them how to fish. After we all sing 🎶 kumbayah 🎶 

Just magical and I ask the entire TOB community to stand behind this magical moment.

  In the wise words of Maury, " Boink you ARE the father."

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loves me a good troll thread....

HA

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On 5/3/2017 at 4:48 PM, Mr Purple said:

How many of you providers insist on condoms ?

Does it tend to cause drama ?

Really?? Stupid question, or areyou just trolling to get responses? A human body is an ecosystem. Does it cause drama?

 

Yep, stupid question. If condoms cause drama, then the wrong guys are out here, in my world!

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Great topic! All you bb bitches, pm me! :D

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On May 3, 2017 at 4:48 PM, Mr Purple said:

How many of you providers insist on condoms ?

Does it tend to cause drama ?

I have never had anyone object to a raincoat for the main event, but I will tend not to see people who don't screen well as sweet, charming and romantic!! I've only recently entertained the idea of being... reckless occasionally :wub: However, I consider certain activities low-risk and... there are just certain things that aren't as HOT with so much oily, chalk-dusted plastic in your mouth :lol:

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On 5/4/2017 at 6:29 PM, BadBoy said:

Even though that was possibly the dumbest post possible (might get you banned from some providers), I still think that you have the coolest Avatar ever (the jeweled skull).  

I agree totally with Bad Boy! Very cool avatar Mr. Purple!😀😀

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I figure only folks with a death wish, already infected, or skells seek  bb FS. Now, the question makes some sense if talking oral activities. Those menu items as big entree's are all that interest me personally and so BBBJ goes to the head of the class as FS is not on. Of course, maybe the question was left deliberately vague just to rattle cages.

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Condoms are a non-negotiable in the hobby. I will avoid anyone who doesn't agree  

With that said, there are better options for protection that make things feel quite a bit more natural.  I'm a huge fan of the female condom!  The sensation is absolutely amazing. 

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On ‎5‎/‎19‎/‎2017 at 3:02 PM, disco moon said:

I have never had anyone object to a raincoat for the main event, but I will tend not to see people who don't screen well as sweet, charming and romantic!! I've only recently entertained the idea of being... reckless occasionally :wub: However, I consider certain activities low-risk and... there are just certain things that aren't as HOT with so much oily, chalk-dusted plastic in your mouth :lol:

And a wonderful first post it was!  Welcome to the conversation, Ms. Moon, I like the input.

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On 5/22/2017 at 1:29 PM, Ginger Doll said:

Condoms are a non-negotiable in the hobby. I will avoid anyone who doesn't agree  

With that said, there are better options for protection that make things feel quite a bit more natural.  I'm a huge fan of the female condom!  The sensation is absolutely amazing. 

I've never experienced the female condom. I should like to give it a try one of these days. In all honesty I'm not even sure where you get them!

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On 5/5/2017 at 9:09 PM, Lucy Kitten said:

You didn't try so how do you know? Those who offer the flip comments usually don't have anything to offer beyond that so ignore them. Converse with those that give actual answers.

About being "banned" by providers. I don't think that was the right choice of words, maybe put on the "possibly do not see list" but not banned. The nature of your question was bizarre and as a provider my radar goes off with questions like that. Does it mean you are clueless about sexual health? Are you someone looking for someone who offers unsafe services? Without clarification people were left to assume what they want .

 

I would agree with Lucy on this one

Providers would be wondering what, exactly you are looking for and more importantly, are you safe to see based on your thread.

I'm pretty sure you posted this trying to get a conversation on the subject going (I hope so) but if that was the case, you should have stated it as such.

(good advice moving forward in your hobby choices)

The beautiful ladies here want to make sure they are seeing safe and responsible men. That's the whole reason behind TOB. I hope you understand this.

Take all the negative responses as a learning curve, and you will do fine. And never take negative responses as a personal affront. Take it as a learning experience.

There are a lot of people here who have been around the block a few times and know a thing or two. 

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5 hours ago, decafnaetd said:

I've never experienced the female condom. I should like to give it a try one of these days. In all honesty I'm not even sure where you get them!

They are getting harder and harder to find. I've had a lot of luck picking them up at adult stores. If I can't find them there, then I usually place a large order on Amazon.com.

You can find FC demonstration videos on YouTube, if you're curious.  In addition to the sensation being incomparably better, I also think they are safer. The material is loose and designed to move around, versus the tight fit of a male condom, reducing the chance of breakage. Plus the outer ring provides a shield between the external genital areas.  

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On 5/22/2017 at 1:29 PM, Ginger Doll said:

Condoms are a non-negotiable in the hobby. I will avoid anyone who doesn't agree  

 

prude.

Meh

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6 hours ago, Ginger Doll said:

They are getting harder and harder to find. ...

True. I used to find them in corner drugstores, but haven't seen them on the shelves for years. They were expensive, about 3-4X. 

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