Posted April 23, 2017 Be a Philandering Philanthropist. Has a better ring to it. 10 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2017 Now if my accountant will let me write off encounters, I love this idea. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2017 Now if my accountant will let me write off encounters, I love this idea. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2017 Nope: http://thedamper.com/potpourri/philandering-philanthropist/ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2017 11 minutes ago, fishndude57 said: Nope: http://thedamper.com/potpourri/philandering-philanthropist/ Says the man who hemorrhages cash to women. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2017 7 minutes ago, Lucy Kitten said: Says the man who hemorrhages cash to women. LOL, I copied and pasted into Google so I could get the definition. There were 2 good ones. The other was about the same but way more formal I didn't want to take the time to spell Philandering Philanthropist. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2017 14 minutes ago, fishndude57 said: LOL, I copied and pasted into Google so I could get the definition. There were 2 good ones. The other was about the same but way more formal I didn't want to take the time to spell Philandering Philanthropist. If I read whatever the hell that was you posted correctly it was more about how to turn women away. But I am honestly not really sure. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 1 hour ago, Lucy Kitten said: If I read whatever the hell that was you posted correctly it was more about how to turn women away. But I am honestly not really sure. I've actually been wondering. You truly have no sense of humor do you? You're truly not fond of men either. I read your tweets too. Lighten up Lucy. Smile once in awhile. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 1 hour ago, fishndude57 said: I've actually been wondering. You truly have no sense of humor do you? You're truly not fond of men either. I read your tweets too. Lighten up Lucy. Smile once in awhile. Well that was condescending and sexist. Telling a woman to "smile once in a while" and "you're not fond of men" are truly classic (sarcasm) views. Did you ever consider that some women advocate for women and it has nothing to do with hating men? I have never called myself a hobbyist and philanderer doesn't really apply either but I will abide to being called a philanthropist, benefactor, patron, client, friend... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 1 hour ago, bluesbroker said: Well that was condescending and sexist. Telling a woman to "smile once in a while" and "you're not fond of men" are truly classic (sarcasm) views. Did you ever consider that some women advocate for women and it has nothing to do with hating men? I have never called myself a hobbyist and philanderer doesn't really apply either but I will abide to being called a philanthropist, benefactor, patron, client, friend... A friend that I like a great deal! We are all friends regardless if you choose to see me or not as a client. We are all friends. No need to be petty k?! Drama free zone please... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 3 hours ago, fishndude57 said: I've actually been wondering. You truly have no sense of humor do you? You're truly not fond of men either. I read your tweets too. Lighten up Lucy. Smile once in awhile. Whatevs dude. Not that it has any place in this thread but my Twitter feed has got me loads of fans and clients. It must be all the man hating and those not jokes that I tell. He who is actually humorless will always be the one to accuse others of not being funny because he never gets the joke. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 I'm a John, but I'm a way fuckmg cool John. Find a lady or man that has a valid disagreement... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 Lush can be tuff, but someimtes shes fucking funny..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 11 hours ago, fishndude57 said: I've actually been wondering. You truly have no sense of humor do you? You're truly not fond of men either. I read your tweets too. Lighten up Lucy. Smile once in awhile. Some people are know-it-all-jackasses! Try looking in the mirror. Your uneducated opinion is certainly not based on facts. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 Laci French's twitter handle @femalehobbyist always makes me giggle 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 What's your handle beautiful? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 2 hours ago, Laci French said: What's your handle beautiful? Mines a boring @MadisonProudmor . You're already following me lol 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 (edited) 12 hours ago, Unclehazard91 said: Lush can be tuff, but someimtes shes fucking funny..... Sorry I am lost what does this mean? Bluesbroker I liked you post and 3 hours ago, TS Madison Proudmoore said: Laci French's twitter handle @femalehobbyist always makes me giggle Laci French is a wonderful person to have as a friend in life! Posting Negitive drama is not a good thing to do. If you have a problem with someone? Take it up privately please. Retrograde season has been horrible this time around. Lets all try and use some discretion and think twice before pushing the "send" button. Bad juju to hurt others with words. See what I am saying about Retrograde with Mercury (the planet of communication)? Just not a good idea to get into problems or question people. Too much shit. Thinking that Lucy was having fun. Please lets just leave it alone for now. I love you both and have yet to meet either Fishndude57 or Lucy Kitten in person. I know they both are quality peeps! Edited April 24, 2017 by Kali Sensual Reiki 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 6 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Sorry I am lost what does this mean? Bluesbroker I liked you post and Laci French is a wonderful person to have as a friend in life! Posting Negitive drama is not a good thing to do. If you have a problem with someone? Take it up privately please. Retrograde season has been horrible this time around. Lets all try and use some discretion and think twice before pushing the "send" button. Bad juju to hurt others with words. See what I am saying about Retrograde with Mercury (the planet of communication)? Just not a good idea to get into problems or question people. Too much shit. Thinking that Lucy was having fun. Please lets just leave it alone for now. I love you both and have yet to meet either Fishndude57 or Lucy Kitten in person. I know they both are quality peeps! It meant Lucy not Lush. Cant see the phone screen too well. usually i post from a computer 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 16 minutes ago, Unclehazard91 said: It meant Lucy not Lush. Cant see the phone screen too well. usually i post from a computer Oh man!! I have that same problem Uncle!!! Kundalini often becomes kindiling. Well you do know that both fire up!!! Thanks for the clarification!😀😀 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2017 I don't know what this Mercury in retrograde stuff is all about, but apparently it just makes everyone cranky and prickly. Not surprised about Lucy, she's always 90% of the way there anyhow, but mellow old Fishn' Dude, too? And then P-Funk? What's going on? We gotta get that Mercury out of retrograde (whatever that is) and buy the old messenger a drink, or something. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 1 hour ago, BadBoy said: I don't know what this Mercury in retrograde stuff is all about, but apparently it just makes everyone cranky and prickly. Not surprised about Lucy, she's always 90% of the way there anyhow, but mellow old Fishn' Dude, too? And then P-Funk? What's going on? We gotta get that Mercury out of retrograde (whatever that is) and buy the old messenger a drink, or something. %90 of the way where? Please enlighten me. Maybe some people around here like PFunk are tired of dudes like Fishndude who think they can say whatever they want to people. Maybe just maybe Lucy wouldn't be so "angry" if y'all stopped the gas lighting and throwing shade like you just did. Maybe it's really not about me but my unwillingness to let people treat me like trash and how upsetting that is to the people around here that try so hard to treat me like trash. It is what it is but does the irony of calling me cranky while throwing shade escape you? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 It's that time again when we all need to step away from the keyboards and take a deeeeeep breath everyone. I sure don't miss the trolls, do any of you? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 5 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Sorry I am lost what does this mean? Bluesbroker I liked you post and Laci French is a wonderful person to have as a friend in life! Posting Negitive drama is not a good thing to do. If you have a problem with someone? Take it up privately please. Retrograde season has been horrible this time around. Lets all try and use some discretion and think twice before pushing the "send" button. Bad juju to hurt others with words. See what I am saying about Retrograde with Mercury (the planet of communication)? Just not a good idea to get into problems or question people. Too much shit. Thinking that Lucy was having fun. Please lets just leave it alone for now. I love you both and have yet to meet either Fishndude57 or Lucy Kitten in person. I know they both are quality peeps! You seem like a sweet person, Kali. I aspire to your positive approach to life but some things need to be aired publicly for the benefit of everyone. Fishndude brought the drama and I responded with my opinion. I don't like falling into these discussions but at times it's necessary for the edification of the masses. The current social and political state of this country is a mess and this board isn't immune to the influences of the outside world. Many people, particularly men, seem to think we've entered a 1950s renaissance where women, gays, minorities, transgender, or anyone who doesn't fit the prototype are once again legitimate and fair targets for subjugation. Compound that with the fact that women are often muted on boards like TOB due to the threat of infractions or even losing business, solely for speaking their minds. TOB is not a level playing field. When men make inane posts and women can't intercede without consequence, men construe this silence as tacit approval for what they've posted...and the wheels on the stereotypes go round and round. I have sent private messages to men questioning the wisdom of a given post or posts and it's a fools errand. They have a right to their beliefs. What people fail to understand is others have the right to dissent in the same manner. If one shares provocative views publicly they should be prepared to defend them, publicly. I say stupid shit ALL the time, not just on TOB. That doesn't mean I'm a bad person, it means I still have a lot to learn. I believe these are teaching and learning opportunities, not a time to shy away from uncomfortable discussions. Of course, I might be wrong. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 On 4/23/2017 at 5:07 PM, fishndude57 said: Nope: http://thedamper.com/potpourri/philandering-philanthropist/ OMG that's too funny! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 6 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Sorry I am lost what does this mean? Bluesbroker I liked you post and Laci French is a wonderful person to have as a friend in life! Posting Negitive drama is not a good thing to do. If you have a problem with someone? Take it up privately please. Retrograde season has been horrible this time around. Lets all try and use some discretion and think twice before pushing the "send" button. Bad juju to hurt others with words. See what I am saying about Retrograde with Mercury (the planet of communication)? Just not a good idea to get into problems or question people. Too much shit. Thinking that Lucy was having fun. Please lets just leave it alone for now. I love you both and have yet to meet either Fishndude57 or Lucy Kitten in person. I know they both are quality peeps! And this ^^^^^^^^^^ is why I consider you a gem, as I might told you a time or two.. Kali, you are such a good person. That's why I consider to be counted as a friend of yours a big thing! You always cut to the "chase" and calm everything down a notch or two! Such a wonderful talent! Please keep up 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 (edited) Bluesbroker! Best Revenge in life is living life well! My right eye has been twitching today while at my office (RW job). Not that this dream world is not real...Exausted i came home and have spent the last couple of hours in meditation. We are all a part of the Divine. However you Wish to see it and live it! I am good at saying stupid too. Thank you for being supportive and speaking up for those in need. Just understand that some people need to learn their own lessons in life and are stuck and will not move forward until they're ready to do so. Natural consequences often work best for such people. I think I am a pretty damn good woman lol! Honestly, I am happy and realized many years ago that I am personally responsible for my OWN happiness within this lifetime. So, in a round about way I can say nothing exists outside of self. Unless I allow it to do so. Nonduality either you are a part of me or you are not. Yes" I work on me and me alone. Kisses to those who are a part of me. 😘😘 Edited April 25, 2017 by Kali Sensual Reiki 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 28 minutes ago, sparkey600 said: And this ^^^^^^^^^^ is why I consider you a gem, as I might told you a time or two.. Kali, you are such a good person. That's why I consider to be counted as a friend of yours a big thing! You always cut to the "chase" and calm everything down a notch or two! Such a wonderful talent! Please keep up Thanks Sparky600! Just riding the storm out with you! We can do this.😀😀 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 (edited) It's interesting how some of you's, two in this thread alone take turns, playing whatever side suits the occasion (their polarity); rarely if ever copacetic, live and let live. From victim in one post to perpetrator in the other, alternating between taking cover to throwing shade, to stones, in our glass home. On the flip, some are consistently kind and thoughtful, like Kali . Thank you, Kali. Edited April 25, 2017 by Ile Haversnatch 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2017 12 minutes ago, Ile Haversnatch said: It's interesting how some of you's, two in this thread alone take turns, playing whatever side suits the occasion (their polarity); rarely if ever copacetic, live and let live. From victim in one post to perpetrator in the other, alternating between taking cover to throwing shade, to stones, in our glass home. Maybe you've also been guilty of the two-faced personality on this board? Yes? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites