Posted March 17, 2017 When it comes to looking for a provider, do you prefer to see the "goodies"👀 or do you prefer more mystery😎? Also when a provider posts new pics do you change your mind about seeing them?💕👄 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 The most important thing to me is that the pics are accurate. I'm attracted to a certain body type and I only contact providers who fit that type. Seeing the goodies isn't that important in making my decision. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 3 minutes ago, H2Opieluver said: The most important thing to me is that the pics are accurate. I'm attracted to a certain body type and I only contact providers who fit that type. Seeing the goodies isn't that important in making my decision. Well... it's a good thing my pics are accurate and current... I thought all providers were?🤔 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 I like that you change them up and rotate the gallery Bella Marie. Personally, I like seeing someone's face and their body language most. Of course every guy likes a pic of nice breasts too... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 3 minutes ago, Bella Marie said: Well... it's a good thing my pics are accurate and current... I thought all providers were?🤔 Unfortunately there are some that don't keep there pics up-to-date which is a real bummer. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 I think there is so much personality to see in a picture of someone's face. I do also understand the reluctance to show their face for a lot of providers of course. Beyond that, sultry poses are great to see, even if they're not "professional" poses and photos. They definitely should be relatively accurate though. A little out of date doesn't bother me at all... but don't want to go crazy. And adding a new pic every once in a while is great. I can't say if it would change my mind or not, there's too many variables, but when I see something like Melissa's new pics, they definitely remind me of why I saw her in the first place, and how I am looking forward to the next time.... 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 BTW. The one with your legs crossed and your high heels in the air with the sun flare filter is outstanding... j 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 What I don't like is photos taken with a phone where the YL is staring at the phone... there are better ways to shoot a selfie... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 32 minutes ago, Bella Marie said: When it comes to looking for a provider, do you prefer to see the "goodies"👀 or do you prefer more mystery😎? Also when a provider posts new pics do you change your mind about seeing them?💕👄 Always enjoy seeing the goodies but rarely change my mind about seeing them. It's more about the personality and how interesting they are. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 (edited) Tasteful honest pics. Truth about their age. When a gal says she's 28 and she's actually 42 might be in for a surprise on firmness of body. That being said, I prefer the 42 honesty. I guess just honesty. I'm a talker so personality gonna be important to me too. I think face pics help too. Edited March 17, 2017 by fishndude57 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 This is all great info to know👄 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 Like pictures where I can see the lady smile! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 (edited) 2 hours ago, Bella Marie said: When it comes to looking for a provider, do you prefer to see the "goodies"👀 or do you prefer more mystery😎? Also when a provider posts new pics do you change your mind about seeing them?💕👄 Dear Bella, I like the Mystery. It's enticing! New pics are great too. Sexy Lingerie is always good. Especially posed JUST right. I also realize faces are not always possible. But it is a nice plus. Especially a devilish smile. Edited March 17, 2017 by a_happycamper_12 Clarification 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 First I like to say thanks to Bella for asking , that shows she cares about her customers and friends, for me I really like the more natural pictures that aren't staged too much , I like the picture to look like the girl when she opens the door to see me, also enjoy reading what they have to say about their personality as long as they are honest and what they enjoy in a session 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 It doesn't really matter to me if a young lady shows all her goodies or not. But what I do like are the pictures where she is wearing something sexy that lets you know she is sexy but leaves you wanting to see more. I like the picture that shows enough that I can get a good mental image of what it all looks like, without actually knowing exactly what it all looks like. It builds a little excitement waiting to see the lady. But of course, the pictures gotta be accurate or none of the rest matters. And yes, I have seen providers where the lady opens the door and you start looking around for the woman in the ad only to realize what opened the door was her, but it really wasn't her. Lol. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 Accurate pictures if you are paying for the time? Well HELL YES!!!!! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 I've used pics that were up to...maybe...2 yrs old, given that my weight has been in a 15 lb range for several years now. I've been told I was being "dishonest" in cases where I was best off dressing in jeans/casual rather than like an obvious "gift" to criminally unwrap shortly...OR by someone who was upset that my hair was "medium intense violet" instead of "midnight aubergine." Can't please everyone and I know I'm not faking anything... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 If I want to see "the goodies" I'll switch to youporn. I want to see an honest photo of her figure. I like to see a face (smile, eyes). A series of pictures over time is a good thing; it illustrates experience & staying power. Changing photos 1/yr is probably enough provided there's no significant weight change (+/- 15%) or major change in hair style (though I do understand falls & wigs). But anytime some fun, new pics may spark interest; you never know what might catch my eye. Mix it up, some professional cheese cake shots, some casual about town shots. Toss your a favorite client or your girlfriend a camera & have some fun. Selfies in the motel mirror, however, are a turn-off. All that being said, pictures are mostly part of the verification process for me. I have fairly eclectic tastes in body styles. The wIt of a YL's ads or posts are what gets my interest in the first place. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 I want to see recent and accurate pics of the provider. If the pics are not recent or of her, then I'm likely to move on. Face pics or partial face pics are the most important for me when deciding whether or not to make the call. I don't need to see full frontal nudity to make my decision if that's what you mean by "Seeing the Goodies" because I find Nude Pics of Women in all shapes and sizes to be Art in it's most glorious form. Each beautiful in their own unique way regardless of height, weight, age, skin color, big or small butts/breasts. I am an admirer of Women's Beauty and am thankful I am a Man and that I can appreciate Women up close and personal thru this fabulous activity we all like to call "Hobby". 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 I think of it like this. If I'm in the grocery store and I see a hottie I'd like to take home, it's not because she is standing there in lingerie or less. She is wearing jeans and a tight sweater maybe, but the key is she is presenting sexuality in how she looks and moves. A lot of the pics are the same way, it's not the most amount of skins wins, it's the look on the face, the tease, the feeling that I want to experience and see more, I need to schedule soon! 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 Gosh, I think you guys have been really sweet with your replies while being honest. Thanks! On other forums I have seen guys reply to this type of thread with some negative snarky replies. You guys are true gems!!! 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 1 hour ago, Audrey Astor said: Gosh, I think you guys have been really sweet with your replies while being honest. Thanks! On other forums I have seen guys reply to this type of thread with some negative snarky replies. You guys are true gems!!! AMEN.... that's why I LOVE this site💕 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 1 hour ago, FuriousWeasel said: I think of it like this. If I'm in the grocery store and I see a hottie I'd like to take home, it's not because she is standing there in lingerie or less. She is wearing jeans and a tight sweater maybe, but the key is she is presenting sexuality in how she looks and moves. A lot of the pics are the same way, it's not the most amount of skins wins, it's the look on the face, the tease, the feeling that I want to experience and see more, I need to schedule soon! AMEN! Your post should have included a mic drop graphic, Weasey. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 Bubble bath and shower pics are always fun.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 Showing the "goodies" is not a necessity for me, but I'm not opposed to it. Sometimes some nice lingerie pics, or bra and panties pics are nicer, leaves something to the imagination. I prefer face pictures but I understand why some ladies don't show those. But, like everybody said, accuracy is the best way to go. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 18 hours ago, Bella Marie said: When it comes to looking for a provider, do you prefer to see the "goodies"👀 or do you prefer more mystery😎? Also when a provider posts new pics do you change your mind about seeing them?💕👄 Straightforward pics, (nude not required) showing a general appearance are fine for me. New pics showing something that appeals to me (bubble butt, full lips, big eyes) could change my mind. Overall it's reviews, and personality, that help me choose someone. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 Bella Marie; From my point of view, you should have no concerns about your photos. As an artist I have spend many many hours setting in front of nude models. Within an inch and within a shade or two, I know what people look like without their cloths. I see everything but the goodies (okay, I see the goodies too). I see the dirty cloths on the floor, the bathroom vanity covered in about 50 beauty products, the unmade bed. I look to see if the photos are professionally taken or something more casual. I look to see if the photos where taken in a hotel room or other location. I look to see what she is wearing, who her earrings look against her hair, or the lace looks against her skin. It is nice to see the model's eyes, her smile, her flowing hair, but I understand why those features are not in the photo. I want to get a feel of what our time together will be like. Is she playful, or all business? The photo should tell a story, a story that I want to become a part of. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17, 2017 (edited) OK, I think I can sum up the responses for the subset of gentlemen who take the time to post here: We're not simply shopping for pieces of meat, that's what BP is more tuned to. We use the pictures to gain what glimmers we can about the actual person we choose to spend our time with. The body type is typically what we're attracted to initially which is fine, short and busty, tall and athletic, yes that's important. Then we read the ad to see how you choose to present yourself. A short ad, a long one, one with a list of rules or one with a list of delights. Next up, the reviews. Looking for the ones where the guy feels a connection, even temporary. Someone who treated him the way he needed to feel. Finally, we would think of the postings she has here in the forum, that shows a ton of the personality. That's why sometimes I wonder about the girls who have ads but never interact much here in the forum. Even an occasional interaction in a posting thread probably has as much influence in making a guy schedule as the pictures. I occasionally think about calling a provider just to ask, "Why don't you interact on the forum? You'd get a lot more calls, hopefully with the type of guys you'd want to have visit." Edited March 17, 2017 by FuriousWeasel 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 18, 2017 10 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said: I think of it like this. If I'm in the grocery store and I see a hottie I'd like to take home, it's not because she is standing there in lingerie or less. She is wearing jeans and a tight sweater maybe, but the key is she is presenting sexuality in how she looks and moves. A lot of the pics are the same way, it's not the most amount of skins wins, it's the look on the face, the tease, the feeling that I want to experience and see more, I need to schedule soon! ^^^ this ^^^ and I've caught her eye before in the produce section or maybe the deli and got a little hint of a smile back... That is SO HOT. I have no idea what was on MY face but I know what I was thinking... It's that kind of pic, with that "I know what you want to do with me" kind of smile that tips the scales. Booooiiing! (or is it Schwiiiing!) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
