Posted March 2, 2017 So inquiring minds like mine want to know.... if you see a provider with a few reviews that are all great, and you state you're going to write a review but don't.... Why not? I mean if you didn't want to just say it.... am I right? I think that if you truly enjoyed yourself why not?.... any thoughts on this subject? 💋 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 I can remember when you 1st came onboard this thread... ...while yeah the experience might have been good, maybe my review won't be. Things might have fallen a little short. LFK instead of DFK for starters. When I review I always make a draft 1st. Correct typos, etc. If it doesn't work for me, and I lost my enthusiasm in rereading, why post it. Might do more harm than good IMO. Also sometimes we decide also to exercise after the fact discretion as well as to who we see. There are many, many top ladies with loads of positive reviews that I've seen and not reviewed. I don't want to be a 138 review specialist. That being said, I've never not reviewed a lady I said I would review. I've asked if they'd like a review, then held back yes. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 (edited) 2 minutes ago, fishndude57 said: I can remember when you 1st came onboard this thread... ...while yeah the experience might have been good, maybe my review won't be. Things might have fallen a little short. LFK instead of DFK for starters. When I review I always make a draft 1st. Correct typos, etc. If it doesn't work for me, and I lost my enthusiasm in rereading, why post it. Might do more harm than good IMO. Also sometimes we decide also to exercise after the fact discretion as well as to who we see. There are many, many top ladies with loads of positive reviews that I've seen and not reviewed. I don't want to be a 138 review specialist. That being said, I've never not reviewed a lady I said I would review. I've asked if they'd like a review, then held back yes. Yeah... I was hesitant about reviews... but you gentlemen here are very eloquent with your words and I love to see how each client experience is💋 I find out what each person likes and try to be as creative and fun as possible.... I love the whole seduction as well as the experience myself 🕯💋💦😆 Edited March 2, 2017 by Bella Marie 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 OK...I will be Bad Admiral and say it.....Some guys claim they are going to write a review and have absolutely no intention of doing so. The "claim" is a con hoping to get the provider to put on an extra "wow show" in exchange for a stellar, phone overloading review. This is only one possible reason of course....but it is one that happens more than you think. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 43 minutes ago, Bella Marie said: So inquiring minds like mine want to know.... if you see a provider with a few reviews that are all great, and you state you're going to write a review but don't.... Why not? I mean if you didn't want to just say it.... am I right? I think that if you truly enjoyed yourself why not?.... any thoughts on this subject? 💋 Do not know if this was the reason why a person did not review, but maybe he did not care for the session and did not want to hurt your business. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 well...if that was the case i'd rather someone be honest so I can work on what the issue was i try to be very accommodating to all my clients . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 1 minute ago, Bella Marie said: well...if that was the case i'd rather someone be honest so I can work on what the issue was i try to be very accommodating to all my clients . Very nice and understandable. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 Just now, geecue2 said: Very nice and understandable. I feel honesty is the best policy after all 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 5 minutes ago, Bella Marie said: well...if that was the case i'd rather someone be honest so I can work on what the issue was i try to be very accommodating to all my clients . Would you prefer feedback in a private message for things that might be improved but not necessarily bad, where a public review might not be appropriate or misleading to others? 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 Just now, FuriousWeasel said: Would you prefer feedback in a private message for things that might be improved but not necessarily bad, where a public review might not be appropriate or misleading to others? Class act and respectful. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2017 3 minutes ago, FuriousWeasel said: Would you prefer feedback in a private message for things that might be improved but not necessarily bad, where a public review might not be appropriate or misleading to others? That is a very good idea 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 3 minutes ago, Bella Marie said: That is a very good idea If more ladies would have an attitude like yours, the hobby would be a lot better place. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 Just now, Laci French said: Class act and respectful. I know when I read some reviews, you can tell that when the provider reads it for the first time it would be like a smack in the face. And then have to write a rebuttal that may or may not help others reading the review who might just consider it sour grapes. It is all about communication though, isn't that the key? Talking up front before things start about the goals of the session is key for me, and afterwards too. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 2 minutes ago, FuriousWeasel said: I know when I read some reviews, you can tell that when the provider reads it for the first time it would be like a smack in the face. And then have to write a rebuttal that may or may not help others reading the review who might just consider it sour grapes. It is all about communication though, isn't that the key? Talking up front before things start about the goals of the session is key for me, and afterwards too. i think we discussed it before and after. I love reading about each experience because i relive each session and I get aroused each time 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 9 minutes ago, Bella Marie said: i think we discussed it before and after. I love reading about each experience because i relive each session and I get aroused each time Now that kind of review I'm a big fan of!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 I stopped writing local reviews because of inter-clique rivalries found in the ASP community. I now keep who I chose to see a private matter. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 I always write a review if she allows reviews, and I'm not quite sure I feel its part of the whole process. Maybe cause I'll want a review / ref for my slef 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 Only once have I told a young lady that I'd write a review for her and then didn't do it because I realized after the session that my review would possibly hurt her business. But, after much deliberation with the guys and gals in a chat room, I decided to tell her personally why I didn't write my review. I thought that was the best route to follow. Personally, if I feel my review would hurt a lady's business, I'd rather try and hash it out with her before writing the bad review. But on the flip side of that, I won't give a good review of a bad experience just because we hashed out the problem. That would be a disservice to the gentleman of the board who, like myself, use those reviews as our own screening method.. so maybe he liked to enough to not want to hurt you or your business, although I feel he should have at least told you his reasons personally.. :-) 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 I always ask the provider is she would like a review when our time is complete. Some have asked me not to, some say they would like it very much. If they request one I will write one. I try to be honest in what I write so that others will benefit from the questions I run through my mind when I am deciding to see a YL. I've taken a queue from some of the more experienced hobbyists and try to be vague in description of the session but specific with the alphabet soup of activities. I also realize that it takes 2 to tango and I'm 50% of the experience if not more, so if things didn't quite happen the way they I hoped, I try to mention that the chemistry just wasn't there. The battle cry of the hobby: YMMV. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 I am flattered if they want to write a review, or not write a review. It is strictly up to them, and I read them to learn more about myself, or what I can do better in the future. While I love reading them, to me they are just a way for clients to know more about what "time with me" will entail. I will say that some can be very entertaining, and great coffee reading material! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 After a provider has a lot of good reviews it just becomes a give and I know who I'd llike to see. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 1 hour ago, SultryKitten said: I am flattered if they want to write a review, or not write a review. It is strictly up to them, and I read them to learn more about myself, or what I can do better in the future. While I love reading them, to me they are just a way for clients to know more about what "time with me" will entail. I will say that some can be very entertaining, and great coffee reading material! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard I enjoy how others see me and how I make them feel.... can't help it.... I've always been into pleasing others💋 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 I'm really drawn to the ladies whose reviews indicate a connection and experience that was unexpected, rather than just a porn narrative.... porn is easy, making connections is an art form.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 Just now, Unclehazard91 said: I'm really drawn to the ladies whose reviews indicate a connection and experience that was unexpected, rather than just a porn narrative.... porn is easy, making connections is an art form.... I absolutely agree.... it's makes the experience much more ethereal 💋 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 Just speaking for myself...there have been a small handful of times when I have seen a YL who has many very good reviews, but my time with her ended up being less than great. I accept the reality that the fact it was less then great is likely as much my fault as hers. At least once I decided not to write the review when having this experience. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 23 hours ago, Bella Marie said: So inquiring minds like mine want to know.... if you see a provider with a few reviews that are all great, and you state you're going to write a review but don't.... Why not? ... Some of the comments are getting off-target as to why guys don't write reviews vs the question you asked above. I typically always ask if she'd like a review and which board to place said review. I don't think I ever said I was going to write one and didn't. Laziness & lying are probably two reasons some men don't write the reviews they said they would! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 3, 2017 Sometimes my performance is so good, that after the fact I can't recall all the ways I pleased the YL. I really wish they could just write draft for me and I'd post the final version. Like I do with annual reviews at work. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 6, 2017 Lol...ok... well... to the men who write eloquent reviews ... BRAVO... to the others that don't , please don't say you're going to and not.... I prefer a person be honest.... Thank you all for your input💋💋💋💋💋 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
