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On ‎3‎/‎10‎/‎2017 at 5:19 PM, boink36 said:

If I could change anything about my hobby experience it would be the length of my dick, an extra inch never hurt anyone! :D 

An extra inch on mine would hurt me and everyone else :rolleyes:

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33 minutes ago, Unclehazard91 said:

Any way you can video that?

:D:D

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I have always enjoyed sex... so I've been into playing for a long time.. . I didn't start doing this till about 6 months ago... I thought starting with body rubs could be fun.... and one thing led to another and here I am....😘😘😘😃

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Got fired. Moped around for a bit and ate into savings. Then it dawned on me I could do the same thing I did on Grindr but for $$$...

Somehow this industry is less misogynistic than tech. Fuck teechh.

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On 3/10/2017 at 7:52 PM, a_happycamper_12 said:

 Me too. I was broke and women would seek me and actually pay me...

Seriously, it was way back when Bear's Board was active I  called an ad on Boulder Weekly or Colorado Daily  The lady I saw was Sabrina in Louisville. She did things to me I will always remember. Lol.  At some time T O. B  had another name  I don't remember what it was. But started seeing the lovely ladies on this board. I love the ladies I have met here.   They have ALL been so sweet and so enjoyable to spend time with. 

That would be "Sabrina Black", who in real life was a local singer/actress.

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I started wayyyy before the internet.. when there were no pics and no reviews to judge by.. I have an admiration for the female form.. laugh all you want, but gawd! Those curves, those eyes, those lips, those sculpted legs and sexy lingerie.. women are by nature sensual, sexy beings.. I don't want to be mistaken as a neanderthal here, so allow me to qualify further.. I think it is important to adulate those incredible female qualities without objectifying the woman herself.. its is therefore EXTREMELY important to me to establish a connection on some level first vs focusing solely on my own needs.. if thats all I was in this for, may as well curl up with some good porn, self-serve and save da'cash! I adore women and I gravitate to those who share an interest in the companionship aspects, the flirtation, the joy of sex and an exploration of sensuality. That said, the internet has given rise to forums like this and to my way of thinking, we're all better for it.. 

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5 hours ago, smilin said:

That would be "Sabrina Black", who in real life was a local singer/actress.

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Yah! That WAS her! I thought she had Karate business too?

And herd she got busted in Louisville?

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I started in the biz from a nasty divorce. I was tired of working for chump change and need to have something to keep my hormones in check. I knew an other provider who is now retired and she showed me the in's and out's of the biz.

I would not change anything.

I have met a lot of good guys that have became friends and I enjoy every minute of it! I also scored a hot girlfriend!

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2 hours ago, Kandi Apple said:

I started in the biz from a nasty divorce. I was tired of working for chump change and need to have something to keep my hormones in check. I knew an other provider who is now retired and she showed me the in's and out's of the biz.

I would not change anything.

I have met a lot of good guys that have became friends and I enjoy every minute of it! I also scored a hot girlfriend!

Jealous😘😘😘😘👭

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I had always been interested in the secret part of society and did a lot of research but never pulled the trigger since I never really figured out where to go, what to ask, how to act or anything. Then one day as I was in a traffic pattern teaching a younger guy how to fly a helicopter he pointed down at a building on downwind and goes "hey, did you know that place is a brothel?". I was like "whhhhaaaattt" he then proceeded to tell me about AMP's. I listened half heartedly on the outside but with great interest on the inside. I then started to research AMP's and then finally pulled the trigger and went. It was thrilling, and scary as fuck all at the same time but I was absolutely hooked. From there I continued to read up and learn from my mistakes and my successes. Got to Colorado and discovered SOWET and was pretty much and AMP guy for a long time but then discovered BP, then ECCIE and the old TOB. I've moved between AMPS and independents throughout my time and enjoyed pretty much every bit. Recently I have been going to the Tampa a lot and the scene there is crazy. Lots of "shops" with Caucasian or Cuban girls but you better take bank when you go and then the strip clubs are actually a great hunting ground as well for in club and take out. Done AMPs and shops in Tampa but haven't personally tried the SC option yet as trying to figure out the edicate. 

If I were to change anything it would just be to have started earlier. 

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Let's see... maybe about 30yrs ago counts as first entry into hobby, but on a technicality. There was a strip club in the town I lived in at the time, tiny little dive outside of city limits. Imagine a small building that looks like it's straight out of "Porky's". Their private dances were in private little nooks. The one time I got a private dance, the girl went down on me.

When I came to CO, started to go to the jack shacks (Hideaway [occasionally got more there], Green Door [ditto here], LEC). First real escort experience was on one of my birthdays. Just got back from Blackhawk with some money in my pocket, horny, had a copy of "The Oyster", picked an ad. Lovely girl came over, 3G. Still horny, still with some money in the pocket, picked a different ad. This time, older, not as attractive, but GFE all the way, multiple pops. I was hooked! Used that agency for a while, until they were shut down (two girls from there became regulars, one until she moved out-of-state, then the other popped up), and another agency where they had a regular smogasbord of ever changing line-up of GFE beautiful women.

Since then, like everyone else here, discovered the electronic boards that have been around (staring with Decadent Denver[?], Bear's et. al.). Stopped using agencies  in 2008, what with the shut downs of Denver Players/Sugar, and the one that went bragging to "Westword" about their operation, also Colorado Companions(?: also had a "Westword" story about the owner of that and his run-ins with LE, non-hobby related). By that time, was already using independents more and more and agencies less and less.

As to why, yes, I'm shallow, a lot of it has to do with "the O face". But, nice to meet a provider that there is a connection with. Combination of both gets the repeat business. One I saw a few months ago, and we realized that we had been seeing each other on and off for about 15 years now.

What would I change, like Boink, an extra inch wouldn't hurt :P And wish we were back in simpler times, when getting an appointment was as easy as pulling up "The Oyster" and dialing a number (and when even a slight breeze would get Junior jumping).

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9 hours ago, Kandi Apple said:

I started in the biz from a nasty divorce. I was tired of working for chump change and need to have something to keep my hormones in check. I knew an other provider who is now retired and she showed me the in's and out's of the biz.

I would not change anything.

I have met a lot of good guys that have became friends and I enjoy every minute of it! I also scored a hot girlfriend!

That's kind of funny. some of us are here so we won't score a hot girlfriend. :D

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On 3/11/2017 at 5:35 PM, Unclehazard91 said:

Any way you can video that?

Now i must say if you can Laci? Now that would be true talent! I would be willing  to pay for a live show!  :P

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3 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Now i must say if you can Laci? Now that would be true talent! I would be willing  to pay for a live show!  :P

That costs extra

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On 3/11/2017 at 11:43 PM, TS Madison Proudmoore said:

Got fired. Moped around for a bit and ate into savings. Then it dawned on me I could do the same thing I did on Grindr but for $$$...

Somehow this industry is less misogynistic than tech. Fuck teechh.

That was pretty much my entry too. I even used the same name that I used to cruise for dudes on CL. I have been in the industry for 7 1/2 years but Lucy for over 10!

 

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I kind of backed into the hobby 7-8 years ago via the BDSM route.  Only thing I would change?  I would have gotten here sooner!

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I've never had the girls chasing me down to get with me. So the ladies who are especially good at least putting up a believable front that they want me as bad as I want them... That's the good stuff right there. If I'm looking to just get off, I've got porn and a perfectly good hand. It's the idea that someone just really wants my body, and loves the way I make their body feel that brings me to the hobby. I don't mind that it's all an act, because some of you ladies are pretty convincing actors! :)

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"Accidental" start as others have said, but in the final analysis the point has been to try to find a mutual experience rather than one sided (or nonexistent). 

Six or so years ago in China, a YL literally jumped on an elevator with me and followed me to my room.  Brought up her "sister" for a 4-handed rub.  Was training the other girl how to say stuff in English that was supposed to turn an American on.  Stuff like "this is my sister", "your so huge", along with several up-sells.  Interesting navigating that transaction given such a language barrier.  They brought a calculator and punched in the numbers they wanted and said what they would do for that much.  Never thought much of it other than happenstance.  

Years later and less and less shared intimacy at home, started looking around and found TOB but never did anything about it.  Then a lengthy trip to Australia where it is all legal sparked it.  I only went to brothels as I had no idea how to navigate the ads.  First one, walked into a bullpen, was intimidated as hell, and picked a young and blonde Kiwi who looked nice.  She was studying midwifery and was very kind to an ignorant American.  Second one was all Asians and they quickly paraded 3 YLs in front of me and I picked the veteran of the bunch.  She said all the right things, but in such a mechanical and fake tone. Physical skills made up for it.  Third one was made to look like a night club and you were supposed to "hit on" the YLs you were interested in.  Not my cup of tea, but a boisterous Aussie came and helped me out and introduced me to her friends.  I picked another Aussie who was mostly muscle and she could certainly move them.

Months pass by and even less going on at home, so I started reading TOB.  Birthday came up and decided to treat myself "just this one time", ha!  Still in my infancy in this world.  Came out of the gate thinking I had to conquer the whole hobby ASAP, but have realized I have a long life left and there is no hurry.

One regret is buying a burner phone.  I need it to get established, I get it.  But once I am established enough, the burner goes in the trash and it'll be PMs or emails only.  Not to be morbid, but if something did happen to me and my family is clearing out my crap, I don't want them trying to think of what I was doing with this phone.  Other than that, doing more window shopping than shopping, but certainly enjoying some fine mutual experiences along the way when I have the time! 

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 Like many others, I started when the wife lost interest in sex.  After many discussions on the topic, I realized I would have to either accept a borderline sexless marriage the rest of my life, or find another way.  I googled around and stumbled upon a YL who was newbie-friendly who introduced me to TOB and P411 and actually recommended several other YL.  I've had some great experiences with some lovely YL, and can't say I've had a bad experience.

The only thing I'd do differently is start sooner.  I spent several years living where the "hobby" was legal, but I didn't take advantage of it.

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On 3/10/2017 at 9:51 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

In 2000 i met up with a couple. The girlfriend of the couple was a provider and i seriously got to know this couple well. Spending time together on the weekends dinners, crazy fun, sometimes just talking and sharing oppionions. Well, funny thing happened... One day they both decided to open up to me and explained just exactly what the female of the couple did for a living. One thing led to another and because my kids were home during the school year and away during the summer. I decided to try one summer after the boyfriend of this couple  took a few pictures of me. I found myself first posting ads with calling Dawn from The Oyster. I  also having this couple help me out with getting things set up for me with a few pictures and advice on how to write an ad that was published three times that i know about and possibly in other little ad papers (not for certain). After that it  was the internet with Craigs List, SoWet, and later the former TOB, P411, and now here i am with all you great people on the new TOB, Eccie. other verious websites that help spread the message that i am available. 

 You know it's not an easy life at times. However, you do your best, work on improvement  when you can with finding your comfort zone, personal goals for success in life. Don't look back,  keep your focus on what your after.  As well as keeping your spirits up when shit happens. I am here i have had a few different names in the past. However, before i said good bye for a bit a few years back i was "Kali of Denver" and because everyone remembered Kali before i left. Yes i thought it only right. to continue on when people from my past started calling me Kali once again.

Kali Ma the Hindu Goddess whom i feel i have a person connection with,. (which is a long story in it's self). Kali is the name before time. Lol and I was also told by Johnboy#1 it was a cloaking divice for a Star Trek (not sure what season). Just something Johnboy#1 wrote me about. 

What is super cool to me is when someone from your far past contacts you again. This week i got a message from someone i have not seem for a very long time. Hey it is just exciting and humbling to be remembered. 

Kisses and yes that is my truthful story on how i came to be! Happy that i have now gotten to know quite a few new people as well as hold onto a few old friends as well as some crazy, fun. Wild memories and it's not over quit yet. 

 

Kaili, I think I speak for many, thanks for sharing this. You are a wonderful person and I for one love the Hindu Goddess (Kali Ma) that you are in the flesh! You helped me so much when I was hurting so badly...I will never forget that. Thank you again my friend!

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On 3/11/2017 at 6:09 PM, Laci French said:

:D:D

Quoting Richard Pryor     "if you had two more inches of dick, you'd find new pussy right here! Classic!

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I got started in the hobby in a "what the fuck is going on here" kind of way...  let me explain.  I do have to backup first and say that, as is common, it was a ramp down in sexual desire on the wife's part that left me in a deficit, a growing deficit.  My libido has always been high and it has never ramped down as I've aged, always on the brain.  The desire of a woman's touch, I need it...

I was on business early last year at a new client for three weeks straight, staying in a decent new hotel, an "upscale" chain, near a metropolitan area.  I would hang out in the hotel bar most evenings sipping a brew just to calm down from all the idiocy I had dealt with during the day.  The bar looks out into the lobby.  I noticed a good looking young lady that kept leaving and coming back after about an hour and a half most nights, sometimes multiple times  I also noticed gentlemen that would come in with no luggage, no briefcase, nothing, go into the elevator, then leave some time later.  Never with someone, always alone.  That struck me as rather odd.  I witnessed this behavior for a week.  Then it dawned on me....  yeah, exactly.  I bet she's a working girl...  (as it turned out later, there were 3 providers in this hotel that week! but that's another story)

I had been perusing Backpage ads for some time prior to this.  Craiglist adult section was long gone, but that's where I'd first learned about online ads, from the news stories that it was shutting down, and found Backpage.  I fantasized about actually making a call and meeting up with a provider, or going to an AMP for a "happy ending" massage, but there's just the whole seedy feeling side of it, how does the whole exchange work, what if it's LE entrapment... how the fuck am I supposed to avoid that, those thoughts going through my head.  Just couldn't hoist up the balls to take that chance.  I had also stumbled on TER and P411 by this time.

Well, noticing this young lady and her and other's behavior, I looked in Backpage and sure enough found an ad I was 95% certain was her.  I paid for VIP on TER as her # came up there in a Google search.  Good reviews there.  My chances of it all being legit and not a crap shoot were as high as they were ever gonna be so I pulled the trigger to set up a meet.  She didn't ask for references just some general questions, then we set a time.  I know now that I got lucky with her, having no references and her not asking for any.  Near appointment time I txt'd her to confirm.  She told me all the usual things, drive to this place, txt me when you're there, etc...  I didn't of course know this was the "usual" MO for first meets, but I played along.  I was sitting in my hotel bar of course.  She finally told me which hotel she was at and I was right (and in the bar!).  I waited a few minutes, txt'd "i'm here".  She then called me and asked me if I was with LE.  Wow.  "No".  Then told me her room number.  Upstairs I went.  It was her.

Holy fuck it was exhilarating.   It was like going scuba diving for the first time, that kind of feeling.  It all snowballed from there.  It was hard at first with just one review under my belt, but a local lady here took a chance on me and then helped me get established on P411.  That made all the difference in being able to see more providers that are true professionals and have shown me some very memorable experiences.

I didn't find TOB until after I was established, but the camaraderie here is second to none.  One hell of a ride so far.

What would I change?  Getting into this 15 years ago!  This falls under the category of "what were you so damned afraid of".  (Well, besides LE :) )

Besides O face...  well, I'm looking for certain services that go with that, but also for an emotional connection.  Chit chat should be enough to discover common interests, something shared, some love, whatever it is...  Sublime (music band), building sand castles on the beach, dancing naked in the shower, karaoke, traveling tidbits (movie plug - Up In The Air).  Birds of a feather.  A shared love of something.  It shouldn't be hard to find and easy to conserve about.  There are several providers here I see (at least semi-regularly) because of this...  they "check all the boxes".  :D  Would love to find more.

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While I would still be considered a newbie, I was introduced to the hobby decades ago when I worked in hotels. 

When I worked the night audit (graveyard) often times I was the only employee at the hotel. Other than the occasional police officer stoping to use the restroom or escort, it could be a lonely job. Some of the ladies would come down to the first desk on their way out, just to chat. I welcomed the company. 

I soon saw the girls more like co-workers. They where not like the street walkers, or drug addicts I say on TJ Hooker, they where mothers, daughters who faced everyday trials and tribulations, who where just trying to make a living and have a better life. They where nice people and people who I enjoyed spending time with.... even if it was just a few minutes over a hotel front desk. 

Once I got to know those who worked in the business, it became more attractive to me. 

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I believe I got started in the hobby because I was never able to make an emotional connection with any of the women I dated (one of my friends insists I have aspergers). I started a few years after I moved to Colorado in 2004.

I found several places on the web (this site, bears board, craigs list, backpage). My first experience was with a young lady from backpage - I now realize how lucky I got because it was a really good experience.

I'm sure glad I found TOB!

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On 3/13/2017 at 11:37 PM, sparkey600 said:

Kaili, I think I speak for many, thanks for sharing this. You are a wonderful person and I for one love the Hindu Goddess (Kali Ma) that you are in the flesh! You helped me so much when I was hurting so badly...I will never forget that. Thank you again my friend!

Sparkey600, 

It is said that where there is true love, you will always find Spirit!

Wishing you the very best and I am so excited that you now have a new fur baby! :) 

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2 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Sparkey600, 

It is said that where there is true love, you will always find Spirit!

Wishing you the very best and I am so excited that you now have a new fur baby! :) 

Well said and thank you Sweetie.

He has shown me a lot of things. Self forgiveness is the the most important lesson so far. I wish I could teach him something that reaching......

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Well, my philosophy on life has changed and totally feel that one should fulfill their fantasies.  Our time on this big blue marble is limited.  Being married for 30+ years, my belief now is that humans are not meant to be monogamous and science agrees with me.  I can count my encounters with my wife over the last year on one hand with all my fingers removed.  It's time to live and experience life.  I'm looking forward to forming friendships.  Sex is great but the intimacy and playfulness is what I crave. So here I am!

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I started in the capital of Texas, at barely 18. After growing up with a family that held me back from any progress that would result in me moving out on my own, i was SICK of constantly doing without.  

I began stripping in the city and OMFG was it a rough start. I was definitely born sexy, but I was pretty much a small bbw and had bad hair, no actual stripper heels, no skills at dealing with rejection, and my personal style was fckn unusual. I kept at it,  and many days i walked out of there with like 20 bucks because I sucked at schmoozing and the management at strip clubs just gave zero fucks about women.  I struggled for too damn long. 

6-8 months in, I met a gentleman who wanted a couple dances and we were immediately friends.  He was a nice and non predatory type who was a local executive for a well known automaker.  Long story short, he introduced me to some of his friends and he stayed respectably out of my affairs. He is to this day still my friend, but not a client.  I grew up with a girl who wound up going the opposite way and meeting some brutal POS pimp with more gold teeth than humanity, and i know too well how lucky i was to not get snagged in that shit. She is in and out of jail constantly and horribly strung out now, and I left the nose candy in the strip club bathroom 10 years ago. Sometimes it really is about who you know and little else...

But, i digress. 15 years after my first appt and i would change plenty of things im sure. Like...id have grown a spine sooner and prevented the numerous times in my early 20's where i got tricked or manipulated into being disrespected and saying nothing about it.  But its all part of the broken road that led me here now.

I have put myself through college, met (and fell for at times) some truly amazing people who i never want to NOT have in my life. Learned how to handle some of the most difficult, predatory,  and defective human beings imaginable; which has in turn made my 30s much more rewarding than my 20's. Believe it or not...without this life I would have been unequipped to build self esteem or draw boundaries with toxic people.  2 years ago I finally saw a year with 6 figures of income, and what i get a good sense of satisfaction from is knowing that im a serious bright spot for some peoples day just by not being a nitpicking thundercunt to them. Even more so...im able to have all the sexy older men i can manage, which was made to seem super weird previously by people who told me that i was clearly fucked up with daddy issues and that i was wrong by loving older dudes. No more of that!

Its not all sunshine and blowjobs, but i resent the fuck out of the notion that I am just a broken and lost shell that needs to be whipped into compliance so i can be "whole."  Its not true,  and its such a minimizing world for us because of the misconceptions.  Although some assume that i am a vapid and uncaring scam artist...i am definitely aware of who i want to give my best and love to, straightforward and transparent WAY more than the revered "wife" is considered by most husbands...and not putting up with being treated like a fraction by ANYONE. AND YES, I CAN TELL WHEN SOMEONE THINKS IM A HOPELESS DRIFTER. Why? Cause the intuitively strong part of me no longer can ignore any feeling of malevolence and MUST heed it instead. Thats MY takeaway from it...

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Great post, Trystin.  Thanks for sharing.  I knew you were cool, but this sheds even more light on your personality.

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The was a house in New Orleans.....

 

 

I was 16 when I first got a taste of the hobby...  

I was hanging out in a hotel bar waiting on some friends when a beautiful young lady (a few years my senior) asked if I was interested in 'a date'

I had been hanging out in strip clubs and picking up young ladies on occasion there,  but this YL from the hotel bar was phenomenal company. 

 

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