Modigliani.

Screened and vetted but still wants a pic

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Once your post ANYWHERE that says anything about sex or money your doomed..You don't have to say anything or do anything for Le to arrest you once they are already onto you...

 

Now as for the OP yes she just sounds new to the business and hasn't had the right Gentleman or Provider help her in any form or fashion.I know I'm so blessed for some of these ladies and Gentlemen...😀

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20 minutes ago, Modigliani. said:

The provider in question is new to this so I'm not knocking her methods but I just couldn't give a pic of myself.  Its her choice conduct her screening how she wants. I recommended a p411 account to help her to that end. Be safe and smart everyone!

If she is new and does not have a p411 account your having one would be meaningless to her.  And perhaps your references if she is not familiar with the ladies.  As to the photo I am sure Bit is correct the finger to face thing is to make sure it is you she is talking to taking a current pic.  The purpose of the pic I would wager is for use if you turn out to be a psycho, thieving violent jerk and to have you on notice she has it IF you do something shady.  Just saying.  But I would not feel good about sending a photo till certain she is legit, so I do not blame you.  Another bad deal that decriminalization would fix.  

But yes, sounds like she could use some veteran advice.

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Getting a P411 is not as easy for a provider as it used to be. Now for providers you have to show them a clear picture of your photo ID, get a reference from a hobbyist, and also put that photo id up to your face so that they can read your full name, see address, and everything else on you. When I was" Kali of Denver" back long ago I had a P411 without having to prove who I was with all information. Things have seriously changed! It's not easy! 

There are several ways to verify and I would be happy to share my advice if anyone needs help and yes last week I helped several new providers out. I would rather make someone feel safe in the business if I can help I always will. As I am sure many of the other ladies on here would be more than willing to help the new providers out too. 

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13 hours ago, Admiral C said:

It might not have been LE making the request....maybe the current pic as you are dressed was to make sure the two goons waiting around one of the corners to her place rolled the right guy.

    A possibility.

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15 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said:

Makes you think the provider should surreptitiously record the session.

"Your honor, she took the money, and then the officer arrested her immediately."

"I object!  The officer did 90 minutes of freaky ass shit.  Something about a sheep and velcro gloves being involved."

"That's not what the officer said..."

"Roll the tape..." 

All jokes aside there was a provider in Hollywood recently that left her webcam on for a session. She was assaulted, then stabbed, locked in a bathroom and had $2k stolen from her. Suspect was identified because he looked dead into the camera and left his own mugshot.

I get that asking for pictures is hinky but I also understand the reality and the risk of this business. If a provider is relatively new to TOB then it's probably safe to assume that they are very familiar with BP and learned behaviors are going to bleed over.

Also a surprising amount of dudes send face pics. It's bizarre but they do it. I don't think it's super uncommon.

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Sometimes you just have to trust yourself. If she is practicing odd behaviors before you have met, I am sure it would only get more strange after doing so. 

 

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23 hours ago, Modigliani. said:

I had something kinda odd happen to me. A newer provider that started listing on TOB peeked my interest, so I dropped her a text and sent all my screening info. She said I had to provide a pic of me touching my face. This was weird to me as I have rock solid references and reviews that go back to 2013 plus a p411. She said that it was the only way to make sure I wasn't a LE. I found this odd. As if cops cant take selfies? The newer provider has a review up so I didnt feel like it was a scam or anything but I decided to move along as this isnt my SOP.  Any thoughts?

As many others have stated, many ladies have different ways of screening.  To me it's really simple regardless if you're a newbie or seasoned vet:  If you really want/must see her, you'll abide by her screening regardless how ludicrous it may seem.  If her screening is outside your comfort zone, then pass!  

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9 hours ago, BigBaldBlk said:

As many others have stated, many ladies have different ways of screening.  To me it's really simple regardless if you're a newbie or seasoned vet:  If you really want/must see her, you'll abide by her screening regardless how ludicrous it may seem.  If her screening is outside your comfort zone, then pass!  

Amen

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18 hours ago, Mr.Pink said:

feel free to use my pic.

Image result for brad pitt

Yes. Now photoshop a picture of your arm pointing at Brad Pitt's face. Just remember to change the flannel shirt first.

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I think I'll use  Paavo Lötjönen for mine... with the the flannel shirt.

Chicks dig cellos don't they? I mean I know they dig third arms..... with flannel 

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Figuring out how to post a pic. Oh well
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28 minutes ago, Vassago said:

I think I'll use  Paavo Lötjönen for mine... with the the flannel shirt.

Chicks dig cellos don't they? I mean I know they dig third arms..... with flannel 

APOCALYPTICA!!!! Oh my gosh you are the very first person ever I know of to know them! I LOVE them!!

Well, I really love Eicca and when I first discovered them, had his pic on my phone as a wallpaper *yum!*

But my best friend was like..whos that and why do you have a girl as your wallpaper?  And I took it off LOL

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1 hour ago, NicoleSaunders said:

APOCALYPTICA!!!! Oh my gosh you are the very first person ever I know of to know them! I LOVE them!!

Well, I really love Eicca and when I first discovered them, had his pic on my phone as a wallpaper *yum!* How about Styx the goblin? What do you think about him? He's pretty sexy, right? No. I didn't think you'd go for that one.

But my best friend was like..whos that and why do you have a girl as your wallpaper?  And I took it off LOL Shame on you.

 

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You all are awesome... I really need to find my way to Colorado...so few like minded people here in FL.  

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I worry about a friendly neighbor knocking on my door the same time a client I've only screened with references or p411 is coming over. Having a pic so I know who to look for through the peephole might help...

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12 hours ago, NicoleSaunders said:

You all are awesome... I really need to find my way to Colorado...so few like minded people here in FL.  

What are you waiting for?

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21 hours ago, MrBigShot said:

What are you waiting for?

 ....for winter to be over.  Im a Miami girl...I have a hard time dealing when the weather dips below 70 :lol:

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That's the perception of Colorado. It was in the upper 70's last week here and we set another record for High Temp on Tuesday with 73 degrees. Of course, yesterday and today it's been snowing but it really isn't as foreboding here as is the perception of the rest of the country.

Don't know if you're a Game Of Thrones fan or not but it isn't like that here at all

Winter is here for the “Game of Thrones” cast, who are enduring some intensely cold weather

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On 2/21/2017 at 3:11 PM, Lolaababii said:

Every provider has her different methods, we shouldnt bash someone because you don't believe in her method and I'm sure she has more reasons behind her method than u guys are making out to be. If it works for her, who are we to judge :) 

Some methods are stupid. I'm a client. That's who I am to judge. 

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On 2/21/2017 at 2:38 PM, Melissa Sterling said:

What in the, huh? What or how does touching your cheek say you're not Le? Silly and well, stupid. I'm not gonna sugar coat this one at all. I mean seriously,  why couldn't a cop touch his cheek? Moron!

Dude, you escaped the stupidity. I mean I'm pretty sure I'm a little dumber now for reading about her dumb ass. Future freaking rocket scientist that one is. 

We're never going to get anywhere if you keep holding back... ;) 

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1 hour ago, NicoleSaunders said:

 ....for winter to be over.  Im a Miami girl...I have a hard time dealing when the weather dips below 70 :lol:

It's going to be warm again next week!

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On 2/21/2017 at 10:57 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Getting a P411 is not as easy for a provider as it used to be. Now for providers you have to show them a clear picture of your photo ID, get a reference from a hobbyist, and also put that photo id up to your face so that they can read your full name, see address, and everything else on you. When I was" Kali of Denver" back long ago I had a P411 without having to prove who I was with all information. Things have seriously changed! It's not easy! 

There are several ways to verify and I would be happy to share my advice if anyone needs help and yes last week I helped several new providers out. I would rather make someone feel safe in the business if I can help I always will. As I am sure many of the other ladies on here would be more than willing to help the new providers out too. 

Wanting also let you know that it is highly important that if any of providers have an ECCIE site in addition to P411 and TOB that you visit it and make a post at least once a month or so. If you don't do that? You will need to prove who you are again and that will require you to submit pictures with you personal ID. The exact same process as P411 as I stated above. Not sure what exactly they do with your personal information? Just the same tho...I learned a lesson back in October when having to prove who I was all over again!! And no! ECCIE (TX website) does not give a rip about what other websites say about you or even if you have current reviews on their website. One of my personal provider friends (same age as me) also had to show proof on herself. So no this is not just an random incident. So, my advice for new providers is to use all your tools and stay active within all the communities!

Best of Luck and Love to all those who pretisapate on any level. Clients as well as providers!!😘😘 

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2 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Wanting also let you know that it is highly important that if any of providers have an ECCIE site ... You will need to prove who you are again and that will require you to submit pictures with you personal ID ... ECCIE (TX website) does not give a rip about what other websites say about you or even if you have current reviews on their website. 

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I wintered in South TX last year. Let's just say that the bovine excrement hit the rotary impeller on this issue. They cracked down hard because some guys were running 'off the books' agencies(pimping?), in with collusion a local mod. Changed moderators, banned some individuals, and generally thinned the pool of YL. The agencies left because they couldn't keep up with the ID requirements for their part-time staff. The flame wars were legendary!

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3 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

I wintered in South TX last year. Let's just say that the bovine excrement hit the rotary impeller on this issue. They cracked down hard because some guys were running 'off the books' agencies(pimping?), in with collusion a local mod. Changed moderators, banned some individuals, and generally thinned the pool of YL. The agencies left because they couldn't keep up with the ID requirements for their part-time staff. The flame wars were legendary!

Gawds that's horrible! Sex and money with a little bit of greed! We see it all around us and not just in the industry alone. Kind of makes you wonder where we are headed?! Sorry about TX Bit! 

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8 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

... Sorry about TX Bit! 

It wasn't too bad.  I had -

  • one awesome experience
  • one cancelled when I was on her doorstep. Her roommate had shown up. 
  • one brothel experience across the border (beige, I think I'll paint ...)
  • one average experience (someone starting out)
  • one agency that stopped communicating in the middle of establishing an appointment (in the process of closing)

Then I had a CO friend join me for the journey home. I had fun showing her the Padre Island(s) beaches. 

The real issue was getting caught in the middle of the flame war w/o knowing the players or the issues.  Fellas we're pissed off that they'd lost their low cost nookie for shilling their buddy's gals vs. the guys upset that they weren't in on the action vs. the mods trying to put a lid on things. The owner & national mods came in, cleaned house, and installed new local mods who were not well received. In the end I managed to convince most of the crowd that I didn't really have a stake in their games; I just wanted to discuss fun times and with whom.

i wish there was a better resource than BP for SW Florida. Even that's mostly for a town 40mi N of me.  ECCIE tends to cover the E coast (Miami area). P411 seems to favor the Bentley crowd. I'll be back in S.TX next year. 

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28 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

It wasn't too bad.  I had -

  • one awesome experience
  • one cancelled when I was on her doorstep. Her roommate had shown up. 
  • one brothel experience across the border (beige, I think I'll paint ...)
  • one average experience (someone starting out)
  • one agency that stopped communicating in the middle of establishing an appointment (in the process of closing)

Then I had a CO friend join me for the journey home. I had fun showing her the Padre Island(s) beaches. 

The real issue was getting caught in the middle of the flame war w/o knowing the players or the issues.  Fellas we're pissed off that they'd lost their low cost nookie for shilling their buddy's gals vs. the guys upset that they weren't in on the action vs. the mods trying to put a lid on things. The owner & national mods came in, cleaned house, and installed new local mods who were not well received. In the end I managed to convince most of the crowd that I didn't really have a stake in their games; I just wanted to discuss fun times and with whom.

i wish there was a better resource than BP for SW Florida. Even that's mostly for a town 40mi N of me.  ECCIE tends to cover the E coast (Miami area). P411 seems to favor the Bentley crowd. I'll be back in S.TX next year. 

Love to be able to go on a trip some day I will again. Ahhh just to relax and have another view  of the outside of my regular realm! Now that would be a delicious adventure! I used to travel when I was younger college days... mentally dreaming aaahhhhh...

Sounds like quite the adventure you had Bit!!!😎😎 We are all envious! In only a very good way Bit!!! Love the fact that you itemized events! 😀😀

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In some cities, they use escorting without a license after opening the door so no money needs to be exchanged....  Just as we hobbyists are able to see any of these amazing ladies after we screen using reviews and such, they should also be able to do their additional screening.... And like the originator of this post said, he was able to go somewhere else, but in the end my best sessions are where both parties feel comfortable with each other

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