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As long as there's not a toilet or a dick (not talking about you Boink)LOL, in her pics, im good to go. ;)

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On 3/16/2017 at 8:28 PM, Bella Marie said:

Well... it's a good thing my pics are accurate and current... I thought all providers were?🤔

oh please Bella-lets not be naive. Not all of us are decent, integrity filled people. If you have been reading the forums, then you know this is something that unfortunately seems common.  Some of us are decent working women. Some of us are scam artists. And some clients are decent , womderful guys, (I call them -regulars)and some are not what they project themselves to be. 

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14 hours ago, tide32 said:

As long as there's not a toilet or a dick (not talking about you Boink)LOL, in her pics, im good to go. ;)

Just keep in mind, whatever choice you make I was there right before you were. enjoy celibacy.:D

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I agree with most of the posts. Full nudity is not a requirement, but a sexy pose is.  Full face ot required but I don't like blurred photos and a smile means friendly. I do like to see a little nipple.  Pictures that are accurate no matter ow old are OK, but we all age and 5-10 year old snaps are not true to the provider. Also pictures in the bathroom don't turn me on PLEASE take them somewhere other than in front of the bathroom mirror.A nice bedroom setting is best.  I have seen a couple of mixed galleries where the provider shows she has been outside at least once n the past year. Single photos no other people work best because you only wonder who and what is the relationship.

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That explaines why the entrances were so tight, you were there first.:rolleyes: That sucks, always thought, I was too big. :(

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I personally prefer seeing better quality photos that are more on the erotic side of things versus going for the flat out pornographic stuff.  Yeah, so I would say I like a little mystery but that being said, I don't like to be surprised when I arrive.  Don't take pics in a way where it disguises you being bigger and yes, update your photos so you aren't using 15 year old pics.

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On 3/17/2017 at 8:39 AM, FuriousWeasel said:

I think of it like this. If I'm in the grocery store and I see a hottie I'd like to take home, it's not because she is standing there in lingerie or less.  She is wearing jeans and a tight sweater maybe, but the key is she is presenting sexuality in how she looks and moves.  A lot of the pics are the same way, it's not the most amount of skins wins, it's the look on the face, the tease, the feeling that I want to experience and see more, I need to schedule soon!

Totally agree with FuriousWeazel... it's more about sexuality and alluring.  As long as the photos give a glimpse of appeal, that's good for me.  That's what I'm doing as I go through looking for my first encounter on TOB. :)

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I am far more inclined to mystery. I understand I may be in the minority here, but there is nothing like the female form in a flattering dress that accentuate her curves or in lingerie that intoxicates the imagination. It's all part of the true GFE experience.. all this said, the pics should be relatively recent and accurate. I have NEVER walked from an appointment when pics are inaccurate or downright deceptive (can't say why, just never have), but I definitely won't repeat when I feel victimized by this form of deception. Providers put a great deal of emphasis on "trust" - it's a two-way street. Finally, I definitely read ads. Those that are thoughtful, clever or creative and well written IN COMBINATION with good quality pics always attract my attention.. what can I say?? I'm turned on by attractive, bright women!! 

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5 hours ago, cowboy said:

... I have NEVER walked from an appointment when pics are inaccurate or downright deceptive (can't say why, just never have), but I definitely won't repeat when I feel victimized by this form of deception. ...

Neither have I. Probably because at that point I have already invested several hours in the experience doing research, freshening up, and driving to her door. I may also be discarding a window-of-opportunity, sometimes more precious than the cash.

Having experience pre-dating Internet escort ads probably helps. It makes me less sensitive to appearance. If a print ad had a photo, it was almost guaranteed to be stock. If you wanted a visual check prior to selection, you either solicited street walkers or visited a brothel; RARELY a working gal could be found in a strip joint. Even brothels (AMPs) could be luck of the draw. 

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The art of allure, some girls understand it, some don't have a clue. some of the pics girls use are horrible, T&A isn't an automatic attraction ladies. sometimes it's a complete turn off, a big yellow caution sign.

Take the time to upload alluring and irresistible pictures. i took a bunch of pictures as a favor for one of my regulars and she decided to use them because they were much better than the ones a "photographer " took. And I know what hobbyist men look for and like.

First of all, when attracting a hobbyist , you want to appear not as a professional ,  and not innocent , but as the hot girl of his fantasy . If you are ethnic, bring it out, Asian,, or Latina, emphasize the variety nitch you fit in. Dark hair , blond, red hair, all have thier attraction , emphasize your unique nitch. We know you have a vagina, but what color are your eyes?  Do you look like a girl I dated in high school? Maybe a hot teacher from high school? Or maybe I have a thing for blond surfer girls and sunbathing in a bikini does it for me. Believe it or not, smart dress for success is hot too, include a sun dress photo. 

Your nude or lingerie shots should leave something to the imagination . Emphasize your assets, show your willingness to be nasty, but if you have spectacular boobs, don't over do it with 20 boob shots to one butt shot, and, just give us a taste of your nipple type, we like to discover what nipple type you have in person lol.

Rear end G string shots at a slight angle with low natural lighting absolutely drive us f-ing nuts!!!!!!! especially if we can see a tiny little clue of your butt hole peeking around the string, SIRENS AND EXPLOSIONS go off in our brains and we instantly check our bank accounts and calenders, then we make an appointment for the next day, then we think I'll be able to make more sperm for tomorrow  and we masturbate fantasizing about that hot ass in your picture. 

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For me, it's all about the accuracy.   When the door opens, I don't want to be disappointed in what I see.  The professional pics are eye-catching but I look through the galleries to find a picture that seems to represent what I will actually see.  Recent and regularly updated pics are important.  The "goods" aren't necessary, I'd rather let my imagination run!   

This wasn't the OP's point, but I'm definitely drawn to natural happy smiles, the pout look or the "in ecstasy" look don't do anything for me because I'm actually looking to have more of a connection to my date rather than just a wild ride.  I totally understand why many don't show face pics, but a gallery full of butts or boobs makes me move on to the next ad.

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A bit of both. For me Its nice to have an accurate idea of what they look like so there is realistic expectations. Sometimes too much in the photos is too much . New pics are always good.

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59 minutes ago, jhooker said:

...include a sun dress photo. 

 

 

Sun dress, backlite to highlight your curves 😁

Side profile in high contrast silhouette ... with or without clothes. 

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^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  ^^^^ YES  ^^^^  

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I use to model in my 20's, and was an artist model for 25 years.  I have had three gentle take my pictures; some of the worst pictures I have ever seen.  I went back to my selfies.... so hopefully, I will find someone to capture some better photos soon.

I would look for soft feminine pictures.  I love so many on here.  Some are sexy lingerie, formal dresses, natural beauty of their body.  The ones I  want to text and say WTF are you taking selfies for in a room that looks like a dump. Never cleaned room would make me not see a girl like that.  Ewwww.

Giving a man thousands of dollars of camera equipment does make him a photographer.  So no trades for pictures for me........

 

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I would say that Pics are paramount to getting me to book the first date.  I definitely need to see what im getting so I can make a good decision.  I like busty women and if I cant tell how big they are in the photo, there's little chance I would book the first date.

As for do "new pics" help?  They ABSOLUTELY help me book the SECOND visit.  Once I have spent time in a womans presence, and I know what she looks like, it can be easy to move on to the next beautiful woman as I do enjoy the selection (variety is the spice of life, right?)  But, when I see an "old favorite" has new pics up and she looks AMAZING in them, I am more apt to click on your ad, check out your new picks, and possibly book AGAIN.

If your ad gets "stale" and you never update pics, I assume nothing has changed and I tend to click past your ad. 

New pics of a woman I know gets my attention.

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4 hours ago, Raine-7379 said:

I use to model in my 20's, and was an artist model for 25 years.  I have had three gentle take my pictures; some of the worst pictures I have ever seen.  I went back to my selfies.... so hopefully, I will find someone to capture some better photos soon.

I would look for soft feminine pictures.  I love so many on here.  Some are sexy lingerie, formal dresses, natural beauty of their body.  The ones I  want to text and say WTF are you taking selfies for in a room that looks like a dump. Never cleaned room would make me not see a girl like that.  Ewwww.

Giving a man thousands of dollars of camera equipment does make him a photographer.  So no trades for pictures for me........

 

It's one thing to buy equipment and call yourself a photographer. Quite another to be an artist, who can make magic with any camera. 

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1 minute ago, FuriousWeasel said:

It's one thing to buy equipment and call yourself a photographer. Quite another to be an artist, who can make magic with any camera. 

I have taken some amazing pictures with the simplest of cameras. I do love my Nikon, though..

 I still remember a young art student from 20 years ago, that was  phenomenal and captured me with newsprint and a box of 48 crayons.  Not even the 64 pack with the sharpener.  I have hung in galleries that were not as good as her work.  Gallery openings are fun when you are the naked Art..... I will see if I can attach a picture from my work..

 

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After looking at pictures, I realize that the true sensual essence of a woman is lost in our pictures.  I am very sensual and that is not conveyed in any if my photos.  

I would have to say that Russian dolls photographer does a damn good job!  Those pictures are very delightful.  Soft, sensual, sexy, feminine.

One of my pictures I have a man in my mouth, and it is still just an ok picture......

After taking thousands of pictures a year I may have become a bit judgemental.  Lucky for you gents, that you do not have to post pictures for us to critique.  So, please be kind when doing so.  

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Since pretty much every lady shows off the boobage, I must assume you mean showing the cootchie pop. For me, mixing in one or two photo's that have a sexy or slightly more aroused\erotic pose that shows a " goodie glimpse" is the bone popping pic that has me searching for the phone. I'm not talking about a full on face pic of Ms Beaver Cleaver, rather a subtle partial glimpse in a hot pose.

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On ‎3‎/‎16‎/‎2017 at 10:08 PM, Bella Marie said:

 When it comes to looking for a provider,  do you prefer to see the "goodies"👀 or do you prefer more mystery😎? Also when a provider posts new pics do you change your mind about seeing them?💕👄

Why does it have to be either/or?  And certainly pictures within the past 6 months would be desirable when booking an initial encounter. 

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On 3/18/2017 at 9:57 AM, boink36 said:

Just keep in mind, whatever choice you make I was there right before you were. enjoy celibacy.:D

If only we were there at the same time, DP would be fun.

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I've noticed some providers posting photos of themselves taken 10 or more years ago. This is kosher if we also know the year the photo was taken.

A color photo of breast with nipple is a good indicator of health and hygiene. 

Upside down, bottoms up, and wide open beavers may be enticing for some -- not for me.

Smiling faces are always preferred, both with and without makeup.

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15 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said:

Found this page today, there are some incredible examples of pictures...

 http://designyoutrust.com/2017/03/the-beauty-of-female-body-in-vibrant-nsfw-photographs-by-david-dubnitskiy/

Those were really great! IMO though the women were secondary to the amazing locations and wardrobe. Beautiful women with beautiful bodies but I don't know that those pics would work as well with any other location.

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On 3/18/2017 at 0:20 AM, Jez UaBriain said:

oh please Bella-lets not be naive. Not all of us are decent, integrity filled people. If you have been reading the forums, then you know this is something that unfortunately seems common.  Some of us are decent working women. Some of us are scam artists. And some clients are decent , womderful guys, (I call them -regulars)and some are not what they project themselves to be. 

Jez is cool Bella another lady on my must meet sometime list! 💖💖

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1 hour ago, Erin_CO said:

Wow! those are really incredibly beautiful pictures!!

That's the talent to being a real artist.  It's one thing to come across an image in front of you that looks great, and grab a snapshot of it.  That does take some skill to recognize when a photo should be taken and a lot of luck to be there at just the right time.

It's quite another to essentially have a blank canvas, to visualize what the image will look like when you're done, and then create the whole scene from scratch.  Clicking the button when ready is almost an afterthought.  

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5 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said:

That's the talent to being a real artist.  It's one thing to come across an image in front of you that looks great, and grab a snapshot of it.  That does take some skill to recognize when a photo should be taken and a lot of luck to be there at just the right time.

It's quite another to essentially have a blank canvas, to visualize what the image will look like when you're done, and then create the whole scene from scratch.  Clicking the button when ready is almost an afterthought.  

Great website of pictures you shared Ferious Weasel I am also a fan of the "tease glimpse" of something sort of poking out.

A great picture is one that makes you wonder what is under the fabric.  

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