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I have questions.  How did you start in the "hobby"?  

If you could go back in time with everything you now know...would your hobby experiences be different?

What besides the O face do you really seek in your encounters?

 

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I got in because I was broke and saw this as a way to pursue my dreams. If I could do it all over, I would have gotten in this hobby earlier and traveled more.

I seek the comradery between my clients and I. I love it when I make them feel good.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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We really need to meet❤️

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How I started...

I wouldn't change anything. I've met and befriended many lovely people. As you well know Laci, I appreciate the camaraderie, and totally buy into the companionship aspect as well. That being said, naked women ROCK! 

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I started in this hobby some years after getting divorced.  Wanted sex.  Wanted female touch and connection.  Wasn't interested in a relationship, but I love women. I LOVE WOMEN.  Did I mention that I love women.  I found another board (which is no longer around), then found TOB and the magic happened. 

Not sure if I would change anything.  I've met some wonderful ladies who have added to the enjoyment of my life and helped me re-discovery the sexual side of my life.  When I first contact a lovely TOB lady, I try to let them know that I understand the business side of this, but, for me, it is also about 2 (or more) consenting adults having fun.  If it's not fun, it's not worth it. 

I enjoy giving and receiving pleasure, so this hobby has been a blast for me.  Luckily for me, most of the ladies I've met have been wonderful....including the OP.  I just wish my budget and free time allowed for more play time.

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My friend you really are a special man and I am blessed to know you. Love sitting on your porch;)

Connections are so special in this world of ours.

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17 minutes ago, Laci French said:

My friend you really are a special man and I am blessed to know you. Love sitting on your porch;)

Connections are so special in this world of ours.

Thanks, sweetie.  Sometimes it's the erection connection, sometimes it's just a genuine connection.  Sometimes it's both.  Knowing you is my pleasure.

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I'll never forget it: I was walking the dog late at night.  My wife had long since lost interest, I was getting pretty frustrated and I literally thought to myself: "I will never have sex with a beautiful young woman again" which was a very depressing thought.  I literally was lost in an existential wasteland, because that was my favorite activity, all of my life.  Right in the middle of the walk it hit me like a lightning bolt: "If Charlie Harper can do it, yes, I can, too."   Boom, the next day I googled "Where to find women to have sex with" did a bit of surfing around and link-following, and pretty soon,  bada-bing, I lucked into TOB, lucked into a couple of newbie friendly gorgeous young ladies (two of whom are still around), and one of them gave me all the information to sign up with P411, they gave me my first OKs, and the rest is history.

Seven years later:  Would I change anything?  Hell, no.  Best decisions I have ever made.  Well, there was that one kinda disappointing incall in that kinda sketchy motel in that sketchy section of Aurora a couple of years ago, but, other than that one decision, no changes.

What I seek in the connection is a great physical communication and hopefully, a great mental connection.  If a good emotional connection develops as well, it is the rare golden fleece and I have a new ATF.

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2 hours ago, Laci French said:

I have questions.  How did you start in the "hobby"?  

If you could go back in time with everything you now know...would your hobby experiences be different?

What besides the O face do you really seek in your encounters?

 

If I could change anything about my hobby experience it would be the length of my dick, an extra inch never hurt anyone! :D 

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I started before the internet and cell phones were invented. In the old days you had to peruse the ads section of the local newspaper's classified section. So I guess you can say I've been doing this since Christ was a carpenter or before it was even called "Hobby". There was no community as there is through TOB just indy's and lonely dudes trying to connect.

I have always thought the connection was what it's all about and that hasn't changed. There's no more intimate time than in the few brief moments we share with each other than right after we've just been intimate with each other. To me, it's why I still participate and why I hope I'll be able to for a lifetime.

Now let me climb back on my dinosaur and ride off into the sunset.

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A long time ago in a land far away.  My first first times were in manhatten in the 80s as I explored the underground nightlife while studying the arts.

 

Then in the 90s and 2000s in Los Angeles when I was in entertainment industry I had a lot of fun with some great ladies.

 

Im just getting back into it here, after a long time of revovering from some injuries and life events that made hobbying not an option.

 

i always enjoyed the whole excursion rather than just which events or acts took place.  I was never one of those " you pay the, to leave, not to stay" kind of people...

 

TOB and P411 are a whole new world to me.  Exciting times we live in!

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As many before I started when my wife cut down on my sex life.  Now It is over completely so I continue.  The wham. Bang, thank you Mam isn't for me.  I need at least a hour and some physiological connection. I enjoy the conversation and know when I'm prying so I stop. I love to cuddle after and just talk so an hour or two work for me even though the physical part is usually accomplished in 15 -20 minutes. What would I change if I had a chance? More dates!

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1983 at the arcade at kitty's on broadway as a wide eyed boy, it's been great to me ever since, wouldn't change a thing. 

Still looking for the holy grail and hope I never find it because it will Prolong my search.  

 

3 hours ago, Laci French said:

I have questions.  How did you start in the "hobby"?  

If you could go back in time with everything you now know...would your hobby experiences be different?

What besides the O face do you really seek in your encounters?

 

 

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4 hours ago, SultryKitten said:

I got in because I was broke and saw this as a way to pursue my dreams. If I could do it all over, I would have gotten in this hobby earlier and traveled more.

I seek the comradery between my clients and I. I love it when I make them feel good.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

 Me too. I was broke and women would seek me and actually pay me...

Seriously, it was way back when Bear's Board was active I  called an ad on Boulder Weekly or Colorado Daily  The lady I saw was Sabrina in Louisville. She did things to me I will always remember. Lol.  At some time T O. B  had another name  I don't remember what it was. But started seeing the lovely ladies on this board. I love the ladies I have met here.   They have ALL been so sweet and so enjoyable to spend time with. 

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2 hours ago, boink36 said:

If I could change anything about my hobby experience it would be the length of my dick, an extra inch never hurt anyone! :D 

What good would a two inch do you.:P

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22 minutes ago, tide32 said:

What good would a two inch do you.:P

It might not be very long but it sure is thin. :D

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23 minutes ago, tide32 said:

What good would a two inch do you.:P

For me it'd finally show up on my camera

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In 2000 i met up with a couple. The girlfriend of the couple was a provider and i seriously got to know this couple well. Spending time together on the weekends dinners, crazy fun, sometimes just talking and sharing oppionions. Well, funny thing happened... One day they both decided to open up to me and explained just exactly what the female of the couple did for a living. One thing led to another and because my kids were home during the school year and away during the summer. I decided to try one summer after the boyfriend of this couple  took a few pictures of me. I found myself first posting ads with calling Dawn from The Oyster. I  also having this couple help me out with getting things set up for me with a few pictures and advice on how to write an ad that was published three times that i know about and possibly in other little ad papers (not for certain). After that it  was the internet with Craigs List, SoWet, and later the former TOB, P411, and now here i am with all you great people on the new TOB, Eccie. other verious websites that help spread the message that i am available. 

 You know it's not an easy life at times. However, you do your best, work on improvement  when you can with finding your comfort zone, personal goals for success in life. Don't look back,  keep your focus on what your after.  As well as keeping your spirits up when shit happens. I am here i have had a few different names in the past. However, before i said good bye for a bit a few years back i was "Kali of Denver" and because everyone remembered Kali before i left. Yes i thought it only right. to continue on when people from my past started calling me Kali once again.

Kali Ma the Hindu Goddess whom i feel i have a person connection with,. (which is a long story in it's self). Kali is the name before time. Lol and I was also told by Johnboy#1 it was a cloaking divice for a Star Trek (not sure what season). Just something Johnboy#1 wrote me about. 

What is super cool to me is when someone from your far past contacts you again. This week i got a message from someone i have not seem for a very long time. Hey it is just exciting and humbling to be remembered. 

Kisses and yes that is my truthful story on how i came to be! Happy that i have now gotten to know quite a few new people as well as hold onto a few old friends as well as some crazy, fun. Wild memories and it's not over quit yet. 

 

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5 hours ago, boink36 said:

If I could change anything about my hobby experience it would be the length of my dick, an extra inch never hurt anyone! :D 

"An extra inch can kill"........that's a relatively obscure quote from "Footlong McDong"

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Let's see.....I went to Adult Friend Finder to find a funmate...instead, met a provider. Provider was fun, and hooked me up to TOB....SOWET...Bears...the rest as they say......is history

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It was around 2006 or 2007, I guess?  I was single yet again and was working non-stop and hadn't had any time to meet anyone.  Watching 9News and they have a story about a sting that LE carried out by going though ads on Craigslist.  I was like "escorts on Craigslist?  no shit?"  I started browsing the ads immediately but it took me a while to screw up my courage enough to actually set up an appointment.  My first was an outcall and I got lucky, I guess, she was incredibly beautiful and very nice, we were roughly the same age.  I told her she was my "first" and she said I was her third!  I believed her then, and still do.  She said she was doing it just long enough to pay for her boob job and then was out.  Sure enough, a few weeks later her ads disappeared and I've never seen her advertise since.  I did see her around town a few times (this was in Fort Collins, much smaller community), we exchanged a knowing glance but nothing else.  After some more googling I eventually found the old TOB and P411.

I would definitely change a few of the individual experiences if I could go back, but hindsight is always 20/20.

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I started years ago after my wife died.  We had an excellent sex life but now there was none.  I had a family that I was raising with my mother in law who was also a widower . I just could not bring myself to date and bring home a stranger to them even though she suggested that I needed to.  I also travel a lot so that made it even harder to date and my job is not something I can share with most people.  I still wanted some companionship and then I ran across another board and took the plunge.  I have not looked back since.  Just don't want a full time relationship even though I am the only one left at home and these relationships are ok with me.  I still travel a lot with my work.  Maybe one day I will settle down but not now.  I have made a few good acquaintances here and hope to make more and no one asks me questions,  and I like it that way.

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Laci, your topics lead to really interesting stories in the threads...

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First P4P was an HJ at  a massage parlor in Pleiku, RVN, followed be an all-nighter with Madam-K at a radio relay station called Dragon Mountain.

Fast forward 10 years, going through a divorce, and spending beau coup  bucks in strip clubs. Sometimes the strippers joined me for after hours activities. There was a strip club in a southern 'burb of Chicago with rooms in the basement my buddy knew about.  I even had strippers crash at my pad for a few weeks.

Fast forward another 5 years, going through another divorce, same scenario with strip clubs. But this time I started picking up the local papers (RMO, Westwood, Chicago Reader, etc) and calling for appointments. 

Fast forward another 10 years. Not divorced, but menopause & breast cancer has destroyed our sex life at home. Only now there's this thing called - The Internet! At first I only played while out-of-town for business. In addition to the local rags I visited sties like Heaven_or_Hell, alt.sex.escorts newsgroups.  Then I started playing closer to home with Decedant City and SoWet. Found an agency site run by Kelly38DD called Octapussy or something like that. I transitioned over to this new board, TOB, with the rest of the crowd. Even spent some time on Bear's. Out of town my go to was ASPD (now ECCIE).

Another 15 years and my wife has passed on. I'm not ready for a true relationship. Besides I still travel, a LOT! But I enjoy the scent of a woman, her warm touch. Sometimes I even share my adventures with them. 

LIFE IS GOOD! 😏

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21 hours ago, Laci French said:

I have questions.  How did you start in the "hobby"?  

If you could go back in time with everything you now know...would your hobby experiences be different?

What besides the O face do you really seek in your encounters?

 

Once upon a time, I had a lovely 18 mo "arrangement" with a significantly younger woman that concluded when she finished up at the local community college. Several years later, after a disastrous but thankfully brief attempt at marriage,  I recalled the simplicity of that pay to play relationship.  I was lucky to get on with a Denver provider who referred me to what finally morphed into the TOB we know and love today.

Anything different? Yes.  I would have more fully appreciated the brevity with which most ladies pass through this world.  There are several I regret not seeing or seeing more of before "poof."

What do I seek?  These days, not much beyond a rollicking good hour or two. 

 

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I wouldn't change much of aanything. It's like going to Baskin & Robbins. Each provider offers taste of something wonderful and I can get that extra scoop if want and she willing:P:P:P

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I screwed up and used a smiley in the title. I'm sorry and I will now start beating my own ass.:(

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7 minutes ago, Laci French said:

I screwed up and used a smiley in the title. I'm sorry and I will now start beating my own ass.:(

Any way you can video that?

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