decafnaetd

Taming it down.

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Heya folks! It's been a while since I last posted. I haven't seen my particular desires catered to exactly so I thought I'd toss this out there: I love that spot between full service and body rubs. Lots of making out and busy hands and oral fun, but it doesn't go further than that. Sorta reminds me of my first girlfriend back in the day. 

My problem is that most body rub providers won't go far enough, and most full service providers go too far too fast. I want my happy medium. Any advice on taming things down? I know it's probably an unusual question, but I'm a simple guy and I like simple things. Thoughts?

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Simple, search for someone who likes foreplay.  Schedule an hour and be sure to tell her that you like it sensual and slow.  Women are masters at this.

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Nothing better than 53 minutes of foreplay and 7 minutes of great sex.  If you find one you like, be sure to write a review!

 

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4 hours ago, HeartandSoul said:

Nothing better than 53 minutes of foreplay and 7 minutes of great sex.  If you find one you like, be sure to write a review!

 

Except the sex part... Weird, I know. I just kinda want to make out with and get my hands on a gorgeous lady, while she gets her hands and mouth on me. What can I say... It's my thing.

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6 hours ago, fishndude57 said:

Get married. 

fishndude57... that is the head of the nail, sir!! lol  

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12 hours ago, fishndude57 said:

Get married. 

If married guys have a woman who does the things described below, then tip of the cap to you all lucky bastards. This has not been my marriage experience in any way, shape or form. My experience has consisted of me sawing away on her only to look up and see her gazing at the ceiling in that 1000 yard stare...I ask her what's on her mind and she says "...beige, I think you should paint the ceiling beige..."

14 hours ago, decafnaetd said:

 I love that spot between full service and body rubs. Lots of making out and busy hands and oral fun, but it doesn't go further than that. Sorta reminds me of my first girlfriend back in the day. 

 

My recommendation would be to search for providers who offer GFE experience and discuss what you're looking for in your ideal session. I'm certain there are lots of YL's who've read your post and would be a perfect fit for your girlfriend desire dream date. Lot's of luck to you, decafenaetd!  

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21 minutes ago, MrBigShot said:

If married guys have a woman who does the things described below, then tip of the cap to you all lucky bastards. This has not been my marriage experience in any way, shape or form. My experience has consisted of me sawing away on her only to look up and see her gazing at the ceiling in that 1000 yard stare...I ask her what's on her mind and she says "...beige, I think you should paint the ceiling beige..."

 

😂 😂🤔

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Why would it be an unusual question? Maybe if you asked providers instead of the open forum you would find it isn't unusual at all.

It's not a problem that body rub ladies don't go far enough because cuddling and making out isn't a body rub. If full service ladies go too fast are you making sure that what you want is out there and the provider knows?

Just an FYI for the guys who may not know, it's very common that our sessions don't include "everything".  Companionship is my most sought after service and I sincerely doubt I am alone in that.

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I don't see a lot of ads here offering The Marriage Experience, nor do I see many requests. How would it go?

The guy would have to take out the trash in order to get a Boob Flash...

Fill her car with gas for a kiss...

Unload her dishwasher then you can touch a breast through her bra...

For a full on Ass Grab (through her sweat pants, of course) you'll need to make her bed...

Do a load of her laundry for her to cup your balls through your Levis...

 

13 hours ago, fishndude57 said:

Get married. 

 

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2 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

If full service ladies go too fast are you making sure that what you want is out there and the provider knows?

I always appreciate your insight, Lucy!

I think that's my issue... I think I'm a little bit timid in that department. I'm pretty vanilla when it come to these things. When a lady is on you right at the door it's tough to not get caught in that whirlwind of fun. And boy is it fun! It's just usually afterward that I remember it wasn't what I was there for.

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You need to book an hour with a well-reviewed lady who offers GFE.  Tell her once you are together what you are looking for.  Maybe go back to someone you saw before and liked in general, but though she went too far too fast.  She probably thought that was what you wanted.  Communication is key, tell her what you want and you have a good shot at getting it. 

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3 hours ago, MrBigShot said:

 Lot's of luck to you, decafenaetd!  

Than you sir!

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1 hour ago, decafnaetd said:

Than you sir!

I think you'll find what you're looking for now. I'm sure you've rec'd several PM's by now from interested providers. Very good use of Thread Topic, decafn8ted!

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My being a fsbm provider, I would welcome a guy expressing what would make him happy.

Talk to your desired lady before the visit and chances are, you will get what you are looking for.

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On ‎12‎/‎30‎/‎2016 at 10:58 AM, decafnaetd said:

I always appreciate your insight, Lucy!

I think that's my issue... I think I'm a little bit timid in that department. I'm pretty vanilla when it come to these things. When a lady is on you right at the door it's tough to not get caught in that whirlwind of fun. And boy is it fun! It's just usually afterward that I remember it wasn't what I was there for.

WTF!  You are one confused young man, grasshopper.  Read your last two sentences in isolation - you admit that you had fun, but later on remember that fun isn't what you were there for?  You are suffering from a common ailment that seems to afflict newcomers:  "I have a script in mind, and don't share it, and she really takes good care of me, but later I am dissatisfied because she did not follow the script."

You want to have more fun?  Of course you do!  Ditch the script.  Or if you insist on the script, share the script.  Here is what I would suggest:  don't try to get a FBSM provider to give you a blow job (this is the real issue isn't it?).  Most won't, a few will, I will send you a PM.  What you want to do is go to a full service escort and tell her:  "What I really would like is a very long sensual massage with a French ending."  Nine out of 10 will be just fine with it. 

No matter what path you follow, ditch the script!  You are paying for time and companionship and whatever else happens is just the way the world turns.  You will find that these ladies can really make the world turn if you let them.

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Glad to see that the crowd is as welcoming as ever.

To the OP: just do your research on the various sites, and you may want to see Ameera Cakes if her screening isn't too intense for you.  I can't remember her name but there was a provider on the north side of Denver that provided FBSM with GFE.

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On 1/3/2017 at 4:12 PM, Badboy said:

WTF!  You are one confused young man, grasshopper.  Read your last two sentences in isolation - you admit that you had fun, but later on remember that fun isn't what you were there for?  

Not that confusing... Ever wanted a pizza but ended up eating Mexican food?The Mexican food is still terrific, but doesn't diminish the other urge. Same idea, but it just sounds like I need to speak a little more clearly with the chef.

Your "sharing the script" advice is on point, I'm just not sure about when exactly to share it. My experience has been that the ladies will take charge from the moment I hit the door, so I'm a little unsure when all this disclosure happens. 

This thread has given me lots of great advice toward that, though.

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1 hour ago, Long Time said:

Glad to see that the crowd is as welcoming as ever.

To the OP: just do your research on the various sites, and you may want to see Ameera Cakes if her screening isn't too intense for you.  I can't remember her name but there was a provider on the north side of Denver that provided FBSM with GFE.

Much appreciated, brother!

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5 hours ago, decafnaetd said:

Not that confusing... Ever wanted a pizza but ended up eating Mexican food?The Mexican food is still terrific, but doesn't diminish the other urge. Same idea, but it just sounds like I need to speak a little more clearly with the chef.

 

Here ya go!

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Willow on TOB is who you're looking for

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9 hours ago, decafnaetd said:

Not that confusing... Ever wanted a pizza but ended up eating Mexican food?The Mexican food is still terrific, but doesn't diminish the other urge. Same idea, but it just sounds like I need to speak a little more clearly with the chef.

Your "sharing the script" advice is on point, I'm just not sure about when exactly to share it. My experience has been that the ladies will take charge from the moment I hit the door, so I'm a little unsure when all this disclosure happens. 

This thread has given me lots of great advice toward that, though.

If you have P411 put it in your profile and asked the lady to look at your profile during the booking process. You might even put it in your profile here and if it is lady on TOB you are booking with ask her to take a look.

I don't like discussing anything before the first session with a lady but if after the session is over and you liked her ask her about it for a future session.

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On 12/30/2016 at 2:16 AM, decafnaetd said:

Except the sex part... Weird, I know. I just kinda want to make out with and get my hands on a gorgeous lady, while she gets her hands and mouth on me. What can I say... It's my thing.

Oh lord....a virgin.....

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Not so much... But tapping into the simplicity of when I was is fun for me.

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On 1/5/2017 at 4:11 AM, decafnaetd said:

My experience has been that the ladies will take charge from the moment I hit the door, so I'm a little unsure when all this disclosure happens. 

You are paying for an experience, a service, an enjoyable time. These girls interact with guys for a living, they are usually very receptive to your wants and needs. They want you as a repeat customer and want you to have a reason to come back. They will listen, if they don't, walk out! it's your money, you should take control when you hit the door.  

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