Posted February 4, 2017 Question for the guys: Would you see a provider that has a wedding ring showing in her photos? Personally I am a bit hesitant to see her if she does have on a wedding ring. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 1 minute ago, a_happycamper_12 said: Question for the guys: Would you see a provider that has a wedding ring showing in her photos? Personally I am a bit hesitant to see her if she does have on a wedding ring. I would have zero hesitation, based on a ring in pictures. Could be old pictures. Could be a ring she bought herself. Could be her husband (or wife) encourages/supports her choice of work. I certainly don't know from pictures. Lastly, the majority of providers see ring-wearing men, dont they? 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 1 hour ago, pfunk said: ... Lastly, the majority of providers see ring-wearing men, dont they? ^^ THIS ^^ 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 A new provider I'd worry a bit about. But I'd think that an established one obviously would have their work/life balance sorted, or at least have a better chance of that happening. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 Depends. If I am reasonably sure her SO/husband is aware and supportive of her activities, then it is not an issue to me. If it is ever clear that SO/husband does NOT know or support said activities, yes, it is a major issue for me and count me out. Including too much room for drama, and no way in hell would I see her at her residence. But I am not a big fan of cheating in general and try not to engage in OR enable. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 5 hours ago, pfunk said: Lastly, the majority of providers see ring-wearing men, dont they? Largely I suspect because they do not want to cut out 3/4 or more of the potential market. Does not mean they like the concept. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 6 hours ago, a_happycamper_12 said: ...Personally I am a bit hesitant to see her if she does have on a wedding ring. I'll admit the double standard I had when I first started out that I didn't want to see a wedding ring, nor hear about her SO or kids as it was purely fantasy for me. After getting to know some ladies (some with hubbies and SO who strongly approve and encourage her), I'm there to have fun and in most cases, so is she. I'm not sure how long you have done this OP, but if you're like me, you'll be numb to what jewelry she's wearing after awhile. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 I know ladies that purposely wear rings on the married finger so guys don't ask them out. Plus, I don't think it is really cool that a guy would judge us by a ring on our marriage finger when we don't judge guys for doing the same. I am not worried though...can't even remember the last time I wore earrings! Surprised the holes in my ears haven't closed up! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 Talking about jewelry... I recently met a provider for an appointment. She was wearing a piece of ankle jewelry courtesy of XXXX county. Quite a first impression. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2017 My upbringing tells me to instinctually say no, or if I know they're married too. One slipped through the cracks recently, would I see her again...In a Heartbeat! So no is my answer. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2017 49 minutes ago, inkspot said: Talking about jewelry... I recently met a provider for an appointment. She was wearing a piece of ankle jewelry courtesy of XXXX county. Quite a first impression. A long time, now retired, provider on this board had pictures in her ads with her county jewelry prominently displayed. A little off topic, but, I'd be more concerned about seeing providers with a "manager". THAT, imo, could lead to all kinds of drama via several possible scenarios (which I won't mention due to possibly getting called out for spreading FUD). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2017 5 hours ago, SultryKitten said: I know ladies that purposely wear rings on the married finger so guys don't ask them out. Plus, I don't think it is really cool that a guy would judge us by a ring on our marriage finger when we don't judge guys for doing the same. I am not worried though...can't even remember the last time I wore earrings! Surprised the holes in my ears haven't closed up! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard This^^^^ Also back when I first started the hobby, there seemed a lot more providers with rings on their fingers and were married, engaging in the hobby out of financial necessity. Now, with the advent of the internet and boards like this, there actually seem to be many more single women engaged in the hobby. I'm not sure if the stigma of the profession has lessened slightly with shows like the Girlfriend Experience, brothels featured as documentaries, and/or pornstars being seen as celebrities. Anyway, back to the OP's question, I've never found it a hindrance. Most of the hubbys seem to support their wives doing this. In fact, I've run into more issues with "boyfriends/managers/pimps", interfering with sessions than true SO's. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2017 Doesn't bother me if a provider is married, or pretending to be married. What I did not like was doing an incall with a married provider who indicated, "my husband is out running errands, don't worry, he is cool with everything" as we headed up to the marital bedroom to do the deeds on the marital bed. Since I am such a slut it didn't really slow me down, but I was a tad uncomfortable the whole time and I would not go back. I have often said that the way I wanted to die was on my 100th birthday, shot dead by a jealous 24-year-old husband, but that birthday is still a few years away, so I think I will avoid the situation 'till then. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2017 On 2/4/2017 at 4:22 PM, inkspot said: Talking about jewelry... I recently met a provider for an appointment. She was wearing a piece of ankle jewelry courtesy of XXXX county. Quite a first impression. Too funny!!! love it... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2017 On 2/5/2017 at 10:28 AM, Badboy said: I have often said that the way I wanted to die was on my 100th birthday, shot dead by a jealous 24-year-old husband, but that birthday is still a few years away, so I think I will avoid the situation 'till then. LOL!! This is how I want to go but I'd settle for an angry husband since it may be too much to ask for the 24yr old to be jealous of an Old Geezer like me...especially since I'll be a spry 100 years young at the time of the incident. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2017 On February 4, 2017 at 4:22 PM, inkspot said: Talking about jewelry... I recently met a provider for an appointment. She was wearing a piece of ankle jewelry courtesy of XXXX county. Quite a first impression. That would make for interesting "nice to meet you" conversation 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2017 6 hours ago, MrBigShot said: LOL!! This is how I want to go but I'd settle for an angry husband since it may be too much to ask for the 24yr old to be jealous of an Old Geezer like me...especially since I'll be a spry 100 years young at the time of the incident. He will not be jealous of my wizened visage, he will be jealous of the way that I am making his bride scream with delight, and moaning as he has never heard her moan before. The furious shaking of her body as she is wracked by a ferocious orgasm will drive him out of his mind and off to his gun safe. Or so I plan it today, things may change. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
