1hapyfeller

Old seeks Young

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Okay...

As an older man.

I've always enjoyed the company of younger woman who are interesting, like fun, being spoiled from time to time. And yes, what I'm about to say may get me in trouble."The grass is greener on the other side of the fence." I think it's our nature as people to wander away or if your single like me look for new adventures. I guess that's accounts for high divorce rate in this country. Or just another way of breaking up boredom. 

For me: I love slender women, who take care of themselves. So now... as I parse other web sites. I see what looks attractive, yet some of the younger providers are not business women. Sadly most are for "in and out" service.

If there is a provider interested, PM. It's Friday afteroon... chilly outside ! Stay warm everybody with the body next to ya !

Thanks,

1hapyfeller

 

 

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I didn't quite get what you meant in your post... Are you offering to be a sugar daddy? Long-term relationship? Take someone off the market?? Not quite sure.

I have seen several girls mention the above points in their ads and maybe they will work for you. Although, I may have totally misunderstood your post.

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8 minutes ago, raul said:

I didn't quite get what you meant in your post... Are you offering to be a sugar daddy? Long-term relationship? Take someone off the market?? Not quite sure.

I have seen several girls mention the above points in their ads and maybe they will work for you. Although, I may have totally misunderstood your post.

 

30 minutes ago, petey-9950 said:

Fella.   Maybe you need a F W B relationship?

Are you two really that dense?

Dude is looking for skinny young hookers, sheesh.

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5 minutes ago, MrReindeer-9515 said:

 

Are you two really that dense?

Dude is looking for skinny young hookers, sheesh.

Yes, 1hapyfeller is offering to be a Sugar Daddy and is in search of a spinner type Sugar Baby. I think his post may have confused some here but not the intended audience...i.e. those referenced in your post MrReindeer

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Hey, why not! If you have the dough-ray-mi to sign a hot talented free agent to a long term contract instead of hourly hire, that sounds like a win-win to me.

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On 2/3/2017 at 11:28 AM, 1hapyfeller said:

Okay...

For me: I love slender women, who take care of themselves. So now... as I parse other web sites. I see what looks attractive, yet some of the younger providers are not business women. Sadly most are for "in and out" service.

I'm with you bud! Took me almost 2 years but finally found a regular interested in a monthly plan. Recently ventured out again to develop a second when my first is busy or in her monthly cycle, and another when I'm up in the mountains. The gals under 25 are real flakes and mostly unreliable, PM me for the names of a couple you should avoid. One was a real psycho. They seem to be interested in high volume versus an "arrangement." Go figure...

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As usual, any generalization is wrong - especially generalizations about the ladies.  The gals under 25 are not "real flakes and mostly unreliable."  Yes, they are under 25 and, as such, some are schedule challenged, but that is part of being young (along with smooth skin, firm bodies, etc.).  And you are correct, at the first meeting they are not going to act as if you are long-lost lovers, they are as wary of you as you are of them - this may come across as wanting to get you in and out, but try to see it from their perspective.  Also, are you being polite and charming?  That helps.

My current ATATF is 23 and is the wisest soul I have ever been blessed to encounter - she has seen so much, been through so much, survived so much, and triumphed so well that I am honored to simply know her, much less to be able to share her time and companionship.  Her intelligence and maturity are simply off the charts, matched only by her beauty.

I think the best way to enter into the "arrangement" you seek is not to start off with it in your initial e-mail.  Instead, keep meeting ladies for one-hour appointments and when you click with one that meets your criteria, start to visit more regularly.  If you like that, then start to discuss an "arrangement."  My ATATF and I don't have any formal arrangement, but we do get together at least once a week - I schedule it a few days ahead of time, just like any other gentleman who wishes to share her time and companionship.

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Guy's, Gent's....

I very much appreciate the feedback regarding young providers. Me: not really interested in being the Sugar Daddy type. I have the buck's, but why pay more than what's called for ? I'm a cheap bastard, and tightwad.... I don't make any apologies for that.  Something I will admit, and no shame in doing such. Met a BP girl, who said she did porn movies. So I present a carrot, that she took. Turned out she wasn't that great and had a habit with either "clear" or coke. She would post pix's on FB. I said this isn't good. Let her go after. 

I'm glad I learned of her habits, not too far into spending  money on her. She moved out of state. 

I am polite, respectful, charming and tell them I'm older. If anything I rather let them know up front. Lesson's I guess?  Lastly it would be great to have an FWB ?  It's not in the card's ! Oh Well... that's life !

1hapyfeller 

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This is so reminiscent of the Edward / Clara relationship in the movie The American...  not that I'm plugging it, but it's a great film if you haven't seen it.

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16 hours ago, 1hapyfeller said:

Guy's, Gent's....

I very much appreciate the feedback regarding young providers. Me: not really interested in being the Sugar Daddy type. I have the buck's, but why pay more than what's called for ? I'm a cheap bastard, and tightwad.... I don't make any apologies for that.  Something I will admit, and no shame in doing such. Met a BP girl, who said she did porn movies. So I present a carrot, that she took. Turned out she wasn't that great and had a habit with either "clear" or coke. She would post pix's on FB. I said this isn't good. Let her go after. 

I'm glad I learned of her habits, not too far into spending  money on her. She moved out of state. 

I am polite, respectful, charming and tell them I'm older. If anything I rather let them know up front. Lesson's I guess?  Lastly it would be great to have an FWB ?  It's not in the card's ! Oh Well... that's life !

1hapyfeller 

This isn't a dating site and you pay providers for time and companionship. If you're not afraid to admit your a cheap bastard maybe you're looking in the wrong spot.

To any of you guys seeking arrangements I am going to venture a guess and say that providers are the wrong pool of women to wade through. Providers are all about the in and out service especially when it comes to guys who don't want to pay. That shouldn't be a disappointment. You don't want to be a Sugar Daddy and you don't want to pay by the hour or for more than what you feel is necessary, but she has to be young with a tight body and accept the "carrots" you dangle in her face to make sure she's what you want.

Make appointments 1HapyFeller that's what the ladies here are for. Again it's not a dating site and most aren't looking for "arrangements" or cheap FWBs.

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On 2/4/2017 at 9:10 PM, Womanlover-3464 said:

I'm with you bud! Took me almost 2 years but finally found a regular interested in a monthly plan. Recently ventured out again to develop a second when my first is busy or in her monthly cycle, and another when I'm up in the mountains. The gals under 25 are real flakes and mostly unreliable, PM me for the names of a couple you should avoid. One was a real psycho. They seem to be interested in high volume versus an "arrangement." Go figure...

So you had multiple arrangements but got upset when one of them stepped out on you? Did your arrangement pay their bills? All of them? And leave room for an allowance?

Providers want money and so do sugar babies, if you're not paying the bills you're not really a sugar daddy and a girl has got to make money still.

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Again, I want to say Thank You to everyone for their comment's. 

1hapyfeller

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