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PSA: Not all BP girls are low hanging fruit

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I think that most here would agree that not ALL BP escorts or clients were problems, but there tended to be more of the 'less than honest' when dealing with BP. I would posit that the uptick in unsavory clients though they are responding to ads on TOB are not actually participating members of TOB. The demise of BP has temporarily expanded pool of both clients & escorts to a broader market. In time the dregs will be filtered out. Many dislike the indiscreet nature of the review process, but it does have the benefit of improving the experiences for both clients & providers.

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No, you are not low hanging fruit.  You are a WOMAN.  Please be patient with the gentlemen.  The gentlemen will be careful for a while.  One mis-stated word during first contact can ruin everything.  Everyone is on high alert (as in rock vs. hard place).  We are still assessing the impact from BP.  In the meantime, the WOMEN will have a lot more unwanted attention from men who cannot think.  Eventually, the gentlemen who think carefully will call.  I hope to call soon and not sound dumb or nervous.

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1 hour ago, Tish Thique said:

Should I be judged as low hanging fruit because of it, absolutely not!

Thanks for sharing your story and your concerns! The majority of us are not going to judge you or the way you conducted your business. Personally I don't see any problem in accepting everybody to the board (men or women), if they know how to follow the rules. And that certainly include BP girls seeking asylum after its closing. It's good for all, new ideas, new people, new opinions and new options! So please go ahead and dive in! :)

 

 

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The struggle is real! I've spent. Fair bit of time on the hobbyists side of that the last few weeks. New voices are met a lot of suspicion right off the bat. Which is understandable. Now with a when lot of sudden in-flow of new people there is suspicion all over the place. It has been a chore to try to get past that.

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1 hour ago, Tish Thique said:

Should I be judged as low hanging fruit ... absolutely not!

(ellipses mine)

Well stated.  I wish you good fortune.

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2 hours ago, Tish Thique said:

All I can say is WOW! You all sure know how to make us newbies and new booties feel welcome.

Before I get started I want to leave you with this; one of the most celebrated flowers in the world, the lotus flower, grows and blooms in muddy water.....

PSA: Not all BP girls were low hanging fruit! not trying to start a fight but, I didn't see much of a difference in the escort providers on here vs BP.  Most charge mediocre rates to do the most in time frames that wouldn't even allow me to get wet. I'm not judging anyone just stating my observations. The goal of this post is to share my history and prospective with the hopes that you guys remain cautious but become a little less prejudice towards us. For all you semantics & linguistics majors, proof readers and auto-corrector; although I have Master's degree, I do not feel the need to be grammatically correct on this site. Just thought I would get that out of the way based on the comments read in the forums today.

I've been in the business off and on since the Oyster, Westword and long gone Buzz Magazine were the main players in Denver's adult advertising market. Left my executive level finance position & return to the business full time in 2015, BP was and remained my primary marketing tool.

I have met surgents, doctors, judges, lawyers, CPAs, ranchers, oil tycoons, polititians and plethora of major league sports players & their coaches/managers from my BP ads. I am also unable to count the dick pics, bareback/car date requests, calls/text at ungodly hours and "let's make a deal, I'll give you $50 to make me holla" scumbags.  My ads were consistently sandwiched between ladies offering $60 specials or accepting barters for drugs. Why did I stay until the end after kissing more than my fair share of frogs?

1) I'm an ultra-exclusive courtesan that only invites previous social date and FBSM clients with established chemistry,  A majority of my new clients are traveling businessmen. Very few were aware of the local boards but they all knew BP.

2) I prefer discretion and initially shunned away from review sites. I didn't want an online record of the "blow by blow" (pun intended lol) details of my encounters. The verification sites were a turn off as well. All I could think of is providing a face pic & a copy of my driver's license then BOOM, another Ashley Madison situation.

A good friend and duo partner discovered TOB & P411 1st and after much success on both, encouraged me to start transitioning over. I was still a little hesitant due to all the reasons above so, I created a TOB profile and only participated in discussions to dip my feet in the water. I wanted to learn the rules of the TOB club and the temperments of it's contributing members prior to fully joining.

Now, forced to dive in head first stuck between a rock, a hard place and a double edged sword! Noone here or any other review site wants to see "refugee" BP girls without a previous presence. No verification site (I've tried P411, TER and Date-Check) will accept providers without 2-3 reviews from established reviewers. I can't win for losing when all I ever wanted to do was stay under the radar. Is it my fault I didn't keep abreast of the new marketing strategies for this business and put all my eggs in one basket, yes. Should I be judged as low hanging fruit because of it, absolutely not!

Welp, 1st TOB rant that may start a repartee, check. Do I give a flying fiddle? Nope!

Drops the mike,

Tish Thique

Wow! Buzz Magazine...now that takes me down memory lane! If it wasn't for me meeting them at Shotgun Willie's, and then hinting that I could make a lot more money...I wouldn't be here. Hope those guys are doing well!

Welcome, and have patience beautiful lady...this will all be a distant memory soon.

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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10 hours ago, Tish Thique said:

All I can say is WOW! You all sure know how to make us newbies and new booties feel welcome.

Before I get started I want to leave you with this; one of the most celebrated flowers in the world, the lotus flower, grows and blooms in muddy water.....

PSA: Not all BP girls were low hanging fruit! not trying to start a fight but, I didn't see much of a difference in the escort providers on here vs BP.  Most charge mediocre rates to do the most in time frames that wouldn't even allow me to get wet. I'm not judging anyone just stating my observations. The goal of this post is to share my history and prospective with the hopes that you guys remain cautious but become a little less prejudice towards us. For all you semantics & linguistics majors, proof readers and auto-corrector; although I have Master's degree, I do not feel the need to be grammatically correct on this site. Just thought I would get that out of the way based on the comments read in the forums today.

I've been in the business off and on since the Oyster, Westword and long gone Buzz Magazine were the main players in Denver's adult advertising market. Left my executive level finance position & return to the business full time in 2015, BP was and remained my primary marketing tool.

I have met surgents, doctors, judges, lawyers, CPAs, ranchers, oil tycoons, polititians and plethora of major league sports players & their coaches/managers from my BP ads. I am also unable to count the dick pics, bareback/car date requests, calls/text at ungodly hours and "let's make a deal, I'll give you $50 to make me holla" scumbags.  My ads were consistently sandwiched between ladies offering $60 specials or accepting barters for drugs. Why did I stay until the end after kissing more than my fair share of frogs?

1) I'm an ultra-exclusive courtesan that only invites previous social date and FBSM clients with established chemistry,  A majority of my new clients are traveling businessmen. Very few were aware of the local boards but they all knew BP.

2) I prefer discretion and initially shunned away from review sites. I didn't want an online record of the "blow by blow" (pun intended lol) details of my encounters. The verification sites were a turn off as well. All I could think of is providing a face pic & a copy of my driver's license then BOOM, another Ashley Madison situation.

A good friend and duo partner discovered TOB & P411 1st and after much success on both, encouraged me to start transitioning over. I was still a little hesitant due to all the reasons above so, I created a TOB profile and only participated in discussions to dip my feet in the water. I wanted to learn the rules of the TOB club and the temperments of it's contributing members prior to fully joining.

Now, forced to dive in head first stuck between a rock, a hard place and a double edged sword! Noone here or any other review site wants to see "refugee" BP girls without a previous presence. No verification site (I've tried P411, TER and Date-Check) will accept providers without 2-3 reviews from established reviewers. I can't win for losing when all I ever wanted to do was stay under the radar. Is it my fault I didn't keep abreast of the new marketing strategies for this business and put all my eggs in one basket, yes. Should I be judged as low hanging fruit because of it, absolutely not!

Welp, 1st TOB rant that may start a repartee, check. Do I give a flying fiddle? Nope!

Drops the mike,

Tish Thique

It is good to hear from you luv!! 

Xoxo

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11 hours ago, Tish Thique said:


I've been in the business off and on since the Oyster, Westword and long gone Buzz Magazine were the main players in Denver's adult advertising market. 

Tish Thique

Hey Tish, as you may or may not know,the Oyster went belly up when the last publisher died.( I found her body ). Buzz Magazine didn't last but what,a year ?  Westword adult ads dropped when they raised their prices so damn high. 

You bring up a good point.back in the day and still today.Ladies advertise in more than one publication.Back then it was print,today its internet. A number of ladies were on both TOB and BP. Having friends still in the biz from my many years at the Oyster. I have heard similar complaints about both TOB and BP clients. So its unfair to dump on one or the other. BP had more robs and bait & switch than TOB ,but its those girls that gave BP its bad name. that said,cream does rise to the top and I'm sure you'll continue to do fine here.

 

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Recently, as in within the last 8 hours, a new member joined with his limp dick as an avatar. I'm sorry but that's simply low hangin fruit IMO.

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Neither of you ladies are low hanging fruit, and none of us are better than any others. BP is just another advertising venue that generates additional clients, because there is a larger viewing base. Unfortunately some of the viewing base are game players, and some of the advertisers are there to take advantage of the large viewing base in unscrupulous ways. There are/were many very legitimate providers there as well as many legitimate clients who only know of that site to find a date. 

A good portion of us ladies got our start there, and as you mentioned found our way over here. My intention havenever been to insult anyone and I believe that most of the folks here do not have that intention either. I hope that you ladies do not turn away, and absolutely feel welcome here. This will all work out, as it always does. Hope it ends up being fun for you here.

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On 1/13/2017 at 2:41 PM, LaydeeBaby said:

 I have seen several people says things about the ladies and the men of BP... And I have to agree most of it is try.... I can only speak for me when I say I'm not like that I just want a chance...

Welcome to the board pretty Laydee.  I hope you enjoy a long stay and prosper here.  I am sure you will be given a fair chance by most.  What you do with it is up to you, but I wish you very well.

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12 hours ago, Tish Thique said:

All I can say is WOW! You all sure know how to make us newbies and new booties feel welcome.
 

If I was remiss in welcoming you last October (too lazy to look now), welcome to this little corner of the world.  I wish you well and hope you prosper here.

New booties ..... what's not to like and welcome!!

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Tish !

I'm glad you shared your perspective about the business, BP and the women of that community. I appreciate your honesty, and telling like it is. However, some of us men on TOB;have had close calls with LE. The occasional provider doing a "ROB."  So of course there's some apprehension. No one wants to get busted, whether it be the provider or her  client. 

Let me say  this, yes I parse BP pages, because I am picky about who I want as a reliable provider. I'm a man... whose is getting older. I still love the company of younger women. As the saying goes "variety is the spice of life ." And you my dear are "the variety and spice of life !." 

Take Care, : - )

1hapyfeller

 

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13 hours ago, SultryKitten said:

Wow! Buzz Magazine...now that takes me down memory lane! If it wasn't for me meeting them at Shotgun Willie's, and then hinting that I could make a lot more money...I wouldn't be here. Hope those guys are doing well!

Welcome, and have patience beautiful lady...this will all be a distant memory soon.

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

Yes Samantha! They changed the game for me too. I was dancing too & working with escort services prior to The Buzz. Actually, I met the owners doing a photoshot for Denver Ladies. The exposure there helped me become an independent provider.

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4 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

 

Oh my, JRWolfe! I didn't know the Oyster went belly up too. 

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I really appreciate you guys taking the Welcome Wagon out of retirement!

Thanks, Luvs!

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1 hour ago, Tish Thique said:

Oh my, JRWolfe! I didn't know the Oyster went belly up too. 

  Only because the owner passed .  Her husband had passed just a couple years before her.they had no kids...no heirs.No will, no business plan.She had plenty of money  in the bank to keep it running.  Just no one could take any of it out .PM me for more if you are interested.

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1 hour ago, Tish Thique said:

Yes Samantha! They changed the game for me too. I was dancing too & working with escort services prior to The Buzz. Actually, I met the owners doing a photoshot for Denver Ladies. The exposure there helped me become an independent provider.

  Interesting information. The Buzz approached me about writing for them. Gave them an article under a different by line. It was a one time thing. Knew they did excellent full color photo shoots and they gave the Oyster a brief run for its money. Have no clue why they went belly up.

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 I have seen several people says things about the ladies and the men of BP... And I have to agree most of it is try.... I can only speak for me when I say I'm not like that I just want a chance...

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4 hours ago, LaydeeBaby said:

 I have seen several people says things about the ladies and the men of BP... And I have to agree most of it is try.... I can only speak for me when I say I'm not like that I just want a chance...

And you will get your chance.

Most of us on here are honest and sincere and expect the same.

Good luck to you, I for one hope you do GREAT! Welcome to the board.

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Well Tish,

I have never considered BP ladies low Hanging Fruit. Two of the most amazing women I have ever meet were BP'ers and continue to see them regularly, and in fact I am taking one of them to Europe with me this April.  Now, I have had my share of crap as well on BP and it really started to become the Wild Wild West of WTF. So there may be this perception that if you are on "legit" sites your not the "trash" that floats around on BP; but that is certainly not indicative of all the ladies that advertised their.  The reality I see since BP went down is it has caused some chaos, but it really is a temptress in a teapot; and this to shall pass.  Peace!

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7 minutes ago, Running with Scissors said:

...  The reality I see since BP went down is it has caused some chaos, but it really is a temptress in a teapot; and this to shall pass.  Peace!

Was that a Freudian slip? 😏

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2 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

Was that a Freudian slip? 😏

Oh god, lol.. F ing hate this auto spell feature. Tempest!!! No Freudian here. At least I don't think so? Hmm may need some analysis?

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4 minutes ago, Running with Scissors said:

Oh god, lol.. F ing hate this auto spell feature. Tempest!!! No Freudian here. At least I don't think so? Hmm may need some analysis?

No, no, I like the original statement.  More apt to the subject. ;)

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